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A Centers for Disease Control and Prevention report found that the US birth rate fell by 4% from 2019 to 2020, the sharpest single-year decline in almost 50 years, and the lowest number of births since 1979. With more and more people passing on the prospect of having children, childfree people are still seen with a fair share of stigma by society.

With so much pressure to experience parenthood and the joys and challenges that come with it, people who consciously choose not to do so have to find ways to build resilience and inner strength to stand up for themselves.

One such way is not taking things too seriously to begin with. Just like this Facebook page titled “Childfree Humor” which is created “for people who don't care much for kids and want to have a laugh about it.”

The page is home to almost 94k followers and it even has a humorous Etsy shop with bold and sarcastic childfreedom-related shirts. Scroll down below through a selection of “Childfree Humor” posts that range from painfully hilarious to all too relatable.

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renee brack
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this so much - read it in several places now - never gets old.

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Bored Panda reached out to the creator behind the Childfree Humor Facebook page who said that she comes from a conservative, Asian family where girls were trained to be good wives and mothers. “Getting married as soon as possible and having children immediately after was pretty much the only option you had once you grew up,” the creator said and added that “This was suffocating for me, I knew from a very young age that that life was not for me, but I was surrounded by people who had those expectations of me.”

“This page, which I started in 2013, was a way to escape that and have a voice of my own. It was cathartic, still is. Knowing there are so many other people out there that are just like me, it made me realize I wasn't a freak or abnormal, and it was okay to not want children.”

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The creator of Childfree Humor said that there is “a fairly large stigma” when it comes to childlessness in our society. “People think you're immature, selfish, or stupid for choosing to be childfree; usually all three,” she told us.

Moreover, apart from the social stigma, pressure from family members to reconsider this choice makes it all the more difficult, the creator of Childfree Humor said. “It's usually finding similar-minded people who you can connect with that's the biggest challenge. I don't really know any childfree people in real life but thanks to the internet, there are communities and groups you can be part of that make you feel less lonely.”

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Most of Childfree Humor's followers are women, the creator said, “which isn't surprising because I am a woman too and most of what I post is the humor that helps you cope with the expectations that society places on women.”

“What surprised me was that my audience was global. I have followers not just from North America but also from Asia, Africa, etc. It tells you that the women from all over the world, irrespective of the culture they are from, face the same kind of pressure and stigma that comes from choosing to not procreate,” the creator concluded.

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Paul C.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oldest joke in the world. I love kids, I just couldn't eat a whole one. It's a joke, don't be grumpy.

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Janis Wise
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s what I was told when when I was 22, a single mom of two kids I adored but never wanted more, when I asked the doctor to do a tubal. He said, “Oh now, you’re young you’ll change your mind.” I said, “I have never wanted more than two children. I.DO.NOT. WANT.ANY.MORE. My age has nothing to do with it!” Doctor: “But what if you meet a nice man & fall in love but he wants a child of his own?” Me-pissed, “What am I? A brood mare? I have to put up with the dangers of birth control because he doesn’t have a child & why would he want me to be the mother if the first two I popped out weren’t good enough for him?Besides, his not having a child sounds a whole lot like his problem, not mine.” He said I was taking it wrong. LOL. Bet your a*s I was. The worst comment I ever got though was an older women who said, “But what if something happened to one of your children, then you’d want another.” I was shocked. One goes, just replace it! SMH.

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Many childfree people hear that one annoying question way more often than they should. “When are you having a baby?” is the kind of question many people would do anything not to hear ever again. Previously Bored Panda spoke with Susan Petang, a certified divorce coach and the creator of “The Quiet Zone Coaching,” who teaches people how to stop feeling overwhelmed and start waking up happy in the morning again.

Petang said that it can indeed be super annoying when others (family or not!) continually ask when you’re going to have kids, get married, or something else that they think you should be doing. Referring to these questions, Petang said that “no, it’s none of their business.”

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Disgruntled Pelican
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't forget the old "But what about your future husband?? Don't you dare about what HE will want??"

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Deborah B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you ever have time, space, money, and energy, and you want to have a child in your home, there's always a shortage of foster parents.

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“Let me ask you this: Why are they asking in the first place? Is it because they know you want kids, and are concerned about your happiness? Is it because they’re just nosy? Is it because they don’t have the social skills to know that it’s an inappropriate question?”

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Susan argues that “trying to understand WHY someone is doing something annoying doesn’t justify their behavior, but putting yourself in someone else’s shoes for a moment helps YOU be less annoyed.” She added: “you can even think to yourself, ‘Wow, it’s really sad that they don’t understand how annoying that question is.’”

