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Hey LGBTQ+ Pandas, What Do You Hate People Asking Or Telling You? (Closed)

What do you hate people asking or telling you if you are LGBTQ?

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#1

“So you like to f**k pans?” -pansexual part

“Sooo. You’re just confused? You can’t be more than one gender” - Genderfluid part.

Like Jesus, Karen. Just let me be a bunch of hypersexual, over eager lizards in a trench coat having an identity crisis.

Final score:

6points

ghost/mylo (he/she/they)

dayedin (he/she/they) (Submission author) 2 years ago

I forgot one- I’m polyamorous. I often get funny looks from people who have seen me with multiple partners, and they usually ask if I’m cheating on one with the other one when with only one partner at a time. I’m aware I cannot legally marry BOTH my partners. But just let me be happy. My heart is big enough to equally love two people at the same time, so let me do so in peace. - a bunch of lizards in a trench coat having an identity and gender crisis out-

15points

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#2

People informing me that "your gender is how you are at birth!" I don't care, and I still perceive myself as female.

Final score:

4points

Horten Ho-229 (she/her)

Saturn Rings 2 years ago

Then you are female. No matter what anyone else says, nobody knows your body like you do.

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#3

Some guy I know thinks that lesbians grow mustaches and that straight women can't have facial hair.
Just the lesbian women.
He doesn't realize everyone can have hair growing on their face
Just. The. Lesbian. Women.

Final score:

4points

Shagun Srivastava

Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

*snort*... i'm Neptunic, i'm EXTRA lesbian... (look it up)... lots of pimples, no hair... *Burst out into super loud laughter*

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#4

Never happened to me but my friend was lesbian and someone said “oh you lesbian so your just trying to be a boy?”

Final score:

3points

McTrash (They/them)

eyeless sans 2 years ago

huh???

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#5

ThAtS nOt WhAt ThE lOrD jEsUs ChRiSt MaDe YoU fOr.

i'm only 15 man and all I was doing was wear a a shirt that had a rainbow on it and it said proud. What am I doing wrong. I DONT EVEN GO TO F*****G CHURCH. I WASNT EVEN WEARING IT!!!!!! I WAS BUYING IT AT KOHL'S WHEN IT HAPPENED 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Final score:

3points

That midget Jo :)

dayedin (he/she/they) 2 years ago

I hate when this happens as well. I'm 15 as well, and mostly aethiest. Besides, 'God' is an all powerful deity. A being on a whole other plane. There is no reason to objectively gender something that, from a logical perspective, would be anything and everything, including all genders. While I'm at it, the Bible says nothing against homosexuality. What it does say is a man can not 'SA' another man, and a man may not sleep with boy. Meaning r**e and pedophilia, not a man sleeping with a consenting man. Most people like this will also argue: "Well you're not whole and holy anymore, so you'll go to hell." One of the bible's most preached ideals is that God will love you no matter what. That this being sent it's son to die for us, they loved us so much. So do you REALLY THINK AN ALL POWERFUL DOETY IS GONNA CARE IM GENDERFLUID AND THAT I LIKE ALL GENDERS? all power

10points

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#6

The science jokes about asexuality.

Final score:

2points

Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

wdym?

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#7

I'm sorry you had to hear things like this....some people should really learn to keep their mouth shut. I wish the best to all of you, take care, you are amazing ;)

Final score:

2points

Eline (Submission author) 2 years ago

Sorry, i wanted to leave a comment, and add an answer instead..............gosh, i'm dumb sometimes.

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#8

"Ew, you want to be in a relationship with multiple people?" There's two things wrong with this. One, polyromanticism and polyamory are two different things. Polyamory is what people confuse me for. I am not interested in a polyamorous relationship, just one partner is good for me. I am polyromantic (asexual) meaning I feel romantic attraction to most but not all genders. So they are not the same. Secondly, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being polyamorous. I don't think it matters how big of a relationship circle you are in, Polyamorous people are valid.

Final score:

1point

Hxllokxty (They/it)

Saturn Rings 2 years ago

You are valid. Do not resist your validness

5points

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#9

I'm trans but also like feminine things and I hate people thinking I'm faking or just being dramatic.

Final score:

1point

ThatNerdZoe 1 year ago

I'm genderfluid and haven't heard this yet thankfully, except in my own brain :,)

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#10

Not me but my friend (A) got bullied when she/they were dating another female. This one idiot(B) said he was dating her gf (we'll call her C) and then when A tried to tell him that he didn't bother her, he said that he didn't speak Spanish and doesn't understand her...
Just because she is Mexican.
He's at another school now, thankfully.

Final score:

1point

TheHalloweenTeen

#11

Little bit of background, I'm a trans guy but I used to be a "girly girl". People always say "omg, you had long hair!" and comments about my appearance changing. I don't mind questions, just please be respectful

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0points

Anonymousplease

️‍MushroomAce️‍ 2 years ago

My parents wont accept me, im afraid if i tell them im experimenting with genderfluid/non-binary-ness (???) theyll disagree and say i am a girl and i will stay that way.

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#12

‘So which one of you is the boy & which one is the girl?’

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0points

Saturn Rings 2 years ago (edited)

Stfu and leave people alone (This is referring to the homophobes btw)

3points

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#13

People telling me and my boyfriend “Ya’ll are both woman, you will never be able to change your gender, blah blah blah”

Final score:

0points

Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

lol yeah no (your answer to them)

1point

#14

Well one of them is ,whenever I saw I've got a gf they don't belive me ,and tell me to kiss her ,so I'm like, gladly ,and then they say ew,just after they congratulate their female freinds on kissing their boyfreinds and aw it ,IM SO CONFUSED IT HAPPENES EVERY DAY

Final score:

0points

By Deleted User

️‍MushroomAce️‍ 2 years ago

I'm sorry you have to experience it. Remember you are valid.

