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So… I was assigned female at birth, and dress that way and such, and to most people I use She/Her pronouns. With my close friends I am They/Them and have sort of decided that I was pangender because that was what made the most sense. Sometimes though, I really wish that I was a guy and had all the stuff that comes with it, but even if I was like that I would still dress the way I do. I just don’t really know who the heck I am and I also don’t know why I’m asking a bunch of people on the internet but… hey, it’s worth a shot right? … maybe not? Anyway what do you people think?

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I understand EXACTLY how you feel. I identify as queer and questioning cuz I hostly don't really know but usually say pansexual. I also identified as non binary just last year but realized I liked being a girl. It's really hard and I really hope you figure it out
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ftm here. only you can answer this. Considering the mix of things you identify with, I think pangender/nonbinary is a great avenue for you rn. it took me seven years to figure myself out in the area of identity & I was in therapy for four of those.

otherwise...I'm going to be a terrible traitor here & say that we've made self-identification pretty complicated these days. it feels like you're still feeling things out & you aren't hard-leaning into dysphoria in a way that would make me recommend therapy. it's okay to be figuring things out for a while :)

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