Netizens Bash This Barber For Upcharging Kids With Special Needs, He Says It’s A Misunderstanding
The world is already a tough place to live in, and it can become even more difficult if you’re disabled. People with special needs often face discrimination based on their abilities and sometimes even the way they look. It is challenging to keep fighting back against this kind of prejudice all the time.
Sometimes this inequality can show up in the smallest ways. For example, people online recently found out that a hairdresser in the United Kingdom was charging extra to give boys with special needs haircuts.
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Disabled people shouldn’t be treated differently than able-bodied people, which is why people are striving to shine a light on and change practices that are still unequal
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Recently, a sign in a barbershop went viral, and the hairdresser received major backlash for charging higher prices to special needs boys for haircuts
It all started on Facebook when a woman named Leanne Caffrey shared a picture of a barbershop’s sign with all its pricing details. The price list was divided into two sections, with a boys’ section on top and a girls’ section at the bottom. For boys, the prices ranged from £12-15 for the different types of haircuts. The pricing was slightly higher for girls.
The woman was angered that special needs boys were being charged £2 extra for haircuts. She captioned the post, saying, ‘I never out small businesses. But this has made me really cross.’ This isn’t the first time there have been extra charges levied on people for being differently abled. A wheelchair user in India was unfairly charged extra when boarding a bus because his wheelchair was considered “luggage.”
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The post received a lot of attention, and people from X were outraged at the discrimination towards children with special needs
The post went viral and was reposted by people on X. A man named Wayne reshared it and stated that his wife visited that same hairdresser. He also told people that the shop’s name was Ranya Unisex Salon in Rosehill and encouraged them to leave comments for the hairdresser. Netizens were understandably angry at the shop owner and could not believe that anyone would charge different prices for kids with special needs.
It should also be noted that people with special needs already have to deal with many extra direct and indirect costs as a result of their differences. The significant outrage from people online prompted the salon owner, Shwan Kadir, to apologize and explain his side of the situation. The 49-year-old stated that he had owned the shop for the past 17 years and could not believe that people were taking issue with his pricing sign.
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The barber mentioned that he would charge an additional £2 if he felt that the haircut would take longer, but he would let people know about the pricing beforehand
The owner of the hairdressing shop shared a lengthy statement with people online. He called it a total “misunderstanding” and mentioned that he would never “discriminate [against] any children/adults that have learning difficulties.” Shwan clarified that the pricing sign had been in his shop for a long time and that they had never charged any special needs children that price.
He went on to add that the cost might increase if the haircut requires more time. Apart from the price points, he clarified that they are “trained to deal with disabilities and try [their] best to make having a hair cut a happy place for everyone.” The shop apparently also has an autism specialist. Once all the social media posts began pouring in, the owner taped over the sign with the pricing details.
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Many people did not accept his explanation or apology. Some stated that it was discrimination to treat children with social and sensory difficulties differently and have them pay more. They felt that hairdressers should have more empathy for kids with different needs. People also stated that it was illegal to discriminate in this way, citing the UK Equality Act of 2010.
Some people sided with the barber stating that “time-based cuts might take longer to settle” or that “it’s quite dangerous to cut the hair of a special needs person, they might not comply with the barber holding sharp scissors.”
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According to the HIE Help Center, “although kids with sensory challenges are often upset by day-to-day tasks such as brushing teeth, many parents report that one of the most distressing activities is going for a haircut.” This can be because some disabled children find the buzzing or clipping sounds too noisy, the lights too bright, or the sensation of someone touching their hair unpleasant.
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Hairdressers can create a safe space for their client by explaining to them how the process will work, slowly moving through each step, and being patient with the child. Sensory-friendly haircuts involve some modifications to the traditional experience to make it more comfortable for disabled children. This can involve using softer and quieter tools or adjusting their cutting techniques.
What did you think of the different pricing on the barber’s signboard? Do you think it was a form of discrimination against kids with special needs? Let us know in the comments.
Some people came out in support of the barber, trying to explain why the extra cost made sense
Others were not as forgiving, and on X, opinions were still split
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If you are going to post a story, please take the time to actually read what you are posting. Multiple times in the article, including the headline, it says the barber was charging more for "disabled children", and you name the barber. From the picture the extra charge is for "special needs", and the barber in his response clearly says this is referring to cases where there are additional needs, and cuts that take longer. At no point does anyone say a disabled child was actually charged more, it was clearly a poorly worded sign, he has apologized for any offence and advised he will change the sign. Pushing this article with that narrative is irresponsible, and will just drive stupid people who have nothing to do with what happened to harass and bully a small business
Yes. I’m disabled and I have literally no problem with this. If it takes a fair bit longer or the kid is throwing a tantrum, it makes perfect sense to charge more. Honestly.
Load More Replies...As others have pointed out, the barber meant if the client came in with a "special" request (a non-standard haircut) that took longer, they may charge more. I think it's hilarious that nobody had a problem with them charging more to cut the girl's hair. Even if the barber did mean "special needs kids", wouldn't this also be discrimination against girls?
Yes, "special needs" has at times been a slightly PC alternative to now-totally-unacceptable terms which I won't list (although I dont think it's been used so much in that sense in recent years). But this barber is quite clearly not using it in that way at all, just that anyone with a special need in terms of their haircut may take longer to do and be charged more. English may not be his native language, but any discrimination based on that sign is clearly a result of some people being unable to read and understand. They should go back to school, perhaps, get some 'special' English classes?
