When life feels overwhelming and negativity starts creeping in, sometimes the best thing to do is shift your focus to the good in the world. And thankfully, in today’s digital age, finding heartwarming moments is just a click away. That’s why we’ve gathered some of the most uplifting posts from the Simply Wholesome Facebook page—a community dedicated to spreading joy with a sprinkle of humor. From random acts of kindness to sweet everyday moments that restore faith in humanity, these posts are bound to bring a smile to your face. Keep reading for a little dose of happiness!
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Her smile warms me up and makes me smile, i agree Phillip she is beautiful
Load More Replies...For the record, this sweet lady happens to diagnosed with Freeman-Sheldon syndrome, which affects her bones and muscles and causes a visual facial difference. So everyone calling her "ugly" should be ashamed of themselves.
Even if she was ugly, which she clearly isn't, her refusal to give in to trolls would make her beautiful.
The least serious type of ugliness shows on people's faces. The most serious type comes out of their mouths.
Hey Depressy, when you're done being all sarcastic and while you're waiting (which will be forever) for people to tell you how clever you are, send us a picture of your amazing self so we can gaze at you in wonder and adoration at how handsome you are.
She did, BUT, cat. I would absolutely do this and I'm well over the age of being picked/hooked up in a bar. Unless it's "Grab a Granny" night.
Load More Replies...She slept with him so she could spend those five minutes totally laughing at him inside for what she was going to do to him. AWESOME!!
Um, wow. I don't give a fvck abut the people, I just hope the cat is doing well.
You are aware this is 2024 and safe s&x exists, right? And we also do not assume that because a woman gets hers it does not mean she is out catching disease.
Load More Replies...I had two friends, brothers. They had no father and not much money, so mama took a big paper box, cut a hole in it and made a TV show. Big succes.
Load More Replies...This sounds so much like my childhood. I was grown up before I realised we'd ever been poor. My parents now have everything they want, and they bloody well deserve it
Same! I had no clue we were poor. I told my mom I loved when she sent me to school with a tupperware of cereal for lunch and a dime to buy milk (yes I'm old) because I felt cool. She said it was because she was poor and couldn't afford anything else for lunch. It made her happy to know that something she felt shame over was actually a fun memory for me.
Load More Replies...That is parenting done so well and never forgotten by the child and their friends. This is what is talked about in "Best Man" speeches.
Most parents would do anything to make their kids happy. Imagination goes a long way in these instances.
im not crying. the onion ninjas are just sitting next to me in my science class, thats all
That is a smart way to treat your kids to a game of some sort if you are poor.
In a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming, focusing on wholesome moments doesn’t mean ignoring the tough parts of life. Instead, it’s about choosing to see things in a more positive and constructive way.
It’s not about pretending problems don’t exist—it’s about believing that challenges can be overcome and that good things are always around the corner.
The boys both look so proud and she looks so happy! We need more young men like this in the world!
My God, this is one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. You are my hero.
I like to believe that's how most men feel. It's just that the other kind is the one we hear about more often, because everyone seems to like bad news.
Load More Replies..."Mansplaining done right" is oxymoronic. Mansplaining is always patronising, and all I can see here is a decent human being speaking about his feelings and experiences. And before using a word you clearly don't understand, at least try to learn how to spell it.
Load More Replies...you just got to be there and support them how you i can i think Samwise Gamgee said it best "I cant carry it for you but I can carry you"
How can we fund her, and make this in every village around the world who needs it?
Ah that won't be allowed. We aren't actually allowed to improve things, that wouldn't work for the billionaires
Load More Replies...Correct me if I’m wrong, but her first name would be pronounced “zo-cheel?” Either way, what a beautiful act of selflessness!
Apologies, but could someone show me phonetically how to pronounce her first name? I'm thinking it begins with a zo, but British English speaker and have no idea really.
Psychologist Barbara Fredrickson suggests that positive emotions expand our way of thinking, making us more open to new ideas and possibilities. When we feel happy, we’re more likely to think creatively, connect with others, and find solutions to problems we might otherwise struggle with.
Simply put, a positive mindset opens doors.
I'm not sure whether unskilled labor actually does exist, since the examples people bring up are just jobs that require skills that are learned outside of formal education. But if there is such a thing as unskilled labor, the unskilled laborers still need to be paid fairly for their time and effort.
Unskilled labor exists. For example, landlords.
Load More Replies...Also, even truly 'unskilled' labour would deserve enough salary to live comfortably and without fear. Hell, even not working at all - for what reason ever - deserves a decent life. DO NOT FALL FOR THE LIE THAT YOU HAD TO CREATE MILLIONS TO BE WORTH LIVING A SIMPLE, NICE LIFE!
It's poorly named but it just refers to jobs that either do or don't require an apprenticeship.
Being a care giver is very skilled. Patience, mathematics, (counting and giving medicine),knowing different languages, able to adapt to any situation. And emotional strong, sometimes. You will witness stress in family members,and you are the one who knows have to talk to them. And comfort all
D***s. D***s. D***s. D***s. Not all D***s are illicit. Stop censoring every damn thing.
How about using medication(s)? I mean, we all know the negative connotation of using the "d" word.
Shame they're closing and not using it for underprivileged kids, or something else. But so good that it's not needed for kids with hiv\aids.
Or Japan, or Russia, or... just about every country
Load More Replies...AS someone who experienced English, American and briefly german public school education, American is the worst (straight up told me WWI started in 1917 and WW2 started in 1941), and it genuinely seems to believe that nothing existed before America (three teachers said the same thing). I burst their bubble when I told them that my old school was older than their entire country. But all history and education systems are lacking.
Well, we teach it started in 1939, but one could argue it started in 1936. It depends what level one sets for calling it a "world" war. Of course, one of the major British gripes was that the US turned up late for the first two, but appears to want to be really punctual for the next one.
