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"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Selfishness, rudeness and not liking animals. That's my top 3.

Note: You are off the hook if you don't like animals because of an allergy or a bad experience. The first two are non-negotiable.

Toa Heftiba Report

Final score:

164points

Scagsy

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

I'm selfish and rude, but I love animals. I've been working on the selfish thing for years and don't generally act on it. But my rudeness is still used on people that are rude to me first, it pretty swift and cutting and used in a way to make them reflect on their own rudeness.

29points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Deal breaker - they don't like my dog.
Bigger deal breaker - my dog doesn't like them.

Justin Veenema Report

Final score:

156points

Kitty Carter

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Mixed Reality Portal 2 years ago

Some people have a genuine fear of dogs (and other animals) due to bad experiences at early ages. It doesn't mean they're bad people though. A little understanding and compassion goes a long way.

6points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community People who are incapable of admitting they are wrong no matter how large or small.

Andrej Lišakov Report

Final score:

146points

Kellie Friedberg

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Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago (edited)

A lot of dingbats come to mind: flat earthers, anti-vaxxers, COVID deniers, tRump chumps--

44points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community The inability to discuss or maturely debate. Most things people argue about and get angry over are subjective. You should be able to express your views and opinions without being shut down or criticized in a harsh, hateful manner.
To add on to that, people should just plain listen to one another, given the "speaker" is being respectful.

charlesdeluvio Report

Final score:

133points

Sarah K

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chaotic legal 2 years ago

Yes! Thank you. sometimes I really need to get the what ifs or confusions out and it comes across as arguing. sigh. Sometimes I do get out of hand though in trying to make my point

17points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community 1. Animal abuser
2. Not caring about other people's interests or life
3. They are racist, sexist, or ableist. Pretty much any kind of "ist".
4. Homophobes and transphobes also are no deal.

These types of people will never be my friends.

Mitchel Lensink Report

Final score:

127points

Spikey boi

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MikiTheUnregisteredZoologist 2 years ago

Even Atheist? :(

24points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community People who are unable to apologize or use the term "I apologize and am sorry".

Steve DiMatteo Report

Final score:

115points

Natasha

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KY dog mom 2 years ago

The worst is when someone says, "I'm sorry if you feel....." If you said or did something wrong, apologize for your own actions. Don't apologize for how I feel.

56points

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Lying, especially incompetent bald-faced lying that would insult any person’s intelligence. My childhood was so full of self-righteous liars that it is a real trigger point for me.

Jametlene Reskp Report

Final score:

107points

Earl Grey

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chaotic legal 2 years ago

aweome we'd be great cause I never lie (I can't find that pinnocio emoji . . .)

10points

Not vaccinating.

Final score:

79points

Piet Puk

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Monday 2 years ago

Amen. Unless you have a compromised immune system. That I can understand.

24points

#10

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community People who use excuses to justify their bad behavior. "But I'm like this because of XYZ, you understand, right?" No, no we don't.

Hello I'm Nik Report

Final score:

78points

Natasha

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Amy Taylor 2 years ago

THISSSS!!! I can't tell you how many times I hear people blame their shitty adult behavior on their childhoods. Mine was no picnic and I had to grow up and stop using that as an excuse to make poor decisions as an adult.

25points

#11

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Personally: Trump lover, lying, smoking, bad hygiene.

Things that I'd love to see changed in the US: attitudes about climate change, severe problems with education, and government subsidies to huge corporations that don't freakin' need them.

Reza Mehrad Report

Final score:

76points

scared but determined

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Madeleine Flowers 2 years ago

We just need some little kid to go up and be like, "Oh Putin, you're so amazing, I look up to you!" Then take out a knife and slit his throat. He chokes and dies, falling down, and the little kid says, "And now I look down on you. Like I always have." At this point, I'm not even above blackmail, Putin needs to die.

26points

#12

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Looking down on those less fortunate than you. Just because someone is struggling (doesn’t matter in what regard, physically, mentally, financially, etc.), we shouldn’t look down upon them. It doesn’t necessarily make them an intrinsically bad person. Be kind.

petr sidorov Report

Final score:

76points

Brian

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censorshipsucks 2 years ago

why a tarot card deck as the image?

