A lot of us go through this: we spend our youth rebelling against our folks, swearing to ourselves we will never behave like those stubborn old fools, but then a couple of decades pass, we start packing our socks in our shoes and a sudden thought strikes our mind, "Damn, I'm turning into my parents." Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's just a funny realization of how things sometimes go full circle. So in honor of Mother's Day, we at Bored Panda decided to collect the best "I'm becoming my mom" moments we could find on the internet. Enjoy!
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Yeah! Rock the being your mom thing! It will happen to everyone eventually!
my solution was to buy about 10 pairs and scatter them around the house.
When we asked Talya Stone, a former public relations specialist turned blogger and the woman behind online journals Motherhood: The Real Deal and 40 Now What, what factors have shaped her as a mom, she said it was a combination of two.
"The desire to not be like my parents and also probably my own personality which can be a bit loud and silly," Stone told Bored Panda. "A sense of humor goes a long way in parenting that is for sure!"
"Everything I do in parenting is basically geared toward not being like my own Jewish mother," Stone added while laughing. "You can just imagine the struggle is real and very apparent in my constant need to feed everyone that walks through our door and incessantly offer up food to my own daughter."
Interestingly, similar situations to the one Talya Stone described are more common than you might think. Researchers have identified the top 20 signs that indicate you are turning into your parents, including dozing off on the sofa, repeating the same jokes, and saving old boxes and bags just in case you might need them.
An amusing poll of 2,000 adults found roughly half believe they are morphing into their own mom or dad, which, on average, happens to them at 32-and-a-half years of age.
Other popular signs people have noticed are dressing for comfort instead of style, and relying on their kids for tech support.
While almost one in four respondents were met with the dawning realization that during arguments in their own younger years, their parents were actually right all along.
Both my mum and my grandma do this with their kids lmao! My grandma as 10 kids and my mum has 6. It’s a whole cycle of ryl-, bec-, Tom-, kat- until they scream out the original name they were looking for
"We learn how to be parents from our own parents – who else?" Louise Care of research agency OnePoll, which carried out the study, said.
"So, it's no surprise to find many adults consider themselves mini-versions of their own moms and dads, at some point down the line."
I use to do that when a kid. My dad actually got so mad he told me not to order spaghetti the next time we went out. So, the next time I ordered a steak dinner. It was very expensive. He told me to go ahead and order spaghetti if I wanted from then on.
*6 months later* “omg look what I found in a bag that was in a box that was hidden by a sheet that was inside the cupboard under the sink!”
Care thinks it's interesting that many of the signs that you're becoming like your folks are often very personal things that most parents seem to do.
For example, the study found that just under a quarter (23 percent) of adults find themselves using the same phrases as their moms and dads, including the classic 'You're not going out dressed like that!'
I'm fairly sure that after a certain sh age, you develop a super power called "The Mom Touch"
Women are slightly more likely to report transforming into their parents than men – 50 percent compared to 47 percent.
And 84 percent believe it was only after having kids of their own that they realized their behavior had started to transform this way.
I prefer brick and mortar shopping. I'd far rather lay my money down and walk out the door with the item in hand than order online and have to wait several days to get it.
Of those who believe they are going down this path, nearly two-thirds (63 percent) don't mind it.
With that being said, 42 percent have actively tried not to become their parent at some point in their lives, even if it's eventually inevitable for 79 percent of us.
I can relate, all the health issues my mum has had, I experience the exact same things
I have a emergency kit in my purse when me and my (teenage!) friends go out lol. A quick snack, water bottle, pads/tampons, bandaids and I always have a jacket around my waist just in case.
And one more thing. Searching for your reading glasses when they're on your head.
Around 40% of those surveyed believe that starting to turn into their parent made them close, and a cheeky 84 percent of those in relationships teased their partner by claiming they are becoming just like their mom or dad.
Of the respondents with children, two-thirds have been mocked and had their mannerisms imitated by their little ones.
I deliberately mess up the kids' toy names. "minecrap" or "mein kampf", and "transformers robots in the skies", etc.
Louise Care added that the circle of life goes on, and attributes and mannerisms are passed down through generations. "Something funny your mom or dad did – that you find yourself doing today – may have been joked about by family members hundreds of years ago."
"It's strange to think about, but may explain why so many want to pass down positive attributes to their kids."
I was buying a new pair of walking boots, the salesperson said they were guaranteed for 25 years, I did a quick calculation and shrieked, I'll never get the wear out of them! Apparently I have skipped mother and turned straight into my grandmother
What boots are those? I wear through shoes in under a year, I need some 25 year boots
Load More Replies...Some things you bring with you. My mom used to write notes to herself, it was a mix of how she felt, a shopping list with some monthly budgeting, some lines from a song, what was on her mind, work stuff, books she wanted to read etc. I thought it was pretty weird but now I know it's therapeutic to create a mindmap of your life at the moment so I do that too. I found a lot of those notes when I cleaned out her house after she died and it was really interesting. She also used to lie down in silence sometimes, for a few minutes and say "I need to rest my mind for a moment". I do that too when I feel overwhelmed and it actually helps. She also used to bike everywhere, even when we had a car. I love my bike and it's my piece of freedom in life.
It's cute for people who had wholesome parents, for me, it'd be a nightmare. My parents were abusive and I try my best to not be like them as much as I can. I'd be shocked if this happened to me
To become my mom/her mom is okay. it's great in its way. If I'd turned into my dad, I'd have committed suicide.
Load More Replies...I was buying a new pair of walking boots, the salesperson said they were guaranteed for 25 years, I did a quick calculation and shrieked, I'll never get the wear out of them! Apparently I have skipped mother and turned straight into my grandmother
What boots are those? I wear through shoes in under a year, I need some 25 year boots
Load More Replies...Some things you bring with you. My mom used to write notes to herself, it was a mix of how she felt, a shopping list with some monthly budgeting, some lines from a song, what was on her mind, work stuff, books she wanted to read etc. I thought it was pretty weird but now I know it's therapeutic to create a mindmap of your life at the moment so I do that too. I found a lot of those notes when I cleaned out her house after she died and it was really interesting. She also used to lie down in silence sometimes, for a few minutes and say "I need to rest my mind for a moment". I do that too when I feel overwhelmed and it actually helps. She also used to bike everywhere, even when we had a car. I love my bike and it's my piece of freedom in life.
It's cute for people who had wholesome parents, for me, it'd be a nightmare. My parents were abusive and I try my best to not be like them as much as I can. I'd be shocked if this happened to me
To become my mom/her mom is okay. it's great in its way. If I'd turned into my dad, I'd have committed suicide.
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