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Dutchman Callypso
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many people just want cute babies and they have no idea what to do once the child starts developing a personality... that's why the world is full of totally messed up people.

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Kate Jones
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, we should just call it something else in order to loophole this whole situation. That's what conservatives do when they find a tax law they don't like. They find loopholes. So let's rename abortion procedures as 'evacuating undocumented immigrants' that way when someone needs to go in for this procedure, they can say they aren't getting an abortion. And then these prolife (in name only because they don't care about life at all, really) people will have to carry signs saying they're against evacuating undocumented immigrants which will make their heads explode.

Cory Tollman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A miscarriage is technically a spontaneous abortion. People will freak out if you use that medical term though. So to go along with what you are saying. How about a physician and/or medically assisted/performed miscarriage as the new name for abortion?

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Disgruntled Pelican
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bold of you to assume that the government cares about the lives of women.

Brian Stanton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

El Salvador, you go to prison for murder for any of these reasons! a woman just got 8 years for a damn miscarriage

KDav
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have a miscarriage, it is listed on your medical record as an abortion. Was it voluntary? No. But when they are collecting statistical data, are they taking that into account? Probably not. It's another falsely-inflated number they can use to whip up self-righteous anti-choice sentiment.

Frank Tereschak
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You never knew that because it isn't true. On the Planned Parenthood website "abortion bans had some exceptions in instances to save the patient’s life". Saving a woman's life has never been illegal, never will be.

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Dur Dur Dur
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those are instances wherein the goal is to protect her health, and the passing of the baby is not the actual aim--the child just happens to die as a sad consequence, and his or her elimination is not the intended aim of the procedure. In the case of miscarriage, furthermore, no one is being killed by the procedure. None of the three cases are examples of what a pro-life society would want to criminalize. Killing a child with the single aim of killing a child is what is considered wrong.

Dawn C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miscarried my 2nd baby 19 years ago....most heartbreaking day of my life. The bleeding was so heavy & pain was so great I couldn't make it out of the bathroom. I don’t believe in abortion at all but my body had already terminated that pregnancy....the abortion was just the by-product of what my body already did.

Joseph Mainusch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why virtually nobody wants to ban medically necessary "abortions."

Nothing Fancy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok...I'm glad this was posted, because it narrows down my position. Those two examples are the only reasons I would be for an abortion, because I believe (leaving room for further education) Those are the only two reasons it's medically necessary and beneficial. The third example is not technically abortion, as the baby has already passed away. I would think it was more like an extreme DNC. Again, I am open to new information I may not have at this moment.

TR
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who does not want nor will ever have kids, I still want to point out that the two purposes of every living creature is to reproduce to carry on the species, and to serve as sustenance for other creatures/plants to carry on their species. That's called nature. Those of us don't are just nature's law breakers.

tori Ohno
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It used to be called D & C, dilation and curettage. Let's go back to that term.

adina shaina
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yet if those were men's problems the treatment would be different. Case in point: ED erectile dysfunction - if it were a woman's problem it would get cut off or cut out - YOU AREN'T USING IT! It serves NO USEFUL function. Just get it cut off. Same. Same.

Emma Q.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes but liberals refuse to accept abortion as either a last resort if birth control fails or cannot be used because of bad reactions or because of rape, incest, or medical reasons. Medical reasons are also the lowest number of abortions ranking even lower than rape. They also demonize every other choice while putting abortion at the top stating that so long as it is legal it is safe which isn't true. Women have died from complications from legalized abortions.

Looks like an Angel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abortion is removal of a living fetus from a viable uterus. If the woman had a miscarriage and is having trouble releasing it from her body, the procedure is called "Dilation and curatage." It's also used for women who have heavy periods, to thin out the lining of her uterus. Think whatever you want about the abortion laws, but get your facts straight.

Wayne Gossman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have thought that the worship of Trump by the right wing is a very disturbing insanity. Does the left have to be equally blind and ignorant! Most of the people I know are pro life. Some of them are crazy. Most are not. Even the crazy ones do not hate women! It has to do with when life begins. Arguments for abortion are stronger for the second trimester and stronger still for the first, but in the third trimester there is clearly a child involved. If you feel third trimester abortion is acceptable, please contact me. I have never met someone who believed this who was actually willing to discuss it.

Ozacoter
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You read a post explaining why abortion is used to save the lives of women and yet have the guts to argue that anti abortion people dont hate women?

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Jerry Mott
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everybody is on here backing abortion, my body my choice. Technically speaking you made that choice before you got pregnant when you decided to have unsafe sex. Abortion says your only killing a fetus. But if I kill a pregnant woman I get charged with double murder. So sounds more like a double standard than anything else.

