45 Of The Most Savage ‘Gender Reveal Party’ Memes After People Learned It Was The Cause Of An Apocalyptic Wildfire In California
InterviewLaughing while crying tears of sadness seems to be the name of the game in 2020. Americans are battling the intense wildfires that are ravaging the West Coast, turning the sky red, and forcing hundreds of thousands of people to flee their homes. Meanwhile, internet users have been mercilessly poking fun at gender reveal parties after one such event led to the outbreak of a massive fire in Southern California. The El Dorado Fire started because of a pyrotechnic device on September 5 and has since then burned over 13.5k acres of land.
Scroll down, upvote your fave memes, and let us know what you think of them and gender reveal parties in the comments. And if you’re currently somewhere on the West Coast, stay safe, dear Pandas!
Bored Panda spoke about the El Dorado fire with Joe Wadlington who is in San Francisco right now and created one of the gender reveal memes. He said that nobody should be playing around with pyrotechnic devices, explosives, or fireworks during wildfire season in California because the consequences can be massive. "Gender reveal parties are already toxic and unnecessary. Now people are starting wildfires. I'm in San Francisco right now and it's slowly raining ash outside my window." Read on for the rest of his insights. Bored Panda also reached out to 'Know Your Meme's' Senior Editor Matt Schimkowitz to hear his take on gender reveal memes. Check out what he had to say below as well.
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Gender reveals are a symptom of social media obsession in some people. Along with engagement photo shoots (remember when you just had wedding photos?), 'first look' photo shoots and pregnancy photo shoots. What's next? Divorce and death bed photo shoots? I can only assume these people just desperately want something to put on their instagram and to have people tell them how beautiful/special/lucky etc they are. Gender reveal is probably the most annoying of all as it is a meaningless piece of information to anyone but the parents. Whether it's a boy or a girl, the reaction from friends is going to be exactly the same.
Load More Replies...But..but..but... that doesn't get you likes, and comments, and attention, and stuff. You gotta do something bigger and better than all your Facebook friends, so they know you have a better life than they do, and they get all jealous and envy you. (/S for those without a single functioning brain cell.)
just want you to know that /s and all other tone indicators are normally used to help neurodivergent people know that's a joke and such
Load More Replies...Wow, that's a lot of people. For me it was me and the ultrasound technician. 😁
My Gender reveal was in the Delivery Room at the Hospital.... It's a Girl.
I never correct grammar but I's is intolerable. My wife and my, please.
I dunno, I think Transgender would be just as satisfying ;-p
Load More Replies...That seems like a good minimum for setting a state on fire!
Load More Replies...Hey Julie sooo your gender reveal started no forest fire .. at least your not adopted byyeee
Personally, I think gender reveal parties are right up there with kindergarten graduation: kinda dumb.
I'll take issue with kindergarten graduation when it causes disasters.
Load More Replies...According to 'Know Your Meme's' very own Matt, he personally finds the gender reveal memes funny. "It's an easy format that people are getting a lot of mileage from. Do I think that it's necessary to shame them? I'm not in the business of determining something like that. But it's hard to feel sympathy for the couple, especially for someone like me living in California who spent the weekend indoors because the air quality is so poor. And I’m lucky. Lives are being ruined by these fires. People are being displaced. Some are dying."
Matt doesn't think that the memes will help people become more aware of the potential damage they can cause, but they might sway public opinion about gender reveal parties. "I think that that public's perception about gender reveals might shift. With so many people publicly mocking them at the moment, some might be a little more apprehensive to throw one," he said.
"On some level, news and current events drive memes. They allow people to express their fears, hopes, and feelings on everyday life. The California fires are inspiring some memes this week, but with so much going on in the world, it's hard to tell if that will continue. Last year, the Australian bush fires, a major tragedy in their own right, drove news stories and memes. Flint, Michigan's water crisis is an ongoing tragedy that inspired its fair share of memes, but if the news doesn't keep that at the forefront of people's minds, people tend to move on to the next disaster."
