When you’re a kid, delayed or, even better, canceled classes are a real treat. As a working parent, however, that call or message from the school can set off alarm bells. How are you going to get your job done and adapt to the kids' disrupted schedule?
We set out to explore how moms and dads deal with this unforeseen challenge, and put together a collection of posts where they hilariously sum up their struggles.
From organizing impromptu indoor activities to coming up with excuses for their boss, continue scrolling to check out what it's all about and while you're at it, don't miss the chat we had with Bored Panda's parenting expert and award-winning TV broadcaster and author, Vicki Broadbent — you'll find it in between the images.
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I feel like this post is the only one where parents have fun with their kids. The other posts are all about how unlucky they are to have their kids around... I get that people have to work but hey, kids are more than just a burden! I hope they don't give their kids the feeling that they are only in the way. Makes me sad.
For those unaware: Snowdays will need to be made up, either through "built-in snow days", (which is a random Monday or Friday with no school), it will need to be added on at the end of the year, or it can be an e-learning day (different states have different rules about what counts & what does not. Some states say that it needs to be half synchronous, which means that it needs to be virtual class, while others say it doesn't matter.) What sucks is that in Indiana 1-2 years ago, you could have as many asynchronous e-learning days as you wanted, and they wouldn't need to be made up. Now you can only have 3 of those per school year ):
Good for you! You would be shocked how much time and money is spent getting teachers up to snuff to do remote learning. And for what? A day where learning online is largely ineffective. But at least the teachers do not have to make up the day. (That was the #1 excuse I heard for doing it - nothing said about the students and quality of the day)
Yes, blame the teachers. We're totally the ones who made the call about it! /s
Load More Replies..."Snow days can be incredibly disruptive to all," Vicki Broadbent, who runs the acclaimed family lifestyle blog Honest Mum, told Bored Panda.
"Schools and offices/workplaces often close and parents must react quickly, ensuring we can care for our kids, canceling meetings, not making deadlines or trying to combine childcare with work expectations, if that's even possible," Broadbent, author of Mumboss (UK) and The Working Mom (US and Canada), added.
They can still make snow angels. Standing up again might be a problem.
Me: it's just -20 and you're a Swede. Put on a sweater, here's a carrot for the snowmans nose.
"I can't put my arms down!" "You can put your arms down when you get to school."
Should trade those out for the music tubes you bop where each size is a different note. it's got a slightly muffled sound, and there is no way to play a pitchy or flat note.
Boom whackers.....the only toy that's musical, educational AND combat+ready!!
Load More Replies...That's one of the reasons I think homeschooling could work in theory- following your shared interests and time tabling
Vicki Broadbent thinks that authorities and businesses in many places across the world are not entirely geared up for the extreme weather we've been experiencing lately.
"Transport often shuts down, it's not safe to be on the road, and childcare institutions from nurseries to schools close their doors," she said.
"Things are likely to become more disruptive as climate change and extreme weather continue to affect the world. Post-pandemic, some workplaces have continued to accommodate employees with a more flexible working approach as well as by encouraging remote working, but some are equally regressing back to expecting you to physically be at work."
We often have just as many snow/cold days per year as are allotted by the district. As soon as they have to start adding days to the end of the year they don't care if it's -30º, get your butt out to the bus stop.
Same. The roads aren't gone, just a bit thicker and slippery.
Load More Replies...That was their own fault. Just go "Aw, you DO look like you need some more sleep... Ok, I'll take care of it, you get some rest ok?"
When I was a kid, you had to listen to local radio in the morning to know about any school closures. Though it was pretty pointless because I don’t think my school closed once, no matter how much snow there was!
It was a plot to get you to listen to the local radio station, and hear the ads.
Load More Replies...Maybe if people would stop trying to sue and/or get people fired school systems wouldn't have to do all this c**p and we could go back to having to simply watch the news for school closures.
I guarantee at least a dozen parents in your district are posting on FB about the lack of communication and another 15 have called the office to ask if there's a snow day. Source: I listen to the phone ring because I'm in the school building before they called school off for the day.
Is t it funny how the parents can't put their phones down at any other time, yet somehow forget how to bring up the dozen or so websites available that have a listing of school closures.
Load More Replies...We're expected to check the district listings website to find out about snow days and late busses/cancelations. Someone at their school is going above and beyond and deserves a treats basket.
Most schools do virtual days now instead of snow days, where you actually get the day off!
Many parents share Broadbent's sentiment. According to research from the Pew Research Center, moms and dads tend to have trouble when balancing their jobs and their family obligations.
Among all working parents with children under the age of 18, more than half (56%) say that this task is difficult for them, while another 14% claim it's actually very difficult, and 42% find it somewhat difficult.
This is one reason I'm glad not to be a kid today, there was nothing better than Mom coming in and whispering "you have no school day," rolling over and going back to sleep. Snow days rocked!
