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New Neighbor Gets Blasted By Mormon Guests After Dinner As They Discovered That The Sauce He Made Contained Red Wine
Most of us have food and taste preferences and will not eat certain foods because we don’t find them delicious. Others choose a diet based on moral principles, like the vegan diet and there are people who have dietary restrictions because of their religion and, for example, don’t eat certain meat.
Turns out, Mormons aren’t allowed to consume alcohol in any form and this chef on Reddit didn’t know that, so when his guests found out his recipe included a sauce with red wine, they got really mad and now the man is torn as to whether he should have researched their lifestyle before making anything for them.
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Man just moved into the neighborhood and already made a bad impression on his neighbors who are Mormon by serving them a dish containing alcohol
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The Original Poster (OP) is a classically trained French chef who has spent over a decade in France, moving from Seattle, USA to train and cook in various restaurants. 5 years ago, he met the love of his life in the most romantic country in the world, but funnily enough, she is also American and was visiting the country on vacation.
At first the two lived in France, but as the couple decided to have children, the wife thought it would be best to come back to the States where her family is as she believed their child should be close to their grandparents.
For a long time the OP lived in France, but after deciding to create a family with his wife, they moved back to the US where her family lives
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The couple got help from neighbors with the move and the OP felt very grateful for that, so he decided to treat them to a dinner, seeing that he became a chef in France
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The chef agreed to move and they just returned to the wife’s hometown, Salt Lake City in Utah. It was a big move, but thankfully, they had helpful neighbors who were really friendly and came to give a hand so everything took a lot less time than originally planned.
During the process they chatted about the house and the neighborhood, promising a happy life there. The OP was so grateful that he wanted to repay his neighbors for their efforts by organizing a feast and putting his cooking skills to work.
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Not everyone came, but the OP cooked a luxurious 4-course dinner for those who did and the guests loved the entree so much, they wanted to know the recipe. The entree was Gigot qui Pleure, which is a lamb meat dish usually eaten with potatoes, and the chef served it with a pan sauce.
That sauce included red wine and when his guests saw that, they were horrified as they were all Mormons and they are not allowed to consume alcohol as it is considered a harmful substance, according to the Word of Wisdom, their sacred text. They accused the OP of being disrespectful towards their beliefs and accused him of trying to corrupt them with alcohol.
The guests loved one of the dishes so much that they asked for the recipe but were horrified to learn the sauce was made with red wine
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The OP’s wife was also upset as she wanted to have a friendly relationship with her neighbors but it started with such a scandal. Other people in OP’s life had different reactions.
Some of them thought it was the chef’s responsibility to do his research before taking up the task to cook for people belonging to a religious group. Others put the responsibility of warning the chef about their dietary preferences on the guests and compared having food restrictions to having allergies.
The Mormons were really mad and the OP’s wife was upset their relationship with their new neighbors had started like this
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Furthermore, the OP did ask the Mormons to inform him about anything that they couldn’t eat 3 days before the dinner, but it seems that the guests thought knowing Mormons don’t consume alcohol is common knowledge.
The OP mentioned in the comments that he has never met a Mormon knowingly so he didn’t have experience with them. Also, his wife isn’t Mormon, so he wouldn’t know what their customs are.
The OP simply didn’t know about this dietary restriction but some people in his life told him that he should have looked it up
Image credits: DisplacedChef
Image source: Jens Ohlig (not the actual photo)
As people in his life were telling him two different things, the chef took it to Reddit and asked people on the internet if he was to blame in this situation. And it seems that most people thought that the person who has specific things they don’t eat should be the one bringing it up.
Do you think the OP should have known Mormons don’t consume alcohol? Or that he should have looked it up? Or do you agree with other redditors who considered this to be an honest mistake that was made because the Mormons didn’t warn him about their customs? Voice your opinions in the comments!
However, people in the comments were of the opinion that it was the Mormons’ responsibility to warn the chef about what they can’t drink or eat
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Jason Brewer 2 years ago
For the people who say he should know that Mormons don't drink alcohol. Guess what the Mormons should know that French cuisine uses allot of alcohol. Not really a valid argument you can't expect everybody to know everyone's dietary choices. It's not like people wear signs announcing there dietary choices. It's up to the individual to vet the food they consume. Defiantly not to blame. An apology is all that should be required. The cornerstone of Christianity is forgiveness.
Vladimíra Matejová 2 years ago
yup as a European I know as much about mormons as about some tribes in New Guinea. But everyone knows French cuisine is full of wine. they have dietary restrictions they should have said beforehand
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Trish Smith 2 years ago
He ASKED three days ahead of the meal, if there were any dietary restrictions he needed to be aware of. None of them responded with any restrictions. Neither he, nor his wife, are Mormons and were aware of this. No, he didn't have an "obligation" to research Mormons and their beliefs. Give the guy a break! Definitely, NTA!! He was a good neighbor repaying a good deed with an excellent meal.
Evil Little Thing 2 years ago
Having grown up in Utah surrounded by Mormons, I'm pretty sure that they only objected to the wine sauce because the other Mormon attendees knew about it. There's an old joke from deer camp - "How do you keep a Mormon from drinking all your beer over deer hunt? You bring another Mormon."
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Zedrapazia 2 years ago
I'd have recommended them to stay in France. Less crazy cults, better working situations, and their kids won't be shot at school by some lunatic one day. Seems like a 100% downgrade.
Zedrapazia 2 years ago
Being "close to family" isn't worth it for deciding to raise kids in a country where their future will be rigged with danger, debts and a government that does whatever it wants.
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Jason Brewer 2 years ago
For the people who say he should know that Mormons don't drink alcohol. Guess what the Mormons should know that French cuisine uses allot of alcohol. Not really a valid argument you can't expect everybody to know everyone's dietary choices. It's not like people wear signs announcing there dietary choices. It's up to the individual to vet the food they consume. Defiantly not to blame. An apology is all that should be required. The cornerstone of Christianity is forgiveness.
Vladimíra Matejová 2 years ago
yup as a European I know as much about mormons as about some tribes in New Guinea. But everyone knows French cuisine is full of wine. they have dietary restrictions they should have said beforehand
Load More Replies... Trish Smith 2 years ago
He ASKED three days ahead of the meal, if there were any dietary restrictions he needed to be aware of. None of them responded with any restrictions. Neither he, nor his wife, are Mormons and were aware of this. No, he didn't have an "obligation" to research Mormons and their beliefs. Give the guy a break! Definitely, NTA!! He was a good neighbor repaying a good deed with an excellent meal.
Evil Little Thing 2 years ago
Having grown up in Utah surrounded by Mormons, I'm pretty sure that they only objected to the wine sauce because the other Mormon attendees knew about it. There's an old joke from deer camp - "How do you keep a Mormon from drinking all your beer over deer hunt? You bring another Mormon."
Load More Replies... Zedrapazia 2 years ago
I'd have recommended them to stay in France. Less crazy cults, better working situations, and their kids won't be shot at school by some lunatic one day. Seems like a 100% downgrade.
Zedrapazia 2 years ago
Being "close to family" isn't worth it for deciding to raise kids in a country where their future will be rigged with danger, debts and a government that does whatever it wants.
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