Does anyone know if these a******s are being prosecuted for this?
Yes. there's a range of consequences- they'll probably 'just' be fined if nobody dies, and no homes or structures are lost. but if that doesn't remain true, they'll be criminally prosecuted.
Load More Replies...Well congratulations! On your baby and on not starting a devastating wildfire!
Boy? Girl? I don't care, look what it was able to do to FRIENDLY country BEFORE it was born. So I guess it is new Chuck Norris.
I did not know the gender on my two kids until they took their first breath. If I had known before would have not been as good
Congratulations you have won prefect comment on the Internet for the day. please accept this trophy on behalf of the Internet 🏆
Load More Replies...If it's from 64 million years ago, I think it is from a dirt on dirt photo.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile, Joe told us what inspired him to create his own gender reveal meme about the Hindenburg disaster. "I thought through well-known historical disasters that had a recognizable image and had been completely preventable. I wanted to alight gender reveal parties with something else that’s embarrassing and was unnecessary. Because they are embarrassing and unnecessary and could mark our time as lack critical thought," he said.
"People shouldn’t have gender reveal parties. They encourage the toxic ways we’ve socialized gender. You should raise your baby to be a healthy baby, not like a 'little cheerleader' vs. a 'little football player,' Joe shared his opinion.
"Having a gender reveal party implies that the parents are going to raise their child very differently depending on what gender the kid is assigned at birth. I’m sure most of us can think of a time we wish our own parents hadn’t forced us into a specific thing just because boys or girls are 'supposed to do it.' If you want to tell people about your baby’s anatomy, that’s fine. But it shouldn’t be the most important thing about them. Why would we pass that close minded binary down to the next generation?"
This is inaccurate, as America is doing literally nothing to combat covid-19, and is definitely not wearing armor.
we're trying our best to teach people about it but they're just too stubborn to act
Load More Replies...The biggest mistake the people in charge made was telling people to wear masks to protect others. Had they said the masks were the only way to protect themselves, everyone would wear them. People are much more selfish now. Why would we expect them to wear something that seems uncomfortable just to protect others?
I knew a guy in the SCA this happened to, thankfully he was not badly injured. The arrows had bird blunts on them.
A vespiary. It's yellow, it's black, no yellow, wait...what the fudging sex is it!
There are different colors of wasps. To maintain the silly tradition, one can use Synoeca cyanea nest for a boy and paper wasp nest for girl (not pink, but might work)
Load More Replies...this one needs to be so much higher....the gender reveal party is a modern vanity that needs to stop.
The fire began during a family photoshoot at El Dorado Ranch Park in Yucaipa, around 70 miles east of Los Angeles, after a smoke device ignited the nearby brush. Since then, the fire has spread, and only around a third of it has been contained as of September 10.
“In my 30 years as a citizen in Yucaipa, I have never seen such a large fire. As a retired firefighter with 32 years of experience, I can assure you I witnessed one of the most dangerous fires that we can have in this area,” said Yucaipa Mayor David Avila.
The sad thing is, this isn’t the only gender reveal party to have started a fire. Back in 2017, a party in Arizona led to a wildfire that razed 47k acres after a man shot an explosive substance at a target. He was ordered to repay around 8 million dollars in damages.
Let alone feeling like it’s perfectly fine to set off those explosives in a dry wooded area during a drought.
I mean, whatever happened to just having a cake that was pink or blue inside? Or a box of colored balloons? Or other fun things like buying a bunch of HERSHEY'S bars and coloring in the the He and the She, or the Her and the She (my niece did the candy bar thing at her baby shower, colored the letters on the candy bar wrapper in with fuchsia and pink Sharpies. They made for cute and tasty favors). Everyone has to one up each other...
I just don't understand gender reveal parties period. Why is a babies gender such a big deal? Especially when you don't know if that child turns out to actually be transgendered. Just let kids decide who they are instead.
