Hey Pandas, What’s The Worst Thing Someone’s Done To You? (Closed)

Just post the worst things someone has done to you.

Me, my parents, and my uncle went to a food festival in my province. I am afraid of wasps and there was LOTS because of the sweet food there. My mom already thinks it’s a dumb fear and eventually yells at me and said something like this.

“Will you STOP CRYING? Ugh your Uncle is embarrassed to be around you! You know what you’re a CRYBABY. If you don’t stop nobody in your new school will like you because nobody likes a crybaby!”

Consequently something switched in my head and it was hard for me to cry that year for some reason. Until I snapped at least.

And yes when I get angry or almost cry at school I never tell my parents in fear of punishment.

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Mysteria

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WhAt?? 2 years ago

That's awful. I am so sorry. Crying is a normal emotion.

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A Random Potato 2 years ago

Who would downvote this? Is there someone who goes through downvoting everything?

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Amanda Davids 2 years ago

My dad tells me this He’s so emotionally abusive

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Jo (she/her) 2 years ago

Yeah me and my sister HATE wasps and our grandma took us to an cider mill in fall and we were scared and stuff and she was like oh it's fine in a calm voice but acted like our fear was insignificant

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Jinme 2 years ago

Crying is normal

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*Displayname*=idk 2 years ago

I feel this, it gets so hard to cry sometimes even when you really want or need to. I glad you snapped out of it, and sorry you had to go through what you went through. Hugs! ❤

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1.21Gigawatts?! (Submission author) 2 years ago

It’s okay, you had nothing to do with it. Unfortunately when I said “I don’t cry or get angry unless I snapped” I meant if the pressure got too much so I yelled at somebody or something similar, not that I snapped out of it. I still struggle with letting myself cry in front of others :(

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I had a great career and some racist lied to HR about my work ethic and I was fired!

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DV Zara and Headless lesbos

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Someone broke up with me on my birthday

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That midget Jo :)

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When I was a little (like 9-10) I was really into gardening. I wanted to grow cilantro but the seeds spilled and so we swept them off and into the grass (we thought they would not grow) and a couple weeks later it started growing. Me and my brother (who was almost two at the time) were going to pull them up and move them. Well there was slabs of rocks on both sides of the thing and I had lifted it up and it was sitting in the air on its side and I strictly told my brother not to touch them and ofc he did not listen and it ended falling and his toenail popped off his big toe. He went to the doctor and all was good with him and I had been grounded. I woke up the next morning and noticed the shovel and muddy shoes at the door. My older had ripped up and shredded all of my plants and dug them up. She also ripped my garden fence apart and I was so upset I have never cried so hard before and I will never forget that feeling of absolute dread of that whole week. I know I did wrong but I refused to speak up due to thinking I was only going into deeper trouble.

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Yeet_girl360

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I suffer from low blood pressure, and I get really bad headaches and sometimes I faint. One time, I fainted at school because I was standing for a long time, it was a really hot day, and we weren’t allowed our water bottles in that particular room. One girl told everyone that I had epilepsy, even though we barely talked and what I had was not epilepsy. Later on, people kept asking me if I was alright to do things like sport because of my “epilepsy”. I confronted her but she didn’t care. I can’t believe she went around telling people stuff about me (especially medical conditions) that she should keep to herself even if it was true.

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Ani

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This one idiot poured bleach over my 12 notebooks with 700 pages full of notes of 12 different subjects. That **#^%#%## did get suspended but you can't imagine how much I cried over my melted notes :( especially because the examinations were approaching.

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Maddy Panda

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My girlfriend of 10 years told me she was going to take our baby to spend the afternoon with her mother (who lived a couple miles away). Instead; she snatched our daughter and moved 250 miles away. She went to live with her new girlfriend after I spent the last 10 year providing for her and the last year taking care of our premature baby.

I was forced to move near her to see my daughter. Gave up my beautiful townhome that cost $1100 a month and move in with my parents. One year later the average one bedroom apartment in my new city costs $2400. I’m disabled and now trapped in my parents home. I was abused my narcissist for ten years. That’s makes my brain surgeries and 10 knee surgeries look like nothing.

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Anna Robey

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I’m not sure if this is the worst thing, but when I was 10-12 I was suffering from Trichotillomania and 2 anxiety disorders. My mom took me to a psychologist (?) who apparently specialized in trichotillomania.

We never really clicked the way I did with other therapists and I never really felt comfortable around her.

One day, she tries to use hypnosis on me to treat me. It made me extremely uncomfortable but she kept trying to make me do it. I started crying eventually and my mom took me home. I never went back.

Just recently, I learned from my latest therapist that hypnosis was not an approved method to treat trichotillomania, and I was in so much shock that I zoned out for a minute.

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