Make him an ex bf now. Run and don't look back.

Lol, here's a fun fact about me, i don't care if you're my Mother, my brother, my friend, my girlfriend, or my wife, i Will ALWAYS pick the side of the person i think is right, thats something that my all my friends allready know, because i always find a way to remember them of that. And the only reason my girlfriend nory wife know that is because i have none..... ( Goes crie in a corner of the room )

NTA. The making fun of beginners is a red flag all by itself, let alone the rest. You can do better. Make him an ex.

A rising tide lifts ALL boats. Promote the achievements of all, celebrate the victories of all, jees everyone needs a boost every now and again. When you meet folks who drag others down or b***h behind their backs then remove yourself from their company. Everyone was a beginner at some point.

W belittles beginners such as his wife. He doesn't have her back yet demands she have his.

DTMFA as Dan Savage would say (dump the *cough cough* already)! Seriously, if a person feels the constant need to trash talk other people (beginners at that), gives you the silent treatment,, etc. etc. that is a combined red flag the size of Mount Everest.

This is a GIANT red flag, run!!

It's time to look for another rock climber.

Why the hell would anyone want to be with someone so toxic they feel the need to belittle other people. We should encourage other people and try and help them improve. I mean what the hell is the point of competing if theirs no one to compete against. If you're the best there's no where else to go which is why we need to congratulate others better than us and strive to improve ourselves.

Return the child to his mummy. And having watched more than enough Magnus Midtbø on YouTube, I have never seen him waste his (and my) time hanging five sec at the end doing nothing; what a stupid made-up thing. Imagine watching a climbing competition (it's against the clock!) that ends every run with five sec of nothing.

The boyfriend humiliated himself by being petty and making a snide comment to the person that accomplished what he couldn't. How embarrassing for OP to have a partner that acts like that in public.

Aw i love humans. Such silly creatures. Me man me good at everything. No lady better me. Me mart and no everything. Me get butt hurt when others best me. She should reevaluate that relationship

Red flag girlfriend! This guy is an immature egotistical asshat and will make you miserable at every opportunity through gaslighting. Kick him to the curb and find someone who appreciates and encourages you in every way. Good luck.

Well, the bf was mad for pretty simple reasons. He got into a slight altercation and his GF decided to high-five someone who just burned and embarrassed him. From the way the course of events reads it sounds/would look like like she was hyped over the other woman burning her bf, and it had nothing to do with the actual rock climbing. The problem is, he stops being sympathetic because he was acting like a **** to begin with. Like, yeah seeing your SO high-five someone after they burn you is hurtful, but the dude was acting like an a*s and needed to be humbled.

NTA. Replace boyfriend with adult version. Not available? Maybe, replace boyfriend, but initiate the replacement later, hehe...

If partners are always supposed to have to each other's back, why does he belittle beginners when he knows his partner is one? Different rules for him than you? Ditch. Now.

I would have high fived the girl that nailed the route with ease. And my husband would have done the same... But my husband isn't an insecure a**hole either. You're NTA and your boyfriend is a big AH that you might want to consider dumping.

Seriously why you still with him? I had 2 exs like that and thank god I left them they were so exhausted and tired to be with!! I learn that I shouldn't date insecure people or this happens! Also I rather a feminine men not on looks but on how he been raised like help cooking and clean also with emotions and supportive than a macho man toxic masculine kid Feminine men= win and treasured the true king Masculine men= loser clown and should be ignored. Becareful who you date next time please, cheers and good luck!

Interesting that he pouts and says you should always take his side no matter what while he clearly doesn't have your back.

Your romantic partner should be your greatest strength. And if that person does not support you or uplift you even in you most vulnerable times then perhaps he/she is not the right person.

I can't help but think about all the times women talk s**t and then expect their man to defend them against all confrontation.

this girl should be reported as paedophile for taking a big baby as bf. lol!

Well for one it's okay to get competitive. And two getting mad is a normal human emotion. I. Top of that you're both yet young. Instead of acting like the rest of these morons and looking for validation from strangers, maybe you go figure out your relationship with your man. If it doesn't work out, so be it. But don't expect the internet to do much more for you than to hype you up and move on.

I know females just as competitive who nitpick procedure just as obstinately. To reduce this to masculinity and sexism is in itself sexist. And to those people whose immediate default reaction is always to blow up a relationship at the first sign of any real disagreement, best of luck to you in life.

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Absolutely the AH. It's typical of today's feminist movement to humiliate men at every opportunity, and the fact that you PUBLICLY humiliated him shows how petty and shallow you are, and the witch who initiated the high five has quite a number of issues, it seems. He should leave you high and dry, and you can high five and slap a*s with the egocentric woman to your estrogenic content. End of Line.

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He should dump her. She sounds like an b*tch. Fellas always upgrade 😂

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NTA but I believe it' the GF who thinks her BF is an a*****e that's why she does not like him. Reprimand your BF so he can be a better man. Or leave him if you are saying these about him. It spoke volume on how you view him. Let us be honest, women will act out as well if her bf does that to her too, giving high fives to another guy, women are more sensitive.