And we wonder why there are so few male teachers in elementary schools. We desperately need them because far too many of our kiddos do not have good male role models in their lives. I guess this post proves why.

I'm a tall dude with a beard, for some reason i ATTRACT children like some kind of magnet. Whenever there are children at an event there is almost a 100% certainty they'll pool around me. I've practically raised my nephews and at this point i'm comfortable around kids but i have to thread veeeeeery carefully because being a man it's not really a quality.

Report Cathy's presence to HR as an attempt to create constructive dismissal. They are not including you in group discussions, excluding you from meetings and are now setting up conditions to make you look bad or worse, a criminal. You are the only male in an all female group. Ask to either be moved to another group or for Maria to be banned from bringing her kid to work if she feels threatened by male interaction

This is why we need to fight discrimination against men too, men aren't even allowed to experience and express one of the most fundamental human feelings: liking children. This is horrible towards men. And also horrible towards children, because they might miss out on playing with someone who could be their favorite adult, and a great role model. And miss out on someone who might have been the best kindergarten teacher ever. And sure, an adult man who plays with a kid could be grooming a child, BUT SO COULD EVERY WOMAN. So she should keep her kid away from all the women in the office too, if she's that concerned.

If she does not want her coworkers to talk to het kid, she should not bring it to the office, let alone leave jetzt there

This borders on a form of sexual harassment. Go to HR to cover yourself, and ask that the child not be brought to the office again since she's being left unattended for coworkers to babysit instead of working. There's no excuse for any of this.

he needs to go straight to his boss or hr and explain everything before his coworkers gets a chance to twist the truth

OK, so here's why I think BP's hatred of "incels" is just plain evil. (And to be clear, I'm using this word as used on BP, not as self-identifying members of any group use it.) Of the listed "creepy" trails and behaviors, two of them indicate sexually inappropriate behavior, but ten indicate behaviors associated with Asperger's syndrome, and six indicate mere physical characteristics. (And this doesn't even consider the fact that people with poor social skills may act sexually creepy simply because of poor social skills and not because of sexist attitudes; they may genuinely misidentify a friendly smile as a "hey there, sexy" smile; I have a spectrum issue -- hyperlexia -- and I erred in the opposite direction. While I'm happily married now, that carried the cost of a lot of loneliness [clarification:MY loneliness], confused women*, and low self esteem) (*My wife pointed out several of my "friends" who behaved jealously towards her once I was "taken.")