Also, I have a cousin who is autistic. When their parents take them for haircuts they usually need 2x the length of time bc they are not okay w/ being touched. So it takes a bit for the child to warm up to the barber/stylist n for the child to actually sit still. My cousins parents have no issues w/ paying more for this bc they understand it can be a tedious process since the kid will need more someone w/ more patience to be able to work w/ them. This makes complete sense n anyone outraged about this is the problem. Having special needs means YOU HAVE DIFFERENT NEEDS FROM A CHILD/PERSON WHO DOESNT HAVE SPECIAL NEEDS! Therefore not every barber/stylist will be able to work w/ you or your kid. This person is more than willing to work for you/your kid they just ask that you pay more since it will take longer n be a different process than if the child didn't have special needs. Which is fair. Stop w/ this s**t already.
Can we talk about how he does charge more for a girl than a boy? Apparently unrelated to hair length?
Although a practise I disagree with, it IS standard. Which cones down to the difference between "hair stylist" and "barber" Not going to go into it heavily. But women often want a hair stylist who can do very complex things, but men often just want a barber to get a clean even cut. It's the difference between getting a flat buzz cut, and getting an intricate pattern buzed into the cut.
Load More Replies...I feel like a lot if the people complaining are ignoring this sign very obviously is not in use as it's BEHIND S**T. People getting pissed over an obsolete sign is just sad.
Getting a haircut when there are no other customers inside. Dimmed lights, no music unless requested, no small talk, maybe a support pet etc etc etc. I would pay good money for it!
Load More Replies...Stop saying "differently abled" they're disabled. That's the word. Differently abled is a term created by able bodied ppl to make themselves feel like they're not "othering" disabled ppl... except disabled ppl know they're disabled n they use the term disabled to describe themselves.... bc being disabled isn't an insult! So why are we treating the word as if it's bad? It's not. They're disabled. I've heard so many disabled ppl say this n talk about how it's actually more offense to come up w/ these weird new ways to describe them bc that means they view the actual term as some kind of insult when it's not. Lol. Able bodied ppl need to stop infantilizing disabled ppl n stop coming up w/ new weird ways to make themselves feel like they're being PC.... when nobody in the minority group is asking them to do this. Disabled. The person is disabled. There's nothing wrong w/ being disabled. So stop acting like there is.
If you are going to post a story, please take the time to actually read what you are posting. Multiple times in the article, including the headline, it says the barber was charging more for "disabled children", and you name the barber. From the picture the extra charge is for "special needs", and the barber in his response clearly says this is referring to cases where there are additional needs, and cuts that take longer. At no point does anyone say a disabled child was actually charged more, it was clearly a poorly worded sign, he has apologized for any offence and advised he will change the sign. Pushing this article with that narrative is irresponsible, and will just drive stupid people who have nothing to do with what happened to harass and bully a small business
Yes. I’m disabled and I have literally no problem with this. If it takes a fair bit longer or the kid is throwing a tantrum, it makes perfect sense to charge more. Honestly.
Load More Replies...As others have pointed out, the barber meant if the client came in with a "special" request (a non-standard haircut) that took longer, they may charge more. I think it's hilarious that nobody had a problem with them charging more to cut the girl's hair. Even if the barber did mean "special needs kids", wouldn't this also be discrimination against girls?
Yes, "special needs" has at times been a slightly PC alternative to now-totally-unacceptable terms which I won't list (although I dont think it's been used so much in that sense in recent years). But this barber is quite clearly not using it in that way at all, just that anyone with a special need in terms of their haircut may take longer to do and be charged more. English may not be his native language, but any discrimination based on that sign is clearly a result of some people being unable to read and understand. They should go back to school, perhaps, get some 'special' English classes?
Also, I have a cousin who is autistic. When their parents take them for haircuts they usually need 2x the length of time bc they are not okay w/ being touched. So it takes a bit for the child to warm up to the barber/stylist n for the child to actually sit still. My cousins parents have no issues w/ paying more for this bc they understand it can be a tedious process since the kid will need more someone w/ more patience to be able to work w/ them. This makes complete sense n anyone outraged about this is the problem. Having special needs means YOU HAVE DIFFERENT NEEDS FROM A CHILD/PERSON WHO DOESNT HAVE SPECIAL NEEDS! Therefore not every barber/stylist will be able to work w/ you or your kid. This person is more than willing to work for you/your kid they just ask that you pay more since it will take longer n be a different process than if the child didn't have special needs. Which is fair. Stop w/ this s**t already.
Can we talk about how he does charge more for a girl than a boy? Apparently unrelated to hair length?
Although a practise I disagree with, it IS standard. Which cones down to the difference between "hair stylist" and "barber" Not going to go into it heavily. But women often want a hair stylist who can do very complex things, but men often just want a barber to get a clean even cut. It's the difference between getting a flat buzz cut, and getting an intricate pattern buzed into the cut.
Load More Replies...I feel like a lot if the people complaining are ignoring this sign very obviously is not in use as it's BEHIND S**T. People getting pissed over an obsolete sign is just sad.
Getting a haircut when there are no other customers inside. Dimmed lights, no music unless requested, no small talk, maybe a support pet etc etc etc. I would pay good money for it!
Load More Replies...Stop saying "differently abled" they're disabled. That's the word. Differently abled is a term created by able bodied ppl to make themselves feel like they're not "othering" disabled ppl... except disabled ppl know they're disabled n they use the term disabled to describe themselves.... bc being disabled isn't an insult! So why are we treating the word as if it's bad? It's not. They're disabled. I've heard so many disabled ppl say this n talk about how it's actually more offense to come up w/ these weird new ways to describe them bc that means they view the actual term as some kind of insult when it's not. Lol. Able bodied ppl need to stop infantilizing disabled ppl n stop coming up w/ new weird ways to make themselves feel like they're being PC.... when nobody in the minority group is asking them to do this. Disabled. The person is disabled. There's nothing wrong w/ being disabled. So stop acting like there is.






















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