To be fair, “*keyboard smash* buttttttt!!! poopy butttt” is how I feel about answering emails.
Right? A toddler is under 4. My daughters a preschooler that can't spell poopy.
Load More Replies...I once received a few teams messages like this, minus the butts, from a colleague. Asked if he had a cat, turned out it was a toddler.
Paw patrol gets obnoxious. Look up "Sarah and Duck", "Peg plus Cat", and "Bubble guppies"
Oh, peg and cat has memories for me. The sound of a ukulele still rings in my brain.
Load More Replies...Until Bluey came along, my favourite current kids show was Little J and Big Cuz.
Working mothers (60%) are a bit more likely than fathers (52%) to say it’s difficult for them to balance work and family, and this is particularly the case for moms who work full time.
In fact, one in five full-time working moms say balancing the two is very difficult for them, compared with 12% of dads who work full time and 11% of moms who work part time.
Back in the late 80s, early 90s, we were in England, my ex was on a short term assignment (8 weeks) stationed in the Azores. Promptly when he left, my first grader got chicken pox, like, the next day. Three weeks quarantine, almost all at home, friends bringing food, but can’t stay. Last day of that quarantine, my 2 yr old gets his first pockmark…..
This is how I feel about January, but retired, no young kids!!! I swear it's at least 90 days long.
Vicki Broadbent thinks there should be a systemic change. "I believe businesses need to be more accommodating and understanding when parents face snow," she said.
"Annual leave should be an option, or simply accepting working might require greater flexibility and extended deadlines."
Someone has to provide the running updates! It's a thankless job...
And now husband gets to stay up with the kids while Mom goes to bed.......
"When it comes to children, whether you can work around them is based on their age and maturity," the Honest Mum explained. "Some kids can happily work from their own device, watch movies on it, or read, but the younger they are, the greater their needs, and in many cases, parents will struggle to fit work around keeping their child safe and cared for."
"I think employers must be reasonable and must understand that extreme weather is out of the control of the parent. They should have measures in place to support the working parent also," Vicki Broadbent, who is raising a teen, a tween, and a toddler, concluded.
I don’t find this funny, personally. If all they did wrong was make noise, that’s a wildly unjust punishment. Also, 30 minutes is kind of insane for a time-out unless the kid did something REALLY bad.
I'm confused, can you not send them outside when there is no snow? Surely they would still have things to do?
Snow days just mean that there’s so much snow that the roads are unsafe to drive. Cold days mean that the temperatures are so low that should you stay out for periods of time you’d get frostbite and hypothermia. Cold days are a little more dangerous since you can lose limbs from frostbite. For example, it was -15 where I live overnight but still only -3 when morning came. The kids at my school had to stay inside for lunch.
Load More Replies...Roblox is a scam. Don't let your kids on Roblox. Not only is there straight up extortion built into the point of the game (every digital item is MASSIVELY expensive) There are also absolutely no safeties in place to prevent the many recorded instances of child predation and exploitation by adult players.
Nah, I'm super happy for our kiddo on snow days. Also they're old enough now that snow day = mum gets an extra half hour- hour sleep. SO fun!
If you know, you WILL say something to tip your kids off. Chaos. We have our kid still make their lunch the night before a snow day. It's part of what makes them sleep longer, AND at lunch their lunch is ready!
We never whined about being bored when I was growing up. I grew up on a farm so there was always a chore of some kind that could be done (including shoveling snow). I learned to say "I'm not sure what I'm going to do next." LOL!
My kid comes to me with "bored" as a problem, they get to mop and wash dishes. I'm not your carnival cruise coordinator.
Someone didn't know enough about hamsters to be having multiple and/or intentionally trying to multiply them.
I loved snow days as a high schooler. We lived a block away from campus and I got such a kick out of knowing I could absolutely make it to school...but didn't have to!
It never snowed where I grew up, so snow days never existed... sad :(
Same, but in Australia we used to get sent home early/the day off if the temperature reached 35+C. Then that was cancelled when the state government gave schools grants for air conditioning, even though my high school barely even had fans, except in the performing arts centre. You had to stay indoors in that weather though.
Load More Replies...I don't think complaining on the internet about the children you chose to have is funny or cute. IMO
I loved snow days as a high schooler. We lived a block away from campus and I got such a kick out of knowing I could absolutely make it to school...but didn't have to!
It never snowed where I grew up, so snow days never existed... sad :(
Same, but in Australia we used to get sent home early/the day off if the temperature reached 35+C. Then that was cancelled when the state government gave schools grants for air conditioning, even though my high school barely even had fans, except in the performing arts centre. You had to stay indoors in that weather though.
Load More Replies...I don't think complaining on the internet about the children you chose to have is funny or cute. IMO
