Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies

There’s something eternally captivating about American high schools. The unparalleled level of drama, the personalized lockers, the crushes and the enemies, the cheerleaders and football players, the good teachers and the bad ones, and of course, the highly anticipated prom night that is the quintessential moment marking the end of an era known as American adolescence.

But have you ever wondered how much exactly this cliche picture of American sophomore year is true? What if in reality, Mean Girls, Juno, and Superbad were nothing more than Hollywood fiction that masterfully manipulated our sense of nostalgia?

In order to find the answers, it’s best to ask people who have been there and done that. So when someone asked Americans “How true are ‘American high school movies’ compared to real-life high school?” people immediately took the opportunity to share their experiences.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies I remember one time in school, I was walking down the hall with my books in my arms. A random bully ran down the hall and slapped them down, hard, sending all my stuff flying everywhere.

In a movie, everyone would point and laugh. In movies, that sort of obvious bullying of a nerd would be treated as funny and normal.

In reality, the other kids gasped, and a few random kids stopped and helped me gather up my things. I remember one girl saying, "That was so mean."

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Cyber Returns 1 year ago

Bullying didn't happen much at our school because no one just stood there and took it. I saw a kid get slapped on the back of the head and called a f****t, and he ran up to the bully and headbutted him on the nose. Blood everywhere as he kicked the bully in the goolies repeatedly, screaming "WHO'S THE F****T NOW?" It was that sort of thing that put a stop to bullying because it was too easy to have your head handed back to you on a silver platter.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies IRL there are far fewer 35 y.o. HS students.

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Griffin Gould 1 year ago

Music band rocks!🤘

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Not all popular people are mean, I was friends with a popular girl in my sophomore year and she was super kind/sweet to everybdoy

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Falcon on Dizzy 1 year ago

hence why she was popular

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Bored Panda reached out to the Redditor The_Nomadic_Nerd who is originally from New York but currently lives in New Jersey. He shared this post in response to the thread: “Friend groups are more porous than they make. For instance, there were football players that also acted in school plays, or wrestlers also in the math club. The bullying is less dramatic. Nobody is actually getting locked in a locker. We did actually use those red cups at parties that you always see in movies, my non-American friends were always shocked when I told them that.”

When asked if there is anything that Hollywood gets right about American high schools, the Redditor said that they did actually use those red solo cups at parties. “Foreigners I know are always shocked by that. What did they think we use? They’re not fragile like glass and if you lose it, it wasn’t a problem. Plus, you could easily just throw them away when you’re cleaning up after the party.”

Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies The cheerleaders didn’t wear their uniforms 24/7.

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Sasy 1 year ago

this devastates me

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Anne 1 year ago

It devastated a lot of guys and lesbians, friend

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Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago

Only on game days, because there would be a short pep rally during lunch.

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TeenieMeanie 1 year ago

Game days and Fridays at my HS.

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K 1 year ago

Same here, so pretty consistent in the fall

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WonderWoman 1 year ago

ThEn hOW dO YoU KnOW WHo iS whO?

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John Dilligaf 1 year ago

also cheerleaders aren't the stuck up high society prima donnas as they're sometimes shown. The cheerleader captain when I was in HS worked in Taco Bell after school and another one's family had a horse breeding ranch. She fed horses and mucked out stalls after school. Neither of them dated the football QB.

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Cyber Returns 1 year ago

Good. I bet it would get cold in the winter

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Aria Whitaker 1 year ago

We had sweater uniforms like this for the winter when I cheered in HS. We would wear our sweater over our normal uniform top and then our skirts with leggings underneath in our school colors. It was fine. cheer-63e1...10a064.jpg

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JayWantsACat 1 year ago

My g/f was a cheerleader and I know they wore their uniforms on days where we had football and basketball games. And i think assemblies. I forget what they had the option to wear on other days. Maybe a sweater or something? Much like us who had letterman's jackets I know they had something to wear besides their uniforms to denote that they were cheerledaers.

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Reinaldo Fuentes 1 year ago

No, not 24/7, but there certainly were days when the cheerleaders were in uniform all day THAT day (but not every day).

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Kevin Humble 1 year ago

There are many web sites that say the exact opposite.

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Jennifer Norton 1 year ago

when I was in high school in the 90's cheerleaders were only allowed to wear their uniforms on game days. They were allowed to wear them to the afternoon classes because once school was out we had the pep rally and then the game so they didn't have time to change. But you rarely saw a girl in uniform outside of that.