Load More Replies...I believe that every country in the world has concealed actions and events in its version of history. Remember the hard fact that the victors write the history books, not the defeated.
"History is written by the winners." No, it's written by the rich.
On the flip side, negative emotions tend to limit our thinking and reactions. Think about a time you were extremely stressed—chances are, you felt trapped, unable to see beyond the immediate problem.
That’s because anxiety and fear narrow our focus, making it harder to find alternative solutions or consider different perspectives.
AWW, I hope that you have many more long and happy years with your dear sweet boy kitty 😻💖
so lets stop bying their c**p, paying their wages, supporting their buisness modell. Its more in our hands than we want to reflect on. Go without or by locally, please <3
I do this as best i can. Im not on facebook, never order from amazon and not on. X, avoid nestle and check clothing labels, i didnt buy a shirt today made in Bangladesh as an eg. We can do it, we dont need 1/4 of what advertising throws at us.
Load More Replies...So stop using X for starters. elon (N@zi Punk) has proven himself one of the most villainous of them all.
I don't care what he says, that was a Nazi salute he made at the inauguration .
Load More Replies...I get it that Amazon offers good prices and convenience for many but their anti-trust, anti-worker business practices are hurting us all. If everyone could just reduce their Amazon usage by 20%, that would put almost $115 billion dollars a year back in the competitive market. Please try to do as much as you can.
There is at least one store in Quebec that became unionized - and now Amazon is pulling out of Quebec completely. But it's not related to the unions at all, not at all!
Load More Replies...The comments about wanting to change for the better are the heartwarming ones. You just have to read the commentsection <3
Load More Replies...How does this end up on "50 Posts That Show There’s Still Good Things Happening In The World." Now I have to scroll back up and look at the picture of the 19 year old cat who loves pancakes.
The rich complaining about "class warfare" is like Hitler criticizing World War II.
Right? Like, on one hand I appreciate the effort, especially the ones that are for local charities. On the other - you have more than enough money to just make the donation, so why on Earth would I donate through you and let you use my tax break?
I already said it above, but that ignorant bit of misinformation pisses me off enough that i'll repeat it. he grocery store isn't asking for donations, the grocery store is not receiving the donations. The grocery store does not get to use the donations as a tax write off because again....they are not the ones taking in the donations. Charities, like American Red Cross, whom consistently put 90% of collections toward doing actual good, PARTNER with businesses....because the best time to get a donation out of someone, is when they already have their cards spending money. In 2022 alone, these point-of-sale charity partnerships brought in $749 million dollars in the U.S alone. How exactly would they use YOUR tax break? YOU are the one making the donation, which means you can, and should claim it as a tax write off....but almost no one ever does, because people continue to spread the idea that POS donations are some sort of scam.
Load More Replies...i give directly to three organizations. But if they call and ask for more, I always make sure Im deleted from that list, because I wont give and get nagged for it..
If the grocery really wanted to help reduce hunger, it could just lower its prices.
JFC enough with perpetuating this ignorant BS. The grocery store isn't asking for donations, the grocery store is not receiving the donations. The grocery store does not get to use the donations as a tax write off because again....they are not the ones taking in the donations. Charities, like American Red Cross, whom consistently put 90% of collections toward doing actual good, PARTNER with businesses....because the best time to get a donation out of someone, is when they already have their cards spending money. In 2022 alone, these point-of-sale charity partnerships brought in $749 million dollars in the U.S alone.
They absolutely get the tax write off. They collect the donations from the public and make the donation. This is exactly WHY you don't donate at a register. If you're going to donate, you donate directly to the charity.
Load More Replies...Aside from massive tax breaks, they then get to brag about how much *they* have given to charity.
They DO NOT get a tax break from YOUR donation.YOU do. Just look at the receipt, it's printed right there. Please edit your comment and stop the spread of this misinformation. In addition to the other source I've posted in this thread, here's an explanation of why stores couldn't write it off even if they tried: https://apnews.com/article/fact-checking-000329849244
Load More Replies...Repeat after me: companies can't get a tax deduction on your donation
Plus they could easily do the same by donating stuff close, but not at 'best by' date
Research also shows that positive emotions help us build valuable mental and emotional resources over time. People who regularly experience joy, gratitude, and love are better equipped to handle stress, setbacks, and even major life challenges. Meanwhile, negativity can drain energy, making it harder to bounce back from difficulties.
Please edit to be fat controller, my thomas the tank engine die hard fan self id screaming
Load More Replies...I was once blessed enough to be on a London underground train with a similar driver, making announcements like - preparing to leave a train platform "right, that's them gone, let's sneak off before they come back" or "I'm shutting the train doors so make sure your jiggly bits aren't going to get caught"
IN the DC metro system im pretty sure all of the train announcers have gotten together and decided they would all mumble everything they say and make it impossible to understand a word of it.
The Monday morning one is great especially for people who are depressed, it's hard for many people to get up in the mornings and we do need to congratulate them when they are able to get up and get dressed, even if they stay home all day just getting up to use the bathroom and then laying back down is good, baby steps guys baby steps
Sure sounds like Laurence The Loud who used to Brighten up Flinders Street Station in Melbourne
That's great. Obviously in the UK. I've often been tempted to snatch the microphone and do this at Melbourne's busiest railway station ..... Flinders St. My friends call me " the fat controller ", or TFC for short !
When I used to take the train to uni, it was always amusing when the automated announcements broke and they had people on the platforms with a microphone doing them. It was usually older guys and they tried to make them interesting, like the one above.
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Load More Replies...Sandi Toksvig is a treasure we need to keep safe for future generations.
but that dosnt have an actual value to know or count. Knowing when you are about to bleed does.
