Hey Pandas, How Did A Relationship Of Yours End? (Closed)

Please give me a juicy one about a toxic relationship or cheating or something. I need to hear these 🤪

A good one: We were together for 6 years & it was always good, but one day we had a really deep talk about what we wanted & both realized we wanted very different things. We were sad because we both loved each other (& still do) but realized that we were better being supportive friends- and we still are that.
A bad one: I was dating someone once for about a year when one day I came over & out of the blue he sat me down, looked me in the eye, & says ‘I knew you didn’t date very much so I thought I’d make you a kind of game. And now that you’ve told me that you love me, I feel like I’ve won the game & I don’t need you around anymore.’ I’ll never understand why people choose to be cruel.

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Mr.Kris

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Hanene 2 years ago

Don't worry, you never deserved them anyways. Keep on slaying!

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We were together for just over 3 years. Things went sour after a year but neither of us, being young and immature, knew how to be alone. Finally on a church trip out of town, he fell and broke his leg. His mom rushed to the hospital and got mad I was sitting on the bed. I had called my then-guy best friend to be there with me so there was limited space to sit. His mom yelled for me to “get the hell off that bed!” I was embarrassed and my best friend invited me to have dinner at his house that night. I realized I was tired of all of the s**t my bf and his family had put me through and left him for my then guy best friend, and we dated for 4 years. Found out later my ex was constantly cheating on me and lied he wasn’t a virgin. He was just like I was so I wasted my v card on him.

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Mrs.King0315

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Leslie (they/them) 2 years ago

That’s sucks! I’m sorry you went through that!

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So in 8TH F*****G GRADE I was dating some polyamorous b***h who transitioned from female to male and changed names like 40 times but also bought me something for my birthday and then brok up with me ON MY BIRTHDAY AND STILL EXPECTED TO COME TP MY HOUSE TO DROP IT OFF. I told him to go f**k himself and then told him to never talk to me again. he ended up dating everyone in our friend group. I am actually dating one of their other ex's rn.
#trauma bonding lol
Kidding we never talk about them cuz it was a bad time in both of our lives.

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That midget Jo :)

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Leslie (they/them) 2 years ago

Why does this sound like exactly what happened with my friends at the same age!!?

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Juicy? Get ready.
So this is a copy and paste from my answer to another question

but…

One of my friends fell like head over heels for this guy. They became girlfriend and boyfriend. Then someone who liked the boy photocopied pictures of the girl with someone else. The boy saw them and got angry and ended it. Then the girl got angry. And so the girl wanted revenge over her broken heart. So she revealed secrets the boy had trusted her with when they were together (like of how he didn’t agree with his friends but wants too afraid to leave them. And other deeper secrets. And embarrassing and sad and all sorts of secrets). Everyone believed her, and it was sort of the truth. So he was teased every day. Then one day he was attacked. He went to the hospital. The girl visited him since she was still madly in love sorta. Anyway she found out about the photoshopped photos and everything. She found that she had made his life a living hell because of an understanding. And I wish I could end this story with a “and they lived happily ever after,” but that’s all that had happened so far.

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HelloWorld

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Leslie (they/them) 2 years ago

😬

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Self esteem issues wiith my looks. Stoner chick. Meet this really good looking stoner guy. We're together 12 years with loads of immature drama. I fail a pee test for a job I really wanted. Asked if we could, as a team, drop drugs and booze so that we both had better opportunities available to us. Sure. No open use anymore but I knew when he was tweaking and could smell when he'd been drinking and both those things made him paranoid and deceitful. I said couples counseling or bye. He said sure. Nothing. Right after he played drunken Santa and treated everyone like dirt, i drove us home. Sat up all night thinking "is this the rest of my life?". On the drive to my brother's the next day, the song (rem?) Superman came on. Right there, on the hiway, I said I was moving out and that i wasn't going to argue anymore. Anyone who knows me, and he did, knows that once I make a choice, it's done. Yes. This was the best, hardest, most right bad thing I ever did. My life changed from dread to joy personally and professionally.

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A girl

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Leslie (they/them) 2 years ago

I’m sorry that happened, although I’m glad you were able to get out of it, and that your life is much better.

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My last one was terrible and I'm long past it. Just don't want to go there.
My first boyfriend, I started feeling like he was being too mean and getting too aggressive. I was only 13 or 14 at the time, and some of our peers were making fun of us, despite that they were already dating. But I guess this guy was considered uncool. But so was I. Not really the point, though.
A month into being a couple I just didn't want to be in that relationship anymore. I was tired of him coming over on his bike at 7am, before my folks left for work, just so he could watch the same damn movie in the rec room. I wanted to enjoy the summer. He got me in big trouble at least 3 times during that month.
He gave me a damn ring with no context. Just left me guess what it was for with never an answer. I figured to myself it was a nice gift but didn't put any heavy meaning into it.
I called him up one day and dumped his abusive, possessive, obsessive a*s.
He came by to ask for the ring back. Some friends said I should have thrown in the grass and make him search for it. Tbh, I didn't want him hanging around on my property in a moody state. I just gave it to him awkwardly and went about my day. No tears or hurt feelings from me.

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BadCat

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Hey Pandas, How Did A Relationship Of Yours End? (Closed)

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