I bet at least some of them do not "believe" in transgender... ism?
Load More Replies...I just don't understand why Americans make such a fuss about everything: gender reveal, baby showers, etc.. Just call you family and say it's agirl, FFS. There are very few people who care anyway.
Our gender reveal parties were at the hospital waiting room when the babies were born! That's half the fun!!
... during summer, during a drought, in the dry, dry hills of Southern California...
I'm old so maybe I just don't understand this, but why is the sex of your unborn baby something that requires I party including fireworks at the same time that you can describe your gender 14 different ways????
That's nothing. I'm gonna drop a pink nuclear warhead on Washington DC, and blame it on Russia!
personally i would care more about coral reefs than wildfires but both are terrible
Load More Replies...At the time of writing, there were more than 100 wildfires rampaging through 12 western US states currently, as reported by the BBC. The National Interagency Fire Center states that 4.4 million acres of land have been burned.
California, Oregon, and Washington have been affected the hardest. At least 15 people have died from wildfires in these three states and 500k Oregonians are leaving their homes behind and evacuating to safety.
The BLM protesters didn't destroy properties, but looters and crooks did.
Pretty sure it was a bunch of criminals just using the BLM protests to hide behind
Get the facts right. Every single person who tried turning the protests into riots destroyed the property.
Hmm, I wonder what the general reaction would have been if the parents and all the guests were people of colour at the gender reveal party at El Dorado Ranch Park ("temporarily closed").
It is depressing to note that I see more white faces in those protests and riots, than any other. If so many people feel so strongly about it, then they can just adjust their behaviour and lead by example... not use it as an excuse to steal a new tv and trash a few businesses.
I can think of some people in government we can use.
Load More Replies...Since this is the trolley problem, would blue be the mother's relatives and pink the father's relatives, or vice versa?
mmm...I'm no physicist, but a hole rather would represent a girl.../:)
It's about color, those reveal things - this hole has a blue hue - thus.. a boy..
Load More Replies...I'm an American, and every morning I wish I were a European reading news of Amerika.
Load More Replies...Not nearly, but somehow not as that much as you have goin around for sure.
Load More Replies...Good thing you made this comment then, it'll likely stop forever now
Load More Replies...But the world needs more rhinos so that would be a good thing...
Load More Replies...I would never go to one unless I was desperate to go to a party. I also hate baby showers.
As an European, I find really singular how a lot of Americans, whatever they live, love or do feel "obligated" to make a show of it. I got the feeling that it must be hard to live in a culture where an individual is pushed to be in the constant representation of it own self. Tears of compassion.
I feel no obligation too "show" my life to anyone. But my mother's from a non-American-mainstream culture. I have friends who can't *not* send out updates like it's breaking news that their kids are now a year older (wow, I know, I sent the birthday present!).... Or they're in a new grade at school... or played a sport... or or or.... How are these kids gonna grow up remotely sane realizign that even in utero their parents made them a photo/Facebook/Twitter post op?! but I come from a family where we keep our selves to our selves and it ain't nobody's business if they don't *ask*.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately there are stupid, irresponsible people everywhere, not just in America, who have been the cause for unspeakable damage to natural habitats, as well as public spaces, irreplaceable works of art etc. It's called homo nonsapiens ignoramus
Stupidity. I didn't even want to know until my baby was born. It's more fun that way, and either boy or girl is fine IMO. A healthy baby is more important.
I had the same question. When I first saw this, I thought that it was last year's article.
I believe it has happened more than twice. In 2019 a woman was actually killed at a gender reveal explosion because the device they rigged up for the "big reveal" actually turned out to be a pipe bomb... https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/10/28/woman-killed-by-shrapnel-gender-reveal-party-explosion-iowa/
any idiot with a brain cell can see how dry it is in the area. why would seting a explosive off be a good idea without some kind of fire controle ready?
i wonder how thats gonna turn out. they show up to school and was like "hey im the kid that basically killed your cousins and friends. nice to meet you!"
