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Teen Unexpectedly Inherits A ‘Crazy’ Inheritance From Dad, Drama Ensues When Mom Finds Out
Teen Unexpectedly Inherits A ‘Crazy’ Inheritance From Dad, Drama Ensues When Mom Finds Out
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Teen Unexpectedly Inherits A ‘Crazy’ Inheritance From Dad, Drama Ensues When Mom Finds Out

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It seems that running into a ton of cash is both a blessing and a curse. Whether it’s a lottery, or, in this case, an inheritance, it does have the power to turn an otherwise very normal predicament in life into an absolute mess.

A teen recently found out he had inherited quite a bit of money. This immediately prompted his mother (and by proxy, the step-dad) to start more or less pestering him to share it with his step-siblings. Conflicted, he turned to the Reddit community for some perspective.

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    A teen recently had to make a decision on whether to share his unexpected inheritance with his step-siblings, making his mother livid

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    Needless to say, the mother wasn’t the only one upset, so the kid turned to Reddit for some perspective

    The story goes that a 17-year-old ran into a bit of unexpected money. It was a trust left to him by his dad, which was actually a combination of what he had inherited from his parents as well as from two uncles. So, you can gather just how much that is.

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    It didn’t take long for the teen’s mother to start suggesting ideas to share the money. You see, the family isn’t doing well—never was—and this money would help OP’s step-siblings get a degree or a better life.

    After consulting with a lawyer and back-and-forths with the parents, the kid decided against sharing the money. You can guess how the mother and the step-father felt about that one.

    Folks online looked at the situation critically. For the most part, it was a very strong not the jerk, but many had questions. Mostly, it dealt with how much the dad was actually involved. If he wasn’t (which was not the case), then it’s only fair mom would get some support for raising OP. However, the situation was that the dad only took care of the kid while he was alive—once he was gone, there was only the inheritance, and the mom was now on her own.

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    In almost every case, those who inherit are by no means legally obligated to share that inheritance

    While every situation can come with its own nuances, in nearly all cases an inheritance is what it is as written and hence it belongs only to the people that it was assigned to.

    There are some exceptions, though. With marriage, community property law is one that would legally require property and assets to be shared. There’s also the concept of comingling assets, like inheriting money into a shared bank account. However, that is easily avoided by simply not putting the money there.

    As for cases with children, there is nothing legally binding that would determine a sharing clause—even more so with step-siblings. Parents do, however, have a duty to financially provide for their kids. Which the dad did. Up until death and even after it, in the form of an inheritance.

    Now, it is important to note that the two were never divorced, just separated. In many cases, surviving spouses can’t be completely cut out of a will. Depending on the state, a surviving spouse can get at least one-third of the estate (up to one half), but only if they go to court over it.

    The only questionable nuance here is that the dad left OP a trust, and not an inheritance. That adds a layer of complexity that can go in any direction depending on what the court decides. Among other things.

    So, what’s your take on this? Do you side with the kid keeping it all, or should he share some of it? Give us your honest opinions in the comment section below! And if you want more inheritance-focused drama, there is definitely more of it.

    A number of folks had questions about what the parenting dynamic was, which the teen answered

    Across the board, folks in the community didn’t see the kid’s fault in this

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    Robertas Lisickis

    Robertas Lisickis

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    Robertas Lisickis

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    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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    panther
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cynic in me thinks that given the chance his mom and stepdad would find a way to drain all of the kids money if they get access to it.

    Dragons Exist
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh they definitely would, he's lucky he can't touch it for 2 years or they would manipulate him like hell

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    Red Reilly
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid needs to get out of that house.

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    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being a parent I cannot understand how other parents seem to want to take money away from their kids. I mean ... it's like as if my kid came home from school with a muffin and I'd demand it for myself. Or demand that my kid share with me. Wtf is wrong with people. Be glad your oldest child is cared for and be happy for him. As parents it is our job to HELP our children. Not for them to support us.

    Hakitosama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I mean...if my kid came home saying I inherited $$$$$$$$ from a far away uncle I would be like: ho thanks f*cking god and bless that old f*cker's soul! One kid I don't have to worry about!

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    MiriPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The stepchildren aren't entitled to anything of course. However, dad left mom out in the cold financially when he knew he was dying and not capable of caring for his son for another 11 years. He didn't trust her to spend money on OP, but he could have left her a small amount of his money to her, when OP turns 19. I personally would calculate the cost of college and a house, but give some of the left over money to her actually.

    PeachPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spouses are generally not entitled to inheritances, depending on the state. Inheritances are not considered marital property unless the spouse is also named as a beneficiary.

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a tough one... when the dad knew he was dying, he should have set up an executor to ensure money went to help raise his son. He left the struggle only on the mom. I also understand the dad not trusting the mom to do the right thing. That said, I am a stepdad who raised three kids with their dad contributing very little financially to their lives. We struggled, but did fine. If by some chance he leaves them an estate, I wouldn't want a penny of it. We made it without him and at least in death he would have some value to those kids.

    PeachPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is an 'executor'. That person/entity is called the Trustee. It could be the lawyer who drew up the trust or someone else. OP needs to contact the trustee

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    lenka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The father died 10 years ago without leaving any provisions for the financial care of his child because he didn't trust the mother. At the very least, he could have set up the trust to provide the mother with a monthly stipend for housing, food, education etc. Instead he left the mother to struggle to raise and financially support the son on her own, and the son likely missed out on opportunities due to financial constraints. The father is an AH of the highest class. The OP has no legal or moral obligation to make any adjustment for anyone and least of all his his step siblings. Personally, if it were me, I would probably want to make a contribution to my mother (not step siblings) directly either by way of her retirement fund or mortgage equal to the value of child support for 10 years because if the father had not been an AH and intentionally structured his finances to prevent it, she would have been entitled to that from the beginning.

    Bobbi Lichtenfels Hughes Duncan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP's mom should be receiving survivor's benefits from SS for OP. So she does receive assistance for raising OP. NTA

    Steve Hall
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't let anybody fool you. If your parents were still married when your dad died, your mom got a widows pension from social security and you got money from them as the child of a deceased parent.

    Julia French
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if his father was still legally "married" to his mom she may have a case to contest the will. this kid needs a lawyer.

    Natasha Clark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA!! Your dad set that money aside specifically for his son. Not his son plus stepsiblings your mom didn't even give birth to. She picked & married a man with extra baggage. Not your problem!!

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    panther
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cynic in me thinks that given the chance his mom and stepdad would find a way to drain all of the kids money if they get access to it.

    Dragons Exist
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh they definitely would, he's lucky he can't touch it for 2 years or they would manipulate him like hell

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    Red Reilly
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid needs to get out of that house.

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    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being a parent I cannot understand how other parents seem to want to take money away from their kids. I mean ... it's like as if my kid came home from school with a muffin and I'd demand it for myself. Or demand that my kid share with me. Wtf is wrong with people. Be glad your oldest child is cared for and be happy for him. As parents it is our job to HELP our children. Not for them to support us.

    Hakitosama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I mean...if my kid came home saying I inherited $$$$$$$$ from a far away uncle I would be like: ho thanks f*cking god and bless that old f*cker's soul! One kid I don't have to worry about!

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    MiriPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The stepchildren aren't entitled to anything of course. However, dad left mom out in the cold financially when he knew he was dying and not capable of caring for his son for another 11 years. He didn't trust her to spend money on OP, but he could have left her a small amount of his money to her, when OP turns 19. I personally would calculate the cost of college and a house, but give some of the left over money to her actually.

    PeachPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spouses are generally not entitled to inheritances, depending on the state. Inheritances are not considered marital property unless the spouse is also named as a beneficiary.

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a tough one... when the dad knew he was dying, he should have set up an executor to ensure money went to help raise his son. He left the struggle only on the mom. I also understand the dad not trusting the mom to do the right thing. That said, I am a stepdad who raised three kids with their dad contributing very little financially to their lives. We struggled, but did fine. If by some chance he leaves them an estate, I wouldn't want a penny of it. We made it without him and at least in death he would have some value to those kids.

    PeachPossum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is an 'executor'. That person/entity is called the Trustee. It could be the lawyer who drew up the trust or someone else. OP needs to contact the trustee

    Load More Replies...
    lenka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The father died 10 years ago without leaving any provisions for the financial care of his child because he didn't trust the mother. At the very least, he could have set up the trust to provide the mother with a monthly stipend for housing, food, education etc. Instead he left the mother to struggle to raise and financially support the son on her own, and the son likely missed out on opportunities due to financial constraints. The father is an AH of the highest class. The OP has no legal or moral obligation to make any adjustment for anyone and least of all his his step siblings. Personally, if it were me, I would probably want to make a contribution to my mother (not step siblings) directly either by way of her retirement fund or mortgage equal to the value of child support for 10 years because if the father had not been an AH and intentionally structured his finances to prevent it, she would have been entitled to that from the beginning.

    Bobbi Lichtenfels Hughes Duncan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP's mom should be receiving survivor's benefits from SS for OP. So she does receive assistance for raising OP. NTA

    Steve Hall
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't let anybody fool you. If your parents were still married when your dad died, your mom got a widows pension from social security and you got money from them as the child of a deceased parent.

    Julia French
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if his father was still legally "married" to his mom she may have a case to contest the will. this kid needs a lawyer.

    Natasha Clark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA!! Your dad set that money aside specifically for his son. Not his son plus stepsiblings your mom didn't even give birth to. She picked & married a man with extra baggage. Not your problem!!

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