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Helicopter parenting (a parent's over-involvement in their child's life) can be driven by many factors, including societal pressure to ensure academic and extracurricular success, and the rapid evolution of technology that allows for non-stop monitoring and communication.

But it can backfire. In reality, the practice often limits the kid's opportunities to build resilience, learn problem-solving skills, and become independent, placing additional burdens on their shoulders to carry into the future.

To show you how all of this manifests, we put together a collection of posts about parents who can't stop micromanaging their children's lives. Continue scrolling to check them out and don't miss the chat we had with Bored Panda’s parenting expert and award-winning TV broadcaster and author, Vicki Broadbent.

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Man Elegantly Destroys Helicopter Parent

Man Elegantly Destroys Helicopter Parent

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M Calad
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see this one as helicopter parenting. My mom had sexual assault attempt (luckily she screamed and woke up the whole house) when she was a kid during a sleep overs at a friend's house. She got so traumatised that sleepovers were a big NO. I also complained a lot about it as a kid, but as an adult I don't see it as a big deal now. I understand my mother. She wasn't a helicopter parent btw. She always let me stayed until late at my friends but just never let me stay over. One of my parents always picked me up.

Trillian
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, but that is helicoptering. She should have had therapy, not take her trauma out on her kids.

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WonderWoman
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand the allure of sleepovers.

Coffee
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Get pregnant to spite you" will never not be funny. Even as a teenager, I'm aware the biggest fallout of pregnancy is going to be more on me than my parents. Worst thing that'll happen to my parents is the embarrassment of their daughter having teenage pregnancy, whereas I have to deal with huge life-changing consequences of being pregnant at 16.

Lydsylou (she/her)
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair to this woman we don't know what happened I know a few women who were sexually assaulted or even raped on a sleepover and then decided to not let their kids go on them or not until a certain age

Pink Princess
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think you should take your trauma out on your kids though

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bookbuddy
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no middle ground here. Is the sleepover with a best friend and you've know the family for 4 years? Or a new kid? You take precautions, like teaching them bodily autonomy and how to say no, then you meet the family. Sleepovers were some of the best experiences of my life. Do you want your child's first time away overnight to be at college? And have her fail that big experience because she has no gradual experience in handling issues on her own? This is one of the ways kids learn to be independent.

Big Chungus
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I follow my toddler around with a helmet, but it's because he never watches where he's going and hits everything lol

Parriah
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a wild child with adhd and she’d ride her bike to the park and I just wouldn’t remind her to take helmet off, and she DID nail her head right on a low metal bar, staggered a bit and kept jumping. Lol

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Lucy
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I said no to sleepovers, my son survived. Edit: it’s about protection, I don’t trust another family.

Tristan J
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is not healthy behaviour to pass on to the next generation.

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Amelia Jade
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to many run-ins with older brothers at sleep overs. I still let my kids have sleep overs but I had to know the family very well. They had a lot of sleepovers when they were little-we hosted many of them. But as they got older, it just wasn't a thing. Their circle of friends didn't seem to do that. They'd hang out late, but then go home. My kids were the same. They'd hang out at a friends and even if invited, would just head home when it got late.

The Queen
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get what the mom is doing. The one and only time I went to a sleep over (age 9), my friend's brother showed us girls a porno. He was 15. I told my mom. I was not allowed back.

bookbuddy
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One bad experience doesn't mean the whole world is evil. Were you allowed to go to other houses? I still believe that sleepovers are a learning experience on the way to being on your own someday.

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    I Synced My Calendar With My Mum And Forgot I Have My Birth Control Implant Replacement Date Marked 3 Years From Now. She Saw It And Texted Me This While I Was At Work. I’m 20

    I Synced My Calendar With My Mum And Forgot I Have My Birth Control Implant Replacement Date Marked 3 Years From Now. She Saw It And Texted Me This While I Was At Work. I’m 20

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    Minecraft_Chicken
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am still curious why she was looking 3 years into the future.

    MushroomHead22
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she's a mom. some of them do not know what privacy is.

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    Fat Harry
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excellent responses from the daughter.

    Donteatme666
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cuz the mom is bat s**t crazy 🤣

    Synsepalum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are other reasons for using hormonal birth control. I have endometriosis and use birth control pills to help control it.

    Trillian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That doesn't even matter. She is an adult and can sleep with whoever she wants.

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    digitalin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I had the nerve to stand up to my parents like this at 20.

    Natalie Kelsey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is she syncing with her mom's calendar in the first place yikes

    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parents like this make me realize I am totally rocking the whole "mom" thing!

    Bad Alchemy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief... cut the apron strings already.

    bookbuddy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the way to have your children refuse to share calendars or anything else about their lives.

    Flora Porter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time to get a place of your own because you'll never be an adult under your parents' roof. The mother had no right to snoop, but, that said, it's definitely not a great idea to rely on an implant or any non-barrier method if you're dating casually - babies aren't the only thing you can get from sex.

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    "I think parents often forget that they were once children themselves or perhaps they distinctly remember those times and that's why they are so set on micromanaging their children," Vicki Broadbent, the woman behind the family lifestyle blog Honest Mum and author of Mumboss (UK) and The Working Mom (US and Canada), told Bored Panda.

    "It's normal to want to mollycoddle your kids and protect them but just as we did, they too, must learn from their mistakes. Our job as parents is to try and ensure the mistakes are not severe or potentially dangerous."

    Broadbent said that everything starts with clear communication, guidance, and advice because sooner or later, "there will come a point when the kids must simply have to experience life and learn from it."

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    According to her, things like walking home from school on their own or staying away for a few nights will allow them to grow.

    #3

    There Is A Shooter Somewhere On Campus But My Mom Is More Concerned With Me Missing My Lab Practical

    There Is A Shooter Somewhere On Campus But My Mom Is More Concerned With Me Missing My Lab Practical

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    Surenu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Mom, if I don't make it, engrave my grade on my tombstone"

    Appalachian Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something tells me that if there's an active shooter on campus, they'll let the students reschedule their exam.

    Maile
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they didn't at a university around me recently...

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    Alex King
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Must be an Asian mom - just kidding! 🤣

    Sebastian Garcia
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    1 year ago

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    WOW SO RACIST GO TO DETENTION NOW! NO, I DON'T CARE IF THERE IS AN ACTIVE SHOOTER. YOUR GRADES ARE IMPORTANT TO SHOW OFF TO OUR NEIGHBOR. NOW GO TO TUTORING TOMORROW

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    Tamra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Appalling that such a conversation even occurs.

    maswartz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah your kid is in the middle of a lockdown, keep messaging them in case they don't have it on silent!

    Tams21
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not usually one for playing games but in this case I think it would be justified to make the mom think her words caused something bad to happen. She'd be mad as hell and try to make herself out to be the victim but in the end, her own words prove how little she actually cares. How unspeakably sad.

    Pandapoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Mom, I’m running as fast as I can to the next class and”. That’s it. I’m a bit evil.

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    Dim T
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not helicopter parenting, heck thats not even parenting

    Parriah
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dunno, the daughter brought it up like she was concerned about practical not the mom, mom just gave reasons that practical or whatever would be okay. Whole message sounded like concern and reassurance for her daughter.

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    Ladies And Gentlemen, My Mother After I Disabled Tracking Location App On My Phone, I Am 21 Years Old

    Ladies And Gentlemen, My Mother After I Disabled Tracking Location App On My Phone, I Am 21 Years Old

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    Any
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She finally got the memo, that you want to be on your own... jeez

    Eastendbird
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These parents need to spend less time bothering their kids and more learning the difference between "your" and "you're".

    Tams21
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she's capable of saying those words to her own child then she can't have been much of a mother to begin with.

    Azure Adams
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she did you a favor. block her completely then watch her really freak out in less than 48 hours. Keep her blocked

    Gavin Winchester
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better off without anybody who can’t differentiate between your and you’re

    Androgyny Lunacy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea what a lame a*s mother. She went from I want to know your every move to eff off really fast.

    Say What
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're 21 yet your mom is still too immature to be a parent.

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    "Each child is an individual, of course, and what is right for one will not be for another: most will only learn independence through trial and error," Vicki Broadbent added.

    "You as a parent must be there to cushion their falls but most children will and should experience adversity in some way in order to learn, be it friendship woes or falling off their bike."

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    "It is in those times that they learn more about themselves, how best to respond to problems as they arise, and over time, therein lies growth, resilience, and maturity," the mother of three explained.

    #5

    I’ve Been At College For One Day. He Dropped Me Off Yesterday. It’s Orientation Week

    I’ve Been At College For One Day. He Dropped Me Off Yesterday. It’s Orientation Week

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    Ron Baza
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here’s a father who will die alone and unmourned.

    Luke Branwen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word "unmourned" reminds me of my grandfather who I've never met. He was abusive and a garbage man overall, so my grandma eventually divorced him. I'll never forget the cold apathy of my mom, who is normally a VERY emotional person, after she found out that he died.

