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Fifty years ago, things were different, people would get married and have children in their twenties, buy a house and seemingly have their life figured out. But times have changed. Today, with an overcrowded planet and a focus on careers, many people in the West choose not to have children or they delay starting a family. More than 1 in 5 US adults don't want kids.

If your phone's photo collection is brimming with images of puppies and cats rather than snapshots of little humans, this post will likely strike a chord with you. The subreddit 'Child-Free Memes' and the Instagram page 'Child Free Memes' are all about the pleasures of a life untouched by diapers and tantrums.

So kick back, grab yourself a cup of coffee, and enjoy our new curated selection from these pages. As Samantha from 'Sex and the City' once said, this place is for double cappuccinos, not for double strollers.

Together, these pages have gathered a community of over 5k members who share a common viewpoint: life's purpose doesn't solely revolve around having children. In the past, waiting to have children was mostly seen among wealthier Americans, especially in big cities on the coasts. Educated women often postponed having babies until their careers were stable, usually in their early thirties. But in the last ten years, as more women from all backgrounds focus on education and work, delaying starting a family has become a common trend among women throughout the United States.

Since 2007, the number of women in their twenties having babies has gone down by 28 percent. Most of the decrease is among unmarried women. Only women in their thirties and forties have been having more babies, but even that has gone down in the last three years. Caitlin Myers, an economist at Middlebury College told 'The New York Times': "The story here is about young women, whose births are plummeting". She added that "the birthrate is falling fastest in places with the greatest job growth — where women have more incentive to wait."

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Michael Braisher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that was the Old Testament from before Christianity and Jesus began with the New Testament. So you could say having a Son chilled God out and put him on a whole fresh way of doing things!

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Shocker, But It Has To Be Said

Shocker, But It Has To Be Said

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Those who advocate against having babies even have a name for themselves: anti-natalists. Not only do they encourage families without children but also the gradual fading away of people. While it started long ago in ancient Greece, social media has recently made this idea much more popular. Even though there aren't many anti-natalists, some of their ideas, especially about the planet, are starting to become more popular. According to the BBC, "Among them are concerns about genetic inheritance, not wanting children to suffer, the concept of consent, and worries about overpopulation and the environment."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More people need to respect our decision to not have kids. Also mine are in all colours

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Italy vs. The Wiggles

Italy vs. The Wiggles

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t we, you know, pity animals whose entire life is finding food and producing offspring? And don’t we spay them when we adopt them? And when we spay them, don’t we say, “this is wonderful, now she can relax and enjoy HER life, and play with toys and bask in the sun, and NOT have to spend her entire existence producing babies!” So why don’t we afford ourselves the same grace of opinion?

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Although anti-natalist groups may use pessimistic language, they don't appear to pose a violent risk. When discussing extinction, it's more of a discussion than an actual danger. Most people online don't talk about hurting anyone.

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However, there's a catch. In less developed countries, large families with numerous children are often the norm. From cultural values to social fairness, there are various reasons why poor families might have many children, and these factors also lead to high birth rates in less wealthy countries. From cultural values to social fairness, let's look at some main reasons.

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They Are Irritating

They Are Irritating

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Ivo H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be honest, adults without manners are far worse than any of these

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In places where children are regarded as blessings according to religious beliefs, having a bigger family is seen as a greater blessing. In many parts of the Global South, couples without children may experience social stigma. Impoverished families, particularly those relying on farming, may have more children to assist with their way of life, including taking care of older family members and younger siblings as they grow up.

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aren’t animals God’s children as well? Why are human children > animals in God’s eyes?

Jennifer Clayton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because only the human can be conditioned to work hard for money and give it to the church.

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FantasianMind
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's the pope... he CHOSE an unmarried, childfree life.... what?

Jayne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would I care what an old man who cover up for pedos has to say about selfishness?

Rostit .
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Catholic Church is just another religious nuttery institution. His opinion is about as valid as any other old white man that doesnt matter.

ShaZam Beaubien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just keep thinking how "messed up" I am and my parents wanted me. I can't imagine the emotional baggage of someone who was forced to be born.

Naya Busch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Choosing pets is more selfish? Choosing to help an animal instead of choosing to procreate solely to continue YOUR bloodline? Do people even think before they say anything?

Id row
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe if the church chose pets over kids there wouldn't be so many traumatized kids out there.

