Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Have Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Gender? (Closed)

What is something you have always wanted to ask the oppostite gender?

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Gentlemen, how often do you *really* think about the Roman empire?

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Why do you guys pee while standing? Its more mess, less convinent, so why? If you can sit and poo, why not just sit and pee?

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How do y'all just decide how to greet each other? Like the thing where you grab hands and pat each other on the back-it seems to just be an instinct.

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what is it like having to deal with so called "alphas"

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What do you (non-women) think is the best and worst part about being a woman

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Tiramisu 1 year ago

Honestly, the periods. I don't think I could handle a portion of that pain, and here we have girls and women who put up the s**t of daily life while dealing with that.

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Leo Domitrix 1 year ago

!0,000 upvotes. I'll take the rest, including misogynistic jerks, over the bleeping periods!

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Idiocy Incarnate (she/her) 1 year ago

Thankfully, I don't get period pain, but it is annoying to deal with. I feel bad for those with the pain

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Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago

Thank you.

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Nick (He/Him) 1 year ago

Worst must be periods, Best must be the absolute certainty that a baby is yours

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Stardrop 1 year ago

lol

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Best part: being less hairy. I hate body hair with a passion. Worst part... obviously patriarchy, but I think periods is probably second worst.

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I’mSoEmotional 1 year ago

Women are less hairy but have to spend more time removing hair from legs, underarms, upper lip, facial hair (if they have it.)

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Stardrop 1 year ago

hrm, idk, im very hairy (for a woman), but we're expected to shave the stupid hair while y'all get away with it >:(

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Tuesday 1 year ago

i'm literally hairier than my father... ✨mediterranean✨

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shanila.pheonix_ 1 year ago (edited)

i am extremely hairy lol for a female. for me, its just genes.

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Lucas 1 year ago

As a trans man… I don’t think there is anything wrong with being a woman it’s just either you are or you aren’t. And periods suck.

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Zedrapazia 1 year ago

Do you still have period despite male hormones?

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Wintermute 1 year ago

I don't know if it's the "best" part, but as a dude I'm very jealous of women's fashion and ability to accessorize. I mean, us dudes have surprisingly little variability in clothing, and without make up, if you're ugly, you just ugly. Plus rings and necklaces and so forth. It'd be nice to have options. I mean, obviously guys CAN wear these things, but on a level of social acceptability and manual labor jobs, it's not really feasible.

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SheamusFanFrom1987 1 year ago

Best part: Clothing styles. So many and some of you can literally pull off any styles. Worst part: Definitely periods. I don't experience it and I'm thankful. Sudden bleeding and so many different levels of pain makes me wonder how on earth can anyone handle that?

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The Doom Song 1 year ago

I'm on the pill so I can pretty much pinpoint when it's coming and prepare accordingly. As period pain goes it's different for everyone, mine can be pretty bad some months (especially if I skip a month)

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gay_frogs 1 year ago

The second you get your period so many new concerns pop up. Especially if you live in a U.S. a state that has really strict laws on abortion, everything surrounding your period is scary. You don’t get your period, you might be pregnant and you only have two weeks to get it aborted if you are. You do get your period, you have to sit all day at school/work in pain planning out when you change your product. Twelve year old me should not have had to start worrying about that but I had to.

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VonBlade 1 year ago (edited)

Worst part - Periods, men, periods, maybe men, definitely periods, lack of pockets. Best part - The ultimate button of fun, so much choice in clothing, boobs (assuming a sensible size and not back-ache inducing). Yes those are 66% sexual things, but I think beyond the obvious differences we're the same, so it's tough to suggest things that aren't mere gender constructs like makeup or hair length

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I’mSoEmotional 1 year ago

As a woman I can tell you that breasts aren’t necessarily fun for women. I think they are considered more “fun” for men. For many women they can just be a hassle because they force us to always wear an item of clothing that conceals them. Do you know how many women would love to be able to walk around without a shirt or bra on? And yes, I know men would be fine with that, but society isn’t and see how many men freak out if a woman breastfeeds in public even though that’s really what they are for.

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The Doom Song 1 year ago

Yeah men find boobs more fun that us women do. If you don't have the right support for them they hurt no matter the size.

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WhiteClawOfDeath 1 year ago

Just letting you know that not all women think boobs are an necessary side effect of being a woman. I like my boobs and how they change during my life or even my hormonal cycle. And I love love love buying lingerie. Better than shoes or bags. And I think clothing wise, you are right, but I believe whatever your gender, you can develop your own creative style and experiment. No need to be restricted by gender labels or trends here

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I am a girl. I know this gay sixth grader who doesn't want to be in the boy's locker room because he is uncomfortable and is now in the girl's locker room during P.E. I don't feel comfortable at all that a boy is in a GIRL's locker room. So, I ask the males here if it is okay to have a gay sixth grader in your locker room. Like, for real, I don't feel safe when a male is in a female locker room just because they are gay and don't feel comfortable around boys.

