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I have been married for 6 years with 2 kids and I am heavily pregnant with the third child. I started noticing strange behaviors from my husband a few weeks ago and I questioned him about it, he gave silly excuses and I let it slide, when it became too much I spoke to my friend who advised me to seek the help of a pro-tech guy, I contacted the pro-tech guy via email and he helped me gain access to my husband's phone, I discovered he had been cheating on me with my sister, I am so depressed right now, I feel like taking my life, please what can I do?

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Obtain copies or screen shots of as many incriminating texts, photos and files as you can, and keep them in a safe place. Perhaps in the cloud with a good password, although your husband may be able to reset your password through your email and gain access to delete them. I’d recommend putting them on at least two USB drives and putting one in the care of a lawyer and keeping the other in a safe hiding place or with a trusted friend. This will help in divorce proceedings, and with custody arrangements and child support. I am so sorry you’ve been hurt by both your husband and your sister. I can’t imagine how crushing that is. And I’ll tell you as someone who has fought with desperate loneliness, depression and bipolar disorder most of my 50 years: I know that you know that taking your life is not an answer. Seek comfort in your children and your friends. I hope that you can find some peace and emotional healing soon.

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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hacking your spouse is not exactly fair nor is it legal. This is why you have to get yourself an experienced hacker like I did when I could not take my husband's infidelity no more. Now we are separated due to all i found out, could not stomach it all. The hacker was so discreet, calm and collected,no leaks. Reach him via hackerone975 @ gmail com Thanks

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    #2

    Talk to a health care provider and then see a lawyer. Best wishes

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    Joy Lawrenzo
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cheating is an act that i believe most men can not do without because of their inconsideration and lack of strength and will to keep their pants up. As a woman and someone that happens to always commit myself to my relationships, i have been heartbroken quite a few times by cheating partner but on this very last one i get fed up, i devised that i had had enough and badly needed to catch my fiance in the act. I searched Google and this name kept on coming up by ex-clients who gave awesome recommendations so i immediately reached out to them and decided to give a try to get the heavy burden of suspicion off my mind.I never knew that a phone could be hacked without having physical access with it. Thank you Donald! You can write to him at hackerone975 @ gmil com

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    #3

    My ex husband was a cheater. Took me 5 years to completely get over him. I hope you have already left.

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    Joy Lawrenzo
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have cheated me out of $482,000 and are all deceivers who will demand payment before providing a justification for more. I would reveal them, just as I had promised. When my coworker showed me HACKERONE975 @ G MA IL CO M and everything became clear to me. These hackers performed a fantastic job. HACKERONE975 @ G MA IL CO M has extensive experience protecting your lost bitcoin from fraudsters. Please stop using the connections you find on networks to carry out tasks for you, and get in touch with HACKERONE975 @ G MA IL CO M instead. Genuine hacker

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    #4

    See a therapist, DO NOT TAKE YOUR LIFE, you have the joy of seeing children grow. It would be selfish to take your own life and leave 2, possibly 3, kids motherless and maybe fatherless. You need to focus on finding something that makes you happy, wether it is a form of art, video games, or something as simple as housecleaning. People care about you. Suicide is never good.

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    Joy Lawrenzo
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I ever wanted was a sweet and healthy relationship with my girlfriend but no matter how much I tried I knew something was wrong somewhere, so I employed a private investigator Hackerone975 @ g ma il C OM to help me spy on her phone. It was really heart breaking to realize that someone you’ve invested so much on has just been messing with my emotions. It’s really sad. But I’m happy I met Hackerone975 @ g ma il C OM Now I know I deserve better.

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    #5

    Get as much evidence of any of that. Also go to court and get a divorce. You can get most of everything. Expecially for the kind of divorce it will be. That has to be one of the things I'd never forgive. I mean yeah you cheat on me with a friend or someone I don't know, okay yeah that hurts. But I can learn to get over it. Over time. But with a family member. That kinda messed up. It not your fault. And then kids need you. Try to be tough and hang in there for your babies. I know it is hard. Very hard. But the future will be better. You can start a new and find a new love. Someone who will truly love you and take care of you. And someone who will not betray you.
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    Laurete Seiu
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always stood against people trying to hack their partner's phone, until my cheating husband gave me every reason to spy on him. I've been suspecting his attitude lately and I really loved my man, so I was eager to find out the reason behind his sudden change of attitude. I contacted Fred Hacker who was recommended by a friend and after a few hours of contacting him, he gave me remote access to my husband's phone and I saw all his day to day activities and I was able to confirm he was cheating. You can reach him on gm ail through; hackerone975 @ gm ail com

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    #6

    I once saw a ted talk given by a therapist who specializes in sex and couples counseling. She said that, in general, men cheat in order to stay with their spouse, and women cheat because they want to leave their spouse. For men, it's an outlet to do something they can't do at home, right now, and it's usually not emotional, just physical. I don't know if that helps.

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    Laurete Seiu
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always stood against people trying to hack their partner's phone, until my cheating husband gave me every reason to spy on him. I've been suspecting his attitude lately and I really loved my man, so I was eager to find out the reason behind his sudden change of attitude. I contacted Fred Hacker who was recommended by a friend and after a few hours of contacting him, he gave me remote access to my husband's phone and I saw all his day to day activities and I was able to confirm he was cheating. You can reach him on gm ail through; hackerone975 @ gm ail com

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    #7

    if you need to ask strangers what to do, stay with him, forgive him. seriously?

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    Laurete Seiu
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always stood against people trying to hack their partner's phone, until my cheating husband gave me every reason to spy on him. I've been suspecting his attitude lately and I really loved my man, so I was eager to find out the reason behind his sudden change of attitude. I contacted Fred Hacker who was recommended by a friend and after a few hours of contacting him, he gave me remote access to my husband's phone and I saw all his day to day activities and I was able to confirm he was cheating. You can reach him on gm ail through; hackerone975 @ gm ail com

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