Load More Replies...Sigh. Once again - only a minority of women actually have a 28 day period, the large majority have longer or shorter ones, often by more than 4 days. I'm sorry, but Ms Toksvig needs to relearn basic biology. The person who claimed that it's a calendar is also abysmally ignorant. A lunar month is actually 29 days and a bit, NOT 28 days. In fact, this post is a nice example of the abysmal ignorance of the natural world that is constantly being demonstrated by anthropologists.
Thank you. Not only is a 28-day cycle typical for only about 13% of women, the majority of women regularly experience fluctuation in their cycle length. "...a common variation can be that one cycle is 25 days long, followed by a cycle that is 33 days long." Source: https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what's-normal-menstrual-cycle-length-and-variation A 28-day calendar would be nearly useless for most women.
Load More Replies...I run half an hour before every test/exam (like 5k). Too short to get tired, long enough to get alive. The nature, fresh air, a shower afterwards I feel energetic beyond believe.
If I did that before an exam, I would NEED an exam! As in the medical kind!😂
Load More Replies...I hated Geometry. I was a good student usually, but Geometry was a bugger. On the final I don't even remember it but I got such a high grade I asked the teacher if his ruler slipped when he was transferring the grades. He offered to lower my grade (he had a sense of humor) but I finally figured out my SUBCONSCIOUS knew the answers and saved me.
It can help to have the same routine when you study as you do before an exam though. If you eat chocolate before revising and then eat one before your exam, for example, it is easier for your brain to recall what you studied. My psychology teacher taught us this during our unit on memory. We then had to revise it before the exam, which was funny.
Beyond just mindset, positivity has real health benefits. Studies show that optimistic people tend to have lower rates of depression, as well as improved heart health and stronger immune systems. When we focus on the good, our bodies actually respond in a way that makes us healthier.
I imagine that predators should avoid teenage girls who are truly mature for their age. They're more likely to spot the perv for what he is right away.
I NEVER understood the flex of dating a 25y/o when you were in high school. Even as a teenager I just understood that the 25y/o was some kind of loser.
Not sure why, but I always tried to date guys no more than 3-5 years older than me. There were 2 exceptions along the way (wonderful men). But usually any older than that just creeper me out
I think the reason why is what others have pointed out above: you were mature for your age.
Load More Replies...Don’t quite get what’s going on here. Perhaps I’m as confused as the uncle
he thought his niece got a new name because she transitioned to a boy and was now his nephew so he was saying he supported her in her transition and had been practicing on caller her a boy and nephew, however she wasnt transitioning she just didnt like the name her parents gave her and went and changed her name.
Load More Replies...As should everyone with cats living in their vicinity.
I don't have to call them. They pop in and help themselves to the assorted premium kibbles permanently laid out. They don't all live here. 🙂↕️
Load More Replies...Mine inform me when it is time too eat, even if it isn't official 'food time' yet.
Load More Replies...I hope this applies to all animals and, even more so, humans in need!
A positive outlook also reduces overall stress levels. People who actively practice gratitude and focus on uplifting experiences tend to feel less overwhelmed in difficult situations.
This means they’re able to manage pain and discomfort better than those who constantly dwell on the negative.
I detest when cynical people try to destroy spreading good. Just because your heart is so black you would never imagine doing something kind doesn't mean kindness doesn't happen.
only a little relevant, but please by your hiking shoes with enough time in advance to wear them in, your feet and spirit of the day will thank you
Had to look up the brand, but apparently they're lightweight and comfortable shoes, not hiking boots.
Load More Replies...I have adhd and a baby cousin with non verbalautism, we are still human beings and you just have to be gentle with us, that's all we want
Edit: this employee showed kindness by being gentle, good man
Load More Replies...what is wrong with some people that they have to suck the joy out of someone else's good news share?!
Why would anyone want to " attack " you over this sweet and uplifting story ? More good stories need to be shared and more people congratulated for being kind.
Haha I have so many questions! Why is he in a costume? Is it Halloween or is this just what they do? and why is he named Darrell?
"This is my brother, Darrell, and my other brother, Darrell..."
Load More Replies...And the other neighbors had a heart attack thinking they saw a ghost dog!!
And the guy pulling the plugs might get shot in killed (in the USA). Sooo, what exactly did Luigi wrong, pray tell?
he forgot to get them to sign a legally binding one sided contract and collect monthly payments under the pretence of being a health provider, while denying them the needed to actually stay alive monthly medication needed to live first. if he had only done all that it would be a simple civil crime of false paperwork
Load More Replies...The real stupidity is if my wife is suffering from an incurable ailment, I can't end her suffering without going to jail for murder. If my pet is suffering and I don't put her to sleep, I am cruel sadistic SOB. I'm not saying don't put your pet to sleep, I'm saying why can't we treat our (human) loves as compassionately.
Psychological well-being isn’t just about avoiding stress—it’s about how we cope with it. When life throws challenges our way, maintaining a hopeful attitude can help us navigate those moments with resilience. It’s not about avoiding reality but about handling it with strength and grace.
My mum told me this story. When I was about 3, my dad thought he'd teach me to punch. He held up his hands, palms facing me, as he said, "Hit me, son. Hit me." Apparently, I responded by picking up his work boot and conking him on the head with it. I believe I made him cry.
That's as funny as the original story is heart warming.
Load More Replies...When my son was eight, he told me he had had to list his five "heroes". I was in there with Martin Luther King, David Attenborough and some other forgotten people! He made me cry that day.
I was distraught when my grandmother was dying, and she was comforting me from her hospital bed. She was always there for me, and I miss her.
I lost my aunt and best friend to cancer, she was amazing and very religious and became more so when she got sick and hated any mention of my favorite horror fandoms, despite that she still got me my first ever Five Nights at Freddy's merch one Christmas, a Lolbit doll, she didn't care for the blood, and gore, and unaliving, but she knew I liked it and it made me happy, everytime I look at that doll I think of her, bless
good gravy i was not prepared for all these stories to bring me to tears today. i bet it was a favorite in her life as well!
