The person on the right is clearly a philosophy major.

"I don't call it abuse anymore, I call it trauma" - YES. Get to a therapist. You're showing signs of PTSD. You're lucky you met a amateur therapist out there, but believe me, that's just a start, get a real one.

It's just the everyday buddhism. (:

Haha, this was a sweet thing to do to cheer the person up. It's not mindblowing, but it's somebody being nice. I like it. We should all try to help others.

This wasn't too long to read, FFS. It was making me anxious, though. I thought it would end up being some kind of recruitment process for a religious cult (and i consider all religions "cults"). I can tolerate Buddhism, but it's still far too often oversimplified by philosophy majors who don't yet realize that there needs to be more to philosophy than the meandering impossibility of meaning. Then i was anxious that he would still try to hook up with her in some way. We have no idea where this went after that, do we? Ultimately, i hope he's just like myself: an empathetic person who tried to be helpful to another human being in pain. It seems rare and surprising when people behave this way. That says a lot about how s****y and unhealthy human civilization is. So, until further information, i will presume this was just a decent human being and hope that the young woman attained a step forward in her life toward healthy relationships and self-respect.

Okay that is beautiful and his perspective on life is great. I'm really proud of the girl too for opening up and being so amazing about this whole thing. Congrats to both of you for being wonderful human beings and hey, I think I'm going to take that advice as well.

- well that was long winded.

so, to recap...a transient, ever-changing woman, who can only live in the now- a world of fragile, temporary relationships that you can never really rely on, is successfully talked out of engaging in a pleasurable activity in the now, because it...won't guarantee her eternal love?

I should be doing homework But I learned a lot more from this

f**** you all

B******t!

and hence he got laid.....

If more people (who are in the position to) helped others in a similar way that this guy did, it would change the world. So many of us are in so much pain and all we are really seeking is a connection. A connection on any level, and it's really easy to misconstrue a need for human connection with a need for a drink, smoke, or a f**k. So big kudos to this guy! He might have helped this young girl stop the cycle of abuse in her life!

Who s that guy,, sounds good

They should freaking DATE THEN GODDDD...

According to what I feel, its the best thing that I have come across today on the internet.. I think the girl really needs to celebrate for giving herself a chance.. Very few gives themselves a chance to listen to someone else and educate themselves to be in a better place just like you #the_girl did.. You really are awesome.. Should give urself a chance #njoy..😊

Caring blue writer. Using the depressed girl to develop a personal philosophy.

This guy will never know just how many people he has helped with his words of wisdom.

This f*****g awesome. I totally feel this

He's playing the ling game 😏 Just kiddin, he sounds like a good man 👍🏻

People pay for this!

Is this some sort of novel?

Wow I thought that Whisper was full stupid annoying a******s but this has proven me wrong 😊

-_-

He's one truly gentleman.

Yet i'm a s****y horrible thirsty a*****e when I do this. F*****g. Genius.

I want to be friends with him! He would sure help me with my spiritual/ personal development work! Anybody know him?

The one person's grammar really bothers me... they don't know that it's "must have" and not "must of".

toooo long to read

People don't just accidentally fall into relationships with abusive people. They are attracted to characteristics that abusive people display. Like manipulating them by saying whatever they want to hear. Until someone tells this woman that she is using the wrong criteria for picking a suitable mate, then she will continue to do so and blame everyone and everything other than herself when the only the thing she can ever truly change is herself. Instead of trying to figure out why she picked such a bad guy, she just gives up? And by giving up she decides to put herself out there as an emotionally numb f**k doll? WTF?!! She just dropped herself one step lower than the accidental punching bag this guy is describing her as. She's trying to turn herself into an inanimate object. People need to take responsibility for their choices and actions. they need to realize that when they don't follow the boundaries of traditional morality, messed up things are more likely to happen.

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too long didn't read