She did the right thing...leaving that piece of garbage

I applaud her. Brava!

I'm glad she respected herself enough to just walk away. Who knows what their relationship was like, what else she's already put up with. I hope she's able to rebuild her life and have better relationships in the future. She deserves it.

I did the same with a 4 year relationship. He left himself logged into fb on the iPad. I went to use it and the 1st thing I saw was a convo to a girl we knew. He was saying how he couldn't stop thinking about her and he was glad that I miscarried our twins. He was at work I left the iPad in a place so 'he knew', walked out the door and never spoke to him again. It drove him CRAZY! He posted me a million letters, sent so many flowers, would get his family and friends to say they wanted me to do their nails and all the time there was more flowers and letters there. He did so so many other possessive horrible and creepy things I won't go in to. I started seeing someone else and he started threatening him saying he best look after me! Ironic right ha. He lost everything after us. Job, house, the plot lol. I think someone was looking down on me that day, I dodged a crazy bullet he was such an awful bf I just couldn't see it then. After everything he put me though I got the best revenge!

Good for her - fighting and arguing won't solve anything; it's better to walk away with your head held high.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

I'm really passive aggressive I can see myself doing the same...probably would have eaten the breakfast and given the game to someone else though.

If he had it good with her in the last 5 years, he would not have hurt her as he did. He woke up, went to the kitchen, said his ex that he made breakfast and they played video game together, then sex and sleep again . She should have told his ex what for a son of a b*** he is and then ghost him. She just did him a favour. He didn't deserve this behavior because she was having his keys, but he still took his ex there and even fell asleep. He did not respect her.

I would do the same thing too. In fact, I have done it before to a relative who tried to backstab me .. .

I call this one "nope", five years and not living together, yet they shared utility bills? What an immature relationship. Changed everything in one minute and disappeared? Took a job in another city? What a stupid story. Why would you give him all the power and sneak away? Stories like this should be about respecting yourself, empowering yourself, strengthening yourself, growing with Life experience, not about giving away all your power and sneaking away in the night like a little immature hurt child.

I think this is awsome. Graceful. I had a friend (a boy) who did excactly like her: I do admire him so much 👏👏🍾🎶🎈🎈❤

damn that hurts

This is some next level s**t. How many people here could say that they'd have the kind of mental fortitude to do that?? Do you know how much self-control one has to have to go through with all that she did and not even bat an eye about it? Although...5 years and you weren't even living together? That seems odd to me. Like how serious was this relationship if you'd been together for that long and weren't even living together (although in this case, that's a bonus).

Thats the way people should handle the situation, i mean really why should she waste her time, break up move on... Otherwise you miss out on something great

Sometimes it does work out like she hoped. A friend of mine said her husband came home one night saying he didn't want to make the marriage work anymore. I think he was hoping she'd get on her knees begging him not to leave. Instead, he was surprised when she went into survival mode, canceling credit cards, severing bank accounts and packing up the entire house to move (they were in student housing while he went to college.) She filed the paperwork for the separation and, within a month, she was working a different job in a different town. Funny thing was, it took the better part of 18 months to get him to sign the divorce papers, even while he was dating another woman. Sometimes people don't realize how good they had it until the one they actually loved is gone. SMH.

Why would people be disagreeing with what she did? She was cheated on, she responded not with hostility (I mean she could have publicly let everybody know what happened but she didn't). This was her form of closure (although some people may prefer to "talk it over" but let's be honest, what is there to talk about with a cheater?). I feel like the man deserved a lot worse, but karma's probably gonna catch up with him one day anyway...

She obviously thinks about him so much more than he about her. She is the one sharing her story with us, looking for approval and confirmation about how amazingly well she did. Like someone already said, the guy was probably relieved there was no big argument and she just conveniently disappeared. If he cheated on her, not really hiding it much (in his own flat that she had a key to), it means he wanted her to find out, just didn't want to start all the breakup drama himself. Said that, he is a f.cking cheater and she should stop thinking about him. He is not sorry and he doesn't spend time thinking how wonderful she was, believe me.

If he’s cheating on you then he probably doesn’t care so much that you left. It’s an easy break up for him. I know you think you made some grand statement, but he’s a guy: he moved on by the next weekend.

They were together for 5 years and not even living together?...He was clearly not committed to her and probably did not care much that she went through all the trouble to totally alter her life.

I always go full nuclear when I throw someone out of my life, friends or a SO. I don't want them back and don't care about their butthurt, screw'em

I think this woman rocks! He is such a slim ball, I wouldn't give him the sweat from my pits if he was dying of thirst!

THIS is how you end a relationship. Revenge is petty and pointless, as it just makes the cheater feel validated. Totally ghosting him shows him without any doubt that trust has been irreversibly broken.

This is the healthiest thing I've ever heard.

It's gonna hurt and haunt him for sure to loose a girl like that. My ex came crying to me after 4 months of no contact, but I had nothing else to tell him and didn't wanna hear any of his s**t, so I closed the door in his face. He was furious. Left me a note calling me names and other nasty stuff. But it's just the maturity of people who cheat and turn they heads after other women/men - it's not existent.

@deanna woods - Pretty much everything on this site is ridiculous :-)

Excellent idea & go girl!!!!

Not the video game!!!! I would have never left the game!

At least set the house on fire before she left to create a new life.

I know this couple. She cheated on him about 6 months earlier with one of his friends (I won't say who). People should really get the full story before they make assumptions and start to lay blame. Just saying.

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Would've been better if she never left any sign that she was there at all.

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For me, this seems a bit too much - she changed her whole life and living because of his fault and to have revenge on him. Why change all that, this seems much more punishment and pain for her than for him. Besides - hopefully a longtime relationship is stronger than breaking up when someone cheated.

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Stupid as f**k post and with that attitude she deserves all the cheating she can get for being so immature instead of calling it out then leaving like a adult