We all need to do this sometimes, and I will attempt to give advice.

#1

I've been stuck at home for months now- classes, exams, classes, more exams, mom's hectic work schedule, etc etc. I want to go somewhere with my family but this college timing and my parents' working hours are so mismatched aaaarrrghhhh My summer vacation starts just when my mom's ends. I. Just. Want. To. Go. Somewhere. That. Is. not. My. House.
Thank you for providing this page and listening to my rants.

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LinaLovesBooks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, just run around screaming in your room ( a method tested by me) then go to a park and unwind during your summer break.

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I'm so grateful you have this post, I have been wanting to unload but I don't know who to. I don't want to be judged.
My poor parakeet, Brittany [my yellow one] is sick. I feel so bad! I feel like I messed up my part and that is why she got sick. She has been sick for two days now. She seems to have gotten some-what better. But I'm very scared still because she does not react to my hand or when I approach her cage. I think she might have gone blind. I had to show her the food and water bowl at first. She refused to be touched and moved. I love her so much and I'm trying not to break down in front of my family. We can't go to the vet either. All this is making me feel dumb and very upset. I tend to her and try so hard not to break down. I went outside to cry earlier and pray. I am a mess and I am trying to do so much already. And now my baby is sick and my heart hurts from all this pressure already and now I feel like one more thing happens and I am gonna release all my emotions like a tidal wave.
Thank you for reading my long submission. -aw

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LinaLovesBooks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey there. I am so sorry about Brittany, and I really hope she feels better. You should really talk to your family, even if it is hard. As you talk to them, start to let your emotion trickle out. Get comfort, and comfort Britanny ( and your other parakeet) Let me know if there is anything I can do too help.

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#3

I'm just having a really hard time. I am trans nonbinary, and I am really struggling. Nobody uses my correct pronouns, and I have a lot of gender dysphoria

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LinaLovesBooks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ma lawd that took a lot of courage to post. If it is your family who does not correctly use your pronouns, then use a slide presentation. Try wearing a shirt that has "THEY" written in obnoxiously large letters. Finally, check out the Adesso Lorenzo community. They are super sweet and make tons of content on YouTube to help with stuff like that.

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I feel really nervous about the summer without school. I totally ghosted my neighborhood friends. Well, 1 friend and the siblings don't really care about me, and 1 girl hates me because I am queer. I didn't mean to, but it just occurred to me that I've been spending so much time doing homework and studying that I totally forgot to hang out with them for the ENTIRE school year! I am a terrible friend! I noticed that it really helped with my mental health when I didn't go back for the year though. The friend usually dumps all of her worries on me and complains about things constantly. She yells a lot too. It really doesn't help that I have a fear of loud noises. I don't know whether I accidentally did something really good, or really bad. I am lean toward the bad. Am I a bad friend? Should I apologize and go be her friend again? I feel so lost.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are most certainly not a bad friend. School is incredibly stressful (believe me, I completely understand that part) Maybe ask her how accidentally ghosting made her feel, and if you work that out, talk to her about the yelling issue. See if you can get her to calm down when you are present. Yes, you should stay friends if you share interests and can make each other laugh. Also try using a planner so that the accidental ghosting does not happen again.

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I don’t want to say this but I hope the bored panda staff will allow me to keep thinking my own thoughts

I support trump conservatives and republicans
I believe that liberals are infecting all of social media while conservatives and republicans are being silenced by twitter Facebook and TikTok
I just hope I don’t get silenced or blocked for saying this

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is okay that you have a different opinion and it takes a whole lot of courage to do that. Just make sure you are not hurting anyone, and you can say those opions.