These are the kind of relationships we all are in need of. ☝️ This is need, not a want.
You've got that mother AND that friend. Sorry about your grandmother but you are GOOD TO GO.
In 2025, making positivity a core part of life should be the ultimate goal. The world isn’t perfect, but focusing on the good can help make daily struggles feel a little lighter. And who doesn’t want to feel happier and more at peace?
Oh my god this made me crack up! At least he got invited to a cookout which will probably be a great time with great food.
When my mom's mother (Mammay to us), I went to help her clean out the house. I found a ton of the Barbie clothes that my great Aunt Alta (great grandmother's sister) had sewn for my sister and I one summer when I was like 7 years old. I brought every single piece home with me, even though I didn't have a girl (yet, but she wasn't a doll kinda kid). I now have 1 granddaughter and another on the way. Thanks for the reminder! They're packed away and I had forgotten about them.
How I wish to have a loving family like this. Nothing from my childhood survived that I didn't take with me when I moved out ( and thought my stuff was safe in mother's basement until she wanted to move out). It doesn't hurt in the least that my mother died less than a year ago, but I would gladly feel the pain like others, for having a childhood like that in return.
Did you cry? I did. Grandparents do sweet things and keep mementos of you, and for you long after you've forgotten them.
I used to just read a dictionary. It was interesting and you learned definitions and "was that really a word"?
Load More Replies...I got a paperback one in middle school and was upset it wasn't a hard cover! 😄 so for my birthday in 7th grade I got a hard cover dictionary and thesaurus. Apparently I was over the moon about it. I still have them and I still remember driving my parents crazy trying to find words they didn't know the definition of! 😁 (& I'm still a word nerd!)
Anyone remember asking your teachers how to spell a word and they replied "D I C T I O N A R Y"?
No but my mother would give me a synonym that I also didn't know, so then I had two words to look up, sneaky!
Load More Replies...If negativity ever starts to take over, just take a break and scroll through posts like these. They’re little reminders that kindness, laughter, and warmth still exist all around us. Which one of these posts made you smile? Share it with someone who could use a little positivity today!
This should be posted in all of those toxic facebook mom groups so those gatekeeping twats see.
I was told, numerous times, that I wasn't a real mum because had a c-section.
Load More Replies...I'm old enough to remember when it was normal to let young mothers just be in hospital for a week, in order to recover. Why are so many so f*****g happy to mistreat mothers? (And then whine that women don't want babies anymore)
My mother was in hospital with me (standard birth) the same length of time as she was 10 years later with my brother (caesarian). But they seem to shove you out quick as the checkout in Aldi these days.
Load More Replies...I'm one of those c-section mums, this post made my day. I have been told in the past that I didn't actually give birth
if a child came from your body, you gave birth! screw anyone who says otherwise
Load More Replies...Three times I have done this, and this time they had to physically push and pull on me too. You may be numb for a while, but about an hour or two after we were done I could feel every single pain! You also feel like your guts are about to fall out!
Oh God I'm due my 2nd c section in a few months, don't remind me of the horrors! Haha
Load More Replies...I had 4 c-sections. They were fabulous! I worked in labor and delivery and all I can say is that I have seen women getting their lady parts put back together "down there" that needed more sutures than I did after a "natural birth". No thanks!
My ex had a Caesarean and I was next to her. I remember the look on her face when our daughter cried for the first time. One of the good memories.
Exactly. Back in the day (last century and then some).I worked at dunking donuts. The night shift traded donuts for pizza on a regular basis.
Load More Replies...This post demonstrates that parts of the world do run like this. It's only the horrible wicked hateful stuff that gets on the news. Publicize every good deed you see, like this guy did.
If by "publicize" you mean "make a Tumblr post" then it'll probably get missed, like most social media posts
Load More Replies...Roommate worked for a "coffee shop" for over 25 years. Once a week they traded with the Mexican restaurant on Friday for lunch. On Tuesday it was a small diner. A few times a month the bakery traded breakfast with them. And the deli style traded with them, too.. It was the highest producing store in Houston for years, one of the highest in the region. Same Mgr and 6 or 7 employees for ages! Then a new regional Mgr decided the trades were cutting into store profits (& therefore her quarterly bonuses), & banned it. Took less than a year for the place to lose most of the key employee (Mgr, asst Mgr & 4 employees w/ over 10 years each.) Roomie hung in there, but she fired him (he fought, won, retired). Not even 6 months till she got canned). Store is still busy but not like it was
I used to work at a burger place right next to a pizza place and a Chinese restaurant. We traded like this all the time.
My first job that wasn’t babysitting was working at a Baskin Robbins. We were across the street from a Haagen Daas store. We would swap for flavors that the other one didn’t have.
Just because i know some people wont know this "wlw"= women loving women. So lesbians, bi women etc
Normally you find each other and one of you starts to learn the language (be it sign language, Hindu, or Elvish)
I do not speak elvish but as the living embodiment of the word nerd your post mad my day.
Load More Replies...My mom and her parents had a deaf bulldog named Angel when she was little. Her house had wooden floors, so they would hit their heels twice to get the dog's attention. Mom said that Angel would sit by the fence at the same time every day waiting for her dad to get home from work, then follow him around for the rest of the day. Other than deafness, completely normal bulldog. Friendly, strong, slobbery.
I still don't understand why children don't learn sign language in schools and kindergartens from an early age. It would be so easy and such a great way of inclusion
because most school districts can't afford to pay foreign language teachers for that age group. it's so much easier for kids to learn another language when they are young. we were lucky that my youngest had volunteer instructors before school in elementary. ASL, Spanish, Mandarin and German (I think). mine took ASL in 5th, 7th, & 9th grades. She still uses it, although she isn't fluent. . I took Spanish in 5th, 6th, 7th 9th & 11th grade (intro to Spanish, Spanish 1, & 2) took French in 12th. All I can do is count!
