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Few things can make you question your own sanity as much as regretting a text you just sent. You know how it goes, you get an edgy idea, type it out thinking you're the smartest person on Earth and hit 'Enter' only to realize later that what you said sounded way better in your head.
But it's too late and all you're left with is debating whether you should follow it up trying to minimize the damage it caused or just leave it as is and stick your head into the ground until the person forgets about it.
However, sometimes they may not. Even worse, they can send a picture of your conversation to the Facebook page 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted' and your mistake is now part of the internet.
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It's not just messaging that people should approach cautiously on the internet. Social media are increasingly blurring the lines between our personal and professional lives, leaving us at risk of posting sensitive information that could have ramifications far beyond our follower list.
Just last year, Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin found this out the hard way after a video of her dancing and drinking with friends, first posted to a private Instagram account, was leaked to the press. Marin was forced to apologize, and even volunteered for a drug test, after a worldwide media storm came crashing down on her.
Research reveals that nearly 40 percent of internet users between the ages of 18-35 have regretted posting personal information about themselves, and 35 percent have regretted posting personal information about a friend or family member.
57 percent of 18-35-year-olds think people share too much about their personal thoughts and experiences, and nearly that many feel technology is robbing them of their privacy.
Van-Hau Trieu, who is a senior lecturer of Information Systems at Deakin University, and Vanessa Cooper, a professor of Information Systems at RMIT University, who have been studying what drives much online oversharing, believe that when we feel strong emotions, we often use social media to communicate with and get support from friends, family and colleagues.
"We might share good news when we feel happy or excited, or anger and frustration might drive us to vent about our employers," they wrote. "When emotional, it is easy for us to cross the boundary between work and social life, underestimating the consequences of social media posts that can quickly go viral."
Is this person using a meat twiggy stick to operate their phone? Because dude, just think of the grease stains.
Trieu and Cooper have five simple tips for people to avoid oversharing and creating a social media scandal for themselves or others. The first one is to set clear boundaries between personal life and work. So be prepared to set rules, limits and acceptable behaviors to protect these boundaries.
"Let your friends, colleagues and family know your expectations. If someone oversteps your boundaries, raise your concerns. Consider your relationship with individuals who do not respect your boundaries."
I will say, for all the toxic masculinity out there, this is a punk move by her. It's so s****y to say this to a guy when you know you have no interest.
What exactly is she trying to say....no wonder some guys don't know what to do...
Basically "I want a man with your personality but hotter/richer than you are"
Load More Replies...Or just someone she fancies? You can like someone's personality but looks don't match your personal attraction traits. Looks are important to the vast majority of partners, it's built in to humans. Thankfully everyone has different standards and wants so there should be someone for everyone.
Who the h**l tells someone they need someone like them, but not them? How freaking rude!
Believe it or not, this exact thing happened too many time while I was still young..
A few years ago, I said that to a guy I thought wouldn't be interested in me. His answer: "I'm a guy like me." He was right ;) <3
It's sad that he probably continued on with this one-sided relationship.
No worries, she'll reach out after you're already with someone and confess her dying love for you. If your toxic you'll fall for it and ruin your good thing for trash who will leave you as soon as your real relationship is over.
To all the clueless men: when a woman says anything along the lines of "I wish I had a guy like you." it usually translates to "I love your personality, but I want a guy who is better looking and successful in his life." And these kind of women are usually gold diggers, shallow or they're genuinely not attracted to your appearance.
Gals I know need I guy like me to help them move, then never hear from them until they need to move again. Then I'm the a*****e for not wanting to be just free labor? I'm fine with the friend zone, but being a moving buddy isn't great.
A guy LIKE you... you know, someone sweet, kind and giving.... always there for me... but not you, I want him to be much more handsome and richer. Yeah! That guy!
If she play's those sorts of games - he's better off, poor guy doesn't know if he's coming or going....
It amazes me how clueless people can be sometimes
Next, respect the boundaries of others. "Don't share photos or videos of others without their permission," Trieu and Cooper said.
