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Woman Threatens To Break Up With BF If He Won’t Forgive $10K Theft, Gets Taken To Court Instead
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Woman Threatens To Break Up With BF If He Won’t Forgive $10K Theft, Gets Taken To Court Instead

Woman Threatens To Break Up With BF If He Won’t Forgive $10K Theft, Gets Taken To Court InsteadGuy Refuses To Let His $10K Collection Go To A Random Child, Takes GF And Her Mom To CourtWoman Says Daughter’s BF “Shouldn’t Have Toys,” Steals His $10-$11k Collection For Her Grandson“Shouldn’t Have Toys”: Woman Steals Daughter’s BF’s Toys, Beginning The End Of Their RelationshipGuy Leaves GF Because She Supported Her Mom Stealing About $10k Worth Of Toys From HimMIL Takes Guy’s Toys To Give To Her Grandson: “Value Is Roughly $10-$11k”“Felony-Level Theft”: Relationship Ends After Woman’s Mom Steal Her BF’s ToysRelationship Turns Into Court Battle After GF’s Mom Refuses To Return Transformers Collection“My Girlfriend’s Mother Took My Transformer Toys To Give To Her Grandson”
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For some people, such things as porcelain plates, fridge magnets, or signed basketballs might not mean much. But for individuals who collect them, they are way more than just knick knacks or sports equipment.

This redditor, for instance, had a collection of Transformer toys, some dating as far back as the 1980s. That was until his girlfriend’s mother took it without asking and gave it away to her grandson. Needless to say, the owner of the toys wasn’t too happy about it, but his girlfriend said she would end their relationship if he reported the theft.

Scroll down to find the full story in his own words below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with an adjunct associate professor of neurology at Indiana University and author of Inside the Head of a Collector: Neuropsychological Forces at Play, neuroscientist Shirley M. Mueller, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions on collecting as a hobby.

Figurines and toys of different sorts often become cherished collectables

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This man had a collection of Transformer toys, until his girlfriend’s mother gave it away to her grandson

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Vintage Transformer figures can be worth thousands of dollars

In a recent interview with Bored Panda, Indiana University Adjunct Associate Professor of Neurology Shirley M. Mueller, an avid collector herself, noted that when the person doesn’t collect items themself, the personal significance is missed and not appreciated. That’s why it might seem like a bizarre activity to some, but many people have likely tried collecting something at least once in their lives.

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According to the expert, there are many things that can encourage individuals to take up such a hobby, from nostalgia and personal identification, to seeking a certain social status or following an intellectual interest. Discussing what makes collecting items fun and exciting for those involved, she pointed out that it enlarges their lives from a workaday existence to one with meaning beyond. “Collecting enriches living, embraces our intellect, and widens our social circles,” she said.

As a child myself, I remember collecting all things elephants – mostly useless elephant figurines that are now collecting dust somewhere in my parents’ basement, a few plush toys, and maybe a T-shirt? I don’t even remember exactly, as it didn’t turn out to be too valuable of a collection.

Some knick knacks from one’s childhood, however, can be of great value both sentiment- and money-wise, as they were in the OP’s case. According to TransformerLand, Transformer toys in boxes that haven’t been opened can sell for hundreds—sometimes even thousands—of dollars. Even though in order to be of the highest possible value, they have to be unused, pieces that have been taken out of their original packaging can be seemingly pretty valuable, too.

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Yahoo seconded the idea that those who are lucky enough to have a Transformers figurine from the late 1900s are sitting on a goldmine. According to said source, the original Transformers action figure—the Optimus Prime AFA Graded and Sealed Transformers 1984 Hasbro Figure, to be exact—from the year the franchise was first released can bring its owner more than $8,000 dollars. Bumblebee or Megatron figures are reportedly sought after, too, so you might want to check your parents’ basement, in case you are sitting on a goldmine without even realizing.

Other noteworthy toys from the ‘80s that can bring a fortune to the owners include but are not limited to G.I. Joe Action Figures from 1982 (reportedly worth more than $12,500 dollars), a set of 102 Star Wars Action Figures from 1977 to 1985 (worth a staggering $38,500 dollars), and a set of 14 Mini Dolls comprising the Vintage Polly Pocket Pollyville Playsets Rare Deluxe Giftset (valued at $15,000 dollars).

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Adults are now buying more toys for themselves than for any other age group

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People’s interest in collecting—and not only playing with—toys has seemingly had something to do with an interesting turn in the toy market – as of this year, adults have surpassed the previously dominant preschooler market by buying more toys for themselves than for any other age group, CNN reports. In the period between January and April of 2024, consumers aged 18 and up have reportedly spent roughly $1.5 billion on toy-related purchases.