Load More Replies...100% agree. We need to keep pointing these out because in many cases I don't think it's malicious or deliberate, just that people don't think about the needs of the disabled community. I know we didn't notice the problems with accessibility until our family included someone using a wheelchair.
That it isn't always malicious or deliberate is ironically highlighted in the post itself. They say that ramps should be the norm. Clearly their intent is that people in wheelchairs have equal access and ramps can be used by walkers and wheelers alike. But what they seem to have overlooked is that not everyone actually CAN walk on ramps. Particularly some elderly or others with balance issues. For instance, my 98 year old father starts walking down a ramp and he's basically just falling forward grabbing the rail and desperately trying to slow himself down. Stairs have a flat even surface he can safely rest on as often as he needs. OP clearly meant well but the best answer is to make ramps AND stairs the norm.
Load More Replies...When all these things became standards (in Germany), oh how the right wingers howled! Why spending all that money if only a small percentage of people depended on it? Waste of money! End of the world! 40 years later and I can't help it, Germany seems to have somehow survived. Even flourished. Hmmmm.
Sorry, I am from Germany and the above mentioned things are not standard here. Things might have improved but no, accessibility is not standard.
Load More Replies...This reminds me of the saga of my English teacher. He is a lovely person, but he rarely allowed us to type things. This year I was finally able to get an accommodation that allowed me to type longer written tests (History and English mostly). At first, while the teacher was supportive he was skeptical of logistics. By the final he allowed everyone to type if they wanted because he had been my teacher in 10th grade and he was able to see the drastic increase in the quality of my tests and he realized how much easier typed tests were to grade.
A friend of mine has a son with dyslexia, ADHD and ASD. He was (thankfully) diagnosed fairly early so had doctor's notes about the supports he needed, yet he (well, mostly she) still had to fight to be allowed to type and have someone read the questions to him during exams. Once he got the support, like you, they realised how easy it was to accommodate the supports needed.
Load More Replies...Ramps AND stairs, though. For some people with balance issues, such as the elderly, stairs are easier because they have a flat, even surface to stop and take a rest on. My dad is 98. Going up a ramp isn't too, too bad for him but going down it's like he can't stop himself from falling forward and building up speed, you know? Stairs he can take one at a time and he doesn't feel unstable. So, yes to ramps but also keep the stairs.
Has he tried a wheely-walker? That way he has something stable to hold onto wherever he walks and if he falls forward he can put the breaks on to stop himself falling. They usually have a seat on them too, so he can rest as needed.
Load More Replies...1. kids should be taught 2nd or 3rd languages (sign language, included) while their language window is open (elementary school, NOT high school -which is after it's closed). 2. the curb-cut affect: accommodations help more people than just those they are made for.
I would say that in the US accessibility is pretty good for handicapped people. BLind and deaf people, thats a different story.
We would start our math lessons with singing and animating a silly kids-song called "jeg er en liten undulat". It really helps with the wanting to die.
For me (and probably for anyone who stuck with me) , the math lesson would be a breeze after I sing any silly little ditty.
Load More Replies...In rehab, once a week we'd have a particularly intense session/class. If things got emotional beyond what would be helpful, the woman running things would send us out for a smoke break. We'd return to her blasting a song about dancing. She was so joyful that we all just let loose singing and dancing. Once everyone was smiling again, she'd wish us a nice weekend and send us out for free time. Bless her.
We used to start my first hour Algebra class by singing "Toonces the Driving Cat" from SNL. Perked them up more than the school prayer.
"No more vocab! Time for dancing!" Is the best thing I just can't-
This reminds me of my psychology teacher. Any time we seemed overwhelmed or stressed about the work, she would find a way for us to let off some steam. She also made as many of the subjects fun and interactive as possible. Like when we had to do a study of qualitative/quantitative data, she bought as many different brands of choc chip biscuits as possible and we had to record the average amount of choc chips in each one, and rate the taste.
Here's a rabbit hole for you; YT/Hot stepper, kurdish wedding. You're welcome
So right! It's the only acceptable form of "if you can't handle me at my worst".
I second that along with bodily functions aka breaking wind, etc.
Load More Replies...My late wife of 43 years did to me on our first date, not quite that bad. BEST 43 years of my life
Honestly, I'd fall for that kinda no-effs-given attitude 🤷♂️😊
What a lovely birthday gift! For her, for the dogs, for the shelter, for all the families who got a new family member to love!
Hmm told Hubby he needs to do something great for my 40th... I'm on board!
It's a nice gesture but if someone can't afford the adoption fee, can they afford to look after the dog?
Yes. Our local Humane society has a secret fund to help people that would be wonderful owners to adopt a pet.
Load More Replies...I know what you are talking about. I had a Smart car for several years and cannot count the number of times an older man or woman would ask me about my safety. I loved that car. he (Smartypants) served me well and when I got a new car I gave him to a coworker who didn't have a car. She was so happy. Smartypants was made to bring joy.
Load More Replies...I once traveled from Phoenix AZ to Sedona AZ in a rental car. The guy behind the counter wasn't sure the car I selected would "make it up the mountains." Meanwhile, on a very long steep uphill grade I was passed enthusiastically by a group of teenagers in a first-gen Golf Cabriolet like I wasn't even moving. The idea that a modern car "couldn't get up the mountain" is hogwash.
I would absolutely get claustrophobic from being in a car that small, but that sounds like the trip of a lifetime!
Me too... and coincidentally I am wearing my Sanderson Sisters Brewing company tee shirt today. I also happen to be a teacher.
