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A group chat is a great way to connect with members of a group, team or organization and quickly exchange information through messages. They’re especially handy for getting in touch with people you might not see as often, like high school or college friends or organizing a birthday party or planning a gift for the said occasion. However, one downside to it is that it doesn’t take much for it to spiral into complete chaos, whether due to an ignorant comment or a wrong text.

Recently, X user posed the question, “What was the incident in your group chat?" that resulted in many answers detailing the unfortunate events that took place in them. Bored Panda handpicked the juiciest ones to quench your thirst for drama. To find them, all you have to do is scroll down.

A study has found that an average person is a part of a whopping 83 different group chats

A poll of 2,000 adult social media users revealed that 36% communicate using these chats more than they do in person. 52% opt for group chats instead of phone calls and 26% are more glad to text than have one-on-one conversations. 

The most common themes of group chats were family (66%), friend groups (30%) and night out planning (30%). 

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Professor of evolutionary psychology Robin Dunbar, who was a part of this study, commented on these findings by saying, “Maintaining contact with our networks is one of the most important things we can ever do. Not just because they are fun to spend time with, but because research shows that having a small, cohesive group of friends and contacts massively improves our mental health and wellbeing—and even our physical health.”

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In addition, the study found that 50% prefer group chats out of convenience of sharing pictures and videos and personal updates (56%). Around 53% favour this way of texting because it’s easy to plan things and 35% opt for it so everyone can hear news at the same time.

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Huddo's sister
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My family has one chat that is just my siblings, mum and I and one that includes my stepdad and step sister because my stepdad doesn't get why we talk about 'unimportant' things or send memes. He just wants to be included in plans for catch ups, which he then forgets until the day before.

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6 in 10 say that online chats help them feel more connected with loved ones that live further from them, while 43% reported that their family was brought closer by being a part of a group chat. 23% have even made a new friend with a person they met by being in the same group.

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Chaotictomybone
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 38 year old ex friend with a kid disclosed he has been in a relationship with my 18 year old cousin for the past year or so, FYI she just turned 18 this year. We just found out last week

Bob Brooce
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So your 34y friend is in love or lust with another adult? That happens regularly. Sometimes the relation lasts and sometimes it doesn't.

Marlowe Fitzpatrik
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So - is this real, or does this friend just have a crush on an unavailable person. It's not quite clear what the "" mean. Why not have some sex with a younger person if both are over the legal age and consenting? I really don't see all the outrage if BOTH ARE OKAY WITH IT. (I have to caps just in case people come at me). Young people can just as much fall in love with older people than vice-verse. Everyone's all (rightfully so) asking for being taken seriously when you're old enough to know your own mind, but in this issue for some reason this community always gets in uproar when young people decide who they want to have sax with.

LaserBrain
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people like to make it their business who other people choose to have sxx with. Sometimes these people think that others are not mature enough to make their own decisions.

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Dariusz M. D.
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2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson Jesus loves you more than you will know. Is it illegal? What is the age of consent in Murica? What age gap is appropriate? Are there any rules of engagement? As long as they are two or three or four consenting adult, I say it's nobody's business.

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StarCrossedFriday
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HP sauce? HP printers? Harry Potter? Probably the last one - I got murdered online by someone who insisted that because I had read Harry Potter, I was clearly okay with slavery (because of the house elves).

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Trillian
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3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only psychopaths send voice notes. If you want to talk, call me. But don't expect me to listen to your stream of consciousness for minutes on end.

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