25points

#13

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Double standards.

Alina Sofia Report

Final score:

74points

June

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Jefferson Selvy 2 years ago

Without double standards, some people would have no standards at all

36points

#14

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Rudeness, there is no need for it at any time, even if the other person is an a**, always be kind. Kindness winds them up even more, it's great.

Andre Hunter Report

Final score:

73points

oldandexhausted79

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kcanded 2 years ago

Absolutely. I love remaining calm when people are turning red with frustration/rage.

8points

#15

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Not respecting my time.

Aron Visuals Report

Final score:

72points

Malek Oberto

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Firstname Lastname 2 years ago

If you are constantly late, I don't want an apology. You obviously know that you take longer, so start sooner. Making me wait around for you will only make me feel like I'm not a priority, and I don't want to waste my time with that.

33points

#16

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Dehumanizing anyone

Markus Spiske Report

Final score:

72points

Monica Michelle

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Small_Mushroom 2 years ago

Fr tho my brother thought it would be ok to dehumanize me for having autism he pisses me off

19points

#17

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Not respecting my space, both physically and with my time. I'm someone who needs a lot of time to myself, to relax and recharge my social batteries, and while I do want to spend time with you, I also need you to understand that I can't give you every free minute I have.

Greg Rakozy Report

Final score:

68points

ThePanInPanda

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Kate Jones 2 years ago

I totally agree, especially if you are older. I'm 40 and so at this point, I've just gotten used to my own company and if I have someone else it's because I want to, not because I'm desperate or need them. And while I could make room for someone else and compromise with certain things, I would want my own bedroom and my own space. I like being able to have time at the end of the night to myself. I like stretching out in bed. He can go play video games in his room or do what he wants to do. I can read and do my hobbies, watch what I want on tv, etc. Sex isn't the issue- there would be plenty and we could have a nice nap together and cuddle here and there but I would just want to have space of my own to decompress at the end of the night. I don't know why people have to sleep in the same bed. Most couples I know hate it especially as they get older. They take it personally when it's just about comfort.

23points

#18

→Rudeness to and ignoring of service workers.
→Racism, sexism, intolerance

Final score:

66points

Anna Purnell

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Luna Crow 2 years ago

Came here with the same thoughts, thank you for saying this

5points

Tingey Injury Law Firm Report

#19

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Casual lawbreaking. Rifer now than ever before, if someone has no respect for a simple set of rules that civilized people are supposed to abide by, they're going to treat everything and everyone in their world (including you) with the same lack of respect.

Final score:

65points

Peej Maybe

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

Depends on the law. Arbitrary laws that exist for no reason other than to give someone power other someone else NEED to be broken. The law here states that you cannot carry 'ANY article which has a blade OR is sharply pointed'. In other words, it is technically illegal to carry a pencil.

27points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#20

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community If they've ever cheated. I can't trust a person like that.

Marcos Paulo Prado Report

Final score:

60points

colorfultragedy

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Jefferson Selvy 2 years ago

Always remember, if he/she will cheat with you, he/she will cheat on you

35points

#21

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community A weird one - but since this is opinion - being undependable.

Ashley Jurius Report

Final score:

60points

Zophra

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You cant stop the truth 2 years ago

This is a big one. It's why my first longterm broke up. They were just unreliable.

24points

#22

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community 1) Disrespecting or insulting a person because of their race. I have never once in my life had a single negative thought in my head because of this. I realize that we are a bit different, and I truly enjoy the experience of learning.
2) Disrespecting or insulting a lady. I consider myself a true gentleman. The term does confuse me a bit though. If a man goes too far all gentleness flies out the window. More than once I have ended up in the ER because of this. (Them as well, of course).
3) Disrespecting or insulting a person because of their sexual orientation. My Uncle Mike was gay and was far more of a true father to me than the neglectful/abusive thing that impregnated my mother. He bought me my first wristwatch, taught me how to drive a car and taught me to believe in myself and have true self-respect.
4) Disrespecting or insulting a person because of homelessness. I have done literally hundreds of hours of volunteer work for them, feeding them primarily (ex Chef) but many other ways as well. I have spoken and gotten close to many of them, and the overwhelming majority are there because they have simply fallen on hard times such as losing a job. Others unfortunately have mental issues, and others (ladies primarily) are simply trying to escape abusive relationships.
I admit that I am a bit of a rare breed. I tend to care about others more than I care about myself.