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    Zophra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This father sounds like a dramatic, immature pain-in -the -a*s

    Charles McChristy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who's the parent in this situation, because he is acting like a pouty child.

    Susie Elle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Play an uno reverse card and be as unresponsive to them as they are to you when he's old and in need of help.

    VioletHunter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time to cut contact with this man. At least until he's realized this behaviour isn't acceptable.

    Phil Vaive
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a petty, immature, self centred human being. If I was this person's kid I would go no contact ASAP

    Fat Harry
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dad sounds like a call centre.

    Kimbowa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would never respond to my son like this!

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    #6

    So Proud Of Myself

    So Proud Of Myself

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    Christina Born
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good on the kid here!!! More kids need to do this.

    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom is not crazy, but there's one area I'm considering buying a condo in and my she's convinced I'm going to get attacked or murdered if I move there. It wasn't a great place back in the 80's but it's FINE now. Oh, and I'm almost 50 years old, LOL! Any time I mention it she tells me how much I'll regret moving there if I do it.

    WordNerdTali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many of these parents are projecting unregulated anxiety. I’m glad one of these kids saw it, named it, and set a firm boundary.

    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So proud of the 'kid' in this! put it in your journal, don't put it on me; and gonna block you if you don't respect my boundaries (all paraphrased).

    Ewa Zawadzka
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    1 year ago

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    No. This is exactly the wording that is just very rude and inappropriate from a child to a mother. And I'm saying it as a 30 something mother of a toddler and a daughter of an anxious mom. I would never talk to my mum like this - you Americans are weird and obnoxious for my taste. Of course I would tell my mom to stop it and that I'll be ignoring her texts and I would show I'm annoyed but blocking the number? Threatening NC? That's going way too far. When i hear the word "boundaries" all over again in some hysterical Gen Z representative mouth I just roll my eyes.

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    Stewart Nagle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A parent being concerned about where their child is living isn't helicopter parenting. I mean the first message is a bit much, but the rest from the kid is out of line and talking about going NC over living situation advice and "negativity" is a bit unhinged.

    SadieCat17 (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't seem like this is the first time they've had this exact conversation.

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    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More people need to put their foot down like this instead of just enabling the insane behaviour. I have successfully conditioned my mother to not expect a reply from me within 24 hours (unless it's an emergency) and she was never near as bad as these parents.

    JayWantsACat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I feel you are overreacting". SHE's the one overreacting? LOL

    Lene
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have done a screenshot so I can say the same to my mom next time she's crossing my boundaries

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “write it in your journal” 🤣

    Well then
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds just like my mother. So frustrating

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    Naturally, these things take time and preparation. "When it came to my own children and they requested walking home from school or taking public transport, for example, I made it clear that they needed to demonstrate more maturity at home to earn greater independence," Broadbent said.

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    "That meant sticking to chores, remembering school items, becoming more proactive in cooking and cleaning, preparing for tests, and just practicing more autonomous behavior in general," she explained.

    "Once they proved themselves to me, taking slow steps to improve over long periods of time, they were allowed more freedom."

    If everything works out well, that's when the snowball effect starts. "Once they walked home safely the first few times, they were allowed to do it more frequently," Broadbent said. "It's important to show your children that you do trust them and allow them to live up to that expectation."

    "If they fail, you regroup, talk to them calmly, problem-solve and once they've proved themself again, give them another chance. Using apps to track their location when you do allow them that space, will provide you with peace of mind, as would offering them a phone perhaps."

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    #7

    Idk If This Counts As Insane, But Still An Invasion Of Privacy (For Context I Hand My Phone In To My Mum At 8:30 And That Is Why She Had It)

    Idk If This Counts As Insane, But Still An Invasion Of Privacy (For Context I Hand My Phone In To My Mum At 8:30 And That Is Why She Had It)

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    Any
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously she couldn't. She tried it four times and failed. Good for you to have this app.... this is really... I am sorry for you.

    Blue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Invasion of privacy regardless of anything

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    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If phones had been a thing when I was a teenager, my mom would always want to go through it That woman had NO respect for privacy. Me as a mom, I teach my kids what to be careful of, and to question everything and rely on any little feeling that something is off. I Do NOT invade my children's privacy. I trust that my parenting skills would keep them as safe as possible. My 'baby' is now 20 and all is well, so something worked.

    Jennifer Ness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet your kids enjoy your company instead of dreading time with you.

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    Flora Porter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're handing your phone to your mother at 8.30 I'm guessing you're a minor. Downvote me, but she's within her rights to check what it's being used for.

    Jennifer Ness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to invade your kid's privacy to know what's going on in their life you're doing it wrong and they won't ever be glad you did it and they will dread being with you. You're not a prison guard... you're a guide. You seriously need to do some self evaluation. There's a reason this list exists. You'll be complaining when you're 50 that your ungrateful kids never call.

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    hearditontheX
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That because I can c**p never cuts it in my mind

    Jennifer Ness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because that's a garbage way to parent. It's a good way to be while on duty as a prison gaurd.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Son, why have you placed your poor aged mother in a rat-infested, disease-ridden hell hole of a nursing home?" "Because I can!"

    Jennifer Ness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? Why don't they call? So glad my parents allowed me to grow and that I allowed my kid to grow. Zero regrets

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    Jill Bussey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Firstly, how old are you? And secondly, why do you give your phone to your mum?

    Red Reilly
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when I was a teen, many moons ago, my parents read my texts which I was horrified about, mainly as I hadn't come out yet and the boy had text me, they hadn't gotten there yet, but they did get to the texts from my friend asking if I wanted to buy some weed from her. I got told off for the weed and they got told off for going through my phone.

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s a scary lady, hope you are free and happy now.

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Family Feud buzzer* NOPE. The correct response is “I’m sorry and I’ll never do it again.”

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about giving her a lump of coal for Mother's Day?

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    #8

    My Mom Thinks If I Take My Dogs Outside To Pee When It’s Dark That I Will Die/Be Murdered/Abducted. 5 Mins Before Sunset I’m Perfectly Safe Though. Note To Add, I’m 25 And Have Lived 400 Miles From Home For 8 Years. Didn’t Take My Dogs Out Until 11:30 So Suck On That Mom

    My Mom Thinks If I Take My Dogs Outside To Pee When It’s Dark That I Will Die/Be Murdered/Abducted. 5 Mins Before Sunset I’m Perfectly Safe Though. Note To Add, I’m 25 And Have Lived 400 Miles From Home For 8 Years. Didn’t Take My Dogs Out Until 11:30 So Suck On That Mom

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    Minecraft_Chicken
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granted that this is a bit much. You should check sometimes. It's a crazy world out there.

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not so crazy that we can’t take our dogs outside to pee at 9pm.

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    Androgyny Lunacy
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think at this point, your mom should consider therapy. You're 25 and it seems like she has some trauma trust issues to work through. Or she watches too much true crime.

    Leviathan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 38 years old and dont let my dog out at night, there are gangs in my neighborhood, and coyote's running around, 3 weeks ago, someone fed my dog pizza {we live behind an auto place and the jerk thought "Oh puppy" and gave him a slice} My dog has seizures from a lot of stuff and Pizza sets it off, he seized about 5 hard times that day and then threw up...

    pineapple87
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Overprotective, but definitely on the sweeter side of these. My mom will occasionally make comments like this too. I remember an instance where I was going on an overnight camping trip organized by my student union, with about 20 others, and she was asking me about who would supervise the trip. I was 28 and in grad school, and had been living on my own for 9 years.

    MelFunction
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was also crazy paranoid about something terrible happening to me. She couldn't help it. I just accepted that it came from a place of love. Now she's dead, and there is no one alive who will ever love me that much again. It's like a piece of my heart is missing.

    Bewitched One
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their moms name is her first and middle name in there phone lol

    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where I live you'd have to watch out for bears, but otherwise, all good!

    Azure Adams
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how is your mother able to know these details??

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    The frustration of the people who made these posts is understandable. Researchers from the University of Virginia discovered that teens who grew up with psychologically controlling parents struggle with relationships and educational achievements even as adults.

    "What we found was that kids who had parents who displayed more overcontrolling behavior tended to struggle in tasks that require assertiveness and independence and autonomy throughout development," said Emily Loeb, a postdoctoral researcher who was the lead author of the study.

    "So by the time the kids were adults, they were in romantic relationships where there wasn't as much support being given. By 32, they achieved less education relative to those who had less psychological control, and they were less likely to be in a romantic relationship at all by age 32."

    #9

    They Hid This To See What I Was Eating And Seeing If I Was Up Late. Im 19 Btw

    They Hid This To See What I Was Eating And Seeing If I Was Up Late. Im 19 Btw

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    VioletHunter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't helicopter parenting, this is just insane.