Load More Replies...As a Harry Potter fan I can't wait for the moment when I get to interact with a small group of children by being a witch, I don't know if I'll ever babysit or be an educator but I am in Boy Scouts so I may have a chance
Even as a child, I could recognize that even the house i was abused in, was a house more than many people had. And then I also had the forest to run and hide in, some people dont even have that. And this was before i started counting my blessings, like my dog and two cats and my bed. I thank my grandma. She failed hard with my psycopath father (she tried to drown him..) but she did alot for my perspective on life <3 Sometimes i wish she had reported him tho, instead of moving closer to fill the gap when he left for a week at a time for "work" when I was a preeschooler. But one cant have it all.
They don't think they are privileged, they just think it is what they are entitled to. And no, they don't see stupidity in that statement. They are entitled to be stupid.
I like to think of privilege as someone having the luck or capacity to lift up others. Life put you in a good position? Excellent! Now take that as the opportunity to clear space for others, give back to the community. You can be the high tide that raises the boats.
This is how I would like to think I’d be. I wasn’t born to privilege but I try anyway…
Load More Replies...This is great! Now can someone tell me what moron decided that this concept should be named so ridiculously? Probably the same person who came up with 'women's suffrage' 🙄. Come on, know your audience!
suffrage is suffering and rage put togheter, makes perfect sence :p
Load More Replies...My cat used to steal my cherry scones. It was heart breaking every time, and I did not leave them out for him. Bug would open drawers, open cupboards, one time muzzled open a zipped bag and chewed through one plastic bag and one paper bag to eat bits of all four cherry scones.
Same here and I would be asking to drive that forklift!
Load More Replies...Is this for real ? I just can't imagine a landlord doing such a generous thing.
Good for this dad! My sisters and I put our little brother in a tutu. My dad freaked out that we were going to make his son gay. My brother turned out queer but it has nothing to do with the way he liked to dress as a kid.
Between the ages of 3-6 my nephew was obsessed with a red bangle and handbags, my brother & SiL let him do as he wanted as long as he wasn't using SiL's handbags. A couple of years later I asked him if he wanted on of 'his' bags and he said "No, Aunty, I have pockets" and stuck his tongue out. 😂
Load More Replies...Harley Quinn is a great character and the costume is outstanding
Not only is your remark ugly but it also rests on an ignorant assumption. A boy can feel no restrictions when it comes to make-believe dress and still be fully heterosexual. A costume is a costume, not an identity.
Load More Replies...And they way they rest their paws on their thick tails to help keep them warm. They're adorable.
Load More Replies...Yeah, while the rest of us fester on the sofa with a family sized bag of peanuts. Maybe I should take up acorn carving...
Load More Replies...Superb attention to detail. Good hands, great work, hope your day gets and stays better :-)
These kids with their luting just because they're bored *shakes fist*
The name of the song is Frances Farmer Will Have Her Revenge on Seattle.
As a nurse in education, I see this with teens. They all identify in the diagnoses of Anxiety, Depression and PTSD. I have tried to tell them they are not necessarily permanent diagnoses and they can get better with meds and therapy, but they won't have it. If they get better, they would lose their social groups and their identities.
Your brain tricks into believing that you are in a comfort zone, it’s predictable and manageable, you know how to use sadness / depression to keep yourself balanced. The unknown emotions or feelings that are more positive become scary and unpredictable so you crave that comfort zone. So try and get better and don't ever accept less Take a plain black marker and write this on your chest Draw a line underneath all of this unhappiness Come on now, let's fix this mess We could get better Because we're not dead yet Get Better by Frank Turner https://youtu.be/tB4Avdlz3lk?si=ccO0CPC9pxeS5mF4
As we've established previously on BP...This is real but the person in question was not a chief mechanic as no woman has achieved that feat in F1...If I remember correctly we did work out who she was and she was senior in an F1 team...BP, Please stop putting out the same memes over and over and over and over and over and over again. Have some self respect and try new ones.
as off last week you are officially wrong. congratulations LAURA MULLER
Load More Replies...Sorry off, not really..doing business in indonesia with a local in tow driving..stop at a silversmith for quotes on manufacturing..she decided to speak in Indonesian and calling me a white christian b***h ..face fell when the driver said..the lady understands Indonesian very well..I said thank you very much for the lack of business you will not be getting from us..... all in indonesian of course..
Oh I LOVE THAT!!! Always wished I could do it but languages is not one of my talents.
Load More Replies...I remember years ago I went with my then boyfriend to look at a used car he wanted. I refreshed my know-how with my dad the day before and we went. It was so funny to see two adult guys unsuccessfully trying to talk to my boyfriend about the car and him shrugging his shoulders while pointing at me, checking oil, tires and all the shït 😂 We got the car cheaper than asking price and loved it.
Nah, she was Performance and Strategy Manager and then Head of Strategy at Force India / Aston Martin, although she did do mechanical engineering at Uni. She’s grown as a presenter and has proven to be a great addition to the F1 coverage.
Load More Replies...waiting for something to come around for it to kill. Yes, i would also like this freedom :D
Yeah, he's probably watching the bushes behind for critters rustling. Fun fact; you know that glazed, staring into space like that cat you sometimes do? In Bermuda we call that "Micing"
Load More Replies...OMG just imagining how damn painful that must've been makes me feel dizzy - never mind the broken bones.
Most of us will be able to contribute *something* - we just need to be allowed to tell you what we can do rather than being written off because we can't do everything non-disabled people can do.
The whole point is that all people are equal and valuable and worthy of a decent life, and of rights and freedom to live how they want. Nobody deserves the scrap heap, not because you grew up poor and got no education not because you were an addict, not because of a disability, nothing. We abolish the scrap heap.
Have to respectfully disagree...animal abusers, serial killers, rapists, pedophiles, and most CEO's and politicians do not deserve saving.
Load More Replies...I have worked with most severely physically and intellectually disabled kids. The way they reacted when I sang their favourite song to them was the reason I got up every single morning! So don’t anyone ever say they will never be able to give back, that’s utter rubbish. Is it not a disability if someone cannot see their precious gifts?
