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Tragicomedy, as a genre, has existed for more than 23 centuries. It paradoxically blends the sad and the funny, proving that things are rarely just black and white. Seriousness as well as absurdity coexist in real life too, and the “Funny and Sad” online community is just one proof of that. 

With more than 1 million members, it shares life's moments that are equally as tragic as they are comedic. After all, life can’t always be sunshine and rainbows, and when hardship hits, it can be better to deal with it in a humorous way.

While you’re scrolling through, don’t forget to check out a conversation with Jennifer Toof, LPC, NCC, an expert in trauma and owner of Trauma Informed Counseling & Consulting, who kindly agreed to tell us more about coping with humor.

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I'm Sure This Is Just A Coincidence. Nothing To See Here

I'm Sure This Is Just A Coincidence. Nothing To See Here

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Scott Riley
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I upvoted this because it needs attention. Personally, I down vote this practice of average people paying for some rich dudes stadiums that allow them to fleece the public of even more money! Subsidizing big oil, big pharma, big tech, and sports is immoral.

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    Another Chinese Propaganda. /S

    Another Chinese Propaganda. /S

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    J J
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they would relax child labor laws, they could put the fetus to work and make a profit.

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    Black Cat
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its easy, regulating a women's bodies controls them. Regulating the price of insulin loses profits. What's not to understand?

    Verena
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These people only want to "care" for people who don't need actual care yet. A fetus, once born, is of zero interest to them.

    DelvianBlue
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    5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least in my experience, too many people in the US blame diabetics for having diabetes. They'll say the person must have diabetes because they're fat and eat only junk food, and therefore deserve every bad thing that happens to them. Similar to lung cancer - anyone who gets it must be a smoker and deserves it so why fund lung cancer research? The minute you talk about Diabetes I (a genetic disease that has nothing to do with diet) or why those with Diabetes II should have affordable healthcare, they either clam up, or double down on how those people's could stop having diabetes if they tried harder. It's getting better, but I still hear that argument from a lot of people.

    Cat Chat
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that with pancreatitis (especially when it's chronic, like mine). "Well, if didn't put so much importance to being a drunk". I've never had 1 alcoholic drink in my life. Only a small percentage get it because of alcohol use.

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    Leigh James
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To Republicans, females are seen as mere chattal to serve males and to be forced to breed and birth at male's will.

    Manana Man
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    5 months ago

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    Your comment is of course ridiculous. You'll never make any progress with that attitude. Demonizing the opposition only impresses the true believers; you'll never convince anyone that way. Personally I think people on both sides are sincere. That's what makes it such a contentious issue. Embittered people like you need to be reminded that the Supreme Court did not outlaw abortion - it returned the issue to the states. Want to make a difference? Work at the state level.

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    Squiffle Noses
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shh!!! They don't want to hear your questions!... They want you to shut up, cook, clean and f@k your appointed man!!!

    Paul Gerrard
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many countries have funded free healthcare and pharmaceticals. Well civilised ones

    The.Butterfly.Effect.530
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't care about babies. If they did we'd have universal healthcare, paid maternity and paternity leave, free education, free school lunches.... they just want more workers that they can exploit and squeeze as much money out of.

    JP Purves
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Controlling women and making huge profits for a corporation, it's the American way!

    Leah
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Government should NOT be allowed any involvement with Healthcare. Church and State and Healthcare should be separated.

    Cat_Whisperer
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if the pregnant woman is diabetic….do they save the fetus to maintain their control or do they protect the woman to protect their profit? Talk about a rock and a hard place.

    Krystal Brownman
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And an FYI, a lot of states (red states especially) don't actually have exceptions for the life of the mother... So...

    Carole Manning
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why it's OK to dismember a baby's body and end her life for the mother's convenience but it's not OK to look at what abortion actually does. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0htVXjPH_9M

    Chilli
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why it's ok to micromanage what women choose to do to their own bodies, but it's not ok to think for two second before you do

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    Jerry Bee
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once again, unrelated issues are overlapped to make a (good) point about d**g costs. Honestly we don't need to do that if we're concerned about the two separate issues: 1. Some people can't allow women to regulate the contents of their very own bodies, 2. Needed med costs are far too high.

    AnkleByter
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We DO need to do that, despite them being unrelated issues, because SOME people (too many) won't listen if we don't. We have learned that keeping the two issues separate reaches even less ears than connecting them through comparison (which isn't even an actual comparison). Confused yet? Yes, so are we. What you meant to say is that we *shouldn't* need to do that, fact remains, we do.

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    5 months ago

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    Republicans specifically fought Biden on regulating the cost of insulin. There is now a cap of $35

    Amy
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The price is only capped at $35 if you have insurance. If you don’t, you’re still screwed.

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    5 months ago

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    "To save the life of a fetus". It's in the tweet.

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    #3

    Thank God It's Not The 1920s Anymore... Right...?

    Thank God It's Not The 1920s Anymore... Right...?