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Ray Arani 1 year ago

They only do that on spirit days or major game days unless.

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

At my school there were no cheerleaders.

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Elton Thomas 1 year ago

What movie shows cheerleaders exclusively in their uniforms?!?

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Cayla Taylor 1 year ago

At my school the cheerleaders are considered “nerds”

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Lady of the Mountains 1 year ago

No, but they usually wear team shirts or sweatshirts on game day. I imagine some schools will go full uniform on game days, but it's really just impractical, especially in winter

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SAF saf 1 year ago

If I remember it was game days or if there was some sort of rally.

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Strahd Ivarius 1 year ago

I heard that there a lots of films where they don't wear their uniform after a few minutes...

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Michael Largey 1 year ago

A friend in college dated a cheerleader. She didn't always wear her uniform - but she always had it on.

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Apachebathmat 1 year ago

Well, now I’m devastated

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sylvantic 1 year ago

At my school, they kind of do actually. Maybe not every day they’re wearing uniforms, but a few times per week at least.

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David Green 1 year ago

You have trodden on my dreams

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rumade 1 year ago

Unsurprising as those uniforms are really expensive!

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies I’m gonna take a guess that people don’t settle disputes with dance-offs

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That Bi Book Lover 1 year ago

Really?? My whole life has been a lie! /s

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies A weird thing is how they seemingly show it as if kids just have time to talk and chat in the middle of the day in the hallway by their lockers when in reality you're booking it across the building because you have 5 minutes to go from the first floor, get to your locker on the second floor, and then run all the way across the 3rd floor to your 3rd period class.

Also dunno about y'all but I got only 25 minutes for lunch in HS, so nobody was milling about during lunch either in the halls.

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Sasy 1 year ago

we would not be chatting between classes for sure, but we got 20 minutes recess and an hour for lunch in High School in Australia

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Moreover, The_Nomadic_Nerd confirmed that in some cases sports are very important. “All those TV shows about high school football in Texas are absolutely correct. Not uncommon at some high schools for the football coach to get paid more than the principal, or the Friday night game being what the whole town goes to. Other regions or specific schools also have their own sports, like Iowa and high school wrestling. Usually, if a school has a history of a good team, then the town starts to revolve around that,” he explained.

Another thing movies get right, Redditor argues, is that feeling of getting a driver’s license. “Once you get it and if you’re one of the first to get theirs, your social status automatically climbed. I was one of the older kids in my class so I got my license before most, and all of a sudden more people wanted to be my friend. Weird how that works…”

The Redditor also said that there is this notion of when you’re in high school, it defines the rest of your life. That may be particularly challenging for students. “You don’t have a girlfriend in high school? When then you’re going to be lonely the rest of your life. You didn’t get into honors math? Well, then you just have a permanent tattoo that says ‘IDIOT’ on your forehead.”

Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies No one cares that much about the "popular" group of students, most people just mind their own business if they aren't with their friends.

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Elita One 1 year ago (edited)

We gotta stop with this 'popular group' stuff, they aren't popular, they're just a bunch of disruptive loud mouths who make their business everyone else's business, at least that was my experience.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies In real life, the popular kids are popular because they're likable. The mean girls and bully jocks are not popular.

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Ueda 1 year ago

Yeah no. In my school for peasants, the bullies were most definitely the popular ones.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies No family eats breakfast together before school/work.

Another user added:

And nobody goes out for a big sit down breakfast before school, either.

I remember laughing because The OC always showed the characters going out for a nice breakfast in a restaurant before class, as if teenagers get up that early.

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boredkoala 1 year ago

Yeahhhh...my hs bus came way before any restaurant was even open.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Most high school students don’t arrive to school early enough to tailgate in the parking lot

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Candi Cabaniss 1 year ago

Also in my school, and I assume others, once they park they are to get out and head to the building. We teachers even walk around the parking lot to flush them out.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Everyone is tired all the time because we have to wake up at like 6:30am to get to school on time.

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Scarlett 1 year ago (edited)

I wake up at 4:45 because I live 45 minutes out and my school starts at 7:45. It’s super fun.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies most are also not in their mid 20's and driving BMW's and Range Rovers, etc.

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Cyber Returns 1 year ago

Kid arrived at school in a Ford fiesta and about 30 minutes later his mom arrived, screamed at him telling him next time he stole the car she would call the police, and then she rove away in it. He was given epic status at school for 2 weeks

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Friend groups are more porous than they make. For instance, there were football players that also acted in school plays, or wrestlers also in the math club.