"If someone doesn't want their photo to be taken, video to be recorded or their name to be tagged, respect their wishes. Treat others on social media the same way you would like to be treated."
Moving on, lock down your social media accounts. This means adjusting your privacy settings to control who can view your profile and posts.
Most social media platforms provide features to help users protect their privacy. Facebook’s Privacy Checkup tool, for example, lets you see what you’re sharing and with whom.
On the same note, consider what information you place in your profile. If you don't want your personal social media profile associated with your employer, do not list the company you work at.
To avoid mistakes, make your sharing a conscious effort. "Do not use social media when you feel emotional," Trieu and Cooper advised. "Especially if you are feeling strong emotions like hurt, anger or excitement, give yourself time to process your feelings before posting."
"Ask yourself: How many people will see this post? Would anyone be hurt? Does anyone benefit? Would I feel comfortable if my colleagues or supervisors saw this?"
Assume what you share can be seen by your friends, enemies, colleagues, boss, and the rest of the world. Stop if you don’t want any of them to see what you're thinking about.
But if you do overshare, try to remove unwanted content. "Oversharing and accidental posting are not uncommon. If you have posted unwanted content, remove it immediately," Trieu and Cooper highlighted.
"If you are concerned about information about yourself on someone else’s social media, raise your concerns and ask the person who posted to remove it," they added.
It is a bit tricky if the information has already spread through multiple sources, but it is worth trying to contact the website or service that hosts it to remove the content.
Of course, these steps might not protect you from appearing on pages like 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted', but they will definitely limit the chance of that happening.
How surface level do you wanna be if all you care for is height? Pathetic! Found a dwarf army together and conquer the heads of the tallest members in our society!
Dude walks around with the whole obituary section. Irma May Jocobawicz died, don't you understand, you coldhearted B***h!
Do people actually text like this? What the hell happened to proper grammar and using actual words???
They charged by the letter so we dumbed it down, and then by the time it was no longer charged by the letter it was so ingrained in us that we couldn't shake the habit. Also it's texting, not a college essay, I'm not going to waste time spell/grammar checking.
Load More Replies...Speak for yourself. The vast majority of us went back to proper English. These texts are from much younger people.
Is this a joke about the early days of printing? Because we were never charged for the word on texts. We were charged 10 cents for each send and receive though. And using t-9 encouraged one to abbreviate. I think that would be the answer to their question. Unless I'm wooshed.
Remember the old school Nokia's? Holy shít, you had to reeeeaally want it to type out "with girlfriend, catch up with you tomorrow". 🤣
Yeah spelling and grammer checking what a waist of a hole minute of my life...
I think... I'm pretty sure she was being sarcastic. I could be wrong, but that's how I read it. 😅 (*Whole. But she gets a pass on that one. She might not be a native English speaker. And she really does make up for it with the sarcasm. 😅)
Yeah most people text like that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it and there's no reason to judge the way people text
I think a lot of teenagers text like that. By no stretch do most adults text like that. Imagine you're in a group chat with the rest of your colleagues brainstorming a big presentation for a huge client... If responses are "yo! fr wat r we tryna say anywz? cauz i stg we r jus inna dam lup wit these boyz. R u feelin me?" Now, you may have a master's degree in engineering, but I'm promising you no one is going to take you seriously and people will absolutely judge your intelligence if you still text like that as an adult. There's no excuse for bad manners, or bad grammar. I hate to break it to you- and I know at times we all want to believe other people aren't/shouldn't judge us- but when it comes to intelligence (or the perception thereof), they absolutely do. All phones have a voice to text function, as well as use code to auto-populate words and correct spelling and grammar. You have to intentionally misspell, use bad grammar, & punctuation. I... I don't get it.
it seems like at this point english has split into academic and internet subtypes, with academic english being full grammar and internet being shortened and more relaxed on rules
I've been curious, especially in the last few years, whether or not people who text like the examples in this thread can read like an article in the NY Times out loud and be able to follow pauses and breaks that the punctuation dictates? I wonder if people who rely solely on slang and shorthand when they write in digital form eventually forget how to read in written form fluidly? 🤔 It's kinda the best and worst thing about the English language. I can't think of another that can be manipulated, changed, and abbreviated in so many ways and still be understandable. People work hard ignoring the most basic rules of our grammar and can still be understood.
