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Hey Pandas, What’s The Worst Thing Someone Has Ever Said To You, And How Did You Recover From That? (Closed)
Sometimes people can just be plain mean, what is your experience?
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#1
I had a friend that was always so mad at me for no reason. let's call her Rose. Well, I told Rose I would meet her at her house before the bus got there to hang out. I accidentally slept in because the power went out and my alarm clock didn't go off. I had to sprint to the bus stop and only had about two minutes till the bus came and she was furious at me. Now my parents are divorced, that's important for later. When we got off the bus and got in the cafeteria I told her I was sorry, but she didn't care. " You know, even though I have never met your dad I can see you a lot like him."", I asked her what did she mean," I can see why you abanded me when that's all you know since he abandoned you". I cried all day and still haven't recovered it. Now I'm in 6th in she is in all my classes, but she calls me her best friend, but I don't know how to tell her I don't want to be her friend.
Final score:
9points
ProfessionalTimeWaster 3 years ago
Ow, I'm so sorry. Maybe you should tell your friend or your parents about how you feel.
#2
A boy was being rude to me and was just being a huge piece of shit to me. We were in the gym at school and we were playing kick-ball and he was on the other team. when we were switching sides he was running across the court and was running at me so I stuck my arm out and he ran into my fist. I didn't get in trouble because he ran into my fist and I didn't punch him soooooo. >:)
Final score:
7points
#3
Someone once said to me "You are a know-it-all with no friends." This doesn't seem like much, but it reaffirmed my insecurities. The way I got over it was by learning to devalue the opinion of mean people. I no longer care what those people think of me, and I appreciate myself.
Final score:
7points
#4
1. My Mom:"We had to put down Goya. He would't have survived the next two days." He was my dog of 12 years. I grew up with him and loved him to death. I cried a lot and told myself he's smewhere better and not in pain anymore. 2. my best friend:"I found your boyfriend on tinder." Well, I've forgiven him. I'm just more jealous
Final score:
5points
Bored Little Panda 3 years ago
Same here i recently had to put my dog down to because be was so old and he was in pain, but they are in a better place probably playing fetch or something FUN! I just try to look on the bright but It can be hard sometimes.
#5
My best friend dropped me a few years back for a boy. She was super boy obsessed because she had some family problems. But she played it off like it was because I’m a bad person. She once said that I was the reason that all of her boyfriends broke up with her. Ouch. I tried to help her through tough times, but she always needed attention from other people. My time with her was up after a long 3 years. She dropped me over text on thanksgiving day. She was not acting like the best friend that I knew. Since then, I’ve learned to drift away from the toxic people and since that relationship was filled with crap, I can use what I learned from those past experiences to build up relationships that I should keep. Right now, I’ve kept my relationship with my current best friend for almost a decade! :)
Final score:
5points
#6
My mum told me that I wasn't what she wanted.
I'm still dark and twisty from it.
Final score:
5points
#7
My mother told me that I was the child that loved her the least and this is when she was living in my home while waiting for an opening in a senior home. My mother has always been selfish but this was the camel that broke the camels back. I honestly don't care and hope that when she dies, she finds peace in another life.
Final score:
4points
*sneezes in pansexual* 3 years ago
Not trying to criticise or anything, please don't downvote, but isn't the phrase "the straw that broke the camels back?"
#8
This wasn't an insult or anything but it still, hurt a lot. My gf got diagnosed with Anorexia a week before this. but I texted my gf one day, and she didn't reply. I'm like "okay, she's prob busy," and went for a run. The next day she didn't say good morning like we always do. "Maybe she lost her phone," she constantly can't find her phone. The next day, I noticed that none of the texts I sent her said delivered under them. I got really worried and asked all of our friends if they've heard from her. They didn't. A week later, she called me and said, hey sorry. I was in the hospital. I was malnourished, and they needed to watch me eat. I cried myself to sleep that night, I really care for her. She moved away a year and a half ago, but we've been together for 2 years, as highschoolers. I still haven't recovered, that happened a week ago.
Final score:
3points
#9
Umm i got raped at 12 and had a child ( i luv her and i hate her father)
Final score:
3points
#10
I told my little sister i love her. She said ''so?'' i haven't recovered
Final score:
3points
#11
1)okay so this first one lets call her Emilia. Okay me and Emilia were in the room that we share, she was in a playful mood and she grabbed me giving me the bear/strangle hug, I told her to stop and I was struggling out of her grasp. I was scratching at her hands to peel them off of me and I scratched a little deep on her hand, just lightly peeling off the epidermal layer, all it did was sting a little with a little blood coming out, nothing much right? Emilia freaks out and she staggers back calling me a psycho. I never have wanted to die so badly(I have a really strong connection with this "Emilia")
Final score:
2points
#12
“Papa passed away.” I still haven’t recovered. I loved my grandpa so much and it hurts more than anything I’ve ever felt.
Final score:
2points
#13
My mom has called me lots of things, but I think the one that most got to me was when she called me a terrible person. It wasn't extremely offensive, but the fact that it came from my mom really hurt deep. She of course denied it right after I started crying. How I recovered from that is venting to my dad and just ignoring her during her daily insults. She's not a horrible mom, but she's so stressed with everything in her life she's started to take it out on me, and I've just given up on trying to talk to her about it, or anything for that matter.
Final score:
0points
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