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level 1 ArchMichael7 , David Howard Report

Answers about guy code seemed to focus on uplifting other men, helping a friend flirt or fight, how to treat women, friends' romantic partners, and who pays in what situation. However, the girl code was mostly focused on appearance, periods, including sharing menstrual products and when and how to tell someone about a leak, and safety, especially from men. Both addressed topics of cheating in a committed relationship. Some people responded universally for any sex.

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" As a guy that lifts weights and has brought some of his other male (and two female friends) into the fold - you never, EVER, slander another person's weight on any lift. If your friend is 250 pounds and only benches 135, but is trying his a** off - then you never make a sound other than howling intense encouragement at them.

The rule in my basement is - everything is heavy to SOMEBODY. As long as you're giving it your full-a**, then the number is irrelevant.

Final score:

325points

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Brad Toy 2 years ago

awesome!!!

42points

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Brocode: If a girl passes out at a party, you're not allowed to touch her. Make sure one of her lady friends knows ASAP, preferable a relatively sober one.

DamnedIron , 28704869 Report

Final score:

325points

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Rissie 2 years ago

That's not bro code, that's the law.

241points

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If your friends help you move, you are expected to a) be packed already... And b) provide pizza and beer.

jjbutts , otakuchick Report

Final score:

316points

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Zoe's Mom 2 years ago (edited)

Considering what movers cost, a proper meal is always better. This is something I always do; but that's just me.

30points

One person responded to the thread with "As a lady with autism, this has to be one of the most useful threads I have ever read. All these unwritten rules about how to treat others socially don't naturally occur to me. I feel like I have gained new powers! Thank you thank you thank you."

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Girl code: if something is fixable within five minutes (make-up, something stuck in teeth, small things on appearance) you tell her and help her if needed, if it isn't fixable on the spot, you keep your mouth shut and ESPECIALLY don't point it out to others.

PenguinsOnAWire , borosjuli Report

Final score:

248points

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Softball05 2 years ago

Yes!! One time I had a girl shout at me about a particularly bad breakout across the classroom, and the entire room went silent. Don't do this. It feels horrible- they're already aware of it

61points

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Female here.

If you see another girl crying in the bathroom of the bar/club/venue you're at, you ask what's wrong and try to help.

If you have a tampon or pad to spare and someone needs it, even if it's someone you hate, offer it to them.

If a girl looks distressed or uncomfortable with the guy who is hitting on her at the bar/club/venue you're at, she's now going to be a new member of your crew! This one is a little tricky, but it's usually pretty obvious when someone needs an out but can't manage it or is frozen or intimidated. If you see it happening, try to catch her eye because she'll be looking around. Once you make eye contact it's pretty easy to figure out if she needs an out, then swoop in and do the whole "Hey girl! Where the crap have you been, we're all waiting over at the table for you!" And then you hook your elbow through hers and walk her back to your table of friends.

If you see a KNOW that a friend's boyfriend/fiance/husband doing shady, skeezy sh**, you tell that friend right away.

Mahatma_Panda , Eric Chan Report

Final score:

232points

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Pablo Ramos 2 years ago

Drunk girl at a club's restroom: "I'm gonna call my ex". Her friend and unknown girls in three stalls: "DON'T CALL YOUR EX!!"

93points

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" See something, compliment something.

AllieBallie22 , Azlan DuPree Report

Final score:

210points

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Zoe's Mom 2 years ago (edited)

And compliment the same sex. People seem to be afraid that they will look 'gay' if they do this. So what! Compliment away.

71points

Many autistic people use masking as a strategy to thrive and survive in social settings. According to Healthline, masking is mimicking behaviors of neurotypical people, like forcing eye contact, developing a repertoire of rehearsed responses to questions, ignoring sensory discomfort, and practicing body language.

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Bros before ho*s, but not before wives. Sure it’s sucks when a buddy has to stay home for a weekend camping trip, but if his wife’s sick and they have a 3 month old, it’s probably best that he keeps his family’s interests above your own haha

Zephrahs , davidmesaaz Report

Final score:

208points

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Jo Choto 2 years ago

Here's my code: anyone male over the age of 14 who refers to a woman as a "ho" can get bent.

