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Hey Pandas, What Is Something That Everyone Loves To Do Byt You Hate With A Burning Passion? (Closed)
I'm curious to find out what is the thing you hate to do but others seem to really love it.
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Watching sports. Especially FOOTBALL! Here in the United Kingdom of UK if you are male you are almost legally obliged to support a team. I never have. It is boring.
I feel this too hard. I could not care less about any of the big televised sports (football, rugby, tennis etc.) but once its on it takes over EVERYTHING
Social media (BP excepted, of course!) I loathe the very idea of FB, Twitter, TikTok and all the rest. So much fakery, attention whoredom, money seeking, mean spiritedness! "Friends" who aren't real friends. No thanks.
Never had any of those (except twitter for about a year) and I honestly don't get what people like about them. Especially celebrities, who keep complaining about the hate, which they would barely know about if they had no social media
Being the centre of attention. I’m confident and happy but I absolutely despise the thought of all eyes on me. Not all girls dream of being “a princess on their wedding day” 100% not for me.
Put pineapple on pizza 🤮
(Plz don’t downvote if u disagree)
Makeup.I don't hate it but rarely do it ,I don't know how to do it and I don't feel the need.It is not a necessity for females.
That's how I feel, too. There's really no set rules with make up. One method doesn't suit all. For me, I can't stand the feeling of wearing a mask all day with powders making me sneeze and irritating my eyes. I'll last 10 minutes and then I have to wash it off. But I think the most disheartening part is trying to look for spots society would think are "flaws".
Dancing. I feel awkward and hate it. I love seeing people dance who know what their doing. But its not for me
I cannot dance lol, I do the little wavy thing where you hold your arms near your face and I look terrble
Drinking. Never drank alcoholic drinks besides a sip here and there. I just don't see the appeal. Specially when, in the rare occasions I go to a party, they start throwing up and acting like idiots
People are usually stunned that I don't drink, especially considering I worked for The Beer Store for 10 years. I never saw an appeal to drinking. I just tell people that I tried but I'm just no damn good at it.
Fireworks! Not the big professional shows but those stupid little ones the drunk neighbors shoot off for every ridiculous holiday that comes along!
I don't even like the professional ones generally. Even more pointless watching them on tv.
The 'musick' they pollute the professional fireworks sounds with, especially Sousa. Let the fireworks make their own music. -and don't get me started on the neighbor noises that freak out my dog.
Thank you for making this distinction. I was raised by a pyrotech and he did the most beautiful shows, but also raised us with really strict fire safety at home and now whenever I hear randos (or cops, in my hometown!) setting off fireworks I get so f@#$ing anxious because I KNOW they aren't following safety rules. If you want to make art with fire you need safety training and a licence.
I find it funny when the neighbors do it bc they don’t know what they’re doing Ik fire is bad and that but it is so funny seeing them like “TIMMY GRAB MY LIGHTER I THINK I GOT IT”
All fireworks, big and small. Waste of money, scares pets, wildlife and people with noise sensitivity. Drone light shows are somewhat better
Parties. I can’t handle crowds and noises and end up having a panic attack. Same for any event. People say “oh but it’s going to be so fun we’re going to blah blah blah” but I just can’t
Clubbing! I do not want ti get all dressed up in a tiny outfit and be gawked at by creepy weirdos. I always feel really good and incredibly anxious in a club setting. Rather just go sit at a table in a bar with a small dance floor and a "dj" who takes requests
listen to rap music, not for me.
I used to say the same, but I have found Aussie rap is more enjoyable and has something more meaningful to say than 'gangsta' rap. I hate just hearing about bitches and pussy!
Look at pictures of, or hold someone else's baby. I have my own children that I love, but that doesn't mean it automatically extends to every single poop machine out there. Please don't thrust your spawn in my face!
I was invited to my friend's wedding where she didn't want any childten--except her infant son. No one - not the grandparents or the bridesmaids/groomsmen or even the bride and groom - wanted to be bothered with their child /grandchild /friend's child, so essentially I was there to babysit. I actually had more fun with their son, playing and such than interacting with her childless friends, who thought it was "strange" I'd get on the floor and crawl around with this child, or dance with them. Some people shouldn't be parents, and I hope they will use birth control forever.