    WindySwede
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hire a mixed group of strippers, have them strip for you at breakfast, pay no attention to them. And then claim the parents used AI to make it seam like this! 😮

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    Lesbiancats
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah my parents have security cameras outside my room (Along with my lock being switched so they can lock me in my room at night) they have one on the stairs, two in the kitchen, and an alarm on our fridge and cupboards so I don't go downstairs to eat. I am overweight and they keep accusing me of going downstairs to eat DESPITE THE FACT THEY LOCK ME IN MY ROOM AN HAVE VIDEO EVIDENCE THAT I DONT DO IT

    Kare Deter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the case you are not aware - this is abuse and locking you IN is probably illegal. Unlawful imprisonment and extremely dangerous, against fire codes etc. The accusations and body shaming are mental abuse. I urge you to get help with your situation.

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    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We've done that, but only to try to figure out which cat decided peeing on the stove was a good idea (GROSS). I just wanted to know who to be mad at while cleaning it up.

    Bad Alchemy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP needs to rub that lamp like crazy and hope there's a genie inside that can grant them the wish of sane, well-adjusted, nurturing parents, instead of power and control freaks.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not criminal. I have interior cameras in my home in "main areas" (I respect the children's privacy) and they are well-known by the children. They have come in handy catching some pretty toxic behavior between the children when 1 of them won't advocate for themselves. The other one can't deny the behavior on video and we are able to address it in a healthy way as parents that otherwise would have not been known to us.

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    Bewitched One
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And only 10:35. Pm I assume. Does this person still have a bedtime?

    Zophra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Context? Does the person have an eating disorder? Alcohol problem? Might be more to this. Or perhaps not...

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn’t matter. A 19yo is an adult. This is not ok.

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    Kimbowa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m confused by this picture.

    Kira Okah
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A recording phone on top of a highly reflective refrigerator.

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    #10

    My Sister's Twitter Account.... She's 23yo And My Mom Still Does This

    My Sister's Twitter Account.... She's 23yo And My Mom Still Does This

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    MushroomHead22
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    says the mom who grew up in a time where having your phone always on you was not an option.

    Jean Alexander
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does anyone else remember when your phone was inside your house, plugged into the wall, and when you went out of the house, no one could reach you by phone, but no one had a nervous breakdown over it?

    Kare Deter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and busy signals existed if the phone was in use/off the hook and pre answering machines you'd have to call back again and again. OMG I grew up in the freaking dark ages!

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    Pandapoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Update 2: Boyfriend was in bubble bath with her.

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is EXACTLY something my mother would do. All her kids now live thousands of miles away from her. Like, as far away as we could get without crossing a national border.

    Missi Boness
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom called me repeatedly when I was at work, I told her I was beginning my shift and couldn't talk. She later texted that she was feeling suicidal and I, of course, got worried. Being that I'm 190 miles away from her I called the police in her town after telling my boss I needed to take an emergency break. I let the police know her situation and address and my information so they could respond back to me. I went back to my shift, because I couldn't leave, and waited for their call. Finally they called me back and I asked if she was ok. She was ok and she told the police she's not suicidal she was lonely. My mom is a narcissistic alcoholic who loves manipulating people's emotions. She's done this to me, and my cousin, several times. I keep her at arms length now.

    The results come from a longitudinal study involving 184 young people from a variety of socioeconomic backgrounds, tracking them from ages 13 to 32.

    The study took into account family income, gender (about half the group was male and half female), and a person's grade-point average at the age of 13.

    Loeb's team also measured the participants' psychosocial maturity to discern how well they take into account others' perspectives and think about social situations in a nuanced way.

    #11

    Getting Tracked At 20 By My Antivaxx Conspiracy Theory Mom. Finally Convinced Her To Delete The Tracking App Though

    Getting Tracked At 20 By My Antivaxx Conspiracy Theory Mom. Finally Convinced Her To Delete The Tracking App Though

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    JuJu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why adults allowcthis behaviour. Delete the app, let mum go insane.

    digitalin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can take a long time and a lot of internal work to reverse ones concept of "normal". To people struggling with this, it's not just random a-hole. It's overturning ones entire family, social structure, and sense of what's "right". It's hard to explain, because from the outside it looks like it should be easy. But it really isn't.

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    g90814
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why they have the 'please turn off your phone during the movie' ads on the screen.

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking picture of the movie screen while the movie is on is literally illegal. Plus thinking your kid will be disrespectful enough to use their phone while in the theater doesn't speak very highly of the parent. Not to mention they could get kicked out of the theater if they don't put their phone away.

    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone has to turn off the phones in the movie theater, Mom.

    Ash
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is literally stalking. OP could press charges.

    Cat Dragon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have Life360 and parental contols and for this reason my location cannot be turned off and if my phone is off I am CLEARLY dead/dying/kidnapped/deafened/blinded/being mugged.

    Paul Gerrard
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is unhealthy parenting. Surveillance and tracking and none of their business

    ~nope~
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Nothing you’re saying makes sense” wow that screams “I’m insane”

    Curlz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like there is no evidence on half of these examples whether it is a teenage girl or not

    Charlotte
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relevance of gender? Bad things can happen to boys as well

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    Curlz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These could bd children

    Jennifer Ness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is always true on every thread and for every post. If they're lying, they know the answers don't apply to them. Not really sure what your point is.

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    #12

    I Need More Opinions. I'm 22 F Living On My Own And My Parents Still Want To Have Control On What I Buy. It Is Not Making Me Any More Frugal When She Yells At Me For Spending Too Much

    I Need More Opinions. I'm 22 F Living On My Own And My Parents Still Want To Have Control On What I Buy. It Is Not Making Me Any More Frugal When She Yells At Me For Spending Too Much

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had joint accounts with both my children until they finished college, but only because that made it easier to send them money. They were free to have a second account if they wanted (one did, and the other didn't).

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By the way, I was sending them money, but I didn't monitor how it was spent. I told them I would give them a certain amount each month while they were in college. How they spent it was up to them, but the amount wasn't going to change.

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    Deborah B
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If her parents are giving her money for tuition/rent/bills, they might have an arguement for being able to see that the money is going to the college, landlord, etc. In which case, a separate account for her own spending money is an easy solution. Spying on her spending habits at 22 is not okay. Having all her money in a shared account also opens her to the risk of financial abuse, or even just parents being scammed. My parents let me have my own individual account when I was five, with the rule that I was not allowed to take money out without discussing it with them first. They had oversight of my bank book/bank statements until I was 12, the same year I got my first debit card, with no overdraft facility, of course. You teach kids to be responsible with their money by *giving* them responsibility for their own money, at an age where the consequences are "You spent it all! Now you have no money to buy sweets until next allowance."

    alicia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Storytime: Had a joint acct w mom thru college. She insisted I go to Macys and buy my sisters bridal shower gift THAT DAY, IMMEDIATELY, becuase there was a coupon (shower was THREE months away). Problem was, I was at Walmart food shopping then studying for my 2 huge exams the next day, for the rest of the night. That answer was not good enough. She COMPLETELY DRAINED MY BANK ACCOUNT, so when I went to the register my card had no money. I was so embarrassed. Her response? "That's what you f**ling get when you don't listen. Go to Macy's, NOW, put the woman there ON THE PHONE so I know you're there, and buy your sister's damn present, THEN you get your money back." I was 22. The bank CS felt so bad but could do nothing. Got a new acct the next week. They raise you to be co-dependent so that you need them, and they, in turn, can control you. The faster you can become independent the better off you'll be.

    Sian Edwards
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 40 and my mother has access to my bank details for the simple reasons A. I have dyscalculia and find financial things hard to understand, and B. I have issues with spending when my mental health is in crisis. But her having access was something agreed on by me and my close family. But she's never used it to control my life, which is what some parents would do to adult children who are capable of managing their own finances.

    Sweetie Dahling
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In in my 30s and my mom has access to my bank account...but I also have access to hers. It started out as a safety net for when we were travelling by ourselves and something were to happen. Now it's just a convenience thing really (though we never check each other's spending - that would feel like an invasion of privacy)

    Yer maw 󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kids have their own accounts, even my 6yr old- I can log in and add money but I don't have my name as a joint account holder, my 18&19 yr old have entirely separate accounts I have zero access to and I'm very ok with that - it astounds me how overly involved parents can be in their child's personal life- let them be themselves and if they mess up, and they will, then just have their back.

    Lea S.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, I have three accounts. One for savings, one for checking, and one to put money in for my taxes. I didn't get permission from my parents for any of them.

    Yer maw 󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, I never had my parents on any account and it wouldn't even occur to me to have a joint account with my teenage kids, why would I? It's insane to me

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    Skulls.N.Succulents
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started accounts for my kids at 18 and PUT money in savings and checking as the gift then PROMPTLY removed myself from the accounts and made them do their own passwords, security questions and put their emails! This person is insane! My kids have better credit scores than me because I taught them to be responsible. I didn't try to MAKE them do anything smh

    bookbuddy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let your children learn as they grow up, so they don't become idiot adults that can't do anything without Mommy and Daddy, including holding a job and managing a paycheck.