And why is this person discounting everything the disabled CAN contribute? Not just to The Cause (and wtf does that even mean?) but to life and the world in general? Did Stephen Hawking (ALS) contribute nothing to physics? Edison (deaf) nothing to the phonograph or lightbulb? Michael J. Fox (Parkinson's) nothing to Parkinson's research? Andrea Boccelli (blind) nothing to music? I could go on and on but a blanket claim that the disabled can't contribute anything is ignorant and offensive.
Talk to every person you can. Each interaction is an exchange of knowledge. Our silence is their armor. Our disconnection from one another gives their deceptions a foothold. We got this! We are the people we have been waiting for.
My disabled relative is one of the best and kindest people I know.
Sorry, disabled people are not included in Trump's revolution. In fact, only rich people are included.
Gen X, the forgotten generation. No one pays us any mind or notice. People complain about boomers and millennials, while we go quietly along on our way, doing the actual work. Maybe that's because we were the last 'latchkey' generation, and we were taught/forced to be independent, I don't know. But we exist. Please acknowledge us and our struggles.
Load More Replies...Sometimes my mother would ask me, "Do you resent having to help me use the (fill in the blank: cell phone, computer, printer, etc)?" I always said, "No, Mom. You taught me how to use a spoon!"
Oh get over yourself. Being part of a family means helping everyone, sharing your knowledge and being, at all time, kind and considerate.
i am 45 and not i do a boob check when i feel like this. it they are sore, i know im not spiraling, its just my body making me spiral naturally :p
hm, now I'm here at 38 and wonder how my boobs feel at that time of the month
Load More Replies...I menstruated for 40 years and was always shocked when the bleeding started.
My thought was always "not again". Was so happy when I finally got my hysterectomy.
Load More Replies...Oh, I remember those days!! I'm so thankful for menopause so that I don't feel the need to be in a mental institution for 2 weeks out of the month!
Oh my god. As a man I have to say I am grateful that I dont have to deal with that. Dealing with s****y emotions sucks already but then the rest on top of that. sheesh
My wife calls me out on that every time it happens too! Somehow despite keeping track of my period it still catches me off guard every time...
Here in Edinburgh you have a quick chat while your items are being scanned. It's really just a quick thing and quite a lot it's the customer starting by asking the cashier "How are you today". You heard that right: the CUSTOMER asks first. It's kinda a way to say "I acknowledge you as a Human being, not just a part of the supermarket machine". Oh well, and we love a wee blether. ;)
Thats pretty common in the United States but then we are known for talking to strangers
Load More Replies...We all age, many of us alone. This is a simple solution that not only gives inclusion, conversation and human interaction, it encourages elderly people to come out of their homes and live a better, longer, more positive life.
thank god for self checkouts so people on their breaks can get food and get back to work on time
it is healthy, natural, cleansing and curativ to cry. Lets all cry, shamelessly and often. The world may become a better place for it.
Crying for others is even better, because it proves you are compassionate and empathic. That should make you feel good about yourself <3
Load More Replies...Shes a GREAT grandma to an adult and still looking young as ever? Aimt no way
Series of teen pregnancy? Actually 4*18 is 72... Some hair dye and there you go?
Load More Replies...They're certainly preferable to nìpplerats...
Load More Replies...And I'm still immature enough (at 45) to inwardly giggle when someone says "titmouse."
My father was the only earner in the family of three. We had a car, my parents had a flat with three bedrooms, that they paid off during my teenage years. We went on a 4 week vacation with a caravan to France every year. I wore Esprit and branded shoes. My father was a technical draftsman. I was born in 1983. My mother recently told me, that I make higher figures than my father ever did, but she now sees that I could never do all that they did.
Reaganomics. Wave the bigotry card and pick your pocket. Just like now.
My grandma was mail support for the three of us. 3rd grade education. Her last year of school was at 9 yrs old in 1921. She always had a job that would support the family. I can't see that happening now
My parents both worked. Daddy worked for the electric company and Mom was a legal secretary. They bought property and a home. It was paid off while my sister and I were in high school. My wife and I will never be able to do this.
Not sure why you were downvoted for this. Well actually it's clear, any attempt to point out that life was never as easy for 'boomers' as genX,Z whatever would like to believe is taken as a personal attack on them
Load More Replies...My cat commandeered a Zoom meeting when I had to step away and forgot to turn off the camera. I came back to my committee enthusiastically agreeing that he should run meetings more often.
A few of these don't exactly seem like wholesome stories to me. Kinda odd.
Load More Replies...A pharmacist once said he hopes I get the outcome I want. Nice response
This one doesn't really fit with the current title. It's kinda the opposite of heartwarming.
Also... fun fact, taco cat is a palindrome. Yay.
Load More Replies...You must have been pretty drunk if you didn't notice you were walking on that
Seems like they are in a content and healthy relationship. I love this 💞
If you own it - reason. If you explain in a way that points to someone else as the culprit: excuse.
Load More Replies...Strictly speaking, an excuse is a reason that isn't good enough. But in real life, reasons are what I give, excuses are what you give.
excuses - what you say when you're trying to explain why you did something you know you shouldn't have or didn't do correctly (even though you know how) or didn't do what you were supposed to. Excuses are explanations for your actions when you know you screwed up and you're trying to justify what you did. Reasons - honest explanations for your actions, why you did (or didn't) do something, because sometimes you have do do a thing differently and then must explain why to someone (usually a boss). excuses are frowned on. Reasons are normally considered/taken into account regarding your actions. a good reason is not always the best thing to have done, but it allows others to understand why you did what you did.
