Hello there :)
I just wanted to say thank you so much for not running away and staying strong through all this. I think you’re really brave. Don’t give up, keep working hard and I’m sure things will get better.
Your family sounds like jerks, they abandoned you when you needed help the most.
You are not a terrible mother.
I don’t have much advice that can help you because I haven’t gone through any similar situations, but your story touched my heart and I just wanted to write this to say hang in there

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Well I was going to say see what benefits/welfare you can get but you live in America so there probably isn't much. I'm cringing at saying this but try the local church they love helping people. You may get the God talk but food is food. Big ((HUG))

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Hey mom! I'm sorry to hear that, but I know you're not alone. I can't relate but please prioritize you and your children, even if it means rehoming your cats. I can tell by this post you have a big loving heart, and your struggles do not define you or the mother you are. Your emotions are completely valid. Financially, I'd look into any government assistance as possible.

Please don't forget to take care of yourself, your grandma and children love you. Even if you're struggling to make ends meet, know that you're doing the right choice.

I hope this helps, and I'll pray for you and your family. I know you'll get out of this. Us pandas are always here for you ❤️

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