Um… yeah, they can, because they went to school and know how to use proper grammar, but most can’t be bothered to in texts, unless they are formal, such as work group chats etc.
This one irks the shít out of me, "its A owl". Like in French, a word cannot end in a vowel if the next word starts with a vowel. And it+is= it's. It's AN owl. That's like, 3rd grade level grammar. One literally grows up hearing "an eye, an apple, an anchor, an awesome whatever; a car, a blanket, a song", etc. How do people start to type opposite from what they've heard their whole lives? In no other language (I speak another fluently, and can manage in 2 others) does that happen. Not that I've found, and not to the extent of what's happened to ours. Couple people took issue with the original question here (and I'm sure will take issue with what I've said, lol), but goddamn! My 1st thought when I see texts like those 👆, is holy cow they should have paid more attention in school. 🤦♂️. Anyways, I thought your explanation was interesting. Sorry I kind of wrote a book responding. 🙂 -Jack
you guys are all elitest. some people can't get an education like that. Also typing without punctuation doesn't make you permanently unable to understand proper grammar. you can learn two languages without forgetting the other? get over yourself. its frankly none of your business how people text like they're not texting you. i know no one's been friends with you long enough to take that stick out your a*s. like get off people's d***s bro
That... That made me laugh. 🤣 I'm gonna give you another minute to reread what I wrote. Because (and actually proving my point 🤣) from what you wrote it doesn't seem like you read what I wrote correctly. I mean, did you? Read it, I mean? Or did you skim it and assume the rest? And don't let my ability to write correctly fool you, lol. I speak with a heavy Southern accent. So that's literally the first time anyone's ever accused my country a*s of being elitist. 🤣 Oh, I just double checked- no, no stick 👍. And while I do use a lot of slang myself (like your stick outta your a*s, and get off people's dícks, bro, comments🤣), I prefer a good 'ol Southern idiom with a dash of colloquialism: if the good Lord's willing and the creek don't rise, you'll use the good sense your mama gave ya and take a min to reread what I wrote. Holler when you have. 😉
Only clowns with poor grammar and punc actually try to make their words seem legit......the rest of us with clear language skills us3 shortcuts......you are not better for using grammar and punc......lol
I'm not better than any man. Period. Don't pretend to be. Here's something I don't lead conversations off with, lol- I am terrible at math. Calculus? Physics? Fúck, even algebra 2! Forget about it. Cannot compute. "You want me to graph an imaginary number?! WTF!! How in the fu- IT'S IMAGINARY! I've never been able to. Now, I went to elementary school in a small town in SC... Schools/education have never been our strongest investments. SC always ranked last 5 as far as schools go. But my brother was 11 months younger than me. We went to the same elementary school. Same curriculum, etc. He excelled at math; only losing points because he didn't show his work. Teacher thought he was cheating until she made him show her he was doing (in middle school and high school) calculus in his damn head. Goddamn he pissed me off because of how easy it came to him. To this day I cannot multiply, add, or subtract fractions. I like building things, working with wood. I count the hash marks on my
Tape measurer. Have to. Only way it makes sense to me. It works for me. I remodeled half my house myself. Hardwoods, cabinets, whole 9, and it was all perfect. That being said I excel at languages, history, really anything with a story; definitions, reasoning and logic. I'm not likely to forget it if I read it or hear it. *Words, not numbers, lol. Engineers can judge me for being very inept at mathematics because I can't graph and damn imaginary number (🙄 I mean seriously, why?!), and they'd be right. But like Abraham Lincoln said, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doub." I can't math, so I don't argue with people who can. If I argued that 3/4+3/5 =1/9 (told you, no idea, wasn't exaggerating) and then on top of that got all indignant when people said, "Jack, holy hell man. Just, stop talking" cause I was mad that I thought they were judging me? It's not anger or indignant those commenters feel, it's embarrassment.