To be fair, it wasn't the kid, it was their idiot relatives.
Load More Replies...That is going to be one HELL of a puberty when that child finds out.
WHY IS THIS NOT HIGHER - this is one of the few that actually made me exhale heavily in amusement.
The first time I saw the words "gender reveal party" I thought it was a joke. Seriously, all this to show off the gender to get gender-"appropriate" gifts for a kid who has no choice but to accept what is force-fed into their brains befor they can say, "Why?" ....
exactly. and the fact that blue is boy and pink is girl, where did that even come from? boys can like pink, girls can like blue. there's really know point to a gender reveal party because all it does is tell your friends 'buy a pink dress & a doll!' or 'buy blue jeans and a truck!'. if anything we should be getting rid of gender reveal parties because they adopt the same old fashioned rules that girls like pink dresses & dolls and boys like blue jeans & trucks when that's not always true.
Load More Replies...It's just amazing the number of idiots piling disaster on top of this already sucky year.
Bunch of stupid people with too much money and too much time and a need to show off how "cool" they are. Wish they would blow themselves up and take themselves out of the gene pool..
Why gender reveal parties? Because most of the people born after 1980 NEVER grew the hell up.
Broad generalization. Let me guess, you bought into the millenials vs. boomers b******t?
Load More Replies...I liked how my sister-in-law did it. We were already going to have a small baby shower, she and my brother found out at the doctor's office they were having a boy and they just decorated their own living room with blue ribbon and had a blue cake. So it was a surprise for the rest of us. No fire, no freak outs. Just a simple party with maybe $25 in blue decorations from Party City
My cousin did the same thing, except she gave cupcakes to friends and family, asked them to bite into it, and pink sprinkles came out.
O.k., I'm only part way through yet I've laughed so hard my head is killing me. Thank God this useless trend is finally going up in smoke.
Pink smoke or blue smoke?? Asking for a friend😳
Load More Replies...Plot twist: it went straight through and is sitting on the ground a couple miles away.
Maybe dye the inside of a cake instead of burning down half the state?
How about pink or blue balloons? That's enough. Everyone will understand that and no forests are burned down.
The joke, the first burning of the library, or the second burning of the library?
Load More Replies...This made me laugh harder than the actual thing.
Load More Replies...I'm sure that as the fires are raging, there are American moms planning another gender reveal party with loads of fireworks and explosions and hundreds of plastic balloons so more animals will die.
No doubt. But they're planning it in an unburned (as of now) area so they don't get soot in their party favors!
Load More Replies...There was a time when babies all dressed the same in lacy white smocks or whatever. They didn't have gender specific clothes and toys till they were older.
As long as baby girls don't have to wear those hideous headbands with flowers the size of the moon on their heads. And what's the big deal if someone mistakes a baby as girl or boy. People act like the gay seed is imbedded in their babies by being call a boy when the baby doesn't even know it's really a girl. We find s**t to worry about and make such a mess we never bother to clean up or take responsibility for.
Load More Replies...Nonono, the fire was a boy. The extinguishing agent is hormone therapy.
This is actually a great idea! Rather than pay for something dangerous and risky like explosives, pay for and dye the fire suppressant used to contain forest fires! Everyone can compete for bragging rights about containing the most wildfire
Why are people blaming the kid now? It's the parents that used explosives.
The parents are going to pass on their stupid genes. People who are dumb enough to plant an explosive device in a field full of dead tall grass should not be reproducing.
Load More Replies...I don't blame the child. I only hope that the child has better sense than his/her parents, but this one did make me lol.
Why the f**k are people NOW saying this is tasteless?
You should get out more. You could not notify the world that you're a prude with no sense of humor.
Load More Replies...The most essential piece of the pack being the Karen haircut, obviously.
