Who actually blocks their significant other in what could be considered an otherwise normal experience. Anyone who blocks me should make it permanent as I'd nope my way right out of there.

I don't care if someone I care about uses words like "my balls hurt" or "my boobs hurt" or "my patootie hurts" when they're texting me, if they're telling me they're in pain in that part of their body, I'm going home to check on them immediately. Part of caring about someone is trusting and believing them, and unless they have a history of texting you at random times and saying "lol my balls hurt, help"... why wouldn't you at least ANSWER the call? Then again, OP's gf is 22... the club is clearly more important to her than he is.

Update post here. https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1cf46si/update_wibta_for_dumping_my_girlfreind_after_she/

One such call MAYBE could be a joke, but after few + texts? F**k this s**t.

If she had taken any one of the multiple calls, even if just to b*****k him, she would know he wasn't kidding. Instead she blocked him, and was also angry at vomit. She needs dumping.

These people are wasting words from the dictionary & precious time. He didn't say he'll break up with her or mentioned this is a red flag for future reference if choose to propose. I cannot imagine her response if her children were in an emergency at school. Truly hope she learned a valuable lesson from this experience.

Nah, fk the girlfriend. It doesn't matter how he explained it, she showed no care for him whatsoever, not even enough to just pick up the phone after 3 calls. EVERYONE who isn't a narcissist would be concerned after that point and answer or check to make sure. Also this is such a double standard, if a woman was to say her vagina hurt, followed by call after call, after call, I have no doubt most dudes would rush home in concern. But because women don't understand how dangerous testicles are and how easily they can get hurt, they just brush it off as "he's making a joke because of the way he said it". Ladies, when you have that level of pain, the world goes white, and you are not thinking clearly, if you get hit there by someone else, you literally go primal for a second and want to murder that person. I figured out right away from begining of the story that it was testicular torsion because it's a serious fear for us guys that know about it.

Can't believe that some people think this guy, who was probably in the worst pain of his life, should have been able to give a full description of his problem? She should've called him or gone home to him. I can't imagine being so dismissive of my boyfriend.

Seems genuinely remorseful. 5 years is not something to casually walk away from. I'd say sit down with your feelings for a couple weeks and consider it. Also talk it through, maybe get some individual and couple's counselling. That was a painful and traumatic experience and it takes a while for your brain to process the issue dispassionately.

1 dump the b***h 2 Men get your fricken self checked when you have a pain in the region. My partner lost a testical due to twist. Lucky he didn't lose it all.

Its funny, girls see trendy tik toks about fake emergencies to test their bf, but this one failed horibly on the real one. Hope OP gets new GF

Toxic. There is an old Flock of Seagulls song that goes, "And I ran, I ran so far away I just ran, I ran all night and day I couldn't get away." Run, dude, run.

I sort of did this to my fiance...I went out to dinner with a friend and did the "right" thing by putting my phone in my purse to talk with my friend uninterrupted. I felt the phone buzz a few times but didn't answer it. Afterwards found out he cut his hand pretty bad and needed stitches...

I am not usually a fan of "Well, we need more information." But we really do. I think NAH... I don't joke like that with my wife of 25 years, but if I texted her to come home because "my balls hurt", she would probably laugh and ignore me too. I can easily see how she would think it was some kind of weird, horny text. I could also see how she might ignore my texts after that as well... I doubt she would, but it's possible. He has no idea how horrible she feels and should talk to her about it, so they can move past a miscommunication that both had a hand in creating.

I think there is a lot more to this story, starting with him being dishonest about either being fine with her clubbing or him not pulling pranks in the past. Look at his GF behavior after she gets home. Sees vomit everywhere (which supposedly she was mad about. But how does the OP know), stays 2 days straight in the hospital, takes good care of him. She doesn't sound like someone that would just block him unless he has tried to stop her from going in the past or pulled a prank. People don't normally block their SO unless there is a history of calling nonstop. His indignant response when questioned about just telling her his balls hurt show he is still mad. IMO he has phone bombed her in the past, this time he had a real issue but his past behavior backfired, and he is looking for some internet sympathy. He knows what people will say if he admits to bugging her when clubbing. I'd love to hear the other side to this.

Someone hvo collapses on the floor in intense pain, and immidiatly expect his gf to fix it for him, even tho she obviously isnt trained for it or even in communication with him about doing so is a known problem. I can also imagine the ribbing, deserved or not, that goes on between girlfriends on the town, about whos boyfriend is going to be the clingy one or try to ruin the night. Thats also nothing new. The commenter that picked up on the fact that op had let gf take care of him for days, while fuging inside and contemplating ending the relationship nailed it

It feels more like there's more to the story here than OP is letting on. He says "I don't like her going clubbing" but it hasn't been an issue before. I highly, highly doubt that. He would be the a*****e if they have had issues in the past and then he didn't address them and instead mislead everyone in his post to believe that she had no reason to ignore him. Maybe I'm wrong, but there are two sides to every story and we only have one here.

Dump...

My ex once went to sleep knowing that I am locked out of home And I cant get in. I was panicking, I wanted him to call me A cab or sth but He expected me to figure it out. I did, but it took like an hour, and I was in the cab driving to him but he didnt wait. It wasnt even that late. Maybe 23:00. And he goes to sleep super late normally. He just didnt care

You've been groomed to be a door mat.

I try not to pass any kind of judgement on anything or anyone ,I try to at least show everything and anyone little bit respect ..But ... Sorry man but your girlfriend sounds like a real D!CK .. If you love someone you don't f#cking just ignore or block or hit the f#ck you button on someone that you love... .I don't care where they're at or what they are doing you don't treat anything or anyone you Love like that ,especially when they are needing you..,..Get F#CKING REAL... Even if you have joked about it before don't mean sh!t,she would of known how serious the situation was if she would of answered the phone in the first place instead of texting... Good luck 🍀 man

I feel like there’s a pretty big chance of her being able to hear the ambulance if the club was only 5 minutes away

Text a person who is drinking and clubbing that your balls hurt and you want them to come home isn’t going to get them to take you seriously. She couldn’t drive you to the hospital anyway as she was drinking and clubbing. But it may be that you aren’t compatible as she wants to go out and you want to resent it.