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When Hilary Clinton uttered the words, “My campaign is not going to let Donald Trump try to normalize himself,” she started a wave of "normalization” worldwide. The term has become so mainstream that it’s used every time something calls for social reform.

Normalize not folding clothes. Normalize gatekeeping. Normalize marriage.

However, people started noticing that some of the modern norms that we’re so familiar with are starting to cause concern. Like redditor Former-Session6405 who called out Brazilian butt lifts for pushing natural bodies out of style. 

In agreement, members of the GenZ subreddit began sharing their opinions on everything from children addicted to technology to credit card debt. You can find more of their controversial takes on things we should stop normalizing down below.

#1

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Standing around and recording while someone's life is in danger.

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#2

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things People thinking it’s socially acceptable to play music/videos out loud on their phones in public. Ain’t nobody wanna hear that s**t.

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Ka Se
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I regularly use public transport and I rarely see anyone doing this. (About once every 3 Months or so.) Usually they are kids about 13 to 18 years old but similar behaviour occurred at my generation too. So ... what?

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Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Subscription based everything.

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Never Snarky
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm tired of having to subscribe (even for free) to every newspaper, online news service, magazine just to read an article forwarded to me by friend. It's just a way of getting my email so that they can bombard me with ads.

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Since Trump’s election in 2016, research has found that people have used the word “normalize” twice as much online. However, they’re using it differently than they used to. According to Merriam-Webster, it now refers to the "redefinition of modern discourse to allow extreme views to be considered normal.”

While standardizing new things can be powerful, freeing, and positive, it also has the potential to be damaging to society. We’ve rejected and created a lot of “normal” ideas over the years, mainly because creating societal norms helps us navigate interactions with others and allows us to thrive together as a collective. 

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#4

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things This biggest thing of all; refusal to accept other opinions, also people be taking opinions as facts.

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Luke Branwen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends. We can have different opinions on pineapple pizza or Star Wars movies. But arguing whether, like, queer people deserve basic rights? That's not an "opinion".

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#5

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things I think just looking absolutely perfect on social media. We’ve been so accustomed to filtered faces with 10lbs of makeup on, that we forget things like dark circles and fine lines are perfectly normal. I mean, I saw this 28-year-old woman on TikTok get torn apart for looking like a 28-year-old woman and there’s kids as young as 10 investing in skincare?? Why are 10-year-olds afraid of aging? It’s like we don’t even want to look human anymore, and we have to cover up every little flaw whether it be with makeup or a filter and I’m sick of it.

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#6

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Tipping.

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you kids want to restructure the entire service industry economy of the USA I'm down to help. But I'm a bit busy right now trying to keep a fascist bastard from turning the entire country into the worst version of Handmaid's Tale. After Mango Menace is gone I'm totally down.

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Even though a lot of these “normalize” posts we see online are jokes, there are also a lot of them that aren’t. This blurred line between sarcasm and genuine beliefs about societal norms creates a way to lure people into accepting concerning standards.

#7

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Working 50-60 hours multiple jobs just to get by.

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#8

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Shaming short men for their height.

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Yvil
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'Shaming' in general. Who do you think you are, mocking people who don't live up to your sick standardized so-called perfection. Or are you trying to shift the focus from your own imaginary 'imperfections'. People who shame other people are very sad and losers by default.

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#9

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things People acting like the world revolves around them.

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Main Character Syndrome. Sort of a proto narcissism. Met a few over the years and definitely predates Gen-Z. Although that's what they named it and it's a good name. I appreciate that.

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Another danger that follows normalization is complacency, a sort of calm satisfaction with the situation we’re in. Once something becomes standard, we are no longer opposed to it, no matter what the thing is.

Let’s use Trump as an example again. Many people didn’t like that he became president, and some even threatened to move if he got elected. Those who said that obviously didn't, and the rest got used to the idea of such a person running the US, subsidizing their resistance and protests.

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#10

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Selfishness and the whole idea of "I don't owe anyone anything" attitude.

Yes look out for yourself but people have become quite dismissive of others and then we end up in a loneliness epidemic...

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DRMAGDN
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can go the complete opposite direction for some major empathetic people who always overdo taking care of others though (like my Mom who is a nurse). For them, they could use a little be more of a dose of taking care of themselves a bit before others (like oxygen masks on an airplane).