The bullying is less dramatic. Nobody is actually getting locked in a locker.

We did actually use those red cups at parties that you always see in movies, my non-American friends were always shocked when I told them that.

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Ueda 1 year ago (edited)

Maybe less dramatic but worse because it's invisible to those who don't experience it... Out of sight, out of mind.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Only California and other warm states have campuses where you walk outdoors between classes. In most US schools, you don't leave the building.

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Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago (edited)

My high school in SoCal took up an entire large city block. All the classrooms were ground floor, with two entrances. There was a large parking lot. The gym had indoor and outdoor pools, as well as the basketball court, and the cafeteria, assembly room, and theatre were in separate buildings. Seniors could get a lunch pass to eat off campus. We also had designated smoking areas—-and this was in 1978. I graduated in a class of 828 students. Multiply that by 3, and you have an approximate number of students in the school (back then we didn’t have middle school, we had junior high, which was grades 7, 8, and 9, so high school was just grades 10, 11, and 12).

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies The fact that Superbad spent a whole movie trying to obtain alcohol is totally realistic. We absolutely had whole evening adventures trying to get booze. The Hawaii driver's license was definitely a thing in the mid 1990s. California IDs had holograms earlier and couldn't be faked anymore. Several people at school at fake Hawaii IDs back then. I'm sure one of the writers must be my age from CA.

I watched this movie with an ex (South American) and he was confused because they all just bought booze from the tiendas when they were like 13.

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Jason 1 year ago

Living in Hawaii some days I think most of the licenses are fake. Bruh you are allowed to turn off your high beams.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Prom is way less of a big deal in real life. Kids look forward to it and get dressed up, a few might do the limo thing. But it’s not the end-all be-all of the high school student’s year. And really no one cares who wins prom queen.

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BluEyedSeoulite 1 year ago

I can't even remember who was prom queen/king at either of my proms. We could go junior and senior years, sophomores and freshmen could come as a date

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies I went to high school (obviously) and teach at a high school, all in the United States. I went to a suburban school in California and teach at a small town school also in California. Here are my observations.

Things foreigners often think are fake that are real:

-sports are connected to school. There are people who wear uniforms on game days, there are rallies, and there are school rivalries. They aren’t usually as serious as depicted on shows, but they are real.

-cheerleaders do exist. They wear uniforms on game days as well (not everyday.)

-yellow school buses exist (where I teach they bring students in who live in the country. Kids who live in town walk, drive, or get dropped off.) (Red and other color plastic cups also exist, as a side note.)

-some kids really do have cars at that age. Most probably can at least drive.

-“student government” or “student body president” is often a real thing, but it has little power. Basically just a student committee to rubber-stamp whatever the administration is going to do anyway.

Things foreigners often think are common that are fake or exaggerated:

-being a cheerleader or an athlete are not nearly as exclusive as depicted, nor do they automatically equate to popularity.

-cliques are far more fluid than depicted. Rarely do they automatically center around one activity (like football or band or chess club.) It’s not at all uncommon for people to do a lot of different activities that blend stereotypes (like a football player who is a chess club officer and in student government.)

-bullying is rarely anything like it’s depicted. It’s rarely done in front of everyone with bystanders not caring. It’s more common to be done in secret, and to focus on emotional rather than physical bullying (although physical bullying does happen.) I think movies and shows are trying to capture what it *feels* like (that no one is there to help you) and missing what it actually looks like in reality.

-everything is way more boring and less dramatic than depicted. Fiction requires conflict and so tv shows and movies create it even where it probably wouldn’t actually happen.

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GirlFriday 1 year ago

I went to high school with a nationally ranked cheerleading team, and not once ever, in the history of the school did one of the cheerleader put on their uniform unless it was a game. Even at the very few pep rallies held for our champion basketball team, they would wear matching sweat suits.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies if the school is supposed to be in a major city, hardly anyone in HS has a car

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Dave M 1 year ago

Almost everyone in my HS had a car. Do you mean if the school is in the downtown area where there is no parking?

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Speaking just for my school, not even close. Bullying is never as obvious as it is in movies (nobody dumps their tray on anyone or purposefully trips the new kid, actually most people are pretty friendly), most of the teachers and the principal are well- liked, there aren't well- defined cliques (nerdy group, jocks, cheerleaders, etc.) but there are large friend groups that intertwine and overlap and there is definitely drama. They do get active shooter drills and the amount of drugs/ smoking/ vaping right, though. Also, crazy, entitled parents.

