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Hey Pandas, What Life Advice Did Your Parents Give You That Would Never Work Today? (Closed)
Whether it’s life advice, finding a job, dating, etc. What advice was given to you that today seems so far-fetched, you can’t believe they even suggested it?
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#1
"Ignore bullies".
No, mother of mine, that didn't work then, and it works even less now they can torment you via internet....
Final score:
14points
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#2
My dad used to tell me to take my pay check, bank 1/2 of it right away and don’t touch it, pay bills with the rest. Whatever is left is your play money until you get paid again. I really don’t know how much $50 for 2 weeks gets me.
Final score:
10points
#3
“Just ignore them, they’ll get bored and stop teasing you.”
Or
“He’s teasing (verbal bullying that eventually turned physical) you because he has a crush on you!”
Final score:
10points
#4
In 2014, I got laid off and told my mother. She said, "Time to get out the yellow pages." Honestly, I needed that laugh. I told her, "That isn't how it works anymore."
Final score:
9points
#5
You should get a job with Ma Bell installing phones. People are always going to need phones.
Final score:
5points
#6
If a girl is mean to you that's because she likes you.
If someone is mean to you that's because they are scared.
Final score:
5points
#7
My father used to advise me, when stopped by a cop, exit your car and meet him closer to his car. Claimed it made the cop more comfortable on his own territory.
Of course, these days it would get you shot, no matter what color you are!
Final score:
5points
#8
My dad used to tell me to invest in retirement policies. He's now living in a run-down house, is tight for money, and will die lower-middleclass. He never changed job or got a promotion. Just plugged along at the same thing for 40+ years, collected his retirement, and now sits reading the newspaper. I mean, what a pointless life. It makes me sad. He's not sad, which is OK, I suppose. But I guess I expect more out of life than working 40 years to just be able to sit in a chair and do crosswords.
Final score:
4points
#9
My mom let my sisters live in her house rent free after they were 18 and they had literally no idea how to be an adult. This might work for others but my sisters hated not knowing what to do so bad they told me if I need to I may live with them when I turn 18 but have to pay a small portion of rent and bills to get me used to paying bills and stuff when I am ready to live on my own. My sisters have no resentment with my mom they just wish they had learned how to adult before needing to adult.
Final score:
4points
#10
You must have 6 full months of bills set aside
Final score:
4points
#11
Kids can’t have anxiety, just relax and you’ll feel much better. Wow yeah if it was as simple as just relaxing I wouldn’t be anxious anyway. The same person also said ADHD isn’t real.
Final score:
4points
#12
"Buy a Pontiac! Super reliable and an excellent value!"
Final score:
3points
#13
GenX here. My parents told me to get a well-rounded college degree, because employers want educated employees and they'd train me for the specific job. Maybe this worked in the '60s, but it sure didn't work in the '80s. My first full-time job after college was "office manager" (aka secretary/receptionist). What I ended up doing until I got hurt on the job was manual physical labor (mail handler for the USPS). With my college degree.
Final score:
3points
#14
This is recent but: tell the teacher that you have adhd.
Like, my dumba** (cencored by me) teachers think I’m not “working hard enough” and “just skimming the passages”
Final score:
3points
Samuel Pelatan 1 year ago
I swear one day teachers will realize kids love to learn and are not just "lazy".
RafCo (he/him/ele) 1 year ago
Not sure what country you live in, but in the US you can get an IEP. ADHD is recognized by the dept of education, the school has to provide assistance to you if you have a diagnosis.
Anya Is a ghost (Submission author) 1 year ago
I have an IEP, but they don’t listen.
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#16
My mom: "If someone is bullying you it means they are actually sad and you should feel bad for them and forgive them. Stand in their shoes and be kind to them."
Ok, I get that most bullies project insecurities or things they have heard from or experienced from their parents onto victims and that's super sad. BUT I have the COMPLETE right NOT to forgive someone who gave me lasting mental trauma and massive insecurities about my body and self-worth. You can stand in a bully's shoes and feel bad but being kind to my bullies never worked and only made them bully me more. Thank you for listening to my rant.
Final score:
3points
#17
"Become a doctor, life will be easy."
No Dad and Mom, there won't be life left after becoming it.
I have instances where I didn't sleep for three nights consecutively to finish an assignment and also learn for upcoming exams meanwhile also doing field training.
Made me wonder what the hell I was doing.
Final score:
2points
#18
that if you can't pay for it with cash, then you don't need it. at 35, i couldn't get a loan for a car because i had no credit. was told bad credit is better than no credit.
Final score:
2points
#19
Dad: "Work hard and you can accomplish anything."
Also:
"If you don't like your job anymore, go to the next employer and play poker."
But at some point he realized that it doesn't work that way anymore and changed his mind.
Final score:
1point
#20
Advice from my parents when I graduated from High School, 1970. "Why do you want to go to college? You can right now get a good job in a Steel Mill with good pay, as much as $6.00 an hour. You will have a good life on that pay, and plenty of job security. After all, this is Pittsburgh - there will always be steel mills."
Final score:
1point
#21
"Learn to adjust." (Hahaha. I will, depending on the place, time, and the person.)
"Women shouldn't laugh that loud." (I laugh wholeheartedly)
"Get a job that gives pension on retirement." A big LOL. (In India, only govt. jobs provide pension to retired employees, and getting a govt. job is like winning the lottery. It's not impossible, but I didn't have that much patience back then.)
There are more, but these came to my mind at this moment.
Final score:
1point
#22
Make sure that at least half your money goes to the church. My parents run the church. I am 28.
Final score:
0points
#23
"Don't ask to be put on a waiting list. Don't ask for an application. Just tell them you'll take it." Referring to daycare enrollment and leasing apartments. There have been 3 year long waiting lists for daycare spots. Parents would enroll their kids at daycares in other parts of the city. About a decade ago, the government implemented an all-in-one waiting list, where you went online or called a number, to put your kid on one long list. I believe you'd have to put down the area you live in and whatever daycare has an open space in your area is what you got. If you decline you're back at the bottom of the list.
I don't know if it's still a thing anymore. But it came during a time daycares were complaining of parents getting aggressive with demands of getting their kids in. I imagine a lot of factors were at play, and pushy grandparents were one.
With apartment hunting, you can't just go in, say "I'll take it" and the landlord will just hand you the keys. It didn't work 21 years ago. I'm not sure in what era it did but that was believed to work by my mom and my now ex's parent's.
Final score:
0points
#24
'Learn to play piano, there's always a piano anywhere you go'.
Final score:
0points
#25
"Go out into the sun and get some colour on you."
Thanks for the risk of skin cancer, folks.
Final score:
0points
#26
Mom: Don't spend all that money on a computer. These things are useless.
(Boomer here - It was mainly for all the reports and dissertations during my studies, which otherwise took hours on the typewriter).
Final score:
0points
#27
"just talk to them, its not f*cking rocket science"
for me, it kind of is.
Final score:
0points
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