Drink wine. I find it disgusting, it all tastes the similar, it's either too sweet or too bitter/astringent. I've had wine from all over the world, cheap stuff, pricey stuff, in between. It's all terrible to me. I also don't particularly care for getting inebriated so it's not like the means can even justify the end. I like other alcoholic beverages with a good meal, but I just can't deal with wine.
What's odd, is I'm the type of person who one would think would love a good wine pairing. I love basically all food, all cuisines, I'm a very adventurous eater, I love trying new things, learning about cheeses and beers and the differences between different types ... Stuff like that.
But no matter how hard I try, wine just doesn't do it for me.
F****ng Fortnite 🤮🤮🤮🤮 no hate to the game it just got SOOOOO over hyped that when anyone talks about it I just wanna leave the conversation
yessss i know a lot of people who basically worship fortnite and once they bring it up its just so annoying i can't understand why so many people like it
the office and harry potter. they're not bad but nothing to base your personality on
Not exactly something everyone loves to do, but you have to have backstory so I don’t seem like a horrible person.
I was always the therapist friend. For years people have dumped their trauma on me, and I already have super strong emotions and reactions to things. I got so worked up by everyone else’s problems that I couldn’t sort my own.
The result of that? I despise listening to people’s problems. As much as I want to support them, I can’t do it. Go find someone who loves to hug people and listen to them, I am not that person.
it’s completely fine not to want other people’s emotions on top of yours, and i feel your pain because i’m that freind too! The best thing to do is to let them tell ypu about it and pretend like your listening and say something along the lines of “i’m sorry, i don’t know what to do about it, but maybe i could ask someone else for you?” in a sympathetic voice, and they will feel better already! (trust me, i know from experience)
I really don't like for fun shopping. Especially if someone else is paying. I feel overwhelmed already by being in the store, but if you are paying, yea I'm not getting anything. Sorry Dude
Dodging those "But remember I bought you that..." bullets like the Matrix..
Watching sports. Mostly FootBall (I’m in the USA, and I don’t really like watching the Super Bowl) I only want to know who run, also COMMERCIALS
Golf. Everyone in my family loves watching golf on TV. They all used to play it. I had to go with my parents to the GGO when I was a kid. I hate watching it, hate it. I like mini golf.
Go out. Watch movies and TV just because they're the cultural event and they don't want to get left out. Gossip about celebs, your neighbours, anyone who isn't you. Replybeg to famous/rich people in case they want to thank you for your support with enormous gifts. Get drunk or stoned. In fact generally people are awful, shallow, nosey gits.
Going to the beach. Or, more specifically, anything involving a lot of sunshine and heat. Throw in some sand, crowds and water full of fish and whatnot and I'm out.
Selfies. You wanna take a picture of you mopping the floor? Go ahead. You want to take a picture while hanging off a cliff? You do you. I rather take a picture of other people doing awesome stuff...
Text while driving.
Use of any hand held mobile phone while driving is illegal in Australia.
(french here) revolution. revolution leads mathematically to dictatorship. but it seems most of the folks nowadays think it's kind of magic potion. open few history books for God sake
I hate misspelling the word "but". Most people love to spell it "byt", but I spell but "but". But.
well, since my birth gender is a girl, and i’m blonde(ish) then people expect me to be happy and dumb all the time and i just can’t. I don’t understand what it is about blondes that makes people think they’re dumb! I am not dumb, and generally have a frown on because that’s sorta what my face just looks like so i just don’t get it! Also, i could care less about any trend that’s going on. For example, Fortnight used to be a huge thing, and everyone was always talking about it, and i have never played it once because i don’t care about all that! (even though some people were very upset about that because, well, i was in like, third grade)
We sound like soul sisters! Also female, blonde, natural Double G chest. Resting b***h face. Couldn’t tell you the last/latest trend I got in to. Probably Harry Potter at book 5s release early 00s. And cats. They kept me sane in lockdown. Drive me nuts now but I love them.
Drinking beer or wine. I can't stand either.
Dunno if this is something everyone loves, but award shows.
A lot of award shows are usually rigged, and something that is objectively better usually gets swept under the rug for the more popular thing. Or, the judges who assign this are just utterly incompetent and pick the wrong thing to win.