Hagebumi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really ? Such a comment from someone who named himself after St. Francis. Saint Francis preached to the birds and brought a wolf to reason. The patron of all animals. The Guy who named all animals His Brothers. What a shame.

arthbach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So says the man who choose not to have children, and became a priest instead.

Rostit .
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. Very selfish in my opinion. I read your comment and just get angry. Why don't you share some of those cats?

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Snorky The Pig
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. This is why I am so proud to be part of a religion that actually respects animals as equal souls.

Bob Brooce
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's selfish is breeding your own kids when there are other kids with no parents hoping for a home. And abusing little kids for your sexual gratification. That's also kind of selfish, no?

Bernd Herbert
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about NOT listening to anything a pope has to say, ever. He still hasn’t outgrown his believe in magic yet!

The Darkest Timeline
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pope pleads with humanity: “We’re getting dangerously low on humans; we’re down to our last 8 billion people! Be fruitful and multiply, we’ll figure the rest out later.”

Suna Amun
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't actually understand what makes people think having children is UNSELFISH. It isn't like children are aware or feel fortunate about being born. They are born because two people (or one) decided they wanted them to be born. The reasons they chose to have a baby are never unselfish; to pass on genes, it's that time in my life, I love children, I want to teach them what I know, it's just what humans were supposed to do. To think that you, a human are putting aside your life to nurture the life of another being doesn't make it unselfish, it's still a choice that has a reason behind it and it's all me and I based. I'm a staunch supporter of adoption because IMO that is an unselfish way to parent someone who needs one. It's not a puppy and will not look or act, or maybe be as old as you like but it's a HUMAN. Not to say I'm dragging people who have children, everyone is allowed to find their own joy- it's just not a pure selfless joy as some would make it seem.

María Hermida
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Living surrounded by luxury in an enormous residence with all the comforts while so many people are homeless is also selfish, but Mr Bergoglio has chosen to forget that part of the story.

David Marchisotto
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Alternate headline: "Pope thinks the world is dangerously underpopulated".

Wednesday
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes if you have both... but in an either/ or situation....

Leesa DeAndrea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I chose no kids. Whether I had pets or not was never a consideration. Religious leaders always encourage their adherents to have kids. Got to keep those churches, temples, mosques etc filled. It's all about the money.

Mickie Shea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I recall it's the Catholics who want proverty for each other with no birth control.

SingingCatMom
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love religions that, in this overpopulated, degraded earth, want people to produce even MOREearth parasites!

B Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a reminder part of the reason the church banned marriage is so they could get more money when male lines died off and the male priests would inherit family money and lands then leave that to the church since they didn't have any heirs themselves

sharyn turnicky
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Says the Pope who has no children to cope with running around the apartment he just cleaned

Blondie23
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have lots of coworkers who have chosen to not have kids and instead have pets and to be honest... I have a lot of respect for them. They baby their pets more than a lot of people baby their human children!

UpQuarkDownQuark
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Francis? When I need silk robe shopping advice, I’ll call you. When I need advice on how to live a normal life in the real world, I’ll talk to other people living normal lives in the real world.

Nimitz
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be more poignant if 50% of the concern wasn't that the income of religious organizations will decrease if people don't make and indoctrinate more followers

Michael Largey
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pope Francis did not enter the seminary until several years after he finished college. So he had plenty of opportunity to lose his virginity. After graduating, one of his jobs was as a night club bouncer, not a profession known for its celibates.

Anouk Badwolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

he didn't even say it. he described why it's problematic to treat a pet as an offspring while these are two different categories hence they have different needs and you can relate to them differently. you won't breastfeed your pet nor you will save up so they can go to university. however chances are you won't see your kid pass away due to old age and you won't neuter your kid either to prevent testical cancer. why is it an issue for some that pets and children are not the same thing though both of them can add value and love to someone's life?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my family didn't really want a cat (we lived in a rented home, so it would be hard transporting it) a flea-ridden, but cute street cat entered our home. We sterilized him, de-flea'd him and he just stayed in our home.

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In the end, people's perspectives on having children and the size of their families can be quite complicated. It's affected by things like culture, money, and society, all which play a role in shaping how people decide about having children.

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom: "I wanted your sister to have a sibling." Gee, thanks, Mom. Didn't even actually want another kid because you wanted more children, but because you didn't want your biological daughter to be an only child. (I'm adopted.)

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've held babies in my life, and they simultaneously feel WAY too heavy but also incredibly fragile and breakable. I will take holding a cat any day over holding a baby. They squirm less, smell less, and you can pet them without getting arrested.