The difference is, people don't speak in numbers... Holy shít maybe I would have been able to grasp it easier if we did, lol... We speak the same version of English in the US. Different dialects, different colloquialisms, idioms, etc, but it's the same grammar, same spelling. We all conjugate verbs the exact same way, apple starts with a vowel in South Carolina just like it does in Alaska. It's changed more in the last 5/10 years than it has in the last 100. I can listen and understand English spoken in Manchester and Birmingham in the UK easier than I can read and understand what/how younger Americans write in threads like this one. Anyways, I've spent entirely too much time not adulting and doing this today, LOL. I apologize for adding 10 damn pages to your post. Take 'em easy. ✌️ - Jack
You talk about proper vocab, and then say adulting, take a chill pill, and learn irony
Do people actually text like this? What the hell happened to proper grammar and using actual words???
They charged by the letter so we dumbed it down, and then by the time it was no longer charged by the letter it was so ingrained in us that we couldn't shake the habit. Also it's texting, not a college essay, I'm not going to waste time spell/grammar checking.
Load More Replies...Speak for yourself. The vast majority of us went back to proper English. These texts are from much younger people.
Is this a joke about the early days of printing? Because we were never charged for the word on texts. We were charged 10 cents for each send and receive though. And using t-9 encouraged one to abbreviate. I think that would be the answer to their question. Unless I'm wooshed.
Remember the old school Nokia's? Holy shít, you had to reeeeaally want it to type out "with girlfriend, catch up with you tomorrow". 🤣
Yeah spelling and grammer checking what a waist of a hole minute of my life...
I think... I'm pretty sure she was being sarcastic. I could be wrong, but that's how I read it. 😅 (*Whole. But she gets a pass on that one. She might not be a native English speaker. And she really does make up for it with the sarcasm. 😅)
Yeah most people text like that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it and there's no reason to judge the way people text
I think a lot of teenagers text like that. By no stretch do most adults text like that. Imagine you're in a group chat with the rest of your colleagues brainstorming a big presentation for a huge client... If responses are "yo! fr wat r we tryna say anywz? cauz i stg we r jus inna dam lup wit these boyz. R u feelin me?" Now, you may have a master's degree in engineering, but I'm promising you no one is going to take you seriously and people will absolutely judge your intelligence if you still text like that as an adult. There's no excuse for bad manners, or bad grammar. I hate to break it to you- and I know at times we all want to believe other people aren't/shouldn't judge us- but when it comes to intelligence (or the perception thereof), they absolutely do. All phones have a voice to text function, as well as use code to auto-populate words and correct spelling and grammar. You have to intentionally misspell, use bad grammar, & punctuation. I... I don't get it.
it seems like at this point english has split into academic and internet subtypes, with academic english being full grammar and internet being shortened and more relaxed on rules
I've been curious, especially in the last few years, whether or not people who text like the examples in this thread can read like an article in the NY Times out loud and be able to follow pauses and breaks that the punctuation dictates? I wonder if people who rely solely on slang and shorthand when they write in digital form eventually forget how to read in written form fluidly? 🤔 It's kinda the best and worst thing about the English language. I can't think of another that can be manipulated, changed, and abbreviated in so many ways and still be understandable. People work hard ignoring the most basic rules of our grammar and can still be understood.
Um… yeah, they can, because they went to school and know how to use proper grammar, but most can’t be bothered to in texts, unless they are formal, such as work group chats etc.