5points

#15

I told my sister I was pansexual and she was like. "Ummmmmm ok??? I found it weird you like pan's but like you do you girl" it was a joke but it's annoying

Final score:

0points

That midget Jo :)

Saturn Rings 2 years ago

It’s not a funny joke, some polysexuals have been calling themselves plysexual to avoid being called polyamorus. It’s not funny so leave pansexual, polysexuals and everyone else tf alone

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#16

“You’re too smart to be gay” News flash jackass, everyone can be gay.

Also the whole “oh you’re pronouns are she/they? Why? Pick one”

Anyway, you all are all great for supporting yourself and others. 😁

Final score:

0points

Grudge-holding Treefrog

𝙱𝚘𝚛𝚎𝚍 𝙱𝚒 𝙿𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚊 2 years ago

Once someone told me, "you used to be smart, but now your gay"

6points

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McTrash (They/them)

Sup y’all’s!I’m McTrash I am a minor living in the US my pronouns are they/them please! I love listening to music (particularly alternative rock) playing acoustic guitar (Im a beginner and i know all natural notes, and 5 chords on it lol) Im also a squirrel and coyote therian -⃝⃤ And im Jewish, if you have any problem with that leave please <3 Anywho, night night, good morning, or just hello, wherever/whenever you are in ze world!(Pfp made by PotatoLord on picrew!)

Sup y’all’s!I’m McTrash I am a minor living in the US my pronouns are they/them please! I love listening to music (particularly alternative rock) playing acoustic guitar (Im a beginner and i know all natural notes, and 5 chords on it lol) Im also a squirrel and coyote therian -⃝⃤ And im Jewish, if you have any problem with that leave please <3 Anywho, night night, good morning, or just hello, wherever/whenever you are in ze world!(Pfp made by PotatoLord on picrew!)

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Hi there! I'm Gabrielė, but you can also catch me responding to Gab, Gabi, Gabert, or Gabe – take your pick. Professionally, I'm the senior community manager over at Bored Panda, helping people share their awesome work and connecting artists with a worldwide audience. Beyond work, you'll catch me traveling, listening to vinyl and diving into movies, art exhibitions, and concerts. I'm a culture buff at heart, always eager to explore and embrace the richness of the human experience.

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Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

I couldn't post because it was cosed but i wanted to add one. My family was playing kahoot and i made my name "(so and so) 🌈🏳️‍🌈" and my dad turns to me and says, annoyed, "why do you HAVE to put rainbows on EVERYTHING? Are you gay or something?" and screws up his nose. I'm scared so i say it's because i support the community and i love rainbows, but the snorts and ignores me for the rest of the game. Then the next game i make my user the same but ONLY rainbows and say "How do you like my username, huh?" he just growls and rolls his eyes and says he "wasn't saying gay is bad" but he "doesnt want me to be"... also a few weeks later, i was online shopping for Pride stickers because i had money from Christmas and my mum finds some and i go to look but oh thy're regular rainbows tha are the ones for kids where the rainbow isn't even in the right order. I say, "No i would like to get PRIDE stickers, but she makes a faceand says "Well aren't you going to be targeted for being gay?" ugh.

0points

Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

i couldnt finish it cuz its so long, but i was going to say I rolled my eyes and said "mum i'm not gay, but yes i will be targeted, and i know that because people are stupid." I'm glad she's concerned but i can handle it. I'm already being targeted for having a non-binary friend (Who i love) and a Genderfluid friend (who i also love) and i'm also targeted for havng a "nerd" as a friend (she wear cute pigtails and glasses and braces, but i love her no matter what) (she's also pan and has a crush on me and i'm still figuring out if i like her back, so yeah) SO HAVING STICKERS WONT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE.

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Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

I couldn't post because it was cosed but i wanted to add one. My family was playing kahoot and i made my name "(so and so) 🌈🏳️‍🌈" and my dad turns to me and says, annoyed, "why do you HAVE to put rainbows on EVERYTHING? Are you gay or something?" and screws up his nose. I'm scared so i say it's because i support the community and i love rainbows, but the snorts and ignores me for the rest of the game. Then the next game i make my user the same but ONLY rainbows and say "How do you like my username, huh?" he just growls and rolls his eyes and says he "wasn't saying gay is bad" but he "doesnt want me to be"... also a few weeks later, i was online shopping for Pride stickers because i had money from Christmas and my mum finds some and i go to look but oh thy're regular rainbows tha are the ones for kids where the rainbow isn't even in the right order. I say, "No i would like to get PRIDE stickers, but she makes a faceand says "Well aren't you going to be targeted for being gay?" ugh.

0points

Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender 1 year ago

i couldnt finish it cuz its so long, but i was going to say I rolled my eyes and said "mum i'm not gay, but yes i will be targeted, and i know that because people are stupid." I'm glad she's concerned but i can handle it. I'm already being targeted for having a non-binary friend (Who i love) and a Genderfluid friend (who i also love) and i'm also targeted for havng a "nerd" as a friend (she wear cute pigtails and glasses and braces, but i love her no matter what) (she's also pan and has a crush on me and i'm still figuring out if i like her back, so yeah) SO HAVING STICKERS WONT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE.

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