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People with genders, what is a gender? Please, I don’t understand, I must know.

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I would like my son to be more confident with the girls. I don't want him to act like an alpha or pretend he's somebody he's not. Just to feel accepted when he tries to be his best self, because it never worked for me. What should I teach him?

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For my friend she says: what happens in the boys locker room or gym room that most girls will probably not want to know

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I don't wear make up myself, but do men actually like when women wear make up???

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The Doom Song

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Women, why you you need to go to the bathroom with a friend when in a social setting?

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Of the ( very ) few women who's bras I have ever removed, only one ever wore a front hook type. As someone who really struggles to scratch itches in the middle of my back, it seems like this would be more convenient, but the vast majority of bras on the market hook in the back. Is there a really significant reason for this, or is it just "tradition"?

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1: do you guys actually like beards or is it just something you think is cool

2: is your life sad

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I'm a female so males how do you guys put up with each other every day? im a middle schooler and i cant put up with the guys who are even my friends

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Women, I have sOOOOOooooo many questions.

1. Do you accept "trans" women as women, or do you think, "nah"? Can you tell? Have you ever met a trans person? (I have, three times, it's pretty rare in Africa.).

2. Do you find men confusing? If so, happy to explain why we aren't. (Really: we want to do our hobby, have food, sex, and short convos on non-emotion topics. We are primitive). Phrases like "do you think you should" are red capes to bulls. Never ever use that phrase. It implies incompetence.

3. Do you really like marriage and housemaking or is it just a western trope? ("lived happily ever after")

4. On a scale of 1-10 , please rate the following features in a partner: (a) looks, (b) money, (c) humour, (d) "spiritual connection", (e) intelligence, (f) ability to hold a conversation (g) great family (h) car/house quality (i) hobby compatibility? Men mostly believe money (b) is the key to finding a mate. I believe (c), (d), (f) are the most important? Am I right?

5. Do you actually like sex or is it meh? Like, if you have to choose something to do, like say watch a romcom, have a great meal, or have sex, which is top priority? Men are under the impression y'all don't care much for it and that food is top priority.

6. Is it a stereotype or do you really hate action films? Eg. I find James Bond to be barbarically patriarchal and s**t. Do you agree? However, it is true that men despise romcoms. They are awful and predictable.

7. Is it a stereotype or do you really not "get" computer games? I know several exceptions, I'm asking for GENERAL opinions (statistical majorities).

8. If a guy is bi does this make him extremely unattractive or are you ok with it? My impression is women talk left and date right.

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A guy I dated told me that a soft "ball tap" could sometimes be more painful than being hit in the balls. Do you find that to be true?

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Guys...what are good/cute nicknames for ya'll?

Girls get called sweetie and princess and queen, but I can't think of many that work for guys. Especially if they aren't your boyfriend or husband, but they are still your bestie or crush.

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What's the biggest stereotype you deal with for your gender? (Ik this was for the opposite gender but I feel like everyone can answer this.)

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For the guys, what do you think abt makeup?

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A guy here,

what's it like to have boobs?

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To people with peens - do you ever actually helicopter it or is that an urban myth?

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Why do guys often spend so long in showers? Women often get the rap but I've known a lot of guys who take 15m plus to shower. I've got an idea and I suspect it has a similar answer to why it takes guys so long to have a c**p...

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Guy here.

Is it true for ladies that matching underwear is hard to find?

Just out of curiosity because most times I see them sold in pairs (top and bottom) but I've heard complains within earshot that even those don't pair well with what they have (or something similar).

Is there something I'm missing out because as far as I know, those aren't supposed to be seen by anyone else unless intended to?

Just a thought, peace.

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why are women more comfortable expressing their emotions and such?

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Ladies, why do many women blatantly show cleavage yet complain when us guys keeping looking at it? Boobs are eye magnets for us.

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What do you think ?

DB 1 year ago

Good topic with some great posts. Somehow it managed to slip past they usual cast of BP haters. Good for you.

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Carol LeMay 1 year ago

I always felt that I earned men's respect and that it wasn't automatically given to me because of my gender.

Anonymous Panda She/Her/Hers 1 year ago

As a woman your mindset is making me uncomfortable. Acting like your children owe you respect just because you chose to bring them into this world is incredibly selfish and acting like some random stranger owes you respect? Ha! Respect is earned through positive interactions and takes time to build up. Be a good person and good anyone worth your time will respect you. Don't bother with A-holes.

Miaow Minx 1 year ago

Just because another woman gave life to a man doesn't mean he automatically owes all of us respect, or that he even owes her respect if she was seriously abusive or neglectful.

Lemon 1 year ago

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