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“Girl Assumed I Was Hitting On Her [So I] Gave Her The Same Response She Gave Me”
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“Girl Assumed I Was Hitting On Her [So I] Gave Her The Same Response She Gave Me”

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Knowing languages is always a big advantage. It can be beneficial to your career, traveling, making friends abroad or moving to another country. However, it’s important to note that you can never know what languages a stranger speaks.

For example, if you are abroad, you may feel that nobody can understand you here and you can speak about everyone around you however you want and nobody is going to have any idea what you are talking about. But I am sorry to break it to you – you never know what languages others speak and it’s better to be careful than be shamed later.

More info: Reddit

If you ‘reject’ a person who was not even hitting on you, it may be slightly embarrassing

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Person shares his revenge story after woman thought he was hitting on her but he just wanted to take an empty chair from her

Image credits: u/FloridaMan69ingurmom

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He asked the woman for an empty chair next to her, but she just smirked and said she doesn’t speak English

Image credits: u/FloridaMan69ingurmom

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Image credits: Jason Leung (not the actual photo) 

Well, then she heard the man speaking Spanish and asked for a napkin dispenser which was near him

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And as revenge, he answered her the same as she did that he doesn’t speak English and her face just turned red

Very recently, one Reddit user shared his petty revenge story to one of its communities. He remembered an incident in Ecuador when a woman assumed he was hitting on her but later on just embarrassed herself. The post received a lot of attention as in just 2 days, it collected more than 18.6K upvotes and 1.2K comments.

The author starts his story by sharing that it happened years back in Ecuador in an Irish pub. He was there with some other people and needed one more chair. Then he saw a bar stool near the barstool where 2 women were talking. So in Spanish, OP asked her if it was okay if he grabbed the empty chair, and she just says that she didn’t speak English. 

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OP overheard them chuckling as they were thinking that he was hitting on her and she had rejected him just like that. Then came time for petty revenge. The same woman overheard OP speaking Spanish and asked for a napkin dispenser which was directly in front of him. And, well, the OP just said loud and clear that he didn’t speak English. As you may guess – the woman’s face turned red and OP just gave her cold shoulder.

Community members applauded the author for this revenge and shared their own similar situations. For example, how often it happens that women think guys are hitting them up, not just asking simple questions, or misunderstandings that they have encountered abroad. “I love stories like these because it’s a justifiable serving of humble pie,” one user wrote. 

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Moreover, Bored Panda got in touch with Diane, the creator of Oui In France. She kindly agreed to share her personal experiences as a person from the USA and now living in France. She opened up on how significant language is in misunderstandings, assumptions about her own culture and cultural differences that brought her joy!

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To begin with, Diane says that over the years she has had a bunch of language-related misunderstandings. She says that she had been taking group French classes, but they don’t really prepare you to face French people. Moreover, she shared one of the most memorable ones that happened with her doctor. 

“Basically, in French the word noir can mean a few things including the color black and the dark. And also Black people,” she says. “I mixed up du and des before noir and the doctor thought I was saying Americans are afraid of Black people and not that some of us are afraid of the dark. Once I realized my mistake, I corrected it and thank goodness for that.”

Speaking about stereotypes, Diane shares that when she first came to France to teach English, one teacher, upon hearing about her Thanksgiving celebration, made a comment that it’s just an excuse for Americans to eat and get fat. Moreover, she highlights that American celebrity culture also gives the impression that everybody there lives glamorous lives.

However, she says that overall, French people have been great and she even finds herself defending the French when Americans have been judgmental or rude about them!

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And finally, speaking about moments that she found joy in experiencing something unique to the new culture, she shares that food is a huge part of French culture. So shopping for it, preparing and enjoying it – most of these moments that come to mind revolve around food. “You can eat fresh oysters right out of the bay in Cancale (Brittany), drink wine directly from the producer, and so much more. I love meeting the people who grow and harvest the food we eat,” she says.

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In addition to this, Bored Panda got in touch with the author of this story and he wanted to clarify that it was odd to find out the amount of Redditors that were angry and accusing him of making up this story.

