He shouldn't have followed up by stalking you, but perhaps he chose to believe you had nice intentions rather than you staring at him for rude reasons? Seriously, rule 1 of not getting followed: don't be an asshole yourself. Second rule: don't engage with the person if you think he's creepy.

That comment should be on this list.

Poor guy being so desparate that he would even pursue a horrible person like you.

That was rude, but I get it.

You know what I do what I see someone fat & ugly? I turn away from the mirror 🤣 You know what I do when I see someone fat & ugly in public? I don't stare and judge them because I don't know them or what's going on in their life and I also know that beauty is subjective so they aren't actually ugly to me.

I used to say, "Hello" to a guy whom I saw every day on the bus going home from work. He asked if he could come over one day and started hitting on me. He told me the reason he did that was because he thought I was hot for him, and when I asked him what I could possibly have done to give him that impression, he said that I said "Hello." God help us.

Your fault for staring at people. Another issue I find is that some people are so entrenched in their own opinions and confined experiences that they simply won't accept even reasonable situations as possible.

Well- not to be picky - but you shouldn't have been staring at him. It's none of your business..

Why the hell would do that tho. Everyone is different and everyone is beautiful. Yeah some guys do that, but he might think there's a chance that someone besides you will like him for who he is. Sorry not sorry.

Someone clearly lying as a reply to someone else clearly lying 🙄

Not showering for a week? Understand. Fat and ugly? Just shut up. And how do you even know he doesn’t shower? Did you ask him? Sure hope you didn’t.

Maybe don't stare at people.

perhaps some kind of dude like that is "deranged" enough to want to marry someone is terrible as you

R/thathappened

Or when you just zone out and realize the guy in your line of sight thinks you're trying to hit on him.

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I second this staement my boyfriend is literally a tree and I'm tiny so we look comedic together.

My partner is the same height as me and I am fine with that. Means I can look into his pretty eyes easier :P

I mean, if a tall man is also intelligent, charming, fun, and good-looking - sure, I'd swoon, especially if he had compatible interests. However, that would also be the case for men the same height and a bit shorter than me.... it's almost as if those other traits are more relevant.......

I'm 5'6 and one of my best guy friends is 6'6 and I would never want to date anyone that tall; hugging him is the most awkward thing when my head only comes to the middle of his sternum.

well yes but they dont have to be tall because almost everyones taller than me - even if they're 5'5'' then they're still tall

I think he's more of an arrogant brontosaurus.

Or having cramps!

On the contrary, I am a male and the only thing I think when a woman looks in my general direction is "Oh god I did something wrong didn't I?" That goes for most interactions though.

He put so much of his growth into his height that he forgot about the stuff down below.