Hey Pandas, What’s The Saddest Thing Anyone Has Ever Said To You? (Closed)

These are really sad. Mine is from when I came out as genderqueer, my friend told me (and I quote) "It bugs me that people think they don't have a gender, or that they think they're the opposite gender because everyone has a gender. you can tell from looking at them. like idc if you are a boy that dresses like a girl, or a girl that dresses like a boy. I could care less. But like when you are a girl and you say you're a boy, you aren't. You have a chest and a period, like, you ARE a girl. Thats how God made you, a girl. Idc dress like a boy, sure. Why not, but you aren't a boy. Same with boys who say they're girls. Like no you aren't.... It bugs me." and I cried. Later she told me she was sorry, that she'd always support me, that she just took out her anger that day on me and that wasn't okay, and I told her it was fine but I still get sad about it and wonder if i really am genderqueer or if I should just shut up and be 'what god made me.'