It's been said a million times, so saying it once more probably won't hurt—all girls are different. Why do I need to stress this? Well, there seem to be a lot of common, faux-universal expectations for women that stem from thinking that "all girls should be X," and more often than not, they're disappointed in how they can't meet these "expected" standards. But that doesn't mean that girls have to wallow in despair and eternally live in dread for it. Some girls, like Cassandra Calin, love to have a laugh at some of these problems, take these "girly lemons" and turn them into refreshing comical lemonade. And the internet loves her for it—she's one of the most successful artists in the virtual realm and has over 2.4m followers on her Instagram, plus tons more on her other socials.
And Bored Panda loves her too. This is the sixth part of her comics, and if you want to acquaint yourself with or revisit the previous comics, you may find them here: I, II, III, IV, V.
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And sometimes one eye open and one eye closed!
Load More Replies...Cassandra always knew who she wanted to be, and she's lucky because she became who she always wanted to become. “From a very young age, I wanted to become an artist.” The parents too have helped her get the means to do that, of course. “When I was a toddler, I scribbled on my parents' furniture and, ever since that day, I just drew all the time. But of course, I had to quickly switch to drawing on paper, for my parents' own sanity.”
In my experience, curly hair with no products, when pulled back, will automatically frizz.
It's me...the problem is that I have STRAIGHT hair...
Load More Replies...fizzy hair and hairs that always escape mean billions of clips and a few STILL manage to escape. I've given up caring!
Me and those little fuzzies! A daily war! I wear a hat to mow the lawn 'cause otherwise my eyebrows get tickled to death.
I'm mixed and I have the worst hair day because my hair is naturally curly and...frizzy really frizzy
Load More Replies...In her previous interview, she also told us the things she finds the most challenging and the most enjoyable. "The challenge is having to get out of my comfort zone. I used to only draw people and willingly avoid backgrounds, because they took too much time and dedication. But when you draw comics, unfortunately you can't always avoid them."
As for “the most enjoyable aspect? Drawing people. I love drawing faces, facial expressions, clothing and, as it probably shows, hair!"
When I can, I do! Unfortunately that does not work so well in colder weather...
Load More Replies...Note from baby boomer: If you go with no bra , you’re in danger of having boobs come out the bottom of a crop top.
Because of my job I get like 6 and a half hours of sleep then when I can sleep 10+ hours my body says nope wake up after 7 hours
I oscillate between 6 and 4, mostly 4. In my early youth, I do recall with some nostalgia that I once slept for 8 straight hours *wipes tear*
I too get 5 hours of sleep.... I don't know about you but I don't sleep late on the weekends or go to bed early on the weekdays. is there something wrong with me?
Load More Replies...Though Cassandra is past that fickle barrier of popularity and acclaim, she empathized with struggling artists, and gave some golden advice. "I think social media is a great way to build and connect to an audience. But don't stress on creating solely what's considered 'safe' or 'trending' (because trends change so quickly anyway), but instead do what you genuinely enjoy."
thats actually the reason i started shaving my legs lmao
Load More Replies...I just don't bother. I'm married and my wife doesn't care, so what do I care if I gross out some insecure guys with leg hair?
But Cassandra probably knows better than most how hard it is to attain the social media status that she was able to achieve. "I think it's nice to shift the focus from 'having x, y, z followers' to "taking this opportunity to build an online portfolio." Create for the simple purpose of creating, learning and improving. As cliché as this sounds, if you're having fun in the process and it doesn't feel like a chore, you're doing it right!"
yes, cause i cant get the same !!!!! :D (jealousy mode "ON")
Load More Replies...Getting back to the 70,s and 80,s really macrame and hanging pots !!!
As an introvert this happens every day in one situation or another and I just hate having to call or talk on the phone.
I have the same issue. Everyone around me thinks I'm weird because I hate drive thru speaker boxes and calling in orders. I will literally go through finding who actually offers online ordering.
Load More Replies...As someone who works in a call center, I still get nerveus when I have to call organizations or companies
Can't even buy clothes from physical stores anymore... fucken introvert s**t.
I don't get this one ... how would you order food from a restaurant without calling?
Though it's probably one of her most favorite things to do, the artist doesn't enclose herself within the four strips of a comic. She's also well-recognized in the creative industries, and had a chance to work as a freelancer with the likes of CollegeHumor, Simon & Schuster, Mattel, Les editions les Malins, BOOM! Studios and many other companies.
I can't even draw one side of the face that well, so I wish I had those kinda struggles instead :D
Load More Replies...Art tip: If you struggle with this, anytime you need to do the other side, flip your art upside-down before doing so. The issue usually stems from being unable to compare and use the completed sections as a reference point, as your dominant hand blocks your line of sight.
sssssshhhhhh, you reveal my secret ! this is why my drawings all have the look Jessica Rabbit :/
When you are just living your life and a years-old cringe memory just randomly strikes because f**k you.