    Osprey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recommend getting a separate account and not telling anybody. Whoever they are talking to here, its none of their business and they sound like they might go back and tell your mom. If you are working and spending money that you worked for then its none of her business.

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    #13

    Nothing Major. She Just Wanted To Know Why I Didn’t Return Her Text That Was Sent 5 Minutes Before The First Call

    Nothing Major. She Just Wanted To Know Why I Didn’t Return Her Text That Was Sent 5 Minutes Before The First Call

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    Virgin Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get this too. But she never answers my messages

    Cat Palmer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum does this, in her case because of unmedicated clinical anxiety and what I sadly suspect is the early stages of dementia (believe me, I have tried to get her medical help for both, but the stubborn is strong in our family!). Luckily I work for a very understanding employer who will let me slip into a quiet corner when the call avalanche starts, regardless of what I'm meant to be doing.

    Zophra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, this needs context. Is someone dying? A pet in trouble? Car accident?

    Leah Brown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet they had a 10 PM curfew.

    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crazy! Leave a message and wait for a call back.

    ZombieRedfox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, this looks like my husband's phone screen when his crazy mother tries calling LOL.

    Karen Philpott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "You woke me up! Let me go back to sleep."

    Delta Dawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any chance she was drunk at the time? Mine usually was when she did this.

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    "We asked people at their schools to rate how much they would want to spend a Saturday night with this particular person," Loeb said.

    "We gathered all the readings, and that was a measure of what we call 'sociometric popularity' – so, 'How much do kids just like them and want to spend time with them?'"

    The researchers also asked the 13-year-olds about various symptoms of depression.

    The researchers filmed the study participants with their closest friends at 13 and had them ask their friends for some support or advice on an issue and studied their meeting.

    "We coded the interaction for the amount of support shown [during it]," Loeb said.

    #14

    I'm 18nb And My Mom Sent Me Out To Get A Table And Chairs For Her. I Was Gone For 20 Mins And Didn't Respond To Her Calls. This Is The Result. I Have To Laugh

    I'm 18nb And My Mom Sent Me Out To Get A Table And Chairs For Her. I Was Gone For 20 Mins And Didn't Respond To Her Calls. This Is The Result. I Have To Laugh

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    10 minutes of pure drama. :)

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I took a taxi, bought a new phone, this is the last sms you'll receive. You'll never get to see the grand kids" Difficult as hell but needed sometimes..

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    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How to ensure the police in your town stop responding to your calls no matter what the actual emergency is.

    Amused panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hello, Police? I'd like to report a missing person. Well, I sent them out on an errand ten minutes ago and haven't heard anything since. Yes, 10 minut- Why are you laughing?

    MotherofGuineaPigs
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother did this once and added 911 or emergency on each text. I was in a meeting at work. She even called the front desk. The emergency? She wanted to know where the vacuum cleaner attachment was.

    Missi Boness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to believe there's a mental health issue at play here.

    Paul Gerrard
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now of was her bf that would be a concern. Mum needs help

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    #15

    I Pity Those With Helicopter Parents

    I Pity Those With Helicopter Parents

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    VioletHunter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The community college should have a rule that people who aren't enrolled there are not allowed on the premises. Just to prevent nutjob parents like that one from ruining their kids' lives anymore than they already have.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This thought would only make sense to someone who has never been to community college. The word "community" is right there in the title.

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    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m super tired of the new share button covering a bunch of the text.

    WayoftheStarPrincess
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in a library that sometimes takes on interns who wants to try the job before committing. Once a girl's dad called ahead to let us know she was coming and why. He also called her in the middle of her interview AND she had to call him when we were done. I mean, she was 14 so obviously still under her parents' care, but it was too much, we felt sorry for her.

    Dani M
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe it is a genius ploy to get the mother free studies. would be funny instead of sad

    Christine Watson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You really need to call the cops, seriously.

    #16

    My Lovely Mother

    My Lovely Mother

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    Nae who and where
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wth?! This is just plain insane, this woman needs some serious help. Poor kid(s) and the father

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s actually heart warming to read. My mother was/is like this and I’ve always just endured it without sympathy from anyone, just embarrassment. Ty!

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    Nika the Great
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Taurus cowards” had me rolling

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanted to mention that also, but I'm a Taurus and I was afraid to.

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    WordNerdTali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine saying “F*ck off” and “I’m done” several times and coming back to say more each time. Go awayyy

    Syd
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only they truly would!!! This is my mom to the T. When I was a teen, she would ALWAYS come back like 10 mins later to say the same s**t she was already arguing (several times). She still does it in text like here. She'll tell me she's done but I end up having to block her for the rest for the evening.

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    Tamra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is straight up insanity. In no situation would I ever think of speaking to my child like this. I feel really sorry for this kid.

    Erik Naumann
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna go out on a limb and say the father wasn't the problematic one in that relationship.

    L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe, but it sometimes "takes one to know one" poor kid either way

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    Be Weird 24/7
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please forgive me for my language and please,please don't down vote me but,WTF F HER S**T WHO THE HELL DOES THAT,WHO THE F*CK DOES THAT S**T!?

    BlueBlazer999
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The moment she brought up Zodiac signs was the moment she no longer made any sense.

    LuckyL
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sooo sorry for this child!

    Squishy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't helicopter parenting this is mental health issues needing serious help. Poor family

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    The team replicated this scenario with romantic partners when the study participants were 27 years old and again when they were 32.

    “We found [problems were going] on in mid-adolescence that helped explain that they were less liked by their peers," Loeb explained. “So fewer people said, 'Yeah, I'd like to spend time with them on a Saturday night.' And they were less mature in terms of balancing perspective and thinking about things in a nuanced way."

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    #17

    I'm 22

    I'm 22

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    Minecraft_Chicken
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two things: 1. What is taking them to church really gonna do? 2. What's this font text I want it

    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something I've overheard in a small rural town at a gas station between 2 people: First one complains about the world corrupting their precious babies then other person, "Just keep them babies in church whatever you do just keep them in church and everything will be ok." They say ignorance is bliss but I personally like to have more than 1 magic trick to function in life. I assume they took the babies to church, hehe.

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    birdhouse
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate religion! Just because you go to church, it doesn't make you a good or decent person.

    Colleen Glim
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. Pious for an hour on Sunday and complete a******s for the rest of the week

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    bookbuddy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forcing me to go to Catholic mass just reinforced the ridiculousness of man-made religions.

    maswartz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok while them literally selling drugs is a bit bad yeah if they've turned themselves around that's great. Also "I'm taking you to church" is way more of a threat than most people intend it to be.

    Tristan J
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Failed church parents are the worst

    Jill Bussey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Given the history of all and any churches, that's the last thing she should be doing!

    Cat Dragon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's this font, I want it, also shes gonna break down the door if the church is closed and yell "JESUS ORDERS THIS DOOR OPEN"

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have the police waiting when he shows up to kidnap you.

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    #18

    I’m Going To An Iron Maiden Concert. I’m Also Almost 30

    I’m Going To An Iron Maiden Concert. I’m Also Almost 30

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    Red Reilly
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relgion is the devil. Brainwashing people.

    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't believe in Satan, but if I did, I think the thing he'd love the most is...religion.

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    Donkey boi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when religious fanatics claim that music or specific artists/songs are 'The devils work', when if they actually listened to the content... In this example, they might just realise that the opening is a passage from the bible (their beloved book), and the lyrics are clearly about someone having had a nightmare.

    mhoulden
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their drummer is a born-again Christian and he doesn't have a problem with the song

    Cat Palmer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum's rural church always knew when she had arrived for the Sunday service by the hard rock music shaking the windows from her in-car speakers. I just love the fact that my 60-something, church-going mother was the yobbo causing noise pollution in a rural beauty spot! 😂

    Luke Branwen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cool, does that mean listening to Starset will make me an astronaut?

    Surenu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I listened to so many sea shanties and I still haven't circumnavigated the globe on a sturdy wooden ship. I want my money back.

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    Mario Strada
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not an Iron Maiden fan, Led Zeppelin is as "Metal" as I go, but that's my musical taste, not religious nuttery. This is religious nuttery.

    BWC
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back in the 70's I remember reading about Page purchasing Alistair Crowley's house and how he was interested in the occult.

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    Stephanie A Mutti
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't imagine having a conversation about a concert I was attending with my mom when I was 30.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last concert I went to was when I was 31 and I discussed it with my mother. I'd already seen my favourite band 3 times since their first tour so she was just happy for me that this time I had tickets for right at the very front. She wanted to see all the photos I took. Anytime she hears mentions of this band or any of its members she texts me to see if I've seen it. That's how you support your adult kids interests!

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    M Calad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number of the beast is an AWESOME song! One of my fav songs ever. The lyrics are actually about a person dreaming of a satanic ritual (just people dancing and singing around a bonfire) and waking up feeling confused about knowing it was wrong but feeling drown by it at the same time...

