The grandma defending her grandson after that is truly disappointing. I can't believe she still criticized the girl after what her grandson did and actually tried to defend him. "Boys will be boys" is absolutely ridiculous. A normal guy with common sense wouldn't act the way her grandson did. That behavior is just inexcusable.

This exchange really sums up so many of the debates we are having at the moment. 'Boys will be boys'. Yes, and girls will get harassed, insulted, raped and killed because of this kind of attitude and upbringing. Fortunately, not only the women are finally starting to fight back in earnest, but more and more men are also sick and tired of the definition of men as ever-horny neanderthals who have no control over themselves.

As a husband, father and "boy", this behavior is not acceptable at all. This young man needs to be taught a hard lesson in manors very soon before he pulls this nonsense again.

He and his grandmother both are insulting and disgracing the male gender. Actual men have the mental capacity and self-respect to realize that abuse (emotional, psychological, physical, sexual) is never ok and that only pathetic males with no dignity would try to harass or assault anyone (not just females) . Both he and his grandmother are sick for what they did and said. His grandmother was completely nuts for daring to mention that the girl could have been more ‘courteous’ with her deceitful, and assaulting, grandson. Clearly, the grandmother and her grandson are the ones without any bit of manners seeing how both of them behaved with the girl. I am glad there are actual men who are just as tired of the misogynistic nonsense that women go through because of those pathetic males and their apologists as women are and they’re trying to help end this nonsense with their support.

She absolutely handled that perfectly. I'm going to keep this in mind next time I'm digitally flashed.

HOW WAS SHE IN ANY WAY LEADING HER ON??? SHE LITERALLY SAID I M FEELING REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE PLEASE STOP TEXTING ME???? SO DUMB!!!

"Boys will be boys"??? So boys get an automatic free pass just because of their gender?? The grandma is scolding Tamira for not being "more courteous", but defending her grandson's abusive behavior?? The double standard here is astounding.

If I was his grandma he would have got his a*s whooped. We need to eradicate this 'Boys will be boys' thinking, it doesn't excuse anything. But if boys will be boys, then girls will have to be girls. And this girl intends to keep being unladylike. Screw that a*****e.

My favorite part is him congratulating himself about how good of a guy he is for telling her she doesn't "have" to do anything sexual the "first few dates". Like he's really giving her a break or something. That would have been my "f**k off" point.

Grandma: "Boys will be Boys" What she should have said: "Boys will be held accountable for their actions just like everyone else"

Anyone who uses the phrase "boys will be boys" to try and excuse an individual man or boy of bad behavior of any sort is insulting the male gender.

"boys will be boys" idk how to react

Thus screams of narcissistic behavior! My crazy X used this type of gas lighting on me all the time when his fake sweet attitude was met with my pessimistic attitude! The mask soon falls when these creeps don't get their way! What was his game plan if they started to see each other? Trust me,they always have a trick up their sleeve!

I would not be surprised if a few years from now someone is interviewing this young woman on Investigation Discovery about how she tried to warn his family about the grossly aberrant of this future serial killer. However, I am astonished that "Grandma" thought the recipient of this garbage could have "handled herself more courteously." The entire time I was reading this I was thinking how gracious the young woman was being in the face of unwarranted creepiness. Grandma should stop making excuses for his vile behavior and get him some help before denial leads to tragedy.

This guy is just a lunatic. She should rather go to Police with it than send it to his grandmother which, by the way, is trying to justify his behavior, which is even more weird. Some proper authorities should take care of this guy or something really bad can happen in nearby future.

OMG - Grandma is going to do absolutely nothing and then say "he was always such a nice boy" when he assaults a woman who rejects him. To say Tami could have been more courteous when she was perfectly polite right up to the pic being sent, shows Grandma will take his side no matter what. The only thing I would say is that Tami should perhaps have been less polite and stopped texting at about "not even doing anything sexual". That was the point weird flipped over into creepy and he just took her politeness as encouragement. Perhaps "I've got a boyfriend" would also have been a good idea - don't share that you're single, or just split up until you know where this random texter is going with their chat.