Liesl English
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Safe" sex can also result in a pregnancy. No birth control is 100% effective.

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However, we need to remember that other people are going to do what they are going to do. This applies to all kind of things people talk about, whether it’s asking you “when are you having a baby?” or a whole other unrelated thing.

“We have no control over their behavior. You’re right, your Nosy Aunt Rosie shouldn’t be asking you these questions – but she just did,” the life coach said. However, Petang argues that “our expectations of others aren’t going to change the weather on Jupiter, so don’t get all bristly when people ask stupid or nosy questions – we can’t control them, but we can control ourselves and our responses.”

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On the other hand, some people feel like they’re pushed into a corner. So in those cases, you may have no choice but to shut the nosy people down. It doesn’t need to be aggressive at all. “Address the intention rather than the question. For example, the woman in the story could say to her brother, ‘That’s something I love about you – you’re so concerned about my happiness!’ (Note that she hasn’t answered the nosy question.)”

Petang added that another great response would be, “You seem like you really want us to have a baby!” Then let them explain their question. “You can also come right out and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’”

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renee brack
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum whispered to me when I was 14 "you don't have to have kids. It's one option in a life where you're the first generation to live many options. If you choose to have kids it's a lifelong option even if they die before you. If you choose not to have kids it's a lifelong choice that opens up so many options, the possibilities are limitless." She also added that if she had her life over, and born in my generation, GenX, she would not have had kids. I took her advice. We're still very close :)

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Lara Verne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tattoos can be removed, or changed into something you like better. Kids, not so much.

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renee brack
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me too! There's so much fun in other aisles with more interesting products to buy than wearable toilet paper.

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HanglyHam
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol that was important it helped me…… I have officially decided I’m never having kids!

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Mama Penguin
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y'all could afford babies, uh, no. Raising kids is insanely expensive. It's already expensive even before the kid is born with all prenatal care and buying all sorts of things for the baby. And that's just for the baby stuff. Let alone the cost of giving birth and postnatal care for the mom.

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Stardust
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s sadly true yet this is so funny that I am now going to animate this into a commercial. Here is the link to it: https://chinmayeekalghatgi.wixsite.com/starryskies/post/_kids. Apologies if there is any background noise since there was something going on in my house when recording

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B S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh my parents would get sooooooo MAD whenever we would fight about me having kids and i would reply "i'm gay. that's nature's way of saying 'the madness ends here...'."

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Veronica Richard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm in the second generation that was able to get birth control pills: never had kids and never regretted it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol "clones" im gonna say that to everyone who talks about their children now

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Fenchurch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This Be The Verse BY PHILIP LARKIN They f**k you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you. But they were f****d up in their turn By fools in old-style hats and coats, Who half the time were soppy-stern And half at one another’s throats. Man hands on misery to man. It deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out as early as you can, And don’t have any kids yourself.

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B S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh please... ANY sane person who's been to the birthday party of a child under 8 years of age knows saliva is the LEAST of your random and disgusting things produced by the mortal body options....

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AnnaBanana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol! I often think something very similar to this. I know my nannas would have been very disappointed I never had kids. Sorry Nans!!

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katekat_1
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's honestly why I don't want kids. This world can be a horrible place, and depression and bipolar run in my family. I wouldn't want to bring something in this world for it to suffer

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tom Brady? I am from the United Kingdom of Britainland so I do not know much about American sport stars, but he is something like World Champion at Handegg isn't he? Something like that?

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B S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

believe me; i would rather discuss my 10 most painful bowel movements ranked by intensity than hear about whatever mindless banalities your crotch-spawn engaged in today or ever...

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Hedgeh og
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, this! The gatekeeping around tiredness from parents is in itself exhausting. a) You chose this. b) Child-free people also get tired. c) Endless victimhood is boring.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there some largess of people changing their minds? I think maybe, yes, occasionally someone might change their minds because their situation has changed or- more often than not- they are pressured into it by a partner or family. But most people who do not want children don't just magically change their minds. Why is this the response from so many people? It's like they just can't compute not wanting kids so it must only be a temporary situation and you're going to change your mind. And it happens a lot with people who are CLEARLY unhappy as parents. Yes they love their kids but they don't seem especially happy on a regular basis. But they pimp having children anyway. They aren't happy unless you are as unhappy as them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh boy, all the trouble in a Galaxy far, far away that could have been avoided....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had to spend way too long on the last frame. Eyes, an extra eye, splotch of tears . . . ?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m waiting for the day a billionare makes the moon explode into either pink or blue confetti

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, it didn't *happen to them*. They actively caused it to happen. It's why I also hate 'fell pregnant', just like one would 'fall ill'.

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