I’m not sure if I did this one before, but I get mad my all the offensive things people say to me. Let us know below!

#1

Someone told me I'm a pervert for using the guys bathroom (I'm trans and anyways there was no one in there). Same guy also said I'm a school shooter cause I'm trans

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Donkey boi
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds to me that that person doesn't know the meaning of words.

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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah idk how they got to that conclusion. I reported them to my band teacher (the only period we share) and the teacher threatened to kick him out of band if he kept being a transphobic little s**t

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    #2

    “You can never pay attention to anything!” I have ADHD I already take medication what do you want me to do about it

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    Donkey boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Please kindly take a seat and wait for the hyper focus! I can't guarantee it will be related to what you want, but I'll prove I can concentrate'

    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if I’m unable to pay attention and zone out easily and I need to fidget a lot, does it mean that I might have ADHD? (Just simply asking)

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s a good question maybe, but I’m not a doctor so

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    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! I have the attention span of a kid in a candy shop! Not much!

    TheOddPotater (she/her)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol, im the same 😂 my attention span is about 2 seconds—oh look a shoe 👟

    #3

    Someone told me something along the lines of "You are ugly. And also really annoying. No offense." It was longer than that but these were the insults.

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    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t find you annoying in any way so that’s false. Also, you look pretty and not ugly in any way

    TheOddPotater (she/her)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you are beautiful 🤩 just the way u are! modern beauty standards are WAY too high anyways. ❤️

    #4

    I got called a pirate. I’m blind in one eye.

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    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn it, I have the pirates of the Caribbean song stuck in my head. But may I ask why you’re blind in one eye? I’m almost blind myself, and honestly, I wanna know what it’s like to be blind

    #5

    You can’t be autistic, you’re smart. B***h, are you saying my needs are not valid due to smart? Are you saying that autism only affects the dumb?? And my own dad told me that I could never be a cheerleader as I’m chunky and have no body for it. That really hurt. I have no body image, and I really wanted to cheer. It broke my heart. Now I’m unhealthily thin due to a thyroid problem, and I’m told I look pretty? It angers me thinking about it today.

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    Gambit22
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Autism (Especially high functioning) has been proven to cause high intelligence.

    Jungle Empress 85
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THANK YOU. I often feel stupid so I need the reminder that I'm not.

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    Percabeth Forever (she/they)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so awful. You are smart and would be a great cheerleader, your dad sounds awful.

    #6

    A list: 1) Crybaby 2) Chatterbox 3) Fat 4)”You only like blue because you want to be a boy” 5) “I feel that you have no ambition in life and you’ll never get anything done” 6) Some variation of “well I had it harder than you” even though that wasn’t the case. I’ll elaborate on it in the comments later if anyone wants 7) “Fat Donkey”- by my dad on my birthday 8) “Disgusting fat boy”- dad the night before my birthday 9) “you don’t have any real friends” All of these said by my parents and only 2 of these were used to tease me when growing up but not anymore as I’ve found people who probably tolerate me at best. I guess they probably hate me because everyone I’ve ever met has called me annoying but I don’t know what others find annoying. Maybe I really don’t have friends and people just pity me so they pretend

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    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want you to be safe. I’m sure there are many people here who’ll find a way to get you out and protect you.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks. Right now the situation is just mentally abusive so I’m not in that much danger and I have around 3 to 7 years before I can get a job and leave which isn’t that much time

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    Cosmologist wannabe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes, they do hate u. This is the definition of abuse. Try reporting them to the police or something.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The police wouldn’t take me seriously because there’s no laws regarding child abuse in my country

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    Percabeth Forever (she/they)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my goodness, this sounds awful. Your dad sounds terrible. Just know you have a real friend in your corner, ok?

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks. My dad honestly isn’t very nice but I feel like a brat when I complain because he buys me stuff I need and he keeps me well fed and allows me to stay under his roof

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    #7

    I wore jeans and a t-shirt to church, and my 6 year old friend came up and said to me, "Well, you didn't dress well today." I was wounded.😁 And to add insult to injury, she was in tie-dye shorts and a tank-top. I'm not sure I will get over this one.

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    #8

    you’re special because you are an Aspie

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    Student River Basler
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    true, you are special.[not beacause you are a aspie, you are special beacause you kneaw that was bad to say, most people would wrongly think that was a complement]

    #9

    "You should just kill yourself next time so your parents don't have to pay for all the hospital bills" I had just gotten back from a week in the hospital for suicidal ideation

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    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is disgusting. I’ve had suicidal ideation before, and it I was told that, I probably quotient be alive today. And what that bastard doesn’t know is that if you die in the hospital, you still have to pay the Bill (at least in the U.S.). I feel guilty everytime I have to go to my specialist doctors because I fainted in order to get them and cared debt, and then got diagnosed with cancer. It hurts. I wish you the best. Hugs 🫂

    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, f**k that person. They’re terrible. Are you doing better now? You can always talk to me or other pandas if you want. We’re here for you always ❤️

    Student River Basler
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oof. hope you are loved and cared for the rest of your life

    #10

    idk if this counts but one of my friends told me i was a little bit clingy. i only hang around them so much bc i'm scared that something bad will happen to one of us and we won't be able to see each other again.

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    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand completely. I’m clingy too; with one of my friends, if she talks to someone else, I can get really furious. I don’t wanna feel this way, I want to have a normal friendship

    #11

    Constantly being told I'm lazy and to try harder when I was going through school. I now know I have auditory processing disorder, which inhibits the ability to understand speech.

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    SummerVeE
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are awful things to say to someone. Language & communication processing is something that many of us take for granted. I hope that with your diagnosis you will be able to get help with learning skills and tools to adapt as best as possible. People will surprise you with their support. Until recently, I thought that ASL (sign language) was rare. My daughter & I are learning together (she is non-verbal and does not understand spoken communication). It is overwhelming to realize how many people actually know some basic signs; how many strangers who see us communicating that will pause to sign hello, how are you, very basic small “talk”, just to be kind and help another human feel included. Wishing you all the best

    Marinasongs1432
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s hard. You aren’t lazy, I’m sure you’re trying your best. I hope you are getting help. Hugs 🫂

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