282points

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" In his home, you always call another man's dog a good boy

Kadeslayer , Alan Levine Report

Final score:

201points

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Lord Mysticlaw 2 years ago

You should always call all dogs a good boy in any home!

94points

Mallow-9 , Montgomery County Planning Commission Report

#10

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Should a bro die in a weight lifting related accident, a bro will add atleast 100 lbs to the bar before reporting the incident

Final score:

200points

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Sarah 2 years ago

LOL This sounds like the equivalent to asking someone to clear your browser history.

127points

Masking is often used when it is not clear that neurodiversity would be accepted, or clear that it won't. However, Healthline describes the practice as costly since multiple studies found heightened stress and depression in those who do it; there is also a risk of delay of autism identification. Instead, Healthline recommends accepting neurodivergent people as they are.

#11

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If someone offers to pay, you should ask them if they are sure. If they are, then it is rude to further reject what is supposed to be a kindness on their part.

"I got the bill."

"Are you sure?"

"Yeah, don't worry about it."

"Thank you."

TMJ_Jack , jam_232 Report

Final score:

190points

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Immortal Emperor Paradox 2 years ago

It depends. Some of my relatives are big misers. Getting money out of them is like winning the world cup.

31points

#12

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" The person who buys the shots, makes the toast

Too many times I've seen someone buy a round of shots, and someone else jumps in with a toast

If you want to make a toast, buy a round!

Finster63 , John Verive Report

Final score:

179points

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Zoe's Mom 2 years ago

..plus don't be cheap. Buy a round. I've seen too many times when it's the next person's time to buy, they all of sudden have to go home. Don't be that person.

50points

#13

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Dude if there’s like 8 open urinals DON’T TAKE THE ONE NEXT TO ME

Oceanicshark , Mark Hillary Report

Final score:

174points

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Brad Toy 2 years ago

no freakin kiddin!!!!!!

31points

the_planes_walker , Maryland GovPics Report

MTV had a reality show called Guy Code. Their episodes ranged from "Manscaping, Sexting, Bottle Service and Camping." to "Friends with benefits, rejection, shopping and freshman year." Later it got a spin-off, Girl Code, with episodes like "Curing Boredom, Hobbies, Sexual Pressure." Singers, comedians like Pete Davidson, and other celebrities often appeared on the show.

#14

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" I will wingman any man. I don't even have to know you. Hell, I'll wingman any woman too. If you are trying to make an impression on someone you think you'll hit it off with, call me. I love love and am always willing to help make it happen.

Final score:

169points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

if only my introverted self could////

21points

#15

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Guy Code -If your drunk bro is about to cheat on his girlfriend, you must follow through with one intervention. If he says he doesn't care, you did your part and are free from any responsibility.

Bartch88 , Mike Burns Report

Final score:

165points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

yes!!! this applies for everyone

54points

unicornmarket , Ricardo Moraleida Report

#16

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If you see another girl in an uncomfortable situation, you try to get her out of there or at least let her know that you got her back. I've done it for everyone, from my sister, to my friends to my friends moms. One time at a school event, my best friend's mom somehow ended getting an unsolicited massage from another parent with boundary issues and I quickly made an excuse up that I needed help at the concession stand. No one is too old or too young to do this!

On the more lighthearted side, in my experience, when you hug another girl, you always try to slot the boobs by going slightly to the side so that you don't just mash your chests together and hurt someone.

Final score:

146points

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Ray Heap 2 years ago

„Slot…the…boobs…!“ some powerful mental visual gymnastics in that sentence.

68points

Sometimes American comedy points out the obsessive rigidity some people follow guy and girl codes with. In the sitcom How I Met Your Mother, the character Barney, who has a well-paying job and flirting skills that land him plenty of one-night stands, making him a stereotype of a man who other men want to be, keeps referring to the rules of the Bro Code. Later the Bro Code book was published inspired by the show.

#17

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Be generous with your closest friends.

Buy them an occasional beer or their favorite soft drink without "keeping score" of whose turn it is to pay.