    Jennifer Ness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh, wouldn't want teens to give thought to what makes a person know something is wrong but also being drawn to it. No value in becoming aware that they aren't the only person who has been confused by conflicting feelings. Can't have that! They really don't need to think at all!

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    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Outed Dad to nutjob religious fanatic mom lmao

    Dani M
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    reminds me of the lonley guy protesting outside a Judas Priest concert in Brno. Had hundreds of us metalheads laughing our butts of, but he seemed dissapointed everyone was in good spirits and nobody bothered to be upset

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    #19

    Am I Crazy Or Is This Toxic !? I Am 18 In Highschool And My Mother Threatens Not Sending Me To College If I Don’t Spend Time With Her

    Am I Crazy Or Is This Toxic !? I Am 18 In Highschool And My Mother Threatens Not Sending Me To College If I Don’t Spend Time With Her

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    Jay Hall
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish my adult daughter would spend more time with me. but I'm not about to extort her in any way, shape, or form for the privilege. Reading these posts just reminds me how amazing my parents were. I was extraordinarily lucky. And I work hard to make sure my daughter and now grandbabies always know they are loved. It saddens my heart to see how many people didn't/don't have that.

    Heather Evans
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a parents responsibility to create the kind of home / relationship that the child WANTS to be a part of. Think about this

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    Mario Strada
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She wants to make sure that as soon as her kids have their own lives outside their home, they never call, text, or drive over again. Good job mom!

    Savannah greenleaf
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If Mom keeps a journal. I would avoid reading at all costs!

    DumYum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, it’s for the police to read after the missing person’s report is filed by the adult child’s landlord and boss.

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    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a grasping, controlling parent. It's very normal for someone this age to pull away from the parents, as they move into adulthood. She's doing nothing but pushing her child further away.

    carne asada
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IMHO This isnt that bad its just a parent feeling left out as their child grows older, not them recording what their nineteen year old does. Again, maybe I dont have the full picture, but still.

    Angelshark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It just occurred to me that most of these helicopter parents are my age or slightly older. I don't have kids but I can't fathom treating an adult child like this.

    Sunny
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is exactly how you make your kid Not want to spend time with you

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    #20

    There’s A Word For Not Allowing Your Kids To Socialize Outside The Family. Starts With Letter G

    There’s A Word For Not Allowing Your Kids To Socialize Outside The Family. Starts With Letter G

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    Monster Munch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they meant grooming as it doesn’t always have to be sexual - and one of the tactics is isolating a child

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    Rayne OfSalt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Matt Walsh is a borderline psychotic reich-wing grifter along the lines of Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson, just with less charisma and creepier views.

    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know why you were downvoted, you’re right. He’s a creep.

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is awful, no life skills just parents control and brainwashing

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Matt Walsh is a fascist S****. I feel really, really sorry for his kids.

    Jaya
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the age of course, very young children will be fine without internet. But not preparing your children for the real world, is ultimately going to make their lives much harder and much unsafer.

    Big Chungus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know, my dad was very nervous about us being online as kids. Understandably so since he worked a lot in cyber security, but he did let us know he was watching us and showed us how he did it and explained why. We still got to do what we wanted and play games online and what not. He never banned us from anything just wanted to make sure no creeps were around us online.

    Brian bell
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact, that is NOT "what responsible parents do" Matt. But you were also probably raised by wolves so...

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno, wolves are beginning to sound like the preferred option

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    Cassie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Complete isolation is not "what responsible parents do".

    Biofish23
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the kids' ages keeping them off the Internet may be very reasonable parenting decision. And homeschooling can be really problematic, but isn't necessarily bad. I feel like this one lacs too much context to belong in this list.

    Mario Strada
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For anyone thinking Matt Walsh is "not that bad" check out the rest of his tweets.

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    #21

    Someone Who I Know Received This From Her Dad. Context In The Comments

    Someone Who I Know Received This From Her Dad. Context In The Comments

    She doesn't like being financially dependent on her parents at Uni and so wants to get a loan and a job and supply for herself. She is also about to visit her parents and wants to also see her boyfriend when she is down. They live 6 hours away and it costs £100 for the train and they are both so busy they've only seen eachother once since being at Uni. Her parents won't let her and say that she has to spend the entirety of her reading week with them and is disgusting for wanting to be away from them. This isn't the first time something like this has happened.

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    WordNerdTali
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whew, this made my skin crawl. They only want to “support” her so they can control her.

    Appalachian Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one isn't just helicoptering, it's legit insane.

    Tams21
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody in their right mind would want to be dependant on a parent like that, no wonder she wants to take care of herself.

    hearditontheX
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This young lady sounds smart and very strong. Seems immune to their control and stands up to the verbal abuse. Thank goodness she's old enough to get away from them

    Brandon Parisien
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1950s parenting right there: be a housewife, and nothing else.

    Jay Hall
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget being barefoot and pregnant your entire childbearing years.

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    Curlz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Feel like this is one sided. The parent sounds very vexed .. his daughter may have been behaving in a toxic way- could have been handled better but I would let my child belittle their partner in front of me wither

    Cassie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go see the boyfriend. Ditch the parents.

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm assuming she is over eighteen. The father is talking to her as though she was twelve.

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    #22

    Girlfriend's Mother

    Girlfriend's Mother

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    WordNerdTali
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The entitlement these people have to their children’s lives is flabbergasting. It’s like they see their children as extensions of themselves that they should have the right to control.

    Leah Brown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that if the child is under 18 and/or if the parent is paying for the child's phone service, schooling, car, etc. The parent has a right to know where their child is. Especially if said child has a history of getting into trouble, skipping school, underage drinking/drugs, etc. Now after 18 if that child chooses to move out, get a job and support them selves, I agree the parent needs to let go.

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    Biofish23
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think phone tracking for minors is at all unreasonable. I was a teen before the age of smart phones, but my parents absolutely expected to know where I was at all times. If plans changed and I went somewhere new I was expected to call and check in with them.

    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See, if a parent were worried about their child, you'd think ensuring that they have a working cell phone with cell service 24/365 would be a priority...

    Brandon Parisien
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's life360...this is the second mention on here...

    Paul Gerrard
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tracking is surveillance. Remove app. And permissions for her to anything. Nutbag parent

    Cinnamon_Roll
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this persons a minor then it sort of makes sense but random question - what does it mean to pay for a phone? Is it mobile data??

    Curlz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes the parents are paying the contract

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    Curlz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a child!! There's so many of these that could relate to a child still living at home ... my daughter would go off the radar for hours- ignoring alls despite my sating that I just wanted to know that she was alive and ok .. literally a 30 second text .. It's not fair on parents to be wondering where their own child is

    Charlotte
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Define child. 8 years old is one thing, 18 is another

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    G R
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Entitled is expecting someone else to pay for everything!

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    #23

    I’m A Turkey Because I Don’t Want To Download An App So My Mom Can Track Me

    I’m A Turkey Because I Don’t Want To Download An App So My Mom Can Track Me

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    Delta Dawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sometimes call mine turkeys because they’ve always been my little birds but sometimes they act like turkeys. It’s a pretty innocuous thing in my house, but then I don’t feel the need to stalk my kids.

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    Kathie Mihindukulasuriya
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If I want to be a turkey, I'll be a turkey..." My daughter's reply when my Mom told her " A turkey in the oven is done, you are finished. " Also a good response here.

    hearditontheX
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok the turkey thing made me laugh. At least she didn't cuss him out like some of these other posts. And she's just going to put his name on the list - lame attempt at manipulation. AND he's 27. Good grief

    Cat Dragon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i also have life360 its annoying and i cant turn off location or turn off my phine for fear of being grilled

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    #24

    I Just Have No Words For How Bats**t This Lady Is

    I Just Have No Words For How Bats**t This Lady Is

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    Nae who and where
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fart control, that's a new one🤦🏼‍♀️

    Xenon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fart Control to Major Tom....

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    Dirk Daring
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Do you even have kids?" No, but I do have a functioning digestive system and a b******e.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand asking them not to phart at the table, but the rest is just crazy.

    A Chrome Bird
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wasn't even allowed to SAY the word fart when I was growing up. Did not do it ever in front of anyone and was rigidly taught to go to the bathroom to do it. Oh, except my dad and brother of course. They would let it rip loudly and often. The rule was only for my mother and the two daughters. This caused me a lot of bathroom issues as an adult, like never wanting to use the bathroom at work, using a restaurant toilet to poo instead of at home... I blame my mom's strict southern Baptist upbringing tho, not her so much.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry you went through that. You aren't alone, this attitude messed up many people later in life.

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    just me
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are they nudists? If not, how would the particles be floating around everywhere? I feel like you're more likely to get that by flushing with the lid up.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone tell this woman that holding flatulence in can cause health problems.

    PandaSteve
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother's ex does this. The only noticeable result is that my 9 year old nephew thinks farts are the peak of humor and a fantastic conversation starter whenever he's not at her house.