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#11

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Over consumption, fast fasion, factory farming, rampant homo-/transphobia or bigotry in general.

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DRMAGDN
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Welcome to late stage capitalism worldwide. Next stop: AI / Automation / Robot Revolution

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Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things The idea that companies or economies should produce more each year when we are rapidly consuming every natural resource.

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Journalist Evan Hecht warns that if we agree to normalize everything, it desensitizes people to real problems around a certain topic. He urges us to think about words like “gaslight” and "trigger,” which both describe bad things that happen to people. Their overuse or misuse takes away the importance of what they communicate. Throwing this word around can hurt people in the long run, as they might not realize they’re in a situation where these things are happening.

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#13

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Smoking/vaping. I understand cigarettes were a big thing in the past but now I see a lot more people vaping or casually smoking weeeds. Everything’s got pretty colors and fun flavors to appeal to younger and younger people. If I’m remembering correctly I saw an article somewhere that cigarette smoke is at an all time low while also mentioning vaping is at record highs.

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Mark
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Hey kids do you want lung cancer and a nicotine addiction?" "No, ew" "But it's mango flavoured" "Then absolutely, yes"

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#14

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things The constant dehumanization  that everybody seems to do to the people they don't like.

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DRMAGDN
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a by-product of the digital world being as important or more important than the real world. Empathy and understanding go out the window when you are a online keyboard warrior.

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#15

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Children obsessed with retinol products and thinking that 20 year olds look “old”.

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK this needs to stop! This is horrible quack medicine. Rubbing Vitamin A into your skin doesn't prevent wrinkles. Not only that but you can overdose on retinol supplements. Rubbing it on your skin is safe enough but some people are ODing from direct ingestion. You want to look younger, wear normal foundation. The way some of this is actually dangerous.

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He proposes that we should learn to embrace how to destigmatize things over normalizing. When you stigmatize something, you remove the association of shame or guilt from certain actions or behaviors. He further explains, “To destigmatize taboo things, such as sex work, creates an environment that can still acknowledge the benefits and consequences of the action while making it something widely accepted. Normalization simply removes the idea of consequences, as the act is now considered “normal.”

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#16

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Credit card debt.

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Tamra
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Credit cards have their place, especially if you live in the US, where credit scores are important. An example: my husband and I have both worked really hard to attain and keep a very good credit score. We just recently paid off our house and have no car payments. Now, our credit score is going down because we don't have a monthly payment. Enter a credit card. We purchase groceries and gas on the card, and pay the card off twice per month, which maintains the credit score. I find the whole thing irritating as hell, but it's what we've got to work with here. 🙄

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#17

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Loss of biodiversity. It's in your own back yard and nobody does anything. Every new project is a loss of ecosystem that many animals relied on.

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Bobert Robertson
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Speaking of biodiversity in your own backyard....just this morning I watched 3 deer, one fox, 8 wild turkeys and a flock of geese in around the field in my backyard!

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#18

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things College tuition.

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Michael Largey
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If college costs are so high that only the rich can afford them, who does that benefit, I wonder?

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But the question is: why is it so easy for us to normalize even the worst kinds of behavior and events? Well, the rationalization of morally bad things usually aligns with whatever society deems acceptable at the time. A good example is greenwashing, where a company makes its product seem as environmentally friendly as possible without making any changes to it. They do so because they’re aware that people care about the earth they live on, or at least pretend to.

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#19

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Alcohol. Period.

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cracks beer. Sorry not giving that one up. Not downvoting either BYW. I don't tell you what to do with your body, you don't tell me what to do with mine OK?

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#20

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Children being obsessed with technology. sure as kids a lot of us were on the internet but i was never on it literally all the time. kids nowadays have actual meltdowns if they can’t be on their ipad rotting away their brains for 2 seconds.

u/nobearpineapples:

My youngest is brother 8 and if he’s not on the VR he’s on his computer, and he’s not on either it’s because he’s eating at the table with his tablet/ipad

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James016
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry but nobearpineapple’s parents are to blame for that situation. They should have restricted time on the iPad. Especially an 8 year old. A tablet can be a great creative and educational device. Just put the right apps on it and block the internet.

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#21

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Very high tipping percents, like 20-25%. It will eventually get to a point where people protest due to the high prices. Hell, there are even some people doing custom 0% now!