Back2Bach , Mike Mozart Report

Final score:

140points

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Rijkærd 2 years ago

I've had a 'friend' ruin my evening after bringing up some 3 yr old you owe ne a beer score s**t... sounded awkward and all....not a friend any more

38points

#18

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Nod up if you know them, nod down if you dont.

deleted , Elvert Barnes Report

Final score:

119points

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Rijkærd 2 years ago

Am I the only one who nodded to the guy in the pic? Am I? ...someone back me up here

241points

#19

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" You can make fun of your own kid all you want with your buddies if he isnt around, but you NEVER make fun of your bros kid, no matter what.

RickerBobber , foundin_a_attic Report

Final score:

118points

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Lord Mysticlaw 2 years ago

I think this goes very generally for all family members. I can say my kid is a brat, you can't. I can say my mom is a maniac, you can't. For the same reason, if my friends says her husband is an asshole, I don't agree very enthusiastically, I tread very very carefully.

72points

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What are some of the unwritten girl code or guy code rules you follow? Does it make sense that they are different for women and men? Which ones do you agree with?

#20

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" I only had one chance to exercise this girl code rule, but once i was passing a girl in the lobby of a building and she told me that she had just gotten a straight perm and was waiting for the rain to pass before she went outside so I let her share my umbrella for 4-5 blocks while we walked to a bus stop together.

I would do that for any woman if it happened again.

(perms are $200+, can take up to 3 hours and are ruined if you get them wet within 48 hours of having the procedure done)

Book_1love , pudgeefeet Report

Final score:

116points

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Rissie 2 years ago

As we were all taught by Elle Woods. You don't want to risk deactivating the ammonium thioglycolate.

99points

#21

When your best friends dies, you have to delete his internet history. Common courtesy.

supergoldisme Report

Final score:

111points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

when they die.......u enact that thing out that ur best friend wanted

22points

#22

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" My personal thing is that if I ask someone to come on a trip with me, no matter the distance or how much gas it'll take, I don't ask for gas money. I asked them to come on the trip with me, their company is payment enough. I don't like when people ask me for gas money when they insisted or asked me f I wanted to come along for something. I come on this trip with them, for all I know they could just be using me for gas money.

Also, who pays for who on a date I believe should be totally contingent on who took the initiative to ask. If I ask Her out, I will offer to pay but I won't Insist, if she'd like to pay for herself.

LickMyAstle , Floris Oosterveld Report

Final score:

109points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

by default, it must be 50-50.....but i one insists please don't insist back

17points

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#23

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" When guys fight, we never hit the groin.

It's against the Geneva Convention /s.

Dstats98 , dave ho Report

Final score:

101points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago (edited)

depends on the fight ig...what if they are trying to kill u?

43points

DetroitHustlesHarder , Matt Anderson Report

#24

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Guy code: when greeting someone and you're not sure if they're a hugger, always shake their hand first... it allows them to throw up the other arm for a hug if they're down for it.

Final score:

97points

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oktopus 2 years ago

Hugging and shaking hands is so 2019.

78points

ChaoticSweety , Jerzy Kociatkiewicz Report

#25

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" when a girl says "i won't tell anyone" what she really means is "i won't tell anyone except my best friend"

Final score:

96points

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Nikki Sevven 2 years ago

Wrong. If you ask me to keep a secret, I will keep it to my grave.

86points

Vanta Black 2 years ago

Okay, allow me to try this out. My secret is I am completely incapable of comprehending English.

4points

Immortal Emperor Paradox 2 years ago

Only the dead tell no secrets.

2points

Eagle Girl 2 years ago

but now you know most women will not. bf & sometimes mom will know

1point

Pam Page 2 years ago

I won't tell anyone but my husband. HE won't tell anyone.

8points

Amy S 2 years ago

My husband won't tell anyone because he'll forget what I said after 30 seconds.

11points

ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

if u are telling a person something...but u know they have a history of telling others..just don't......this one doesn't apply to everyone....some are very good at keeping secrets

4points

Huddo's sister 2 years ago

Hence why we never tell my mother things :)

4points

May 2 years ago

I'm horrible at keeping secrets. If the thing you told me wasn't that you murdered someone, I won't remember that it's supposed to be a secret. The people in my life know this about me - nobody tells me if there's going to be a surprise party.