    Jill Bussey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm waiting until she (the parent) gets older and her bodily functions are A LOT less controllable. Welcome to the real world.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where is the child with the come-back, "My farts, my rules!" 🤣

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    #25

    Yes Karen, You Are A Helicopter Mom

    Yes Karen, You Are A Helicopter Mom

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    BTDubs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vulgarity is everywhere. You're not going to be able to save your precious baby from the world, so either equip them with the skills to handle it, or have a totally dependent child.

    Jay Hall
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or watch them put as much geographical distance between you and them as they possibly can, to get away from you when they're old enough. My ex-wife's nephew did exactly that. the day after he graduated college. The day he graduated from high school his mother gave him several helicopter toys and was joking about it. When he got to be on his own in college for a little while, and got a little taste of freedom. and when he was graduating realized that was ending and moved over 2,000 miles away with no notice. I was not surprised to see him go.

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    Lydsylou (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Occasionally checking his phone is fine if he's a minor because that's just making sure your kid is safe but homeschooling him because of some of the things his friends say is way to overprotective

    Tams21
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question is if it actually helps. Up to a certain point I do agree that it's okay and it depends a lot on the child. There are plenty of teenagers that are more tech savvy than their parents and failing that, they ask their friends. If they want to hide what they do from their parents then they will often find a way. On the flip side, by checking their phone regularly, you can also be sending them the message that you don't trust them, in which case you may find they stop trusting you.

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    Fat Harry
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only is she a helicopter mum, but she's encouraging her son to hide things from her. If he known his phone is being checked he'll get a second phone or keep anything private on a different device.

    Tobias Reaper
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not just any helicopter you are a chinook thats a big helicopter

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That woman is both delusional and has very selective memory. Forget about 14 year olds, the people who swear the most are middle school kids. Every third word is "f**k". Then, by the end of high school, they get it out of their system. I think that it's good that use of some swear words is considered "unacceptable", otherwise middle school kids may get into doing stuff that is actually harmful to get the same feeling of rebellion.

    Lene
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I read was: I am controlling my kid, not to control but to control. And I want him to stay away from his friends because they are his friends and they are being normal/human. Why will my kid go NC when they grow up?

    Brandon Parisien
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Showing ankle was vulgar not too long ago...

    Rebel Peewee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The epitome of privilege is keeping your kid in your own bubble

    Zacch Eckart
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's ok to occasionally check their phones. Some people who disagree are the same ones that would say "the mother should have known'" when a kid shoots up a school or meets up with a predator

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    #26

    2nd Post From Karen Infiltration

    2nd Post From Karen Infiltration

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    Donteatme666
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cuz kids never joke about stuff right crazy 😧

    alicia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, not all of them are joking. A girl in high school used to say this, seriously, because she was under the impression they got a TON of money for just being naked and then some rich guy will just marry them n they never have to work again. She legit believed this and wanted it. 🤦‍♀️ She also did it. Didn't marry a rich guy tho. You don't find too many rich guys stripping at the club nxt to the highway 🤣 Having said that....this mom's WAY overreacting, lol.

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    Marlowe Fitzpatrik
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Enroll her in poledancing instead. That sh*t is utterly incredibly exhausting and gives you super-strength and would take a lot of her freetime so she's not doing other stupid stuff. Seriously - poledancing is amazing (never done it in my life - a friend does, though, and it#s incredible)

    SleepyBunny
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly want to try it, get them muscles strong >:D

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    WordNerdTali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve been joking about becoming a stripper since I was 16. Still never touched a pole in a club. This woman needs to chill.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your daughter has a terrible influence in her life. But it's not her friends or social media.

    Tanya Phillips
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she wants to be a stripper that's her choice anyway 🤷‍♀️

    Tanya Phillips
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How to make your daughter a stripper just to prove a point.

    Karen Philpott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's doing it to wind u up. It worked. Get a life.

    Cat Dragon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh wow rigt kids never make jokes we're just boring serious people yep totally /s

    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she was laughing about it afterward she was probably just joking. To be sure you need to talk to her and find out in what context was she making this. You only heard her side of the conversation.

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    #27

    Text That My Narcissistic Step-Dad Sent His 16 Year Old Daughter (My Sister) The Blanked Out Name Is Me. He Posted This Screenshot On Instagram Bragging About His Great “Parenting Skills”

    Text That My Narcissistic Step-Dad Sent His 16 Year Old Daughter (My Sister) The Blanked Out Name Is Me. He Posted This Screenshot On Instagram Bragging About His Great “Parenting Skills”

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    birdhouse
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We used to hang out with some of my wife's co-workers. One of them was a 22 year old female. He father would call every 30 min. for an update on where she is and who she is with with. She wasn't permitted to hang out with us any longer after I refused to take her phone and speak with her father for a third time. He would literally make her pass the phone to all that were with her to prove she wasn't lying. Side note...when she was at work he would drive following her and stay in his car until she went home. Guess who got married and severed all ties with her dad once she learned how odd he was.

    Marlowe Fitzpatrik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do those people not have a job? What job would allow you to answer the phone every 30 mins because Kid is calling? This is just insane

    Rebel Peewee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm declaring war on you, daughter! Ring ring ring!!!!

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    Gozer LeGozerian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I just don't understand why my children never visits me"

    Urlocal_phyco
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s only a murder if they find a body…/j

    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right. Up to that point they are just a missing person, status unknown, kind of like Schrodinger's cat.

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    Khall Khall
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It's not a prison, the bars are thirty minutes apart!" -- this guy, probably

    Gavin Winchester
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    1 year ago

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    Brandon Parisien
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What parenting skills? Making babies is not a skill...

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    #28

    Went To Visit My Boyfriend For The Weekend And My Mom Decided To Text Me This While I Was Sleeping, Im An Adult Btw

    Went To Visit My Boyfriend For The Weekend And My Mom Decided To Text Me This While I Was Sleeping, Im An Adult Btw

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    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ten minutes, TEN minutes. I could have just not had my phone with me while dealing with explosive diarrhea.

    Deborah B
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's an adult, and her mum went from zero to "call the police" in 10 minutes. Even if the mum is anxious because her daughter lives with her, and she was out of the house overnight, the max level of text required is "I didn't know you were planning on being out all night, and I'm worried that you're not picking up, please text/call me back when you get this so I know you're okay."

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at the times. It's not at night. It's close to noon. (I'm not making excuses for her, by the way, or criticizing someone sleeping during the day. I like naps also.)

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    Mario Strada
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The time stamps are crazy. 12 texts between 11:20 am and 11:30 am. That's pathological obsessive behavior. She could be taking a s**t (she was actually sleeping) and not wanting to text her mom from the bathroom or simply not have the phone surgically implanted on her body. WTF?. I should clarify that my daughter and I do keep tab on each other's location. My wife is very sick and she is actually keeping tabs on us. I never, ever checked on her movements once, even when she was in school. But if something should happen it's a nice thing to have, even among adults. These people have no sense of respect for other people privacy.

    Jennifer Ness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The lack of trust and respect really is sad. They're going to reap what they sow.

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    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooooo much drama in just 10 minutes!?

    Mrs. EW
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s 11 am. Do you know where your kids are?

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she know you would be away? Just tell her you are OK. I always had freedom, pretty much from 12 onward, many things even younger, but I never stayed away over night without letting them know and I would check in with them the next morning, made all the difference to them knowing I was OK.

    LuckyL
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title says *while I was sleeping" and the messages are sent in the timeframe of 10 minutes.

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    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the texts, person said they'd be home in the morning. Isn't responding to texts sent late morning. As a mom, I'd be worrying too, tho I wouldn't text 4000 times. I'm more the 'send a photo of the pet holding a sign saying "better call soon, mom's worried"' type.

    Jennifer Ness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they will feel loved and respected and love and respect you for it. Soon you'll see "Sorry to worry you. Overslept."

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    Stephanie Fay
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaaand another one that is my mother....

    Jaybird3939
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder what these nut jobs would do if they actually called the police and were told to stuff it and get fined.

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    #29

    I Am 22 Years Old, Living On My Own With My Husband, And My Dad Still Trys To Control What I Do

    I Am 22 Years Old, Living On My Own With My Husband, And My Dad Still Trys To Control What I Do

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    Natalia Girotti
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He doens´t try, he succeed in controlling you

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and some says indoctrination is not a thing... 🙄

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    LuckyL
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "trys" to contol lookes alot like "does control"

    WordNerdTali
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has to stop dignifying this weirdness with responses and obedience.

    Mario Strada
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bizarre. I actually looked into "unbaptizing". Way too much paperwork.

    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is partly why I don’t like or comment much on Facebook. I hate that it notifies other people that I liked something

    Anna Ekberg
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    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people put up with c**p like this???

    Jennifer Ness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are groomed from a young age to be controlled

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly the thing that should be unliked here is him.

    Cat Dragon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it that they put quotes around like and unlike?

    Skulls.N.Succulents
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oops I meant to like the one above that about being unbothered... by my insane father!!!