My gender reveal was calling family and friends after I gave birth. Didn't cost a thing!
Yes i was goin to say this of stuff Is so karen an im not even from the U.S
@Andrew: This is how you can comment/reply to a comment with many downvotes. Just don't use pejorative adjectives about the posters, please. This site, as all sites, is only as civilized as we users make it.
@Scott Brynildsen... bro you good? Need a chill pill? Monika didn't even offend anyone. Just chill out, please. Also if you're gonna try andd bash her for supporting trump, which she may or may not do (I don't support her supporting him, but still), can you PLEASE not put a transphobic comment in with your "roast"? Not a good look.
Load More Replies...Cousin sent a photo from 20 mi away. The sky was orange and everything was covered with soot. Terrifying!
Same here. I love the smell of wildfires in the morning! And smoke that blots out the sun.
Load More Replies...I'm just wondering-where and when was this photo taken? Downvote all you want.
Last month or so the sky was orange in canada, it was scary, climate change isi real. we need to stop dis
I have made many mistakes in my life, but the fact that I've never been invited to a gender reveal party means I cut the right people out of my life.
I'm American, and I have seven siblings. There wasn't a gender reveal party for me or any of my siblings. Maybe it's only an American thing, but not all Americans do it. Only the ones who have a large online presence, so it seems like all Americans do it. For us people who aren't all over the internet, it's kind of stupid.
I'm in my 50s and never even HEARD of a gender reveal party until last year. Happy to say I don't travel in those circles (of Hell).
Load More Replies...Retards be like: I’m gonna generalize the entirety of a country based on the actions less than ten people”
My son received raspberry pink pajamas as a birth gift, he wore them, he's fine.
bro i did not even know it says stark industries on the missile until now!!!
How? That is the very absis of how he knows that stark industry is responsible. The focal point of 1st movie
Load More Replies...Wow, that one must be expensive. Ordering party material from outer space. Posh.
That's a rather nasty combo of sexist and racist. Unfortunate that this is still acceptable.
As a white male, I have to admit that yes, the evidence supports that my race and gender are the most blood-soaked. We earned that assessment.
Load More Replies...The people who started this fire should be made to work with firefighters and support people dealing with the fallout. They should have to rescue people and animals who are trapped, injured, and homeless. They should also be made to remove dead bodies, human and animal. Then maybe, just maybe, the full weight of the misery and destruction they caused will fall on them. I want that to happen, as an object lesson, to them and future couples considering hosting a similar event, about both thinking before doing and suffering the consequences of their actions. I don’t want them to just get a slap on the wrist and a small fine, and it all gets forgotten. TEN people have died because of their narcissism and negligence. They should be tried for ten counts of involuntary manslaughter (and have the baby in jail maybe?). I wish California would be the first state to make it a felony to use pyrotechnic devices by anyone but certified professionals who have obtained a permit for the event.
Totally agree with you. Because of their hubris and downright stupidity, they have caused untold damage. Countless animals have obviously die and just the overall destruction of flora in general. I despair at the intelligence of some people. But they walk amongst us. Oh, and hoping that the 'apple has fallen far from the tree' and the child grows up to be a caring and intelligent individual, imagine the guilt he/she will probably be burdened with?
Load More Replies...I'd hate to be that baby... growing up and finding out about this terrible tragedy.
Don't worry. The parents will have totally acceptable excuses for how they managed to burn down an entire forest, killing thousands of animals, destroying houses and killing people. They won't lose one second of sleep over it.
Load More Replies...Had to Google wtf a gender reveal party was... I thought it was people transitioning or something... It is not! How f*****g attention seeking do people have to be these days!
Me, too. At first I thought it was an outcoming party, to celebrate and tell all the family that one was gay, bisexual or whatever.
Load More Replies...Why have gender reveal parties become such spectacles? Humans reproduce all the time. What is the big deal? The people who started this disaster, intentional or not, should feel guilty for the duration of their lives. And, they should provide restitution in any way possible.
