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Hey Pandas, What Is The One Thing That Makes A Person Instantly Unattractive?
You know... you see someone and you like them... but suddenly they do something and you're like ..oh... never mind?
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#1
Treating women, people of other races and special needs individuals like they are sub-human. Anyone who acts like that is a Neanderthal.
Final score:
26points
Lantana Howell (Submission author) 2 years ago
If that is how they want to act, then they 💯 % earned that title.
#2
Rudeness. Pure and simple.
Final score:
25points
TheAquarius1978 2 years ago
Stupidity, i don't care how gorgeous you are if i think you're stupid we are done
#3
Treating restaurant staff like they aren’t human. Simple as that
Final score:
24points
Minath 2 years ago
There's a quote from Harry Potter that's something like "to get the true measure of a man look at how he treats his inferiors not his equals" now I'm not suggesting that restaurant staff are inferior, you could exchange "inferiors" to hospitality workers and the sentiment is the same.
#5
When everything in the interaction becomes a competition where they have to make sure you know that they are better than you, i.e. smarter, wealthier, good looking, better spouse, better job, better car...
Final score:
12points
Trisha Howson 2 years ago
I do not like anyone like that I can not be around them. It like there a bully kinda
#8
When they make racist or sexist jokes. Like, it's not really all that funny and super annoying.
Final score:
11points
#9
Okay so this is hard to explain, but the guys that say they are anti-simps, and feel like they are special because of it. Like I keep seeing posts and reels where let's say, a guy ignores a girl who was trying to give him her number, and acts like it's "king behaviour" or some s**t. Even the comment section is full of "You dropped your crown, King" or some variation (I mean I've ignored men's advances several times when I wasn't interested, where is my crown? : P)
I cannot express how repulsive I find it. Don't like chasing after girls and being a "simp"? That's a personal preference and totally valid, but why would you think you're special because of that?
Final score:
10points
#10
Grown up guys acting like teenagers. I liked this one guy (he was 24), but he acted stupid and misogynistic around his friends, like he wanted to show off or idk... Oh and also.... he non-ironically quoted lines from Kevin and Perry Go Large ... like...all the time. I never got out of a crush that quickly. Huge yikes.
Final score:
10points
#11
If they act like they’re better than others simply because of the gender they were born with. Another unattractive quality is when they act really childish, or stupid in purpose.
Final score:
10points
Bored Retsuko 2 years ago
I hate nothing more than people who "play stupid"! That is, act stupid so they can get what they want and not take responsibility for their actions.
#12
People who snap their fingers at restaurant staff. I just... don't like it.
Final score:
10points
Bored Retsuko 2 years ago
Yes, that is very disrespectful and cringy. (To me at least; maybe a cultural thing, idk)
#13
Smoking!
Final score:
10points
#16
Because I'm that annoying person: clashing political views. It's not a "matter of opinion" anymore if you think entire minority groups don't deserve rights. If you thing I don't.
Final score:
9points
#17
when they insult you in front of their friends just to save face. ugh.
Final score:
8points
#18
if you are rude or mean or disrespect anyone ,I will immediately find you unattractive
Final score:
8points
#19
No sense of humor..
Final score:
8points
Down With Agent Hedgehog! 2 years ago
In that case I’d be the most hated being in my entire school. Because all the time I don’t get it and people hate me for being like ‘what?’ When they say a joke or try to be funny.
#20
Sending mixed signals or not telling you what they want. "Giving hints" is just frustrating and gets you nowhere.
Final score:
8points
#21
Judging people by their appearance. Weight/clothing/skin color etc.
Final score:
8points
#22
Mansplainers...no thanks.
Final score:
8points
#23
An unwillingness to learn.
Final score:
7points
#24
If they have a shitty personality. Or if they just act like they are above everyone in general
Final score:
7points
#26
If they’re rude and if they say unnecessary mean stuff about others, or if they swear too much
Final score:
7points
#27
I can name a few
- Homophobia
- Racist
- Ableist
- Undermines my emotions, my parents already yell at me for crying and anger the last thing I need is a partner doing that too
- This might seem kinda controversial, but someone who freaks out if they hear dark humour
- Being stupid, like as in anti-masking, disorder faking tiktoker stupid
Final score:
7points
Sharron Lindsay 2 years ago
Dark humour has its place in the world and I think some people should try to take themselves less seriously. Taking yourself too seriously can make you constantly stressed by other's actions and opinions - the mind is like a parachute according to Mark Twain. Dark humour is often used by the military and emergency services to deal with the horrors they see and help them get up in the morning to go to work knowing they could see the same horrific things day-in day-out
#29
Gaslighting. If you act like an *ss and try to pretend it didn’t happen, then tell me that my emotions are unfounded and ‘I’m being ridiculous,’ there’s the door.
Final score:
7points
#30
Willful ignorance and cruelty towards people or animals
Final score:
7points
#31
Anything that shows a sign of homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, racism, really just anything that doesn’t support equal rights for all.