3points

Tom Harper 2 years ago

Always assume someone will keep a secret as well as the person who told them.

2points

PandaGirl85 2 years ago

Secrets are secrets. I hate people who are like that.

2points

Marco Conti 2 years ago

I find that to be true about everyone, not just girls. If you have a secret, keep it that way by not sharing it. If you do share it, expect it to come out at some point. I have known military intelligence officers that were terrible gossips. Same for HR people. Don't trust either.

1point

Ivana 2 years ago

Not true. I have had a lot of friends tell me things and I don't repeat them to my best friend who happens to be my husband and also friends with all of my friends. Got a ton of things that were told to me and me alone, and expressed that they want it kept to me and me alone so I respect that. Though more often than not they will often tell my husband at some point. Find out because my husband will often slip and tell me. I don't think he is capable of not telling me things.

1point

Grayson Wrigley 2 years ago

Nah, if you say you won't tell anyone, you don't tell anyone. (Unless someone's safety is involved)

1point

backatya 2 years ago

what a gossiper

1point

Iapetos 2 years ago

Same applies to boys.

1point

Mimi M 2 years ago

Wrong.

1point

Leah Pruitt 1 year ago

Well… it depends

0points

Billy Haake 2 years ago

If someone gleefully asks me if I can keep a secret, I've learned to tell them no. If the gossip is so juicy they want to reveal it to another person, I tell them I will probably pass it on, too.

0points

Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 2 years ago

if the "secret" is that they are in danger or being abused, you TELL someone!! F**k this keeping a secret s**t. Their lives are more important than some friends "code".

0points

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Tiny Dynamine 2 years ago

Haha! Hilarious!

0points

Kelli Pike 2 years ago

Yeah, I call sexist bullshit here.

0points

Jane Alexander 2 years ago

If you don't want it told just don't tell.

0points

Frannie Kaplan 2 years ago

Only a rubbish person

0points

Alexis Taylor 2 years ago

i don't get this - i'm nonbinary but was born female, and i don't tell my best friend. if they wanted her to know, they'd tell her. I'm not sharing people's secrets. it's called a secret for a reason

0points

malenchki 2 years ago

Yup like this is just the law like I have two besties and they are gonna find out my cousins aunties uncles brothers sisters mother's secrets so yeah if you tell me something they gonna find out but they ain't gonna tell people bc both of them have social anxiety and are also both just in general good people

0points

Just Breathe 2 years ago

Hell no. If I say "I wont tell anyone" It means I'm taking the secret to my grave.

0points

JensenDK 2 years ago

I've had 'friends' who think that their SO doesn't count. Oh yes, they do. Your husband isn't necessary my confident.

0points

Chaotic-Pansexual (she/they) 2 years ago

That’s not true. I tell my best friend everything, but if you ask me to keep something a secret, nobody gets to know

0points

Scarlett O'Hara's Ghost 2 years ago

And my boyfriend/husband

0points

Autumn Artemis 2 years ago

And this is why I don’t tell people things! :D

0points

Victoria 2 years ago

I'll tell my cat.... can't be helped

0points

#26

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If I hear a girl say she needs a hair tie I will immediately hand one over, even if I’ll only have one left for myself.

mcrandk , Robert Couse-Baker Report

Final score:

85points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

lmao yeah......but just don't expect it to be returned back......good if it is.....but if it's not then not a big deal

25points

#27

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Treat your friend's girl as if she's a guy

Fulahno , bagaball Report

Final score:

82points

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Doctor Strange 2 years ago

How about treat your friend's girl as if she is a person who deserves respect in her own right, not just because she is dating your friend?

142points

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#28

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Never steal ur bro's large fry

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Final score:

76points

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ZAPanda 2 years ago

It's ok to steal your bro's large fry if you have that kind of mutual insulting banter vibe, like calling each other insults etc. Because it will provoke a banter session. But if he's not that kind of guy, then no. That would be weird and intrusive.

2points

#29

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If their bedroom door open, be careful to sound your approach before popping in. Never know what he's up to.

