She did the right thing. He would probably want to talk about what happened and make a whole bunch of excuses. As for the people who said that he won because she didn't confront him: getting a free video game and breakfast doesn't make him the winner here. He will realize that she was there and saw what he was doing and she is done with him.

This screams class. Also suggests she was sort of ready for the opportunity to move on if she changed her life so drastically. What a total BIRD. What she did was pure poetry.

I would love to know how the guy reacted when he realized she found out what was going on...

I'm a man and thumbs up for her. Any guy telling this lady that she done him wrong is either an incel or a delusional POS. Hope she finds a real man that knows how to treat a real lady.

Gone girl

As someone who HAD a spouse that cheated, I'm ambivalent about her handling of this but she did what felt right for her. I wager that she was wrong about at least one thing. He DOES NOT look back at how "good he had it with her". Chances are he was relieved that she disappeared without the messy confrontation. Chances are his "ex" wasn't his "ex" but his "now". She was certainly his "extra". He came out with everything he wanted, including a parting gift. But most revenge is rarely as sweet as they say. The. Real best revenge is moving on and succeeding without looking back and I'm speaking from experience.

I wouldn't do this but I don't condemn her for doing it. Seems to me like she acted instinctively and protected herself from further pain.

I wouldn't have left the video game. I would have taken a picture of everything..sent it to his phone...returned the game or sold it, dumped breakfast in the trash...then I would have done the rest of what she mentioned.

Although I feel she did the right thing, going through all of the changing of the number and deactivating stuff and changing jobs and such, that seems like more work than just blocking his number and blocking him on FB. If she had the job lined up already ok fine but it still seemed like a lot of extra work. But good for her.

i did the same thing to my ex which we are together for 8 years. He proposed to me when he started to cheat with a "prostitute". I only found out from his phone and his hallucination confession while taking care of him for the 1 whole month in hospital. I arranged everything i could for him with his family, and then i left, silently without further explanation. left him in the hospital with his family to deal with him as I could not take it anymore. after 2 months he rang my doorbell and ask back the engagement ring. i gave it back without saying anything and then he left. i have to deal with all the haunting part of memories, trauma and even seeing a psychologist after 2 years. i didnt shed a tear, i did nothing. all my emotions have suddenly been vacuum sealed. it seems like nothing outside but eventually my health is signaling me another thing. i took a huge step to see a psychologist and learn how to deal with my own emotion. i am much better now :)

This man has no feeling for her and will not remember this. She did well to move on. Time wasted on this creep means the one who will love her is going unloved. This man will fade from memory. Living well is the best revenge.

I'm sorry, but this story shows up on multiple websites as an example of a 'this didn't happen' story. Think about it logically, she just changed her phone number on the way home? Everyone agreed to ghost him too, no questions asked? Yeah, this didn't happen - at least not as quickly and neatly this.

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See part of me would be like "he probably doesn't even notice I disappeared, perfectly happy with whatever chick he had" also, I would have broken the game and placed it back in the box. Then ghosted.

she avoid the : 'it's not what is looks like' :-)

Her: Lost her apartment, her job and a computer game. Him: Got a free breakfast and is now back shagging his ex. And she considers this a victory?! I must be missing something.

She probably did the right thing for herself, but I don't think he's going to feel particularly bad about being cut off, the guy was already sleeping with another woman, not just a quickie in the car but sleeping all night and cuddling. The relationship was already over in his mind.

The best move on ever... That Closure thing is sh** No advantage come from it

I would have crawled in bed naked with them. Seen their reaction then punched him the face. Much more satisfying

I call BS, never happened

I think she handled that in a classy way. He's going to wake up, see the breakfast and the video game and know he messed up. He'll try to contact he but discover he can't. He's the one not getting closure here.

Yeah, I'm with the commenters who say take the breakfast and game with you. I'd return the game and give the breakfast to someone, not piece of s**t cheater like that. He'll just consider it a bonus and won't think he's done anything wrong.

Absolutely awesome.

This man sleeping with someone else means he doesn't care about consequences and certainly not about this woman's feelings, or a future that could have been. She did very well. Don't waste another second on someone who doesn't love you. ANY time you spend thinking about someone who does not care about you means someone you could be loving is going without your love. And later, this incident will be a hazy memory and a stepping stone to the rest of your life . . .

Seriously! She should have taken revenge like that condom lady, she uprooted her life coz of him. Just gave up her life. It was ok if her relationship was actually hindering her move nd better opportunities, but that's just impulsive and irrational. Even by not giving him the time of day she literally made so many changes coz of him, effectively giving him the unconscious importance. I am not one for talking/closure, but getting a good revenge should always be done. God what a waste of 5 years, cheaters are the worst. Should be allowed to skin them slowly for all eternity.

I wish more woman would do this honestly! Even if not to the extent but "oh he cheated on me!! I'm going to destroy his car or his life forever!!! Instead just leave!! Leave him alone for good!!

Majestic. The only question left since he is a man, can he play the game without any memories or regrets?

Oh, to be a fly on the wall when that moment of realization hit him.

To those hating on the OP: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That shows you're the type of person that would be the most hurt by this. People only hit out with that weak s**t when they are the most likely to get hurt and don't want to show it. They think making those weak hits makes them look untouchable or manly but it shows the exact opposite. The OP is strong and didn't need him to make her happy, that threatens weak mens imagined manliness. " She didn't want or need anything from a man? She didn't beg him for love? HA! Well the man didn't need her first so nah nah nah!" Such a childish response, that's why I call them weak.

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I don't know either person, obviously. But if I had been in a satisfactory relationship with someone for five years I think I would not want to give up that investment without knowing a few details. Yes, he cheated on her and he was entirely in the wrong, but sometimes there are mitigating circumstances and sometimes people make bad mistakes. I would have wanted to know his side of the story and how he felt about what had happened. He might be a bad person to be in a relationship with, but someone as rigid as she is might not be a day in the park either.

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This is so fake. After 5 years you don't just have nothing at the house to get, no entwined bills, etc. It's a fantasy. Nice job faking out reddit, though. Sucker born every minute and two to take him.

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Aside from the rest of the story, asking others to block him is childish.

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