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    “Humor serves as a defense mechanism, meaning it can be an unconscious psychological response to protect people from feelings of anxiety, threats to self-esteem, and things that they don't want to think about or deal with,” trauma expert Jennifer Toof told Bored Panda.

    “So in tragic or sad moments, some people turn to humor to cope, and, since it's unconscious, they may not even realize they are using humor in that way,” she said.

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    GlitterPanda
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a friends who calls teeth "luxury bones" because she was told they weren't needed to do her job when she asked why insurance didn't cover dental...

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    And The Cycle Continues

    And The Cycle Continues

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    Dealing with hard times with humor has physical and emotional benefits, according to research. “Laughter releases endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, all of which are associated with improved mood,” explains Toof.

    “It also decreases the release of cortisol, the stress hormone, meaning it can make people feel less stressed and more relaxed. Even the act of smiling has been found to release chemicals associated with happiness and stress relief. 

    Humor can also distract us from things that are overwhelmingly difficult, and it helps us reframe situations, making a potentially scary, sad, or traumatic situation appear less threatening.”

    #7

    Wish There Was Hell; Oh Wait We Live In It

    Wish There Was Hell; Oh Wait We Live In It

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    Black Cat
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, and can only use the toilet during his designated break. And have a boss like himself as his allocated demon.

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    Meanwhile, only focusing on the bad things in life can trap us in a loop of anxiety and even self-criticism.

    “Negative thinking patterns can include only paying attention to failures and ignoring successes, black or white thinking (e.g., ‘If I get anything less than an A+ on this test, I’m a failure’), labeling oneself based on mistakes (e.g., ‘I’m a loser, an idiot’), [and] mind-reading (e.g., ‘Everyone will think I’m a loser for not getting this promotion’),” said Emma Morton, an expert of psychology, in a previous interview with Bored Panda.

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    #10

    And Schools

    And Schools

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    Auntriarch
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In reply to Spike Hodge, part of my work involves child protection. Most of the offenders are relatives. Fewer than 20% are teachers/church/scoutmasters or other people in a position of trust. So far (and I confess we are a largely rural area) absolutely no drag artists.

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    Jesus Was A Pacifist

    Jesus Was A Pacifist

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...they think we were created specifically as a Christian nation, a lot of them. Fools, bullies, goons, and hypocrites...

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    American Healthcare

    American Healthcare

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    Jack Burton
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Insuline is one of the cheapest medecine on earth. I mean we know how to produce it very easily and for not much money. Work in hospital in France and i feel bad when i think at how much insulin we just waste. At some point americans should just ask to european to send them insuline by postal service. I mean in France not only insuline is really cheap but it's also refunded by social security for every person suffering from diabete. Diabete is on a list of 30 chronic disease and social security pay everything related to these disease.

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    Despite all the benefits of coping with humor, like any defense mechanism, it can become an issue when it’s overused to avoid dealing with problems, says Toof. “In the short term, after a difficult situation, humor can help someone put distance between themselves and an overwhelming experience, but the underlying trauma will remain there if it's not addressed and resolved.”

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    The Ideal Utopia, Simply Being Allowed To Be Safe

    The Ideal Utopia, Simply Being Allowed To Be Safe

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    Happens Every Night

    Happens Every Night

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    Jack Burton
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have started to cheat my brain and it works. When i go to bed i say to myself i'm gonna read at least 50 pages of this book or i will watch this entire movie, i don't care i'm not gonna sleep early. And how surprise i fall asleep. Same for the morning, if i'm motivated to sleep more and add minutes to my alarm i usually feel pretty woke up. Reverse psychology on myself helps me and that's so weird.

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    Another potential downside is the possibility of hurting others. “That is, humor that is inappropriate or at the expense of others can be hurtful and harmful,” explains Toof. “People would be wise to their best judgment about what's appropriate or hurtful when making jokes in front of other people during hard times.”

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    Ha Ha Ha Ha Sports

    Ha Ha Ha Ha Sports

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    Michael None
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    5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait til this person finds out how much the failing US high school system spends on team sports.

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    #18

    If And Only If You Have A Job In The First Place

    If And Only If You Have A Job In The First Place

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... it's almost like capitalism is a private game for a handful of folks to really stick it to the tremendous majority of decent folks...

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    Interestingly, many comedians use humor to cope and hide their struggles behind comedy. Like Robin Williams, who prematurely passed away at 63, or like Ellen DeGeneres, Sarah Silverman, Richard Pryor, and Woody Allen, who spoke or joked about depression and lack of self-worth that followed them in the past or even present.

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    Us History Is Full Of Darkness

    Us History Is Full Of Darkness

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... we've always lied to ourselves, we looooove our own particular brand of booolshit in the USA

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    #20

    Thought This Would Be A Good Reminder For The Super Bowl Coming Up

    Thought This Would Be A Good Reminder For The Super Bowl Coming Up

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    Carson Scott
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay here's my view, take it or leave it. I don't care what y'all say about it. I think that Marijuana should be used medically, like for instance fixing seizures or other medical problems. My problem is with recreational marijuana use, both of my biological parents used marijuana when I was a child and needless to say they weren't present at all. They also used heroin but the Marijuana contributed a bunch. So in short, medicinal use is good and should be promoted, but recreational use is destructive

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    #21

    We Are All Capitalist In Us, Reason We Pee On Corporate Time

    We Are All Capitalist In Us, Reason We Pee On Corporate Time

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    Amy E
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Implode faster!! Wonder how we could all help hasten capitalisms end? K!ll it before it k!lls us.