Fireworks. Sorry, but scares pets, dangerous and goes on for months in the summer
To be bubbly or always gigle or atleast laugh randomly like some college students do.I can't be in that kind of a"cool" zone always.
Making a role model.O course I learn from people but if you follow everything that person does even defending them for sth wrong then try to change it.
Agreed! A role model to look up to isn't bad, but if they do something wrong you should be able to see and learn from that too. And admit it!
Birthday party, especially at workplace, with colleagues you don't like and boss you hate.
Showing your face in YT videos. Just why?
Personally I'm uncomfortable around cameras so yea I'd rather not
Have a pet. I love that you've got "fur babies". But some of us don't have the time, space, or energy to keep up with a living breathing critter on top of other responsibilities.
My pets are green leafy houseplants. No, you can't cuddle with it but you can safely leave it at home 🙂
WATCHING OUTER BANKS! I cannot deal with OBX! I don't get why everybody is obsessed!
I tried to watch this since everyone at work raved about it! I did not get the appeal.
watching sports on tv. if I'm there, I love it. If I'm at home, I'm bored out of my mind.
I'll watch things I can't do nowadays like rodeo, otherwise not interested.
Celebrity crushes. I’m okay with admiring people, but some of my friends are like “omg I want to marry this random dude I’ve never met and don’t even know their true personality because I’ve only seen them when they’re acting/singing!” It’s just too much for me and I don’t get it. I know a lot of people have these crushes and no shame if you do, but it’s just not my cup of tea 🫖
- Watching sports (boring AF unless it's motorcycle racing).
- Being around babies/children (not my cup of tea).
- DYI home projects (I absolutely hate that s**t, glad my wife is more into it so have at it there Joanna Gaines.....).
- Watch reality shows (except for P**n Stars, that s**t's interesting).
- Clothes shopping....always hated it and always will.
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As a Canadian, watch and play hockey, skiing, ice fishing, fishing (but I will watch River Monsters), snowmobiling (last time I done it I nearly broke my tail bone), hand egg (American football. I just don't get it and it's the ugliest sport I've seen.),
In general, soak in baths. I'll take the odd bath. It feels good for a few minutes until the water starts losing warmth and the bubbles go away. The average bathtub is not comfy to sit nor lay in for long. Even with a pillow. Plus, since I have a skin disorder baths are more about softening the dry, dead layers and doing an intense scrub session. Just feels like a chore. But it has to get done or I'll feel itchy.
Too long in the bath or a hot tub and you're just making people soup at that point.
Being compelled to eat an expensive, high calorie dinner just to be around friends, or dating. I am on a diet and a budget
Drinking alcohol, or smoking. It just doesn't make sense.
It's not supposed to make sense. It's supposed to be euphoric. I highly recommend psychedelics.
To curse.Some like to do that randomly some deliberately,but I don't like that.I believe if we give something to a person and he doesn't accept it so it remains with us ,same goes with a curse.
I don't care if someone curses out of the blue. But every other sentence just feels like they're trying too hard to sound all edgy, tough and rated R.
Waching series/movies and TV. It's too passive and I get bored/distracted in about 2 minutes. I'd rather be doing something.
I keep a crossword puzzle for commercials. First one comes on I get so immersed in the puzzle I don't crawl out of it.
Sleepovers. They're just so overwhelming! I need a lot of time to unwind before bed, so it would be hard for me to fall asleep comfortably in a room filled with people. It would also drain my social battery.
I only liked sleepovers with my two best friends in high school. Any time someone wanted to do a big sleepover with a bunch of girls I hated it!
"Ngl I’m starting to hate Bp"
Completly agree. looking back at one of my old accounts, someone told me to shoot myself, and it was one of the people who upvoted the original list addition. Thats not nice at all, and probably a crime in some places
That was awful! I can't believe someone would say that to someone else even through the anonymity of computer screen. I hope they were banned.