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Sardonyx_3 1 year ago

Yeah...

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies The lockers are huge on tv and they’re all at eye level.

I remember getting to high school and being disappointed we had these cubby-sized lockers stacked on top of each other, and they were in the most inconvenient places around the school.

So there was no leisurely chatting with your best pal whose locker was right next to yours. And not nearly enough space to decorate your locker with photos and mirrors like a bedroom.

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BluEyedSeoulite 1 year ago

My middle and high school had pretty big lockers. If you were really skinny, you could squeeze in but barely. Some kids had to fight to put their thick coats in but that's about it. Pretty accurate for my school

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Different enough to warp the expectations of certain people. Someone upthread said that movies are designed by Hollywood execs to fill story niches and archetypes, which is pretty accurate. We're watching a story that has to be carefully crafted to fill the expectations of all the audience members, and the audience expects Reese Witherspoon as prom queen, Bill Gates as captain of the chess team, Jack Black's the clown, and Brad Pitt's the quarterback...even though *that doesn't actually happen*.

There's more truth in *Napoleon Dynamite* than there is in *Bring It On* or *Mean Girls*.

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kelly 1 year ago

Napoleon Dynamite is such a classic!

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Football players were pretty cool and treated me well. The a******s and bullies were the baseball and golf players.

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Stardust she/her 1 year ago

You have golf in school?

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies If you’ve seen the show Euphoria, it’s basically exactly not like that at all

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Mark Wilson 1 year ago

Also if you've seen the movie 'Armageddon' it's exactly unlike that movie as well ;)

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies You've seen the "actual" vs "advertised" for fast food burgers, right? America knows how to make a commercial.

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Zaphod_000 1 year ago

what does that have to do with high school??

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies I went to high school in the early 90s, at a huge school where I was in a class of 400 something. There were cliques and a popularity ladder, but it wasn't super rigid.

I was fairly uncool but my little group of girlfriends were cool (Homecoming Queen, which mattered back then) and cool-adjacent. I just didn't always go do their Cool People Stuff with them because it wasn't my thing.

And by senior year the cliques and ladder had broken down nearly completely. Everyone was focused on what came next, nobody cared about popularity c**p anymore.

So I'd be sitting around with all sorts of kids, swapping tips on different colleges, proofing each other's essays, different other kids would be telling me why they were interested in the military, I'd let the Cosmetology voc ed friends of friends put my hair in updos during lunch (it was elbow length, so loads of fun), etc.

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NotTodaySatan!! 1 year ago

Cliques and ladders would make an amazing board game lol

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies We didn't have the paddling or any of that (and it was decades later) but the vibe of Dazed & Confused was pretty true of my experience - cliques were not really that well-defined, 'nerds' and 'stoners' and 'jocks' all crossing over and mixing together in various ways.

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Vermontah 1 year ago

me too. except for the hazing part of the movie. Field parties were the best

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies Not very true. Life is more boring day in and day out. Poeple are also definetely more serious about school if you live in a well populated area

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Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago

Especially if it’s an area with lots of company headquarters and an abundance of highly educated professionals in residence. If it’s the middle of nowhere with no industry, no higher education, and no local prospects for your future unless you inherit or marry into the family farm or business, then many kids would just think school’s a waste of time—-an attitude learned from their parents.

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Americans Reveal 28 Things That Are True And False About High School According To Movies We had 2:30 in between class periods. We did not have time to lean against the lockers and talk. Sometimes it rains, sometimes it snows, sometimes the wind blows; we had to go to school then too.

In the winter it was very cold, in the summer it was unbearably hot. I bet they've fixed that because the expensive electronics would cook themselves. A school didn't need anything like that when they built the building.

Usually there was some construction crew outside banging and hammering on something. There was no restaurant that we all hung out in. We did mob a pizza place a few times after the dances.

They got mad because their employees were too busy, they didn't make enough money off of us and because the old people buying expensive food couldn't get through us. We caused numerous major traffic jams because we kept crossing the street.

The cops showed up to direct traffic. The pizza place complained. The police went to the school and they told our parents that we had to stop. They let kept the rec center open later for us instead. They actually did put on a really good after party for the middle school dances after that. They just herded us all into there and told us we'd need to go home if we left or we'd get into trouble.