She's just remembered something that happened in the past, is reliving it and is embarrassed by her response. Like always having the best come back in a argument but only thinking of it after the event.
Load More Replies...Their T-shirts are fine most of the time....but I wouldn't risk a dress
Load More Replies...Proof!🧚 Your wish is granted! Oops sorry that was a wish, no can do
Load More Replies...oof yeah. I got mine twice in october and again in november. not fun.
Yeah but sometimes it's more like dress to not be naked, mostly
Load More Replies...ANd then thers me: Who (when I can) will wear shirts referencing the things I'm interested in (LIke the shirt i recently got with an orchestra pun on it)
i am literally wearing my mom's t-shirt. I feel the trendiest i've ever been! Not to mentio Gen-Z can only wish for such good quality and thickness of cotton as my t-shirt!
I went through all the trouble of logging in just to upvote this
Load More Replies...i think in that one they're celebrating the beginning of 2020. definitely not the end...
Load More Replies...I swear to god is 2022 isn’t any better I’m never celebrating the new year again. It will be a mourn.
😷 "2022" still scared & getting scared-er, mainly of all the Anti-vaxers ! 😷
I have yet to hear anyone say they have felt fantastic. But even if you can't lift your arm for a day or two and have mild flu symptoms, so much better than being intubated and/or dead.
My left thumb was a little sore after the second jab. Though it might have been because of gaming for a whole day...
I had a bit of a sore arm, but I ended up having a bad voice for over two weeks. Very annoying being a teacher.
I had fever and body aches 😩 but at least I lived because I really don't want be in a hospital 😭
You just described a mild case of the flu. Having Covid is a BIT worse - as in, YOU COULD F*CKING DIE.
Wine glass that a guest left behind the potted plant so that it wouldn't get kicked over, in September
Load More Replies...That's my dream … but I have 2 dogs, 2 cats and a fish that will NOT let me sleep in past 8AM!!
not inside the mask, except to then look like the joker 🤡
Load More Replies...yeah i hate wearing sunscreen and once i put sunscreen on my chin/nose/lower cheeks and ugh DX
I have a portable air conditioner (lowers by 8 degrees), lie in front of the fan, hugging an ice pack because I feel like I'm melting, and still my lower back screams out for a heat pack (or a bucket of lava)
My dad would do this. He didn't fit quite as well as she does though.
Just make your Sim do the work and convince yourself you did both!
Load More Replies...That's me at this very moment: "BP or work? BP or work? Work can wait."
...And then there's me with an L-shaped desk, a personal and work computer on either side, two monitors per computer. Multitasking skills have never been more rewarding.
I mean...I have a huge dinner party scheduled on Saturday for the Sims, but last time I left the game it was Thursday. I need my vampire dinner party to happen, dangit!
Probably becuase we have high expectations and most of us are our own worst critics. These display two extremes and while in reality the result falls somewhere inbetween these, or might even not be so bad, we remember it as the worse alternative. Because we who need to love ourselves more never love ourselves enough.
Load More Replies...She looks like Mela from pokemon scarlet and violet in the last pic. Honestly one of the best designs in game
Yess! this sucks so much! especially if u live in a hot area where wearing sleeves in the summer is painful
Some have said that sit ups are bad for us now. With a back injury I must avoid them, but I do pre sit ups. Assume the position (on the bed) tighten all the muscles needed to do a sit up, don't actually do a sit up, just hold for 5 seconds and relax. Helps tone without making me scream or leak
i bought one of those eliptic machines? It actually makes exercise a lot easier and you can have headphones at the same time.
I love how beautiful people look when they are natural. Sweat and/or oil is natural, and great for your skin.
… not from working out … from thinking about what I have to snack on till dinnertime.
Mix bananas with water or milk(and rum) - purrfect cocktail/smoothie. Or froze them, then mix - purrfect ice cream.
NOOOOO! I love banana bread! *runs to the freezer to get some slices out for later*
I can't cook, but I've never failed banana bread, don't think that's possible :D
You can't really screw up a banana bread (unless missing ingredients) it's really easy
god getting this comment is so weird... like... thanks? i look like a bald middle aged man? yaaayy?
Look at the first one "Recipes to fool people into thinking you can cook" is the full title.
Load More Replies...I think some could agree that it will be a new "normal", but not like before.
We're still in the midst. We shouldn't be going back to "normal" yet!
i hate that it is still seen as "gross" for girls to have hairy legs
It is unfair that us men get away without shaving an inch of our body, but women must be 'smooth' from the eyebrows down.