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Naya Busch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, no it’s not. For some people like myself, my animals ARE my children.

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Isaac Harvey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all fairness, carrying 4 large boxes of pizza with just one arm takes another level of skill.

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Oh God

Oh God

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Eva Kašu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah, that depression is just postponed...and one day will make that childrens lives a living hell.

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Witty Title Here =)

Witty Title Here =)

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That’s Just Volume 1

That’s Just Volume 1

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Isaac Harvey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Food for thought: you're usually not expected to have a reason for having kids, but you usually are expected to have a reason for not having kids.

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Accurate

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is me, but the other panels would also be me reacting the same joyously excited way to dogs, lizards, chickens, insects etc. XD

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's true. I was expected to do chores, help with my siblings (3!) and no privacy at all. They mess up I got punished at least half of time. That's why I had my kid so late in my early 30's. I had freedom for the first time when I left home to study in another town far far away. Don't get me wrong - I love my siblings and there is happy memories as well, but I would never do that to my kid.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Know too many people who stupidly thought this would solve their problems

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I KNOW you know the problems that I have. You seriously think *I'D* make a good parent to a human child? You criticize my 'mental illnesses' and yet you want me to have KIDS?" -me, circa my 20s to my tia(s)

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Ain’t Gonna Be Me!

Ain’t Gonna Be Me!

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Isaac Harvey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like one of the images implied above- having kids doesn't prevent being depressed, it postpones it.

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If I Can't Get An Abortion, I'll Just Remove The Whole Damn Thing Then!

If I Can't Get An Abortion, I'll Just Remove The Whole Damn Thing Then!

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Eva Kašu
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I´m not from Texas, but I did this and you should see faces of my religious ´pro-life´ members of family.

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A Purse Full Of Love I Guess

A Purse Full Of Love I Guess

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Mimi La Souris
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

a child's drawing (probably indelible) on a chanel bag (not expensive at all)... ok

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Marriage? Yes. Kids? Hell No

Marriage? Yes. Kids? Hell No

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Naya Busch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This might be a crazy topic for some, but you can get married and NOT have kids and still be happy.

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Ample Aardvark
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That explains my deaf neighbours and their screeching child

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I Made This! I Wish More People Around Me Were Having Cats Instead Of Human Children!

I Made This! I Wish More People Around Me Were Having Cats Instead Of Human Children!

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't get me wrong, I still ask "Is it a boy?" and/or "Is it a girl?" when people show me their cat pics. XD

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Wife And I Heard It The Other Day

Wife And I Heard It The Other Day

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Such A Hard Decision

Such A Hard Decision

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Christina Wang
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ikr its such a hard decision! (Have money, time and freedom for the rest of my life)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hi Gran. Time to polish your halo and practice your harp. Have a nice eternity. LOL

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Mom Is Going To Be A Little Dissapointed

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Lakota Wolf (she/her)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got Father's Day cards for my boyfriend and "signed" them from our cats and dog. I even got those safe ink pads and got their pawprints stamped onto the cards. I wrote the messages with my non-dominant right hand because a cat's/dog's handwriting would totally suck. XD

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, anybody who tries to "trap" their SO with a baby should get severe punishment... and no child support afterwards, unless the SO wants to.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The chick is known to look like this at times and still I love her like nothing else. Evolution has clearly muddled our brains so we would take care of our hairless, mushy, screeching offspring

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Yeeterus

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell me your secret! I’m 41 and they still won’t remove mine because I “might change my mind”!

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Nails On A Chalkboard Man-

Nails On A Chalkboard Man-

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is idiotic. The talk of a 3 yo child is often much more interesting than the talk of many, many adults.

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#76

Oh, The Bliss Of Parenthood!

Oh, The Bliss Of Parenthood!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious question: I haven't seen this episode, but why is Marge looking downwards in the second panel?

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Finally Found A Place To Post This

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Coralinea
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parents had a very stern talk to me when I was about 14 about what would happen if I had kids. (I guess they meant as a teenager, but they never specified.) If I'm ever asked why I don't have any, I'll just tell them their talk worked too well. I'm 39btw.

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Dani M
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always want to see puppies though.... and kittens, birds, lizzards, horsed, donkeys.... all the cuties

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Gotta Find Me Some New Friends Now

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“He Looks Like His Father”

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Parenthood

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