Do you prefer being alone? Has the universe spat upon you? Are you cursed? Let us know your situation if you so see fit.

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Crushing on a fictional character….

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Cypress
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I relate to this on another level, there’s like three of them right now.

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    #2

    Original poster panda here. I am cursed to spend the remainder of my life alone.

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    TV Junkie
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refer to myself as "terminally single." I wish it weren't pushed on people that you need to have a partner to be happy. If I meet the right person, great. If not, oh well. Friends and family are great, and you get to do what you want (almost) all the time!

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    #3

    Single but thinking about asking at prom? 🌹🤞

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    Average Chicago sports fan
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that’s a good idea. Idk if I can get a prom date tho. But good luck anyways.

    #4

    Nope! First year in a (good) relationship on the 14th, so I'm excited!

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    #5

    Yep! Single and not sorry about it.🤣 I will be going to see my cousins play basketball, and honestly, it sounds a bazillion times more fun than doing something romantic.

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    #6

    Yep I'm a single Pringle.

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    #8

    I got my puppy,does that count? Hes cute

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    #9

    53, Widower. The dating pool is unreal small as all the best singles my age have someone already

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    #10

    I'm not single. I'm married but my husband has plans with his friends... because wow honestly he didn't notice the date when he made them... so in a sense I'm single. I may go to a bar and be cute, have a fun night out :)

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    #11

    I am but I'm crushing really hard on this guy and one of my other friends says that he seems interested in me...
    I just hope he doesn't have a girlfriend.

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    #12

    100%. All my friends date, but I honestly don’t think anyone has ever liked me romantically in my brief existence

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    #13

    Nope not cursed but blessed. Blessed to have a guy friend that I enjoy spending time with. We spend time at each other's homes and take vacations together then go home to our own place. He is very good to me. (I guess the term is f**k buddies?) I am almost 70 and he is 65yrs old, so we are kinda past the age where we are looking to date.

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    #14

    Yes, recently divorced. I decided to get divorced last Valentines day, she was spending it with her boyfriend, and i was taking care of the children. Now, one year later i life with my children in a house with incredible seaview. And i dont have nights anymore were i worry were she is. I am in a good place. Someday i will go out and see what is possible for me. I wish to find a new person by my side. But i will not Marry. This Valentines day is a happy day since it means freedom.

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    #15

    Thankfully Single this year. Not in happy state of mind right now so don't feel like it. Hopefully by next year's valentine's day I'll be better/happier state of mind & be able share my happiness with someone

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love this outlook.👍 No need for extra pressure if you are struggling.

    #16

    Yep, mostly cause I'm trans and gay. Even if I knew any other gay guys, I'd doubt they'd date a trans person. Unfortunately this does not stop me from having crushes on the straight guys

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    Caligo
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know me personally, and a few of my male friends, have no issue with dating men, no matter their cis or trans. I wish you luck in your future!

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    #17

    Yes, very. But me and my other friends are throwing a single pringle party.

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    #18

    I am single. And I’m good with that. I have been married and divorced. At this point, I would rather be alone than have to deal with someone else’s issues. I am often alone, but never really feel lonely. I have a great family and wonderful friends, and a magnificent support system. I don’t need a partner to make me happy. It’s not the partner who makes you happy, it’s your satisfaction with your own life! And frankly, my divorce was due to some very bad things that I did not know for 9 years with my husband. Nine years! You can never REALLY know someone, and frankly, I can’t go through that again. I have my kids and my happiness. :)

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    Sparkle
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the goal right here - being happy and content with your own life and creating your own happiness. I'm sorry for what you went through, but good on you for rising from the ash stronger and better than ever!

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    #19

    I am single, no date for Valentine's Day. It's been 11 years since my last relationship ended, 11 years since I was last kissed. I came out as a lesbian in 2021 and despite using tons of dating apps I've had very few dates, and half of those cancel as I'm on the way 🥺 I just turned 35, I want to settle down already! Where are the women who value a deep, authentic connection!?

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    #20

    Yup. I’m aroace, so Valentines Day means nothing to me. I do like the pink heart decorations everywhere though! So cute!

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    #22

    This Valentine’s Day I’m not single, I’m in a happy relationship with my awesome fiancé, I couldn’t be happier.

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    #23

    My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, exactly 11 days before valentines day. So i think the universe spat upon me

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    #24

    Yep 😢

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    #26

    Nö. But me and my wife don't celebrate it. It is a scam and there are more importend days in our lifes.