AT1787 , Chris Northwood Report

Final score:

63points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

what 'they' are up to....it could be anyone

28points

#30

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" I hear this a lot in casual conversation: A: You know __? B: no? A: Wait, you don’t know __?!

My boss speaks English as a second language and he pointed out how common this type of interaction is & said it is off-putting. I really try to be mindful of it now!

Mooneaxe , Julie_M_ Report

Final score:

55points

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Tenacious Squirrel 2 years ago

I don’t get it.

32points

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#31

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Girl code: if a girl asks for a pad or tampon, you don’t whip it out in public, and announce “HEY EVERYONE THIS GIRL IS ON HER PERIOD” instead you do the under the table hand off so that things are more subtle, especially if she is a shy or young teen

annanateor , Elisabeth Steger Report

Final score:

19points

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ShriSha Kamboj 2 years ago

u dont treat it like drugs.....but not like it's a marriage announcement either.....u treat it like u are making plans to out and eat...which is normal

17points

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#32

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" "Thou shalt never hold a bro's wingman duties against him"

When you're chatting up a girl, I don't care how unattractive the friend he's flirting with is, or how bad his flirting technique is... When he's distracting the air defences to give you a clear run at the target, you do not insult his flying.

audigex , Ron Gilbert Report

Final score:

12points

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Kitty Jordan 2 years ago

I don't actually mind the term "wingman/woman" because it just implies support to me, but something about the way this guy extended the metaphor feels so skeevy to me. Referring to a woman as a "target"? Ehhh...

18points

#33

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" Unless you are asked and willing to provide further details, keep remarks about the time you spent with someone vague and borderline childish.

SacredVow , mrwynd Report

Final score:

7points

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Tenacious Squirrel 2 years ago

Borderline childish?

8points

#34

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If you sell a buddy a car (or anything of value) cheaper than normal because they are a friend, that friend must offer to sell it back to you before offering it to the general public.

NickLadoo , Kieran White Report

Final score:

-1point

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Caro Caro 2 years ago

You don't make a profit off your friends.

3points

#35

30 People Online Answer "What Are Some Of The 'Guy Code' And 'Girl Code' Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?" If you hear anything about a girl having a thing for your bro, you tell him immediately. I don't care if you're in the jungle with no cell phone service, you walk back to the nearest cell phone tower and let him know so he can get laid

theImplication69 , Steven Damron Report

Final score:

-53points

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Lord Mysticlaw 2 years ago

I mean it was fine until the last part.

54points

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Troux 2 years ago

The most common themes seem to be, Girl code: How to take care of others; Guy code: How to get girls

26points

Jacob Nunez 2 years ago

No not really some is common curtsey and privacy and another is respecting another’s girl or helping someone get a girl. I understand what ur coming from. But it’s not the majority.

1point

Kitty Jordan 2 years ago

When I smoked, the code was that you always give a cigarette to someone who needs to bum one, but you never take someone's last cigarette. (And you are universally hated if you're one of those people who "don't smoke" or are "trying to quit" by not buying cigarettes and just bumming them off the people not lying to themselves.)

19points

Grayson Wrigley 2 years ago

Yes! Someone needs cigarette, unless they're a minor, you hand one over no questions asked. Give them a light too, if they need it. A related pet peeves though: people who bum a smoke, then stand there, finish less than half of the cigarette, and then put it out in a way that destroys the rest of it. Those things cost money!

7points

Mimi M 2 years ago

Here's Girl Code: When my friend (when I was a teenager) expressed any interest in a guy, he was totally off limits until or unless she changed her mind.

13points

Kuato 2 years ago

Also for guys. If your buddy is into a girl, even if she starts flirting with you, you do not engage. (Damn you Thomas. I would have done that for you. You didn't even care about her. You just wanted to get laid.)

3points

John Dilligaf 2 years ago

The bro code: If I'm interested in dating your sister, I run it past you first

4points

Jacob Nunez 2 years ago

Underrated

0points

John Dilligaf 2 years ago

The Code: Those secrets you learned in grade school and "crossed your heart and hope to die" swore you'd never tell? I don't care how old you get, You take that sh*t to the grave

4points

JLH 2 years ago (edited)

Bro Code: If you ever find yourself acting like the guys in a lot of these, then a good bro will take you out back and beat the dignity back into you.

