yeah guys! chill the f**k out! if we want kids we will have them when we're ready!

I don't want kids. I don't hate kids. I do NOT want to be a mother. That sh!t is NOT for everyone and I am not selfish for this decision that I made about 20 years ago. Fight me.

I genuinely don't think I've ever asked when another person is planning to have kids, or tell them time is running out or any of that c**p. I don't really understand why people do. I mean this with all the love in the world but why should I care either way? If you want kids, cool, if you don't, cool, if you want them and are struggling I have the utmost sympathy and respect for your situation and therefore wouldn't put you in a position you would feel pained. If someone wants to share their plans for kids with me I'll happily discuss them with you, but that's a you bring it up type conversation. Having 4 kids I get the exact opposite - if I were to have another you can bet your a*s I'd be getting the "what, you're fifth??" With even more horror than with my 4th. Not happening though, not a chance in hell - my childbearing days are very much behind me and I'm very happy about it

When my mom was sick with cancer, someone said to her in a store "Omg, you're so skinny, must be nice!" My mom politely said, "Well, not really, but thanks?"

I heard those comments right up til I was 42.. then had my first and only child. Now I hear. "OMG...you had a child at 42!" Can't win.

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I tell people "I can't have children". The fact that I can't have them is because I voluntarily got my tubes removed is irrelevant <3

You know what they say about assumption.

I can't have children due to seizures, cysts on the ovaries and because I don't jump into relationships all the time. I've been a step-mother twice does that count. Both of those relationships each has two kids each and I helped raise my cousins. I had my first baby sitting job when I was 4 years old, while my mom and her friend were sun tanning. I've been around kids my whole life, helping taking care of them, helping with potty training, feeding, being there with homework and other things like a mother does that count. Let me ask you something do you have to go through having the fetus grow and then go through birth? Do you have to go through possible losing a child, having issues not being able to have children and getting sh*t on? Do you have to get shamed for having a child when your older when you want to? Honestly, what's the point the self entitlement that's happening more nowadays its almost not worth having one if there going to learn that sh*t. I can go on and on but I'm not

Don't you know everyone wants kids? Took me years to get the hysterectomy I medically needed because "what if I want kids in the future? What if my future husband wants kids?". It is totally worth making me endure debilitating pain, I guess, on the off chance that maybe in the future I could have a kid.

My mom had me at 35 😅

Why don't they ask about your sex life too?

Been there and wish I had thought of that!

WHY DO PEOPLE DO THAT? It's so offensive says the person who is NOT easily offended.

i can persoanlly say i dont want kids.

She has the mental illness flag in her profile, so X to doubt

Smokers and other drug users also try to pressure you into doing something you don't want to