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“He’d Be Too Exhausted”: 32-Year-Old Dies Because Of Hustle Culture, His Friend Shares How Sad His Life Was
Wake up. Check your phone. Brush your teeth. Go to the gym. Run to work. Grind away and barely find time to eat. Head home. Succumb to the urge to check your email and get ahead of your tasks. Go to sleep. And do it all over again tomorrow.
Sounds familiar? Well, welcome to the grind culture where working harder, stronger, faster, and giving 110% of your effort will definitely pay off. For thousands of employees worldwide who are obsessed with exerting themselves to maximum capacity, the hustle has basically become a lifestyle. But even though the corporate world glorifies ambition and sees 18-hour work days as the new norm, it doesn’t come without a cost.
This heartbreaking post shared on the ‘Anti Work’ subreddit is here to remind us of that. A few days ago, Redditor Otherwise_Order621 opened up about how his “hustle culture” friend recently died from a heart attack at only 32 years old. And just to warn you, it might make you take a good look at your own life right now. Scroll down to read their impactful story in full, as well as similar experiences readers were quick to share, and be sure to let us know what you think below in the comments.
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No matter the industry, people continually fall victim to the hustle culture that asks them to grind and accomplish their goals and dreams at lightning speed, no matter the price. While working hard is important for many, there has to be a line where you have to ask yourself, is it worth it?
Overwork can have drastic effects on your health and well-being, not to mention strain personal relationships and lower satisfaction with life. After all, when everyone tries to outperform each other, it’s essentially a rat race to the finish line — the finish line being stress, fatigue, burnout, and, surprisingly, poor performance.
As many of us know from practice, the hours clocked in don’t equal productivity. So many people are now finding more meaning and motivation to work smarter instead of harder, and it seems we may be moving into a post-hustle future. A Harris Poll Thought Leadership Practice study has found that 64% of Americans now value energy optimization over monetary optimization. “Americans are deliberately cultivating, protecting, and optimizing their personal energy, focusing on essentials over the urgent.”
According to Laura Kingston, a UK-based coach specializing in career transition and progression, our jobs should not dictate our lives. “We work for the majority of our lives so it’s important to find work you love, that you are happy in, gain fulfillment and work to your strengths,” the founder of Leap Career Coaching told Bored Panda in an email.
However, when people feel the urge to work harder and faster, thinking I will be happy when: I get the promotion, earn more money, have a better car, they “can miss the point of being happy now in this moment as life whizzes by.”
Alarmingly, when employees become too focused on their work and the hours they need to clock in to succeed, self-care becomes an afterthought. When this seems to be the case, people should realize they’re in a cycle of performative exhaustion.
“Self-care is imperative in our lives,” Kingston explained. “The way I help remind my clients to do this is to act as a role model for their team at work, friends, family and children. Many of my clients struggle with putting themselves first, so this perspective can really help shift their mindset.”
Feeling like you have to burn out to show that you have grit or that you need to neglect your well-being and eliminate every healthy boundary between your life and your job can take its toll. So to help you be more productive and work smarter, Kingston suggested, “Focus on your own agenda, what do you need to achieve today?”
“Learn how to manage up and prioritize effectively, for example, say Yes, of course, I would be happy to deliver that for you, what would you like me to deprioritize to make space for that now?”
“Utilize the Eisenhower Matrix to prioritize work. Plan your work weekly to not lose sight of key goals and objectives and plan in thinking/strategy time into your diary,” Kingston concluded.
Readers immediately offered condolences and responded with messages of support
Later on, the user also clarified some details about the situation and addressed the questions people asked in the comments
And others chimed in with similar experiences, revealing the truth about the grind culture
What do you think ?
Carol Emory 2 years ago
My father spent 45 years working as a Diesel Mechanic. He worked 16 hour days, 6 days a week. We hardly saw him at all. And when he was home, he was usually in charge of decompressing all the tension in the house that my mother caused. When he retired, his knees were shot, he had diabetes, was overweight and had high blood pressure. He waited to retire until he was 67 because he wanted full pension and a sizable 401k. He tried to say he did it so us kids would have an inheritance. I told him I would have rather had him around. Shortly after retirement, he developed Alzheimer's and never got to go fishing and camping like he planned to do for years. He died in 2019 calling for his mother who died with Alzheimer's 17 years earlier. Don't waste your life working for a perception of what you think your family wants. Talk to each other so you don't miss out on precious time with each other. Find out what your family really wants. Live for your family, not your job.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
I don't mind loving my job. My family doesn't get the short end, however, and I spend a lot of time convincing my hubby to take time off. My dad had big plans for his retirement years, never got to 55. My sis died at 26. Live! b/c dying is inevitable, so don't assume it waits until you're ready.
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Terry Rex 7 months ago
Not if you are born wealthy. Then you don't have to work at all. Just spend the money you inherited. Normal people have to work to survive. That is the problem.
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
As an MD, what jumped at me was "used cocaine occasionally". News flash: That sh*t turns your heart into a ticking time bomb. Faster than nicotine. So, without knowing the full autopsy report with toxicology? I will not say overwork killed him. Lifestyle, possibly ------ but cocaine doesn't need to be used in the now to be a factor in kill.
Carol Emory 2 years ago
My father spent 45 years working as a Diesel Mechanic. He worked 16 hour days, 6 days a week. We hardly saw him at all. And when he was home, he was usually in charge of decompressing all the tension in the house that my mother caused. When he retired, his knees were shot, he had diabetes, was overweight and had high blood pressure. He waited to retire until he was 67 because he wanted full pension and a sizable 401k. He tried to say he did it so us kids would have an inheritance. I told him I would have rather had him around. Shortly after retirement, he developed Alzheimer's and never got to go fishing and camping like he planned to do for years. He died in 2019 calling for his mother who died with Alzheimer's 17 years earlier. Don't waste your life working for a perception of what you think your family wants. Talk to each other so you don't miss out on precious time with each other. Find out what your family really wants. Live for your family, not your job.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
I don't mind loving my job. My family doesn't get the short end, however, and I spend a lot of time convincing my hubby to take time off. My dad had big plans for his retirement years, never got to 55. My sis died at 26. Live! b/c dying is inevitable, so don't assume it waits until you're ready.
Load More Replies... Terry Rex 7 months ago
Not if you are born wealthy. Then you don't have to work at all. Just spend the money you inherited. Normal people have to work to survive. That is the problem.
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
As an MD, what jumped at me was "used cocaine occasionally". News flash: That sh*t turns your heart into a ticking time bomb. Faster than nicotine. So, without knowing the full autopsy report with toxicology? I will not say overwork killed him. Lifestyle, possibly ------ but cocaine doesn't need to be used in the now to be a factor in kill.
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