I'm not neurotypical, but I can kind of explain. Reason ( to them) is a specific explanation that demonstrates that the outcome was entirely out of your control and outside forces were responsible. Excuse (to them) is any explanation where it appears to them that the situation was within your control and you acted differently in response than a neurotypical person would. Which is why we are always accused of " excusing" our actions.
I have so much trouble trying to explain the difference between and explanation and an excuse.
Excuse: everybody else's fault but mine. The circumstances aligned in a way that I cannot do anything else. Reason: I did it, because I decided / I was under the impression / my resources suggested.
Load More Replies...Why is this a "thing" in the country that claims to be "the leader of the free world"? We do this anyway, in countries with free healthcare for all. Socialism I suppose...
Because it is exactly that...a claim and not a fact. In terms of quality of life, education and healthcare...one of the Scandinavian countries is probably actually the leader of the free world.
Load More Replies...Horrible story. Society own her a prosthetic, it's the least it could do for her. F*****g hell, who is okay with children going without limbs while rich f***s roll in money?
hehe, i have had people tell me I need to be medicated to slow me down. Im like, no kidding!!
I love that they all think the meds aren't to slow us down... My dudes, I take Ritalin because otherwise I operate at hummingbird speed and catastrophe often ensues
Load More Replies...What a weak a*s man 😁 If a girl rambled for two hours to me, I'd thank the Heavens for sending her my way 😁
nah no second date talks too much about nothing ....
Load More Replies...Oh, does that still exist? It was a thing in Germany in the late 80s/early 90s, I think.
Yup, it is the cheaper store brand for the Loblaw's group of grocery stores. But it doesn't quite look like those pictures. I think those are the older versions of it. no-name-67...437e1b.jpg
The US had something similar in the 80s, but ours was white instead of yellow. Fascinated me as a kid.
I remember in the late '70s or early '80s we started getting the "Generic" aisle in stores. All package in yellow. It was the worst stuff ever! The American Cheese slices wouldn't even melt for a grilled cheese sandwich or inside an omelet.
I was a cook one winter at an expensive potato chip brand, ND after we finished a given order there might be 20,000 pounds of potatoes up in the chute and we just kept cooking them. Same potatoes same oil same cooks...they just changed the bags on the bag machine. I know in that one case that's how it was,I worked there.
Society could learn so much from people who were abused as children how the various forms of abuse hurt people in the long run. But apparently it's more important to stick to "how we always did it", unloading one's frustration on a weaker person aka the kid, and seeking revenge rather than teaching a kid how to do better...
Oh wow. I am currently being deafened by the sound of so many pennies dropping.
Resonates. I was born on Christmas in a quite religious family. I never had a birthday cake until I was in my 30’s
My bestie was raised (against her will) Jehovah's Witness and told me they don't celebrate anything. At all. The first time I gave her a birthday present, she asked me what the heck I was doing. I thought I'd offended her but she was just...very confused.
Load More Replies...Why is it here? 😒 This is literally "Karan getting Karma" moment 🙄 this absolutely doesn't belong here
Ben shapiro is probably in love with the orange drag queen that we love so dearly😆 they probably have secret meetings to have brainfarts together. What a lovely love story. And tragically his drag queen lover dies of old age to spare the rest of the world from his unbelievable talent to make the world smile and feel safer. What a nice bedtime story I just wished for to become true😆😆😆 what a beautiful pair of pshycopathic liars and monsters they make🥰
THis does not belong here but for the record Ben Shapiro is a stupid right wing douche bag.
If there's really such an insistence on the man paying that seems an extremely American (or anglo) thing. In Germany it's just the partner who can afford to pay (and it often was me), and gifts outside birthdays and Christmas aren't really a demand, more something you just do when you feel like it and to the extent of your financial level.
It was kinda a thing in the UK when I was a kid, based on the fact that the wife didn't have any money outside of the housekeeping budget. Didn't really survive into my adult years though. When I met my wife I was earning a lot more than her, so yeah, I'd pay more often than she would, but thirty years of marriage later and she'd been earning more then me for a long time, for most of which, of course, all our earnings had been shared.
Load More Replies...this is very true. Its also a fact that men earn more. Lets make equal pay for equal work a prerequisite, then women and men can both pay for what they want and need. Date or no date.
Sure when women start doing the high paying dangerous jobs that men do
Load More Replies...This is a movie that is on my list, but I kinda dread it.. I have seen intervjues about the characters and even that hits to hard.
It is some of the best acting i have ever seen. An overwhelming movie that I will never ever watch again.
Load More Replies...The bowler is bowling over hand with his none dominant hand and the bats man has stepped forward ready to knock the ball for an easy 6... BUT WHAT IS THIS?!?!?! He has dropped the bat and pulled out an eldritch horror! This cricket match is definitely going to be epic!
I don't know, but I feel like this is a Duolingo situation I will have to translate in a few more lessons.
A lot of these were people complaining about social problems. That's not wholesome, it's depressing. A "wholesome" post should stick with the nice stories about cat birthdays and little girls who invent things, not people pointing out injustices.
I find it very wholesome that we are all rediscovering our humanity together. That is what those other posts showed me.
Load More Replies...after i helped my friend get away from her abusive ex she was going through a pretty serious bout of depression. One night while messaging me she said something that made me well up she said im ready to be happy again i still get emotional reading that message.
I like these happy lists, but a lot of these posts are years old. I need more recent posts please.
A lot of these were people complaining about social problems. That's not wholesome, it's depressing. A "wholesome" post should stick with the nice stories about cat birthdays and little girls who invent things, not people pointing out injustices.
I find it very wholesome that we are all rediscovering our humanity together. That is what those other posts showed me.
Load More Replies...after i helped my friend get away from her abusive ex she was going through a pretty serious bout of depression. One night while messaging me she said something that made me well up she said im ready to be happy again i still get emotional reading that message.
I like these happy lists, but a lot of these posts are years old. I need more recent posts please.