Sep Report

Final score:

59points

Mistralok

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donald ready 2 years ago

*Tips your fedora*

45points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#23

People who are too materialistic and like expensive stuff and can't even afford it, people who glorify Kardashians.

Final score:

57points

Romella Maramag-Perez

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TiaCalenture 2 years ago

Why are they famous?

30points

#24

Trying to ‘cure’ someone with mental illness by putting them in situations that make it worse

Final score:

50points

molly beaird

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ObsidianAce_ 2 years ago

Oh you have social anxiety? Let’s force you to socialize under stress to “train” you!

18points

#25

People who think things like shoplifting are a joke. I get that, more than even, people wanna stick it to the Man...but jeez guys, it's the little guys that catch hell for your amusement. Knock it off.

And being rude to service workers in general.

Final score:

49points

Honey Bee

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Vetus Vespertilio 2 years ago

My bellwether for new people is how they treat the people they don’t have to be nice to.

26points

#26

1. Lack of compassion. 2. Corporal punishment. 3. Backpedaling/making terrible excuses. 4. Gum smacking (misophonia) 5. Terrible bias 6. Toxic masculinity/femininity 7. Litter bugs 8. Ppl who spread lies/misinformation on medicine/science.

Final score:

48points

A Jones

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Freya the Wanderer 2 years ago

Several years ago I heard from a man who was hiring an administrative assistant. Candidate A was better qualified than Candidate B, but Candidate A chewed gum "like a deranged cow" and loudly smacked and snapped it all through the interview. Candidate B got the job.

15points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#27

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Lying. Honesty is the only policy unless it's a joke, but don't forget to let everyone in on it afterward.

Taras Chernus Report

Final score:

47points

wyledawg

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Nicole Weymann 2 years ago

Lying gets vilyfied a lot, but honesty really is not always the best solution. Very often being polite/friendly is far more important than telling the truth, especially if an honest input can't change a situation anyway. On the long run/important issues honesty is the way. On Christmas when mom just spent six hours working her butt off in the kitchen for the family and asks "how do you like the roastbeef" it's NOT the time to be honest and tell her you've had better.

35points

#28

"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community Turning everything into extremes and using Ad hominem argumentations. Way too common lately, though

Eric Ward Report

Final score:

47points

J. F.

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Zophra 2 years ago

Unfortunately, can be found a bit too much on BP

17points

#29

Smoking tobacco. It killed my father and I just can't handle it. It's still a trigger to this day.

Final score:

46points

Charlie Birkner

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Kate Jones 2 years ago

While I don't have emotional issues with cigarette smoking (although I would prefer not being with someone who does), I'm at a point I wouldn't want to be with someone who smokes pot all the time. Occasionally is fine but I feel like everybody smokes so much pot these days. I'm so tired of having to deal with potheads. It's literally everyone I know. Can you not go one day without being high? Can I go a week without my clothes smelling like skunk? Can we have a conversation without you being stoned? And can you not complain to me about being broke or how you can't afford rent when you spend 50 bucks a week or more on pot? It's just frustrating. You aren't cool because you collect bongs or know literally everything chemically about pot but can't hold down a job for more than a year. Because keeping a well paying job isn't worth quitting smoking to you. I'm just tired of the whole pot culture thing.

15points

#30

People who don't accept others for being themselves. No matter their color, gender, preference (in anything really), background, appearance, style, ANYTHING. We are all people. Why can't so many people except that?

Final score:

37points

I'm.Not.Normal

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Ry Guy 2 years ago

I have to disagree with you. Some people are awful and I don't accept them for that.

45points