All of my kids revealed their gender to us at birth. We didn't know beforehand. 🙂
As an American I need people to stop saying "Americans be like...*gender reveal dunking*" The VAST majority of us (I think) aren't so self-centered as to even entertain the idea of a gender reveal party much less something foolish enough to set a car (Seen here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z91szT2mP3Y) or forest on fire to do so.
It's not just Americans. its just a lot of dumb things are documented by Americans that are then shared around the world. People are idiots everywhere. Absolutely everywhere. But your education system does not help you out at all
Load More Replies...First it was Baby Showers, then Gender Reveal Parties when will someone suggest Conception Parties?
I know we constantly mock America for all the c**p things that go on there but yes, we know that some of you are decent people and are ashamed of it, too. Here's the deal: We'll provide boats for the good people to flee the country and when we've got you all safe, we'll just torch the whole godforsaken place. Does that sound cool?
When the orange buffoon was saying Mexico would pay for a wall, someone suggested Canada do too, and the rest of us chip in for a lid.
Load More Replies...The people who started this fire should be made to work with firefighters and support people dealing with the fallout. They should have to rescue people and animals who are trapped, injured, and homeless. They should also be made to remove dead bodies, human and animal. Then maybe, just maybe, the full weight of the misery and destruction they caused will fall on them. I want that to happen, as an object lesson, to them and future couples considering hosting a similar event, about both thinking before doing and suffering the consequences of their actions. I don’t want them to just get a slap on the wrist and a small fine, and it all gets forgotten. TEN people have died because of their narcissism and negligence. They should be tried for ten counts of involuntary manslaughter (and have the baby in jail maybe?). I wish California would be the first state to make it a felony to use pyrotechnic devices by anyone but certified professionals who have obtained a permit for the event.
Totally agree with you. Because of their hubris and downright stupidity, they have caused untold damage. Countless animals have obviously die and just the overall destruction of flora in general. I despair at the intelligence of some people. But they walk amongst us. Oh, and hoping that the 'apple has fallen far from the tree' and the child grows up to be a caring and intelligent individual, imagine the guilt he/she will probably be burdened with?
Load More Replies...I'd hate to be that baby... growing up and finding out about this terrible tragedy.
Don't worry. The parents will have totally acceptable excuses for how they managed to burn down an entire forest, killing thousands of animals, destroying houses and killing people. They won't lose one second of sleep over it.
Load More Replies...Had to Google wtf a gender reveal party was... I thought it was people transitioning or something... It is not! How f*****g attention seeking do people have to be these days!
Me, too. At first I thought it was an outcoming party, to celebrate and tell all the family that one was gay, bisexual or whatever.
Load More Replies...Why have gender reveal parties become such spectacles? Humans reproduce all the time. What is the big deal? The people who started this disaster, intentional or not, should feel guilty for the duration of their lives. And, they should provide restitution in any way possible.
All of my kids revealed their gender to us at birth. We didn't know beforehand. 🙂
As an American I need people to stop saying "Americans be like...*gender reveal dunking*" The VAST majority of us (I think) aren't so self-centered as to even entertain the idea of a gender reveal party much less something foolish enough to set a car (Seen here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z91szT2mP3Y) or forest on fire to do so.
It's not just Americans. its just a lot of dumb things are documented by Americans that are then shared around the world. People are idiots everywhere. Absolutely everywhere. But your education system does not help you out at all
Load More Replies...First it was Baby Showers, then Gender Reveal Parties when will someone suggest Conception Parties?
I know we constantly mock America for all the c**p things that go on there but yes, we know that some of you are decent people and are ashamed of it, too. Here's the deal: We'll provide boats for the good people to flee the country and when we've got you all safe, we'll just torch the whole godforsaken place. Does that sound cool?
When the orange buffoon was saying Mexico would pay for a wall, someone suggested Canada do too, and the rest of us chip in for a lid.
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