Boys will be boys??? Ugh, not that line again. A better line is "Children should be expected to make mistakes - correct them." But this is a high school graduate so that line doesn't apply at all.

I’m sorrh but when people send you pics like that your supposed to have nice ‘ladylike’ manners when you haven’t talked them it forever I’m sorry but that is completely biased Let’s not forget the boys will be boys part Pictures like that I’m sorry NO that’s not just being a boy F*** all of that THAT IS NO EXCUSE!!!!

This guy is severely detached. His social skills are odd, he lies, and he feels entitled for a "return pic" because he sent one. His grandma is the problem, she thinks "boys will be boys" is the right answer? The only "boys" who act like that all have one thing in common, single.

No wonder he acts the way he does with family like that. This is repulsive in every way.

I’d be saving it and if he tries to contact you again, I’d take it to the police. Think, about the politician who is now in jail for doing just that very thing! And grandma? Thinking she MIGHTstill date him? I think she is seriously deluded, and I bed she just tells him he picked the wrong girl, again.. and doesn’t do much else. No means no regardless of who or how you know someone! He may end up assaulting someone, and his grandma has some responsibility behind that! So, don’t toss that conversation. Save it, just in case, like for at least a year! And I’d let your mom know, and see how grandma responded and I bet your mom will not be a happy camper at all let alone a happy and devoted Christian when she has a few things to say to grandma there! But I’d be more aware from now on.

This kind of hormons are called "patriarchy"

this is the kinda guys that shoot up schools.

I have a question: why do people send d**k pics? Do you think you might get a root or something...?

She should have just blocked his number from the moment he didn't believe her about getting a new phone. Also ridiculous that he lied about getting a degree! SMH

boys will be boys?? Sorry granny but i feel kind of disappointed... anyway. Tamira's reaction was polite and clear, if she used some strong vocabulary at the end... well he looked for it.

Maybe that isn't from Grandmother at all. Recommend caution.

" I got the side chicks and I'm doing you a favor"? If he had three women he's hooking up with he wouldn't need to abuse and harass this poor woman. Guys like this suffer from the small d**k syndrome. Have zero esteem or have had a single negative experience and then take it out in every woman to have ever existed. As if the women are the problem. Too egotistical to look within and realize it's them, not the entirety of woman kind. Too many excuses made by family. If I found out a close family member was behaving like this I'd stage an intervention. Get them the mental health care the need.

Grandma's condoning the behavior with boy will be boys and this lifelong boy will find himself unemployed and in legal trouble many times in the future.

Everyone is talking about grandma, but much more important and memorable is how mature Tamara handled it. She could have ridiculed him from the start but she kept talking calmly and nicely with him, she even tried to have a normal conversation about his study after all his annoying and pathetic 'seducing tricks' . And when, out of the blue, this d**k pic materialized, she did a very sensible thing. Even if grandma won't do anything about it it, he will, from now on, be so utterly ashamed and shocked, that he will never send d***s into space again.

If this is an actual exchange, this man has a serious and dangerous problem. Sending the text to the grandma may seem extreme, but if his family will not step in first, who will? Some might think it should be some "mental health professional", but unless he seeks help, or his family helps him seek help, no professional has any right or reason to intervene. Sadly, without family assistance, his "help" will likely start with the police.

Grandma is the same PIECE OF S**T. "You could had handled it more corteously"....go f**k yourself old fart and your psycho serial killer POS grandson. Runs in the family, evidently.

Okay I relate to this 100% and have had so many similar incidents of delusion and unwanted ween pics. I want to believe this is true ( for my ability to relate, not because I enjoy the creep lol ) but all of the typing seems so similar, and not to say grandmas can't type a story but I know my grandparents aren't the most tech savvy. Maybe I'm wrong. Don't down vote me, share your opinion.

Great to see this behavior shown up on my phone! Hopefully he willllll mature from this mess he caused himself!