According to CNN, the top reasons for adults storming toy stores were personal fun, socialization, and collecting, but no matter the reason, for many of them, Covid seemed to push their interest in toys even more. “During the pandemic, when people were flush with cash and had time to spend at home whether with their families or alone, they wanted to reconnect with the toys that made them happy as kids,” the Editor in Chief of The Toy Book, James Zahn, told CNN.

Statista revealed that the pandemic was indeed an active time for collectors of all ages. According to its data from March of 2021, millennials were the largest group of collectors of physical items as a hobby or investment in the United States, followed closely by representatives of Gen X, then baby boomers, and Gen Zers respectively.

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The OP—a representative of Gen Z himself—didn’t specify when he started collecting the items or where he got the Transformers from the 1980s from, but he disclosed that the collection is likely worth at least $10,000 dollars. Even if there was no sentimental value, the monetary one alone can be enough to make one’s blood boil upon thinking that it’s been taken away; not to mention the fact that it happened after the owner’s girlfriend’s mother entered his apartment without his knowledge. Fellow redditors seemingly had things to say about the mother’s actions, so they did in the comments, where the OP provided some more details, too, in addition to a couple of updates on how the situation unfolded.

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The OP provided more details in the comments, as people had things to say or ask

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The man decided to break things off with his girlfriend

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Nearly two years later, the owner of the collectibles let fellow netizens know how the story unfolded

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BeesEelsAndPups
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty sure it started with a girlfriend who wanted her BFs toys gone. Then when they realized they had value, they made some cash.

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Nitka Tsar
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely agree. Girlfriend thought it was childish, so she stole them. Maybe even dumped them somewhere, before she knew how much they were worth.

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KatSaidWhat
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should have dumped the gf and reported immediately once GF said to let it go because she is more valuable. gf's mother basically trespassed and stole - I would not be staying with a gr who condoned that. She would be out, the locks changed and she can find out that stupid actions have severe consequences. I hope the kid opened all the toys thus bringing the value right down as he did not get them back.

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Royal Stray
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They absolutely plan to sell them for a higher value or already have. What a pos GF

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Trillian
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really don't understand how this even becomes a story. This woman takes a key and goes into his apartment without his consent to take away things SHE thinks he shouldn't have? That on top of this are really valuable? And he doesn't tell her to give them back this instant or he will get the police involved? And he does not want to upset his gf who sides with her mother in this? Peeeeeeople.

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Glasofruix
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guy should have gone to his GF's mom and shopped around her house for the most expensive stuff she had.

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smugdruggler
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not only thieves, but surely there's a conspiracy to commit theft in there somewhere. I would want the full cost of replacing the collection and the harshest punishment possible too. Just a horrible breach of trust.

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H. B. Nielsen
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a toy collector this one really hit me. He should have threatened the mom with legal action sooner and never settled for a penny less than their current market value. So messed up, I bet some of what he had isn't even replaceable. This lady and anyone else involved in the conspiracy should have been convicted. I feel like it's also possible since the items were toys and not something like jewelry the outcome may have been impacted.

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JustABored1
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're gonna break up with me? Girl, we're already done, and momma's going to jail!!

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Pyla
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She probably won't get the full 10 or 13k in sales. fees, shipping, and packing, plus even insurance will eat into it. Making over 600 will entail tax ramifications, too. It's a generational thing. Mom's bric-a-brac is as much landfill to him as his collectibles are to her. Keep valuables locked up.

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H. B. Nielsen
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a toy collector I can tell you it's just not feasible to lock everything more often than not. Even if you do it's a glass cabinet that is easy as pie to break. A good renters or homeowner's insurance policy is great protection though. My insurance company even insurers things in storage or things you keep at someone else's house.

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The 0roburos
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He did try and be nice.. talk it out and get his stuff back.. The EX may have been in on a scam, but either way once your good nature was being taken advantage of and you saw who they really were it would be time to Call the cops. Create an undeniable paper trail and get back that G1 set of transformers.. M-O-P Money over Pu💰💰y.

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Melissa anderson
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6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The mother is a thief and his hopefully ex-gf is her accomplice. They both should be reported to the police and be arrested.

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Dre Mosley
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6 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, mom and daughter sold them off and split the cash. That's why they couldn't be recovered, they no longer have them.

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Grant Bannister
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6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She found out what they were worth and got her mum to come and steal them. These were immediately sold and money split between Gf and her mum.

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Steve Hall
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy should have named the girlfriend as an accomplice and pushed for jail time.

