Hey Pandas, What Does Your Hair Look Like Right Now?

how bad is it

He mentioned having a play soon and I asked if he was allowed to invite people from outside of his school and he was pretty obviously uncomfortable with the idea so I just spent like 5 minutes backtracking and trying to make sure he knows that he doesn't have to invite me while he insisted that he does actually want me there (it's pretty obvious he doesnt) so it's not that bad but I feel really s****y and I want to give him a break from my b******t

oh yeah i'm sorry about that it doesn't sound fun. maybe give it a night or so to let it cool down, plays definitely come with a lot of stress so it's not because of you.

Alright, thanks. I'm a bit worried that he'll text me after I'm already gone (phone shuts down at nine) and I won't be there to say goodnight. It's really small but I've already made his day worse and I don't want to add to that at all

it may be a good idea to just say goodnight then before your phone shuts off

But that might seem too clingy and I really don't want to overwhelm him idk I'm just really scared I'm going to make him feel worse

how long ago did it happen? if it was long enough you could say it. personally i'm clingy as hell and i wouldn't see that as clingy, and you know him pretty well so if you think it would be better to just leave it then do that

It happened four hours ago. He's never had a problem with my clinginess but also I'm trying to be a less toxic person and I know he's probably a bit upset with me rn and I don't want him to feel obligated to pretend he wants to talk to me

maybe add a short thing saying that but if i were you i would say goodnight

He replied within a second and kept texting so I think that's good!

yeah plays are suuuper stressful i should know cause mine is this week lol so that's good that it didn't seem to be about you

that's awesome

Alright I'll text him now I might just not say good morning tmrw to make up for it? I really don't want to hurt him

alright good luck and let me know how it goes (if you want)

yep. Cause there’s less weight holding it down

yay thats gonna be fun lol

you’re gonna look so cute when your hairs cut (not that you don’t already) i can’t wait to see pictures

i'm trying to get my mom to schedule it as soon as possible

I use curl enhancer in mine go keep it from being a frizzy/flat mess, but it always ends up flat at the end of the day and I need to fluff it up with my hands. Thankfully curly hair is pretty good at bring fluffy

my mom has super curly hair and my dad used to have slightly wavy hair (i think he has a military haircut now so idk) and i got my dad's hair so it's wavy when it dries and curly ish when it's humid but as soon as i brush it it flattens out

Ugh that seem difficult. Your hair still rocks tho

thanks yours rocks even more

Tyyy