Hey Pandas, What Would You Say To Someone That Needs To Be Said? (Closed)

If you didn't have to worry about the potential fallout, what would you say to someone that needs to hear what you have to say?

For instance, I have some family members who have absolutely no empathy or, in one case, genuinely no idea about the actual world outside of their immediate world. Most of my siblings' children are so clueless about how the real world works and they act like we owe them a place at the adult table - and two of them are near 30!

So, that got me thinking that sometimes, I wish I could say out loud what is in my head: Grow the hell up! What would you say to people needing to hear a truth bomb?

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No man is worth ignoring your pet over.

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Vanessa

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listen and USE good advice.Hours of advice and you do the exact opposite ,wrong thing!

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Iniks

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why don’t you care about me? why do you act nice one second then hate me the other? why do you think my mental health can be solved by going on a walk?

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𝓪𝓶𝔂

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I need you to address your anxiety. It's literally killing you. Ignoring it has made you house bound, scared, and very defensive. Only using your medicine for emergencies (panic attacks) isn't enough. (I also have life long anxiety) I love you too much to see you like this

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Keri Lee

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DO NOT KILL YOURSELF
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

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Julie S

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Sex for fun is ok. I figured that out early and enjoyed the freedom it gave me. Choose partners who treat people well and are decent human beings. One night or one week or one month, the longevity of the experience is secondary to having fun in the moment with someone worth your time. Go for it, if you want to.

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BravePanda

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"You need to let me go. You don't own me. You can't control me. You need to recognize I'm free. Also, I know every single time you've tried gaslighting me and every time you've lied to me. You are not fooling me. The only reason I don't say anything is because you scare me. You are a very frightening person."

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StrangeOne

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Val, white flag, you win. I put it in my bio idk if you saw it. Can’t comment currently.

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Squidward’s Nose

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Donna. Stop lying. Just stop!

You're s**t at your job and we all know you masturbate in the office. We can smell the fishy stank when we come in! And no, you didn't date Johnny Depp, save Tom Hardy's life, get proposed to by Keanu Reeves, stop a robbery with a one inch punch or crucify a paedophile, then cover up his murder with the help of local police! You're 4"9, overweight and I've seen you struggling to use a can opener, you silly cow!

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The_Nicest_Misanthrope

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DO NOT CROWD IN FRONT OF AN ELAVATOR WHEN IT OPENS FOR YOU. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO/WHAT IS ALREADY IN THERE AND ITS SO ANNOYING AS A PERSON WITH TWO LUGGAGES TO BE CROWDED WHEN I JUST WANT TO GET OFF AN ELEVATOR

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Smxllpotxto

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own your mistakes and own who you are. there's probably only one life, so make it a true life.

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Zacko

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That it's okay to walk away. Everyone deserves to be happy and you can't be a good friend, parent, partner, etc if you're not happy with yourself. Sometimes the hard decision that seems wrong to others is the right decision for you. Doesn't mean that it still won't be hard, but staying in a situation that makes you miserable is NEVER the right decision.

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Brenda

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Please just stop doing this to me, can’t you see that I’m suffering enough? Instead of just giving me useless advice and lectures why can’t you just acknowledge the fact that I’m not able to deal with the stress normally anymore. I hate you - for my dad and school

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Stardust she/her

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Hey Pandas, What Would You Say To Someone That Needs To Be Said? (Closed)

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