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Tamra
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The backlash against tipping is growing. So, SO many people are asking for tips now, expecting them, during a time when people are working full time jobs and still living in their cars. So many situations are at a boiling point right now, at least in my country (US), and tipping is one of them.

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It might not be an easy pill to swallow, but we’ve also normalized things that shouldn’t have been in the first place. Like racism or ableism, for example. The US still doesn’t make free healthcare or accessible architecture a given, and disabled people don’t have the same opportunities as able people. And when a black person gets shot or abused by a white policeman, we care for a while and might even think, “Something has to change.” But after some time, we move on, and everything remains the same until we see another victim on the news.

#23

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Sharing your real name, face, etc. online.

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Poison Ivy/Boo
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I saw a post (I think it was a listicle here, actually) where a poster has asked "if your social security numbers were money, how rich would you be? And ppl actually answered with their social security numbers!!!! I mean how stupid do you have to be to blast that info out there?!?

SkippityBoppityBoo
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Facebook? Your real name is shared online. I remember when you used to be able to use a nickname etc... But it caused problems, especially for people who were being stalked etc. But... I don't know... I'd like anonymity but the amount of people hiding behind fake names and accounts so they could harass and verbally abuse others? It got bad at one point.

WonderWoman
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Snapchat, tikTok etc with their first name (being careful, lol) their school, their city, their jersey number for sport, what sport they play, where they work. Yeah, that first name only will fool EVERYONE ::eye roll:: Then they add people just because they have *mutuals* . And the parents are NO WHERE TO BE FOUND or worse, they do the same and post pics and vids of their kids.

Aileen Grist
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do. My name, my face, my personality. I am who and what you see.

D. O. Brndo
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah, never use the name on your job applications on social media.

Shiva Ho
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way back in 94 I knew that the net was going to be a privacy nightmare! Inviting the world into your computer was going to be a bad idea! Always hide your identity online!

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#24

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Developing parasocial relationships with celebrities.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is funny, considering all the celeb posts here at Bored Panda today and yesterday.

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After all, normalization is partly normal, even biologically. Emotions come from our brains, and the mind wants to be happy in order to be productive. And it can’t be content and productive if they are forced to feel grief for everything that happens to strangers. So to adequately function, we "normalize.” But the media takes advantage of the brain’s coping and survival tactics, so people accept the way things are and remain nonchalant.

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#25

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Going out in public and upset or annoyed at benign small talk or social interactions. I get it, we don’t necessarily feel social every time we are forced yo leave the house, but we’ve made it far to normal to react with disgust to simple friendliness.

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James016
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whinging about how you had to actually speak to someone on TikTok also makes you look like an utter bëllend.

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#28

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Alcohol. At the least, in the sense people think they NEED to drink to "fit in."

Cosmetic Surgery. People need to embrace their natural looks, IMO it's mostly fueled by insecurity. It shouldn't be "fixed," it should be addressed.

Hook-up Culture. At the least, people need to stop being tricked into 'you need to have sex,' instead of just waiting for the right person.

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Never Snarky
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you "need" alcohol, you have a drinking problem. From one who has been in recovery for 23 years.

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#29

Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things Sustained hopelessness in our generation's online activities and meme culture. I know we have it tough, but not enough of us seem to be operating on the principle that the human organism is a beautifully hardy thing that has historically weathered worse circumstances. Meditation is a great, free resource that channels the mystical properties of your imagination into a more comfortable internal projection of the world we live in.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find this so sad, my 15 year old daughter came to me and said that she felt behind already because she doesn't have a job yet. She is already concerned that she will never have a house or be able to prosper because she isn't saving money already. I have reassured her as best I could, but I never felt that way at 15 and it makes me so sad for this generation.

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Gen Z Are Sick And Tired Of People Normalizing These 30 Things It is not normal to be in the prime of your life and spending almost all of your free time alone, indoors, and addicted to video games and computers. That would be considered extraordinarily abnormal, worrying behavior in previous generations, a sign someone was extremely broken and depressed. Today it is the defacto norm for a *huge* swath of people.

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devotedtodreams
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Excuse me? Just because not everyone is a social butterfly and extrovert doesn't mean they should get called out like this. I just happen to be happiest at home and seeing as few people as possible. And no, I'm not addicted to video games and computers.

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