4points

Kyndal T 2 years ago

I grew up with one girl code I always thought was childish. You never date a friend's ex. As an adult, I agree. To an extent. If your friend was in a serious relationship with that person, don't go there. If it was minor, talk to them first. Other important codes? Never leave a friend at a party you invited them to unless they know someone else there as well as they know you. Never push someone to drink if they say no. People do this to me all the time and I don't drink. Haven't in 5 years and it's just a personal decision and doesn't mean I'm an alcoholic ffs. If you just suspect someone is cheating on your friend (or anyone really) then you better have a reason before telling them. Have a safe word/phrase with friends when you go out too. Creepy dudes abound where women hang out. Sometimes, telling someone that their emailed test results came back positive is all it takes. Embarrassing but easy.

4points

El muerto 2 years ago

this is a list for kids right? i mean, no sensible adult would take any of these seriously...what girls do, what boys do...perhaps people just need to expand their horizons a bit. you know, like hung out with other people that are not the same gender age and skin color than you maybe?

3points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I treat everyone the same. Girls think I am flirting, guys think I am weird. Truth, I am some where in the middle. I Just like having friends. And I don't mind being nice to people.

2points

Allen Lavine 2 years ago

Guy code: if a man is barbecuing all other men must be by the grill same as working on a car

1point

Julie 2 years ago

My girl code that all women should oblige is to never, ever date the ex of a sister or best friend. Just don't do it.

1point

Jo Choto 2 years ago

Most of these were stupid and pointless.

1point

Alexei Arntzen 2 years ago

They really were tho. It's like they collected a bunch of people, let them be raised by wolves, then gave them access to reddit

3points

Linda Milly 2 years ago

My sister charged me $8 petrol to drive me to a city hospital to check if I had breast cancer.

0points

Marnie 2 years ago

Girl code: Post uselessPost = "30 People Online Answer \“What Are Some Of The ‘Guy Code’ And ‘Girl Code’ Unwritten Rules That You Always Follow?\”"; uselessPost.vote(-1);

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Troux 2 years ago

The most common themes seem to be, Girl code: How to take care of others; Guy code: How to get girls

26points

Jacob Nunez 2 years ago

No not really some is common curtsey and privacy and another is respecting another’s girl or helping someone get a girl. I understand what ur coming from. But it’s not the majority.

1point

Kitty Jordan 2 years ago

19points

Grayson Wrigley 2 years ago

7points

Mimi M 2 years ago

Here's Girl Code: When my friend (when I was a teenager) expressed any interest in a guy, he was totally off limits until or unless she changed her mind.

13points

Kuato 2 years ago

3points

John Dilligaf 2 years ago

The bro code: If I'm interested in dating your sister, I run it past you first

4points

Jacob Nunez 2 years ago

Underrated

0points

John Dilligaf 2 years ago

The Code: Those secrets you learned in grade school and "crossed your heart and hope to die" swore you'd never tell? I don't care how old you get, You take that sh*t to the grave

4points

JLH 2 years ago (edited)

Bro Code: If you ever find yourself acting like the guys in a lot of these, then a good bro will take you out back and beat the dignity back into you.

4points

Kyndal T 2 years ago

4points

El muerto 2 years ago

3points

Robert Thompson 2 years ago

I treat everyone the same. Girls think I am flirting, guys think I am weird. Truth, I am some where in the middle. I Just like having friends. And I don't mind being nice to people.

2points

Allen Lavine 2 years ago

Guy code: if a man is barbecuing all other men must be by the grill same as working on a car

1point

Julie 2 years ago

My girl code that all women should oblige is to never, ever date the ex of a sister or best friend. Just don't do it.

1point

Jo Choto 2 years ago

Most of these were stupid and pointless.

1point

Alexei Arntzen 2 years ago

They really were tho. It's like they collected a bunch of people, let them be raised by wolves, then gave them access to reddit

3points