“If I was to make up a story like the one I posted I’d be disappointed in my lack of imagination. Why would someone make up such a mundane and uneventful story?” he emphasized.

Moreover, he was accused of ‘grinding for internet points’ and he states that it’s very silly to see the amount of people that get furious over literally nothing.

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So, guys, what do you think about this revenge story? Have you ever been in such a situation where there were misunderstandings due to language barriers? Or due to somebody’s thought that you were hitting on them? Share in the comments below!

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Austėja Bliujūtė

Austėja Bliujūtė

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Hey there! I'm Austeja, a writer with a knack for capturing everything from family dramas to the latest meme trends at Bored Panda. Armed with a Bachelor's degree in business management, I blend expertise with creativity to deliver engaging articles. I love spicing up my pieces with insights from experts in the industry, ensuring the readers get interesting information. When I'm not typing away, you can find me jet-setting to sunny destinations, hunting for the perfect palm-fringed oasis, enjoying leisurely brunches with friends or binging various TV shows!

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Austėja Bliujūtė

Austėja Bliujūtė

Writer, BoredPanda staff

Hey there! I'm Austeja, a writer with a knack for capturing everything from family dramas to the latest meme trends at Bored Panda. Armed with a Bachelor's degree in business management, I blend expertise with creativity to deliver engaging articles. I love spicing up my pieces with insights from experts in the industry, ensuring the readers get interesting information. When I'm not typing away, you can find me jet-setting to sunny destinations, hunting for the perfect palm-fringed oasis, enjoying leisurely brunches with friends or binging various TV shows!

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Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Monika Pašukonytė

Monika Pašukonytė

Author, BoredPanda staff

I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Ima Manimal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a gay man, this kind of snootiness from women is hilarious. They love to announce how they’re being hit on and not interested. I just say loud enough to match their loudness “please don’t confuse my being polite and considerate as me hitting on you or showing any interest. I am gay. I seriously couldn’t be any less interested.” They usually shut up really quickly and the chagrin is priceless.

ॐBoyGanesh
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More times than I care to admit, I reply with “don’t act like you think I’m hitting on you when you know you’re really just jealous that I pull more d**k than you.”

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Nikki Sevven
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Folks, doing the opposite works really well. If someone's hitting on you, and you don't want to be hit on, pretend you don't understand their intent. Bar dude: Can I buy you a drink? Me: Oh, thanks! That's sweet of you, but I already have a drink.

The Original Bruno
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The difference is that you're being nice. Keep it up. But it makes me wince even more at my former cluelessness. ("No thanks, I don't drink coffee, and besides, caffeine at this time of night?")

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Cyber Returns
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember when I was asking a girl if I could reach the bar as she was not being served'. She said, "I have a boyfriend!" in a harsh tone and I replied, "I have a fiancée, and she is over there. I win!"

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Ima Manimal
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a gay man, this kind of snootiness from women is hilarious. They love to announce how they’re being hit on and not interested. I just say loud enough to match their loudness “please don’t confuse my being polite and considerate as me hitting on you or showing any interest. I am gay. I seriously couldn’t be any less interested.” They usually shut up really quickly and the chagrin is priceless.

ॐBoyGanesh
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More times than I care to admit, I reply with “don’t act like you think I’m hitting on you when you know you’re really just jealous that I pull more d**k than you.”

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Nikki Sevven
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Folks, doing the opposite works really well. If someone's hitting on you, and you don't want to be hit on, pretend you don't understand their intent. Bar dude: Can I buy you a drink? Me: Oh, thanks! That's sweet of you, but I already have a drink.

The Original Bruno
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The difference is that you're being nice. Keep it up. But it makes me wince even more at my former cluelessness. ("No thanks, I don't drink coffee, and besides, caffeine at this time of night?")

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Cyber Returns
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember when I was asking a girl if I could reach the bar as she was not being served'. She said, "I have a boyfriend!" in a harsh tone and I replied, "I have a fiancée, and she is over there. I win!"

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