I don't like sloths. Their faces, their long clawed fingers, their slow movements, it all just freaks me out for some reason. I'd rather hold a tarantula than a sloth, and I'm not a spider fan.
my ex went around telling people i had a d i c k the size of a baby's hand but the thing is is that i never ever had s e x w i t h h e r or sleepet with her and when i sleep i sleep with all of my close
Ngl I’m starting to hate Bp
That's sad, this is honestly a really kind and supportive community to me personally
STICKERS/ PAINTING ON BODY/ TATTOOS/ FAKE TATTOOS/ TAPE ON SKIN OR USED /ANYTHING LIKE THAT I HATE THEM!! They are just so gross and I gag and almost puke when I see them and there are stickers everywhere there just so nasty and sticky and ughh one time story time we’ll I was sitting there minding my own business then some gross kid on my bus but this nasty DISGUSTING shiney gold tape near me and I jumped and him and these other girls thought it was so funny that I was “scared” of tape and I was about to puke THEN HE PUT IT ON MY SHIRT and I almost puked I got nauseous and the girls were laughing and I was so grossed out. Later found out the gross boy had a crush on me yeah that’s a no for me.
Honestly everyone loves earth “protect earth” “stop it before the apocalypse” let the apocalypse begin. I’m f*****k I n g ready.
Most of these seem related to being introverted. Us introverts have a lot of things which are uncomfortable we are asked to do (parties, dancing, clubs, alcohol, bars, shopping, etc)., and yeah, extraverts love that stuff. But I get it. I got tired of feeling insecure in social circumstances. The issue is whether you are comfortable with your avoiding social circumstances or not. If you are comfortable and want to just do the tea-chair-cat-book thing, you-do-you. I wasn't comfortable.
Oh my gosh. I hate those giant trucks that drive around town, and everyone in a 7 mile radius can hear their giant a** truck. People think with those giant trucks that they will get all the girls or whatever, but as a female, with a few female friends; a giant truck like that is a big turn off. If you want a girl, get a car that says “I don’t mansplain” “I pay child support on time” “I clean the house” That- that’s how you get a girl. Lol
OH GOD SOCKS AND CROCS AND WEARING PJ PANTS TO SCHOOL- ITS SO WEIRD WHYYYYYY?????? AND EVERYONE ACTS LIKE ITS FINE- *dies*
does talking count..?? and its not just talking, but talking TO PEOPLE (not just being introverted, but plain social anxiety as well)
Big ugly buildings where there once was beautiful open land and vistas for miles. The 'good city fathers' have allowed some creep to put a three story, 200 unit slum way too close to the wall of our age restricted, quiet community. Noise, light and air pollution follows, not to mention crime and vandalism. We now wake to the Beep beep and bang, crash, yelling and 'musick' of the 'construction' (destruction) crews 5 days a week but 24/7 when those ugly buildings are occupied will be worse. There are more empty buildings than homeless in this area, but I guess greed prevents the intelligent use of what's already there.
Most of these seem related to being introverted. Us introverts have a lot of things which are uncomfortable we are asked to do (parties, dancing, clubs, alcohol, bars, shopping, etc)., and yeah, extraverts love that stuff. But I get it. I got tired of feeling insecure in social circumstances. The issue is whether you are comfortable with your avoiding social circumstances or not. If you are comfortable and want to just do the tea-chair-cat-book thing, you-do-you. I wasn't comfortable.
Oh my gosh. I hate those giant trucks that drive around town, and everyone in a 7 mile radius can hear their giant a** truck. People think with those giant trucks that they will get all the girls or whatever, but as a female, with a few female friends; a giant truck like that is a big turn off. If you want a girl, get a car that says “I don’t mansplain” “I pay child support on time” “I clean the house” That- that’s how you get a girl. Lol
OH GOD SOCKS AND CROCS AND WEARING PJ PANTS TO SCHOOL- ITS SO WEIRD WHYYYYYY?????? AND EVERYONE ACTS LIKE ITS FINE- *dies*
does talking count..?? and its not just talking, but talking TO PEOPLE (not just being introverted, but plain social anxiety as well)
Big ugly buildings where there once was beautiful open land and vistas for miles. The 'good city fathers' have allowed some creep to put a three story, 200 unit slum way too close to the wall of our age restricted, quiet community. Noise, light and air pollution follows, not to mention crime and vandalism. We now wake to the Beep beep and bang, crash, yelling and 'musick' of the 'construction' (destruction) crews 5 days a week but 24/7 when those ugly buildings are occupied will be worse. There are more empty buildings than homeless in this area, but I guess greed prevents the intelligent use of what's already there.