Final score:
6points
#33
I have a few I can thing of right now.
1. You dont like animals.
2. Your homophobic/transphobic.
3. your a rude jerk for absolutly no reason.
Final score:
6points
#34
Pouting when they don’t get their way. It’s not cute. It’s childish.
Final score:
6points
#35
I mean, if a person is showing off in front of me I feel like hitting them. And ofc if anyone treats someone around them like an accessory they are (insert negative words here).
Final score:
5points
#36
If they treat their siblings like garbage then what is stopping them from treating you like garbage in the future. Or any family member.
Final score:
5points
#37
When their unable to say thank you or sorry
other :
- smoking
- entitlement
- racism
- alcoholics
- when they always know it better
- unkindness
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Final score:
5points
#38
Adding one more, and treating/talking about someone like they aren’t human, or don’t have feelings. There’s no need to go somewhere and treat the staff as if they are just robot workers that ONLY do their job. There’s no need to get mad at celebrities for doing something that just... makes them human.
Final score:
5points
#40
The fact that im aroace :)
Final score:
4points
#41
Stupidity.
I don't care how hot a person is.
If you aren't smart, we cant mesh.
Maybe that is a bad attitude to have but, thats my honest answer.
Final score:
4points
Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago
I get this one.... In my earlier days I did portrait shoots with semi profesional models. Now I don't really care about good looks, I go for a beautiful inside coming out... One model was insulted that I skipped my turn to do a shoot with her. I was still kind and told a white lie that there was something wrong with my camera I had to fix so she could have double time with another photographer. The truth however was that her personality was so incredibly visible for me, I had to pass because I never work with arrogant models... The rest of the day I had a great time with the rest of the models and got a lot of superb pictures ;)
#42
people who are to big for their boots
Final score:
4points
#44
Treating anyone with contempt.
My CEO treats our housekeeping staff with kindness and respect.
No one is better than anyone.
Final score:
4points
#45
Not letting someone be weird or goofy or "ham it up" without being made to feel like a child that's had too much sugar.
I finally found someone that will "yes, and..." my random theatrics, and been with them for 4 wonderfully liberating years.
Final score:
3points
#46
Transphobia, homophobia, racism, sexism, this is kind of with the whole transphobia thing but being super straight, yeah I could go on but in short hating something people can't control or for their appearance like being fat phobiac is just a big no
Final score:
3points
#48
Being generally combative. Everything you say becomes an argument over who is right.
Everything needs to be dissected into the tiniest technicality at all times.
It's exhausting.
I enjoy a healthy debate, but there's a time and place for everything.
Fine, you win, the sky is technically not blue. Whatever, it makes no difference to me as we're sitting at a traffic light on our way to the grocery store.
Final score:
3points
#49
All of the above so far for sure, but the one for me is BAD HYGIENE- especially oral, yuke yuke, nope , no thank you
Final score:
2points
#51
Low IQ
Final score:
1point
Catte West 2 years ago
Dated a guy, briefly, who accused me of using 50¢ words. I refuse to lower my vocabulary to be understood.
#52
Vain and self absorbed
If they talk about themselves...
Also if they do a blink thing...
Final score:
1point
Australian panda (Submission author) 2 years ago
I meant if they talk about themselves too mush
#53
Talking without wanting a conversation;
Poor personal hygiene or too much perfume/aftershave
Any bigotry/racism
Lack of empathy for others
Not liking animals, especially cats and dogs;
Oh dear, I’d better stop there, it makes me feel like a grump:)
Final score:
1point
#54
Ewwww personal habits out in public - nose picking, playing with genitals, farting, eating with mouth open, talking with food in their mouth, not wearing deodorant........all equally repulsive.......
Final score:
1point
#56
1. being sexist. that's a huge no
2. racism
3. rudeness
4.they think they are number one
5. disrepectful of genders
those are the big fat no-no's that I avoid, and hopefully, you do too
Final score:
1point
#59
Attitude. It's one thing to be proud of what you've accomplished and another entirely to be so full of yourself there's no room for anyone else.
Final score:
0points
#60
Judging the hobbies or interests of others. Hey, you do you and what you like, girl/guy/whoever you are. Don't appeal to the masses just to fit in.
Final score:
0points
#63
Eating with their mouth open. It's so obnoxious and swine like. It both makes me sick and infuriated to the point that I actually want to physically punch them and tell them to shut their mouth and not eat like a goddam cow.
Final score:
-1point
Samia Guled 2 years ago
I get that is the thing you don't want ur significant someone doing, but do you have to get so mean and violent about it?
What do you think ?
Angelica Victor 2 years ago
Bad breath, teeth with yellow or green gunk on them, dirty nails, greasy hair the list is endless!
D_Anna 2 years ago
I have no idea why this is on here of how to delete this!?
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Bad breath, teeth with yellow or green gunk on them, dirty nails, greasy hair the list is endless!
D_Anna 2 years ago
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