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I'm being forced to be in a relationship and I don't know how to get out of it. I need help, please.
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#1
That's disturbing. What kind of a relationship? Is it "romantic"? How are you forced? Physically, mentally, verbally? In any case, if you think it's dangerous to you, you need to get out ASAP. If you're being forced physically, call the police, tell your family, if it's safe. If you know you can't escape just by telling, ask for others in your background to help you. I don't know, really.
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#2
We need to know more so that advice can be relevant.
Who is forcing you? If possible, talk to them, tell them you are feeling pressured and that it is making you uncomfortable/[insert appropriate emotion].
If there is a cultural element to this (eg. arranged marriage) Seek out a trusted person within your group who both understands the traditional values but also has demonstrated some independence. They may be able to offer support when talking to other family and peers.
If the person forcing you is the person who wants to have the relationship, the answer could be anything from farting really offensively in their presence to getting a restraining order...
Talk to someone who loves you- tell them that the situation is making you unhappy and that you need their help.
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#3
In my opinion i would think of who you have to be forced to date and what type of person he or she likes and do the opposite if what they like and maybe they will break up with you? sorry im bad at giving advice i tried.
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#4
Well this will be difficult bc I don't know the full story. If you are being forced romantically in an emotional way you should ask people for help...maybe see a therapist. If it is physically you might need to inform the police. If it is more of a friendship or even a gang you might want to try and cut all ties to them...if that doesn't work get a restraining order you could even report the for harrassment.
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#5
It really depends on exactly how you are being forced. If you are being forced into doing things you don't want to do, call the police or get someone you trust involved. If you aren't necessarily being endangered by this relationship then talk to the person forcing you and let them know how you feel and tell them you just don't want to be in a relationship with them. Hope this helps!!
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#6
i would act toaly creepy like a cultist or something, doing rituals and the like. ( i did that once to avoid a person, it was succesful)
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#7
Maybe you should tell them that you're not interested. If that doesn't work you should try to stay away from them, or even call the police
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#8
umm...just call 991 and tell them orrrrrrr you can just...call the pol-oh...but still try calling 991
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