Load More Replies...my chinese friend always squat, everywhere, and thinks i'm weird not doing it
I got my mum to knit me a car cosy. I had a little Fiat at the time. This jumper was (still is) big enough for 2 people to huddle inside it. I can wear all my other jumpers under it if I want. It doesn't get stretched out of shape if when I disappear under it
My brother does this ALL THE TIME with regular shirts. He's small for a kid his age, but it still stretches them out.
2022 is around the corner and my country went into Lockdown for 2 weeks. Again. Emergency state declared for the next 90 days.
I don't care if it makes me sound old, but that sounds like a delightful morning routine!!!
Unless you're a night owl. Then the best morning is getting up at 1pm. :)
I don't eat aa much on my period. I'm in too much pain..
I don't understand how you can be bored while taking a hot bath. That's when it's time to let your creative mind go.
Add music, aromatic candles and a glass of wine. :D I can stay in there for hours!
Why are we not talking about the mug that says 'All I Do I Eat?' I don't use mugs very much, but I want one.
It’s like ugly sweaters, just so long as they’re Christmasy it’s good.
Load More Replies..."Do you have bones in your body? They're ok! There's nothing wrong with you!"
Sadly yes for me. Every trousers become low waist because they'll slide down over that bump to the dip. And it always looks like I bought my trousers too small because of that
Load More Replies...Just the way different skeletons are. But for some reason people will call it a "muffin top".
Also the freelance life- "I am suffering from creative block. Maybe if I buy thing X it'll help me create. I've done well in the past without it, but maybe". Buys it, uses the shipping wait time as an excuse not to work... Get anxious the day it's out for delivery...
A minute of silence for every woman with thick thighs and short legs.
This is me. 5'2", 115lbs, and a 26" Inseam.... it sounds passable, until you really think about it. I'm all torso, I have stub legs, joggers look awful, but I still wear em daily
I've caught myself tugging on my eyelashes. Its funny because thats Sophie Fosters nervous habit (My pfp)
Speaking as a teacher: if your teacher remembers you and your name after so many years, you have done something very impressive ...
It's not necessarily a good thing that I learn someone's name first.....
Load More Replies...her arms were cut off, her legs were cut off, her ears were cut off (If yk, yk)
Good advice. You should try a simple pin-back. Works well in the sun.
I could never get the top braid look done right. So I ask a hairstylist how it's done and all she says is '... yoouuuuu braid it...?" as if it was the most stupid question she ever heard.
I threw out my neck sneezing a couple of weeks ago. I've never felt so old. Also get character / body drawing is great!
Now I need to double the nonexistent security ony house
dads are super easy to buy for. They do not want socks or ties. They want consumables or tickets. Consumables (ie beer etc), and tickets (to a game or a holiday destination).
Every Christmas my family gets my dad a pair of really weird socks and he adores them…he doesn’t usually wear ties tho and he can’t have alcohol and we usually don’t go see games…not all dads are easy to buy for
Load More Replies...a friend did that on my favorite meal. his body has still not been found
god it's so frustrating... you can't do ANYTHING with that little slice of bread
When you work on a drawing it looks fine since you've been staring at it for a while, but when you flip it you suddenly see tons of mistakes
Load More Replies...What’s an E-girl? Edit: thank you fin the frog and Raven DeathShade for explaining
Honestly, I don't know. I believe they dominate TikTok mostly, with interesting hair and makeup choices. I believe they're part of a subculture, more similar to Emo than Goth. Basically, Emo's peppy little sister.
Load More Replies...not for me, I have a pic of me with long hair in my room reminding me why I did it
…and then you punch them…(edit: I meant the ones who comment on being quiet)
Load More Replies..."Just cause you put maple syrup on sumthin don't make it pancakes" -Shawn Spencer
Is that Fahrenheit or Celsius? And is she sorry for shaving or sorry for not? I guess it works either way *shrug*.
Celsius. She's apologizing to the razor for the hell she's about to put it through.
Load More Replies...This comment covers up a mean one. Homophobic? Slightly? Idk, it just gave me bad vibes :( But have a nice day y’all! 😊
Oh my god! I am sorry! That was not meant to be homophobic, i am gay myself, i feel shitty now. REALLY WAS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE HOMOPHOBIC
Load More Replies...that YouTube video is from the channel GreyStillPlays or somethinglike that
Early Halloween decorations, or you haven't taken down Halloween decorations.
next halloween I'm bringing a duster everywhere
Load More Replies...I feel like I should be able to relate to these problems, but honestly, I cant. They're fun to read though
I wish I could not relate to these problems, but unfortunately, I can... and they're funnier
Load More Replies...I feel like I should be able to relate to these problems, but honestly, I cant. They're fun to read though
I wish I could not relate to these problems, but unfortunately, I can... and they're funnier
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