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    #30

    This Is My Mother Who’s Gone Back To College

    This Is My Mother Who’s Gone Back To College

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    Stannous Flouride
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her magic Book is full of all of that along with r@pe, incest, patricide, and a talking serpent.

    Caroline Nagel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget the talking donkey and the condoning of owning other human beings as slaves.

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    Historyharlot93
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was in college 30 years ago, and as a Christian, there were a lot of things I disagreed with. But not only did I study those subjects, I had to master them and be tested on them, and get A’s in the process. When I hit my Junior/Senior year, I could disagree all I wanted, but I had to back up my ideas from credible sources. Back in my day, getting challenged by different viewpoints taught critical thinking skills. We called it getting an education. I got a degree in Communications Tech, and I still had to learn philosophy and science, music and creative writing. If you don’t want to learn, don’t waste your money.

    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your faith is so fragile that it can't withstand reading a work of fiction (other than the bible), then maybe it's time to start questioning your faith.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ma'am, studying something is not the same as approving of it. Medical researchers "read, analyze and write" about cancer, but they're not advocating for it.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do as in the bible, get your father drunk and fu*k him to spawn a child. Genesis 19:30-37

    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    according to reddit, the book was the wizard of oz. i have no words

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Bible is literally filled with sorcery, evil spirits, incest, rape, murder, misogyny, child abuse, war, visions that sound like someone took a powerful hallucinogen, armageddon, capital punishment, torture...have I left anything out? Oh, right. Internal hypocritical contradictions.

    Cat Dragon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a christian, I say, Why can't I read Warriors? The Bible has way worse stuff than Warriors.

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    #31

    Dawg What The F*ck I Feel So Bad For These Kids

    Dawg What The F*ck I Feel So Bad For These Kids

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    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They said the quiet part out loud. In fact, they’re screaming it to anyone that can hear.

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    WordNerdTali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that racism and homophobia came out of left field. Yikes.

    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, I believe it came out of right field.

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    INGI
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And these people are why we're going to re-elect a dictator wannabe.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is exactly why we need socialization with other people, different people especially.

    Violet Jensen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was homeschooled! I loved it! I still had a social life outside of my family, and we are. Not a racist and homophobic family.

    Hanako-Kun 花子くん
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you violet for sharing that u r homeschooled and had a good experience! Im also homeschooled and so many people only see homeschoolers as super conservative sheltered people which is a really annoying stereotype that needs to be stopped. (Although there are a lot of *very* conservative and sheltered homeschoolers I've met) homeschooling is really fun and effective if done right. (Sorry for the rant)

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    Donkey boi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is easily the most irrational thing I have seen in a VERY long time. This is a literal echo chamber!

    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sorry for these kids. Damn.

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    indeed! they just grow up like clones/robots like their parents, prob as bad as the parents..

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    BlueBlazer999
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much stupidity in a single 700 x 1136 square.

    SadieCat17 (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As soon as I went to public school from being homeschooled, I became very queer. Sure it perfectly coincided with me entering puberty and first getting crushes, but it must just be the evil liberal brainwashing in effect!! The only thing learning about "the gays" did was help me discover labels for what I was feeling all along and find community that understood me.

    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how to make sure your children cannot function at all ever in the real world. I've seen it happen in real time--college friend was raised Mormon and homeschooled. She went bonkers with drugs and drinking the second she got to college, ended up pregnant and homeless before the first semester was over.

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    #32

    Going Through Old Texts And Found These Gems

    Going Through Old Texts And Found These Gems

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    Tina Girard
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is medication for things like this

    Delta Dawn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boomers and Gen X were raised without boundaries (yes really) and don’t understand sometimes that a boundary doesn’t mean anything negative. They take it personally or as an insult, which is how their own parents would have taken it, and so they were raised to not insult family members that way (lest it ignite a family feud).

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So she went from "so suck it" straight to "I'm sorry boog"?

    Austin L
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, this is real, watched it between in-laws for nearly 20 years now. I think they think that's the normal way people interact.

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    INGI
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The manipulation is insane!!!

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    #33

    Its Pretty Small But Still Crazy. Finally Moved Out From My Helicopter Parents. Just Calling Them Stresses Me Out A Lot

    Its Pretty Small But Still Crazy. Finally Moved Out From My Helicopter Parents. Just Calling Them Stresses Me Out A Lot

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    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    zero, the days that will be spent at your house.. 🤷‍♂️

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    #34

    Told My Mom I Was Going To Hang Out With My 2 Female Friends.... This Is What She Says. I’m 22 And Am On My 4th Year Of College Btw (And She Tracks My Location)

    Told My Mom I Was Going To Hang Out With My 2 Female Friends.... This Is What She Says. I’m 22 And Am On My 4th Year Of College Btw (And She Tracks My Location)

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    Austin L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have replied back, "The "youth rally" is later on back home. 😉"

    sturmwesen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just text her you are going to audition at a stripclub

    JenC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right. Because you can't meet your friends at their dorm or apartment, only at a bar.

    #35

    Homophobic Mom Threatens To Burn My Pride Flag

    Homophobic Mom Threatens To Burn My Pride Flag

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    Marlowe Fitzpatrik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmmmm... Is she saying that because she fears her kid will be assaulted because she/he is showing the flag? Maybe the neighbourhood they live in is actually that dangerous and it was a warning about those "good old boys" who would get aggressive? Because it reads a little like that. Still - not exactly the best wording if that's the case

    SadieCat17 (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're very sweet and naive, so I won't downvote you, but this is a very common sentiment about queer women. They just need "convincing" (if you catch my drift) to change their mind. I know intimately that op's mother isn't coming from a place of concern, but implying that she deserves it for being so "obstinate and deviant" about her sexuality.

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    #36

    Im Nearly 40yo, I Got Arrested On A Petty Misdemeanor 3 Yrs Ago, Its Gone From Record & Still Get This

    Im Nearly 40yo, I Got Arrested On A Petty Misdemeanor 3 Yrs Ago, Its Gone From Record & Still Get This

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    INGI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was reported to her??? Jeeeeezus.

    Historyharlot93
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she means she’s tracking him. Disable your phone dammit

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    detective miller's hat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother wasn't nearly this bad, and I still felt the need to live over an hour away from her!

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    #37

    All I (19m) Told My Mom Was That Me And My Girlfriend Were Gonna Go Look At Apartments

    All I (19m) Told My Mom Was That Me And My Girlfriend Were Gonna Go Look At Apartments

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    MushroomHead22
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    whose the car registered under though? if it is you're mom, take the car, go park it in a no parking zone, let the tickets ramp up.

    KieLeaHar
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought I’d park it in airport long-term parking zone. It might just be me though.

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    Erik Naumann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't imagine not wanting my kid to move out when he's grown.

    INGI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gee. Wonder why they want to move out.

    Rayne OfSalt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do so many people think they can "press charges"? That's not how it works.

    Jackson Sharpe
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the car is registered to the parent, they absolutely can report it stolen and press charges.

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    #38

    My Mom Found Out I (18m) Was Having Sex With A Girl For Over A Year

    My Mom Found Out I (18m) Was Having Sex With A Girl For Over A Year

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    JuJu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worse the grammar and spelling the crazier the person?

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lack of decent education often seems to go hand in hand with this type of crazy.

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    Jeremy James
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is she talking like she's in a romantic relationship with her son and got cheated on? Is anyone else getting emotional incest vibes?

    Rayne OfSalt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why in Cthulhu's name would you tell a parent that you're having sex with someone?

    BlueBlazer999
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know who you didn’t learn English from…

    nm (he/him)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mommy is jealous bec her precious son is f*****g another woman but not her.

    Chiara1125
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is she treating her son like a cheating husband? Wtf

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    #39

    "We Don't Track You!" Uh Huh, Okay. 18 In University. These Were Followed By Call After Call After Call

    "We Don't Track You!" Uh Huh, Okay. 18 In University. These Were Followed By Call After Call After Call

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    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time to get your own phone--minus the tracking app.

    #40

    I’m 22(F) And Moved Out. My Narcissistic Mom Insists We Meet Every Week For “Family Dinner”

    I’m 22(F) And Moved Out. My Narcissistic Mom Insists We Meet Every Week For “Family Dinner”

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    Nae who and where
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word you're looking for is boundaries. Time to put them in place and mean it.

    Amelia Jade
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kids are all still at home. We have always done Sunday dinner and I always say it will still be a thing when they move out. But it isn't mandatory. They are welcome when they can make it, but life happens and I know they won't always be able to be here. It is supposed to be a relaxing time of just hanging out. Why turn it into an obligation? That just makes it stressful and no one wants to be there. I want my kids to WANT to come home, not because I mandated it.

    Justme
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My spouse and I have family dinner with my parents every Friday. But they live close by, we’re close, and they’re completely normal.