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Lee
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Update says he didn't get them back, so what happened? This seems like a b******t story to me.

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UpupaEpops
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most likely it was sold the second they learned about the value. If they didn't know already. Something tells me the gf knew full well.

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Mike m
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1 week ago

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Guys a pushover and deserves to have no collectables.

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Ben Aziza
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ahh yes the guy who went to court over it is a pushover. The man who broke up with a what he thought was gf and was actually a scammer does not deserve anything. How about you stfu and take you bully macho attitude elsewhere.

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BeesEelsAndPups
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty sure it started with a girlfriend who wanted her BFs toys gone. Then when they realized they had value, they made some cash.

nitka711 avatar
Nitka Tsar
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely agree. Girlfriend thought it was childish, so she stole them. Maybe even dumped them somewhere, before she knew how much they were worth.

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KatSaidWhat
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should have dumped the gf and reported immediately once GF said to let it go because she is more valuable. gf's mother basically trespassed and stole - I would not be staying with a gr who condoned that. She would be out, the locks changed and she can find out that stupid actions have severe consequences. I hope the kid opened all the toys thus bringing the value right down as he did not get them back.

royalstray avatar
Royal Stray
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They absolutely plan to sell them for a higher value or already have. What a pos GF

zora24_1 avatar
Trillian
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really don't understand how this even becomes a story. This woman takes a key and goes into his apartment without his consent to take away things SHE thinks he shouldn't have? That on top of this are really valuable? And he doesn't tell her to give them back this instant or he will get the police involved? And he does not want to upset his gf who sides with her mother in this? Peeeeeeople.

tambovtsev-igor avatar
Glasofruix
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guy should have gone to his GF's mom and shopped around her house for the most expensive stuff she had.

hogeterprose avatar
julesandpaul avatar
smugdruggler
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not only thieves, but surely there's a conspiracy to commit theft in there somewhere. I would want the full cost of replacing the collection and the harshest punishment possible too. Just a horrible breach of trust.

Load More Replies...
h_b_nielsen avatar
H. B. Nielsen
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a toy collector this one really hit me. He should have threatened the mom with legal action sooner and never settled for a penny less than their current market value. So messed up, I bet some of what he had isn't even replaceable. This lady and anyone else involved in the conspiracy should have been convicted. I feel like it's also possible since the items were toys and not something like jewelry the outcome may have been impacted.

ronh_ avatar
JustABored1
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're gonna break up with me? Girl, we're already done, and momma's going to jail!!

johannazamora_1 avatar
Pyla
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She probably won't get the full 10 or 13k in sales. fees, shipping, and packing, plus even insurance will eat into it. Making over 600 will entail tax ramifications, too. It's a generational thing. Mom's bric-a-brac is as much landfill to him as his collectibles are to her. Keep valuables locked up.

h_b_nielsen avatar
H. B. Nielsen
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a toy collector I can tell you it's just not feasible to lock everything more often than not. Even if you do it's a glass cabinet that is easy as pie to break. A good renters or homeowner's insurance policy is great protection though. My insurance company even insurers things in storage or things you keep at someone else's house.

Load More Replies...
e-lee-3 avatar
The 0roburos
Community Member
1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He did try and be nice.. talk it out and get his stuff back.. The EX may have been in on a scam, but either way once your good nature was being taken advantage of and you saw who they really were it would be time to Call the cops. Create an undeniable paper trail and get back that G1 set of transformers.. M-O-P Money over Pu💰💰y.

mekla avatar
Melissa anderson
Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The mother is a thief and his hopefully ex-gf is her accomplice. They both should be reported to the police and be arrested.

dremosley avatar
Dre Mosley
Community Member
6 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, mom and daughter sold them off and split the cash. That's why they couldn't be recovered, they no longer have them.

grantban891 avatar
Grant Bannister
Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She found out what they were worth and got her mum to come and steal them. These were immediately sold and money split between Gf and her mum.

oldmanfl01 avatar
Steve Hall
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy should have named the girlfriend as an accomplice and pushed for jail time.

lisamai-wood avatar
Lee
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Update says he didn't get them back, so what happened? This seems like a b******t story to me.

zselyke_szekely avatar
UpupaEpops
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most likely it was sold the second they learned about the value. If they didn't know already. Something tells me the gf knew full well.

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Mike m
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1 week ago

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Guys a pushover and deserves to have no collectables.

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Ben Aziza
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ahh yes the guy who went to court over it is a pushover. The man who broke up with a what he thought was gf and was actually a scammer does not deserve anything. How about you stfu and take you bully macho attitude elsewhere.

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