or people just change. like ya know. humans do. we all age. all get older and saggy. its nature. if people cant come to terms with that then they need a reality check.

Yea, but im sure she told him that she was under weight and that was why she was gaining weight, and he went and said she was "getting a beer gut". Tbh, this makes me pretty sad cause it hits close to home. A couple years ago, i ended up going down to 60lbs and had to gain weight because my hair was starting to come out and stuff from being too small. But when i was gaining back the weight, my own family (including my grandmother) kept saying things like "Arent you getting kinda fat?" and stuff. Its pretty hard coming from someone that's supposed to love you

@BREAK YOUr perceptions I think that is more because of my desire to communicate. There is I slight difference between writing a comment anonymously and posting dozens of pictures in underwear, private conversations and telling the whole internet about their private life. @Misty Evergreen No! No sane person needs to do this. She's acting like she has major psychological problems and she was not in any way "beaten down by her BF".

@Roman, a slight difference yes but ultimately its semantics to say you are looking for attention. and im pretty sure it didnt start off with her posting a bunch of pictures scantily clad. the main point of the entire tirade sent out was because she wanted to know she wasnt alone in thinking her boyfriend was being insensitive and overbearing. to say mental or emotional abuse CANNOT lead to major psychological problems would be a a grand disservice to mental health as a whole. maybe she didnt have problems YET but this kind of hostility and dehumanizing can certainly lead to it.

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And sometimes that's exactly what people need. This girl was so beaten down by her BF that she began to believe all the c**p things he said. She wanted to know that someone out there actually cared.

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Yes, lost muscle mass and gained fat. The number of the scale is the same, but the body completely different - there is even a story on bored panda about this: https://www.boredpanda.com/same-weight-fitness-incredible-transformations/