Researchers from Hungary’s ELTE Eötvös Loránd University set out to understand what really happens when people bring a pooch into their homes, so they surveyed 246 dog owners, asking them to weigh in on everything from vet bills to emotional bonds. What they discovered perfectly contextualizes these memes.

“We were interested in seeing if all these aspects of dog ownership could group together into bigger components,” said Laura Gillet, lead author and Ph.D. student at the Department of Ethology. Her team found three main dimensions to the human-dog relationship: the feel-good factors (emotional, physical, and social benefits), the challenges (negative emotions and practical difficulties), and the commitment factor (daily responsibilities and routine changes).

The study, published a few days ago in Scientific Reports, combined two approaches to get the complete picture. First, participants rated thirty-three statements about dog ownership on a scale from highly negative (-3) to highly positive (+3). These covered a broad spectrum from “Dogs can brighten one’s life” to “Dogs can damage property.”

Then, owners shared personal sentiments about their biggest joys and challenges they experience with their pets.

“These open-ended responses gave us an even better understanding of the costs and benefits,” Eniko Kubinyi, who heads the Department of Ethology at ELTE, added.

More than 60% of owners described their pets as bright spots in their lives, offering unconditional love and steadfast support during difficult times. Many also reported becoming more active and developing better daily routines thanks to their four-legged companions.

One particularly touching finding was that dogs' relatively short lifespans ranked as the hardest part of owning them, highlighting the emotional bond owners develop with their pets.

However, while saying goodbye to them is certainly a devastating reality owners must face, the daily joy dogs bring scored highest among the positives.

Overall, the good outweighed the bad — much like that muddy paw print on your rug, which over time becomes a cherished memory.

The financial reality hit nearly every respondent — 95% quoted money as their biggest concern, particularly veterinary expenses. The limitations on travel and social activities also stood out as a notable factor.

Overall, the research revealed an interesting parallel between dog ownership and raising kids, with many of the benefits and challenges mirroring those reported by parents—both groups often cite their relationship as providing meaning, structure, and emotional fulfillment while acknowledging the significant responsibilities and sacrifices involved.

This notion is reinforced even further by another recent study that showed a whopping 84% of dog owners think of their pooch as their child.

Because of this, twice the number of dog owners also think of their pet before anyone else after a stressful day — even more than their partner (41% vs. 19%).

However, while most owners believe it’s perfectly acceptable for the dogs to be on the couch (70%) and on the bed (67%), a vast majority have strong feelings against their pets joining them at the dinner table (70%).

Ultimately, the thing that research and these memes demonstrate is that dog ownership is far more complex than a simple cost-benefit analysis.