This one irks the shít out of me, "its A owl". Like in French, a word cannot end in a vowel if the next word starts with a vowel. And it+is= it's. It's AN owl. That's like, 3rd grade level grammar. One literally grows up hearing "an eye, an apple, an anchor, an awesome whatever; a car, a blanket, a song", etc. How do people start to type opposite from what they've heard their whole lives? In no other language (I speak another fluently, and can manage in 2 others) does that happen. Not that I've found, and not to the extent of what's happened to ours. Couple people took issue with the original question here (and I'm sure will take issue with what I've said, lol), but goddamn! My 1st thought when I see texts like those 👆, is holy cow they should have paid more attention in school. 🤦♂️. Anyways, I thought your explanation was interesting. Sorry I kind of wrote a book responding. 🙂 -Jack
you guys are all elitest. some people can't get an education like that. Also typing without punctuation doesn't make you permanently unable to understand proper grammar. you can learn two languages without forgetting the other? get over yourself. its frankly none of your business how people text like they're not texting you. i know no one's been friends with you long enough to take that stick out your a*s. like get off people's d***s bro
That... That made me laugh. 🤣 I'm gonna give you another minute to reread what I wrote. Because (and actually proving my point 🤣) from what you wrote it doesn't seem like you read what I wrote correctly. I mean, did you? Read it, I mean? Or did you skim it and assume the rest? And don't let my ability to write correctly fool you, lol. I speak with a heavy Southern accent. So that's literally the first time anyone's ever accused my country a*s of being elitist. 🤣 Oh, I just double checked- no, no stick 👍. And while I do use a lot of slang myself (like your stick outta your a*s, and get off people's dícks, bro, comments🤣), I prefer a good 'ol Southern idiom with a dash of colloquialism: if the good Lord's willing and the creek don't rise, you'll use the good sense your mama gave ya and take a min to reread what I wrote. Holler when you have. 😉
Only clowns with poor grammar and punc actually try to make their words seem legit......the rest of us with clear language skills us3 shortcuts......you are not better for using grammar and punc......lol
I'm not better than any man. Period. Don't pretend to be. Here's something I don't lead conversations off with, lol- I am terrible at math. Calculus? Physics? Fúck, even algebra 2! Forget about it. Cannot compute. "You want me to graph an imaginary number?! WTF!! How in the fu- IT'S IMAGINARY! I've never been able to. Now, I went to elementary school in a small town in SC... Schools/education have never been our strongest investments. SC always ranked last 5 as far as schools go. But my brother was 11 months younger than me. We went to the same elementary school. Same curriculum, etc. He excelled at math; only losing points because he didn't show his work. Teacher thought he was cheating until she made him show her he was doing (in middle school and high school) calculus in his damn head. Goddamn he pissed me off because of how easy it came to him. To this day I cannot multiply, add, or subtract fractions. I like building things, working with wood. I count the hash marks on my
Tape measurer. Have to. Only way it makes sense to me. It works for me. I remodeled half my house myself. Hardwoods, cabinets, whole 9, and it was all perfect. That being said I excel at languages, history, really anything with a story; definitions, reasoning and logic. I'm not likely to forget it if I read it or hear it. *Words, not numbers, lol. Engineers can judge me for being very inept at mathematics because I can't graph and damn imaginary number (🙄 I mean seriously, why?!), and they'd be right. But like Abraham Lincoln said, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doub." I can't math, so I don't argue with people who can. If I argued that 3/4+3/5 =1/9 (told you, no idea, wasn't exaggerating) and then on top of that got all indignant when people said, "Jack, holy hell man. Just, stop talking" cause I was mad that I thought they were judging me? It's not anger or indignant those commenters feel, it's embarrassment.
The difference is, people don't speak in numbers... Holy shít maybe I would have been able to grasp it easier if we did, lol... We speak the same version of English in the US. Different dialects, different colloquialisms, idioms, etc, but it's the same grammar, same spelling. We all conjugate verbs the exact same way, apple starts with a vowel in South Carolina just like it does in Alaska. It's changed more in the last 5/10 years than it has in the last 100. I can listen and understand English spoken in Manchester and Birmingham in the UK easier than I can read and understand what/how younger Americans write in threads like this one. Anyways, I've spent entirely too much time not adulting and doing this today, LOL. I apologize for adding 10 damn pages to your post. Take 'em easy. ✌️ - Jack
You talk about proper vocab, and then say adulting, take a chill pill, and learn irony