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    One of the earliest psychological studies of comedians, carried out in 1975 by Samuel Janus, found that 80% of them reached out to mental health professionals at some point in their lives. He included a comment in the article saying, “They repeatedly expressed the fear that if they were successful in analysis, to the point where their suffering was greatly relieved, they would then cease to be funny.”

    #22

    He's Not Even

    He's Not Even

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    #23

    That's Why It's Called The American "Dream"

    That's Why It's Called The American "Dream"

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...because some billionaires bought the right folks votes. pretty simple.

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    Oh No!

    Oh No!

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    One thing is clear: humor is a great aid in helping us cope with hardships, but jokes alone can't eliminate the issues that plague our lives. As the author of Brain World Magazine perfectly put it, “Laughter may be the best medicine, but it isn’t a perfect medicine.”

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    #25

    American First vs. Socialism !

    American First vs. Socialism !

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    james stevenson
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I loved how in the movie Day After Tomorrow the whole of america has to flee to mexico. Oh, how the tables have turned

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    Poor, Billionaires

    Poor, Billionaires

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...well, they *do* hide their taxable incomes overseas. Panama Papers?

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    #27

    What's Next? Society Better Wake Up Before Its Too Late

    What's Next? Society Better Wake Up Before Its Too Late

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    So Many True Words Here

    So Many True Words Here

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    Black Cat
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've actually met some Americans and they really do go around saying 'America is the best country in the world'. Bizarre, it's like they're brainwashed. Other western countries look at America as an example of how not to be.

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    #30

    Let Em Take My Surplus, I Have Freedom

    Let Em Take My Surplus, I Have Freedom

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    The Future Of Ai In America

    The Future Of Ai In America

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    #33

    Customer Service: Hello, We Are Here To Help You

    Customer Service: Hello, We Are Here To Help You

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    Found On Fb

    Found On Fb

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    Emma S
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why Denmark has low reoffending rates. Prisoners who are treated with respect and given the opportunity to get an education, a job and a home upon release are much less likely to go back to a life of crime.

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    Pain And Suffering

    Pain And Suffering

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    A Party That Has Drifted Off The Political Spectrum

    A Party That Has Drifted Off The Political Spectrum

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    #37

    People In Us Need Critical Thinking More Than USD

    People In Us Need Critical Thinking More Than USD

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    Let's Be Honest... Companies Don't Care

    Let's Be Honest... Companies Don't Care

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    axle f
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... That's not an acceptable excuse, unless you have a doctor's note. Drrrr.

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    Deer Interview

    Deer Interview

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    Ash
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deer hunting was extremely popular where I grew up. Of course, deer were also EXTREMELY PLENTIFUL where I grew up. A deer hit my mom's car once. Yes, you read that correctly.

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    #40

    Very Rare Photos Of The Us Army Seizing The Weapons Of Mass Destruction Of Iraq

    Very Rare Photos Of The Us Army Seizing The Weapons Of Mass Destruction Of Iraq

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    Tee Pussi
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like there was an ulterior motive to the whole war but I just can't imagine what it could be.

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    #41

    "Well That Was Antifa"

    "Well That Was Antifa"

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    Free If You’re Under A Specified Income

    Free If You’re Under A Specified Income

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    Verena
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in the Netherlands you know how much you ow them and you receive a pre-filled tax form with all positive and negative factors. You are obliged to check it and add everything omitting, then send it back.

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    #43

    Us Can See Everything, Except A Revolution

    Us Can See Everything, Except A Revolution

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    lwolf1952
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, Lee, If it wasn't for Medicare Senator Rick Scott wouldn't have had anything to steal from.

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    #46

    Not Sure If It's Funny Or Sad That Trump's Nfts Sold Out In Just A Day

    Not Sure If It's Funny Or Sad That Trump's Nfts Sold Out In Just A Day

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    Tee Pussi
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now they're donating because he was pronounced guilty in court. These people have too much money.

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    #47

    I Was Trying To Prepare Your Schedule

    I Was Trying To Prepare Your Schedule

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    Samantha
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel that the Queen (who was a very good one) should have abdicated and let Charles rule a bit longer.

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    #48

    I Thought I Was Special

    I Thought I Was Special

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    M S
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    5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why not? They are all handsome and looking alike as far I can tell.

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    #49

    I Know. I Just Need To Work Harder!

    I Know. I Just Need To Work Harder!

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    Johnny McFearless
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    5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My poor great-grandma lived through the balkan wars of both 1910s and 1990s, ww1, ww2, fascism, communism, the cold War, and an occasional famine. I have it surprisingly easy with only one war.

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    Can't Win

    Can't Win

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