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    #27

    I'm currently single but I actually think there's a sliver of hope that I won't be on Valentine's day. I'm probably getting my hopes up for no reason, but my crush might just reciprocate feelings for me.

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    #28

    Nope, and I'm fine with it. I'm not actively seeking a relationship, and the thought of maintaining one kind of exhausts me. When the time comes, I'll know.

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    #29

    suffering single here. not by choice. holidays suck. just a tiny bit bitter here.

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    #30

    My almost 30-year-old son who has never dated before has a girlfriend for Valentine's Day this year! She sent my husband and me a box of Crumbl Cookies to thank us for raising our son to be a fine young man! To those singles out there, wait for someone who appreciates you. In the meantime, enjoy the freedom and take the opportunity to better yourself.

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    #32

    Yup, im a single girl. I want to ask out this guy Cory, but I get nervous just thinking about it :/ My school dance is today, but im going with my furry friend Kyler. But that just makes problems, cuz some people think he is my date. I need advice because my closest way of flirting with Cory is smacking his hat off his head. Can i get some dating advice??

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    #33

    im single, me and my ex broke up a week before Halloween and we actually got together last valentines day so.....but my friends are forcing me to ask my crush out the the dance on Monday, pray for me.

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    #34

    Well, sort of. My boyfriend lives 5000 miles away 😕

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    #35

    Nope, but I've been planning to break up with my current boyfriend (he's my first "official" boyfriend) because I've lost my feelings for him. I feel really bad about still being with him because he deserves so much better

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    #36

    Very much single. Been trying to date for the last 3 years. Not easy when you are short, almost 40, trans-male (pre-surgical), and bald. It's sad that people still care about what is between the legs more than what is between the ears and in the heart.

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    #37

    Single but crushing 😭

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    #38

    Yes, because I have decided that I'm no longer going to settle for someone that's not right for me just because I'm lonely.

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    #39

    do you mean am i not dependent on someone else to make me happy.?

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    #40

    Yeah I’m single asf. Haven’t found anyone because that isn’t my priority. Work and fitness are my top priorities.

    Also I have a hatred of Valentine’s Day.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a good reason to hate Valentine’s Day. Why all the hard candies? Pain in the a** to chew on. You can celebrate love everyday. Valentines are literally the worst. It’s basically a half baked thank you note. My hatred might come from being single but also I find it as a cheesy and idiotic plus unnecessary holiday. Plus the decorations are so gaudy.

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    #41

    I'll be alone, don't deserve love

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    #42

    Been together for almost 19 years. I truly hate Valentines Day. It is so commercial. And it makes sensitive people that happen to be single miserable. Like, there isn’t anything wrong with you just because you are single on one day in the year.

    My husband likes it though. So, I got that unlucky draw…

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    #43

    single and also a third wheel but i'm loving it. personally i want to date someone but it's complicated. but yesterday my two best friends started dating and it's so cute cause they're separately texting me telling me how much they like each other.

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    #44

    Yep, very single. Knowing how I am, I've probably just been too dense when people were hitting on me, lol

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    #45

    Yep, very single. Knowing how I am, I've probably just been too dense when people were hitting on me, lol

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    #46

    Yep, I am, and it was just my luck that the guy I asked out yesterday had somehow managed to get a girlfriend not even 10 minutes before I asked him. So yeah, I'm definitely single.

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    #47

    Yep, I am, and it was just my luck that the guy I asked out yesterday had somehow managed to get a girlfriend not even 10 minutes before I asked him. So yeah, I'm definitely single.

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    #48

    Yeah, single as the sun on a bright and sunny summer day

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    #49

    First Valentine's day after I got married. Hubby is working out of the country but arrives the 14th at 23:00 or so... Celebrating on the 15th is always cheaper so I guess it's still a win?

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    #50

    Yes. I got broken up with on the 6th. Sucks to be him though lol.

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    #51

    No, I'm married, but kinda doubting we will celebrate, haha.

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    #52

    Broke up with my ex a week ago. Just wasn't working out, and we didn't want to be our way into valentines day.

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    #53

    I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday.

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    #54

    I am and I have a crush who knows but she’s very indirect about that lol

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    #55

    Single....not by choice.
    I believe that finding that special person just doesn't exist for everyone.
    #Eternallysingle

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    #56

    Yes I am despite having like four crushes at once. Three on my friends and one on a girl from summer camp. Late post tho im sorry

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    #57

    Was chatting with someone on Quotev, and we decided to date anatomically so we could say we were taken for Valentine's day.

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