    Alethea Fletcher
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have five children, all now adults. Three have loved out over the last 10mths. One will be moving out when she finishes her teacher training (end of this school year). The youngest is saving, but no plans as yet. .. I have told them all that we have familyndinnner every Friday, and every other Sunday, but it's open. Some weeks they are all here (along with their partners). Some weeks only two are here. Its not mandatory, just my way of them knowing that those are the two days we can all get together, and I know which days to get enough food in for us all.

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    #41

    I Don't Know If I'm The Problem Or She's Overreacting

    I Don't Know If I'm The Problem Or She's Overreacting

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    #42

    Oooohhhh... Man, That Escalated Quickly, Please Read The Context, Cos This Is Quite Funny Actually

    Oooohhhh... Man, That Escalated Quickly, Please Read The Context, Cos This Is Quite Funny Actually

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    Nae who and where
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worst mother of the year contender here. Telling your child (adult or young, it doesn't matter) they're dumb and won't be successful, that's abuse and just disgusting. Hope the kid blocked dear old mom

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in 6 months she will be crying herself to sleep wondering why you went NC with her.

    Rayne OfSalt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For those who don't know, news dot com dot au is News Corp Australia aka Murdoch's tabloid rubbish. Yes, the Murdoch who owns Fox News. It posts a lot of stories about young people buying houses, frames them as though "this person worked hard, didn't spend money etc" and then 6 paragraphs down you'll see "they got a payment of $500,000 from their parents that they used to pay their mortgage each month". The ABC is our national broadcaster. It used to be fantastic, but our last Prime Minister stacked the board and editoral staff with former News Corp executives, ruining it.

    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is abuse.

    Be Weird 24/7
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OK you can't get mad at me for my language but please don't down vote me forthus, WHAT THE F*CKING HELL WHO DOES THAT S**T,WHAT MOTHER DOES THAT STUPID SH*T,(please don't downvote me for this, PLEASE) LIKE WHO THE FLIPPIN HELL DOES THAT S**T!?!?!?!?!

    Delta Dawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ummm… someone call an exorcist

    Lucy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes parents hate what they see about themselves in their children. These posts are so sad. Love your kids. Being respected, not feared is the way to a good relationship. These parents are not going to be involved in their children’s lives as adults.

    #43

    Found On A Fb Post Asking About The Privacy Of A 13 Year Old. Yikes!

    Found On A Fb Post Asking About The Privacy Of A 13 Year Old. Yikes!

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    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will probably get downvoted but do a 11 year old really need a mobile?

    Biofish23
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kid got one for his 12th birthday, mostly for two reasons. 1) So he could contact me/ his dad. He is at an age where we feel ok dropping him off at the library , sports practices ECT but we want a way for him to call us, it's not like pay phones exist any more. 2) We want him to be able to socialize with his friends. Unfortunately texting is the main form of communication with tweens because they honestly don't have many other options. The only free time in their school day is a 15 minute lunch to shovel their food in. After school most kids are in organized activities, and even if they aren't there are almost no places they are allowed to hang out.

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    Surenu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Take away the power and freedom" well at least this one's honest

    Tamra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see so many comments (many right here on BP) about digital bullying. If a child has a cellphone at this age, then the parents do need to monitor things if, for no other reason, than to be able to help them navigate some potentially painful or troubling situations. There's a way to guide without being a control freak, and a way to allow some privacy but still have trust.

    #44

    Cut Off Contact From My Dad And One Week In He Messaged My Friend(Lives In Us) From A Different Country, Im 25 And Live In The Us. No He Did Not Have My Friends Contact Information

    Cut Off Contact From My Dad And One Week In He Messaged My Friend(Lives In Us) From A Different Country, Im 25 And Live In The Us. No He Did Not Have My Friends Contact Information

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    o.0.moldy strawberries.0.o
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    idk if the last text has anything to do with the previous messages but good on the friend on being concerned

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    #45

    It Was My 21st Birthday And This Is All He Had To Say. I Live In Another State 10 Hours Away And They Track Me On Life360

    It Was My 21st Birthday And This Is All He Had To Say. I Live In Another State 10 Hours Away And They Track Me On Life360

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    Nae who and where
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disable life360. Set boundaries. Go LC or NC if they're not being respected. Start acting like an adult and don't put up with the bs

    nm (he/him)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A muslim girl living alone, even if 21 y.o? I call this post BS.

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    #46

    Mom Thinks I’m Dead After Not Responding For 3 Hours And Admits To Opening My Mail. I Am 29 F Living Alone With Two Children. I Get Several Texts Every Single Day About Religion, Parenting, Or My Finances

    Mom Thinks I’m Dead After Not Responding For 3 Hours And Admits To Opening My Mail. I Am 29 F Living Alone With Two Children. I Get Several Texts Every Single Day About Religion, Parenting, Or My Finances

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    Debbie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but get your mail sorted. If you live on your own and are 29, why on earth is your mail still arriving at your parents adress? I probably would accidentally open it, and only realizing after reading half of it that it was not meant for me. Also, from this text alone, I don't see it's as severe as others. Moms question about paying off the debt is a valid one. That she asks where you are after 3 hours can happen, she isn't nagging within a 10 minute timeframe although it is short, especially if the other person is 29 with 2 young children.

    Fat Harry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See... I do kind of sympathise here. We have an adult child who seems to collect parking fines for a pasttime but buries their head in the sand and hopes they go away, so we've taken to opening any mail that looks like a parking fine in order to ensure WE don't end up with bailiffs coming around and the household being blacklisted for credit. We wouldn't open anything else - credit card statements, etc, but there's a history specifically of parking fines that we can't ignore.

    Alyssa Phillips
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't open my mail Please have your mail delivered to your apartment Both valid requests. #1 a bit more since it's a crime. But #2 may be a crime as well if cc agreement is linked to permanent residence.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a boyfriend years ago whose mother would manage his money and repeatedly stick her nose in his businness and when he would get upset she'd cry because "she was only trying to help". I mean, he was absolutely s**t with money and he was also a big man-baby because they coddled him his entire life, but y'know.

    #47

    19m. My Parents Don't Like Me Walking Even Just A Mile By Myself

    19m. My Parents Don't Like Me Walking Even Just A Mile By Myself

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    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your mother can't handle you crossing the street by yourself? Yikes.

    #48

    Quality “Advice” I Saw On Nextdoor About Raising Teenagers. Started Out Reasonable And Then Quickly Degrades Into Draconian Helicopter Parenting. 90% Of The Comments Were In Agreement That This Is The Only Way To Keep Teens Safe

    Quality “Advice” I Saw On Nextdoor About Raising Teenagers. Started Out Reasonable And Then Quickly Degrades Into Draconian Helicopter Parenting. 90% Of The Comments Were In Agreement That This Is The Only Way To Keep Teens Safe

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    BTDubs
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Credit where it's due, the thing about kids going to adult sites to learn about sex is true. If sex education isn't accurate and adequate, then kids are going to try and educate themselves on the subject in a different way. If parents aren't going to teach it, and schools aren't allowed to, then the internet is where it is.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so true, my sister is a teacher 56. She had to give sex ed to teenagers and you would be shocked with what they believed or the attitude about sex. Specially the men. It should ne mandatory in and school curriculum, no just birth control but sexual rights.

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    Lydsylou (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of those I also actually kinda agreed with. That's just keeping kids safe. Some where slightly over the top but most were pretty reasonable

    SadieCat17 (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In reference to #13, for any teens (or adults with gaps in knowledge) on here who want real and comprehensive sex ed that actually talks about sex, consent, and sexuality, along with in depth health/anatomy, check out Scarleteen.com. Teens only try to learn about sex from porn since they have no other place to learn about it because of how popular abstinence only "education" is. Scarleteen covers the nitty gritty in an accurate and clinical way that, despite what prudes would have you think, isn't pornographic. It seriously covers anything you could ever want to know from practicing safe kink (which porn is certainly great for teaching /s) to finding assistance in the case of sexual assault to what gynecologist appointments are like. It's almost like cosmo crossed with sex ed.

    ImATotalTina
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t tell your kids #12, because I feel like they worded that one wrong….. 😑

    Stewart Nagle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure about 5 and 6, but most of these seem like sound advice...

    LegendsNeverDIE
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this is exactly what my mother used to do. She was some obsessive psycho control freak who didn't let me have social life because she didn't have one.

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    #49

    My Parents Will Lock My Phone And/Or My WiFi Via An App Called "Family Link" (They Can Also Track Me, Monitor My Screen Time+what Is Open)(Also I Need An Parent Password To Be Entered Whenever I Want To Login To Something)

    My Parents Will Lock My Phone And/Or My WiFi Via An App Called "Family Link" (They Can Also Track Me, Monitor My Screen Time+what Is Open)(Also I Need An Parent Password To Be Entered Whenever I Want To Login To Something)

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some context would be helpful here, like the age of the child, and why games and social media was removed.

    LegendsNeverDIE
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg my parents would use this on me for like 6years 😭😭 it was the worst freaking app ever and even when I was legally allowed to choose whether or not I want it on my phone they still wouldn't get rid of it

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